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May God help us,

how old r u both?

wake up izeek wake up, wat r u sayin, i guess ur still in ur dream

ok will do just dat. thanks

sistawoman:
I dont understand why people want to still play games when they are grown.

Punishing your partner will only lead to them doing it to you, then you doing it to him then he doing it to you etc.

The cycle will never end until one person gets tired and then nothing is ever really settled, the problem is brushed under the rug.  To much sweeping under the rug can cause a huge pile and someone will trip and fall.

problems should be dealt with head on once the anger has passed.

When we have problems or disagreements the angry party asks for a little while to gather thier thoughts and calm down.  Then we sit and we talk.  We work it out and find a solution so that next time this does not happen.

Communication is key to a successful r/s.

If you shut off communication you are setting your r/s up for failure.

FULL STOP no more comments cos dis one don cover everything.


@Sistawoman, na u biko, @34 ur still yung just dat d experiences u got is helpin u n odas too n ur wise enuf 2 learn 4rm ur past mistakes unlik odas dat wunt learn. i personally wil want to come in contact wit u, i mean ur email n stuff 4 personal issues mine s bless24sure@yahoo.com.

was dat wat u tot?

its not a way to punish ur guy its too childish abeg i no b children joo

ebi lk say ur g don tryam b4 on u, abi? but come how u go dey tie sometin 4 person body him no go know, even do e dey sleep lk, wetin i go calam sef

waka pass joo

na wetin u go do sha bt arh its bad now too bad to land u to kirikiri

na sex na

@ izeek u wuked arh

peelovee:
Because of this issue i told the guy that i will quit so as to give peace a chance, the guy was maid with me, infact he plan a meeting with his family to introduce me to his family memember as his ex-gir counsin who has made he whole again, without my notice. I believe his family members are aware of what is going on.

The guy does not even have time for my counsin, i started dating him a year after He brokeup with my counsin, and believe me he has not gotten a job, and i was the person who makes the relationship going after few he got this job and he took over his responsibilities with joy.

The question i keep asking my self is, why diddnt my counsin came back to this guy when he was not working, and she knowing full well the I was dating his ex-guy, bUT EVER SINCE SHE HEARD THE GUY HAS GOT A JOB WITH SPDC,she now feel like coming back.

The funnyest part is that the guy want to come and ask my hand in marriage, but i told him to hold on for a while, so he said he is giving me just one month to decides.

Please more advise.
thanks.

he is still courageous to ask 4 ur hand in marriage?

well u know how deep u bht love yasevs, u can accept his proposal gurl if u sure knw he has nothin to do wiv ur cousin. nontheless mind u dat u have drawn a battle line btw ursef n ur cousin, cos family hatred don enter.

[quote author=,amebo no1 link=topic=279507.msg3970442#msg3970442 date=1244033094]well you have to move on, he had d girl already b4 the misunderstanding, dat was just an excuse[/quote]yea n because he did nt knw how to break d news directly to u dat he is opting out f the rl8tnsp he has to use dat lil opportunity u gave him to quit.

i can feel how painful it is to loose a dear one lik urs, despite wat u mght hav gon thru to keep it goin, but u dont have to n i wont advice u either to continue crying for him or even beggin him, carry on ur life let him n his newly found wife to be cntinue d rest of his life. as a young n beautifl lady u are, there are guys n able to do men out there ready to pick u up n dust out the dirt off u. cheer up n be confident pray to God 4 d courage to bear this.
Good luck

whitelexi:
Ask her to button up her top and stop opening her legs while u're around. . . If she wants something, she can always ask u - that way, u're not doing nothing wrong. When big-bro starts showing the muscle, u tell him little sis came and asked for it in plain english!

na soooooo as d bros n gud guy guy wey u b. nofin do u

all the above listed aint any good excuse to justify the act, NO MORE LOVE

izeek:
u are within the 80% that that found out its disgusting,
naturally u tried it, countless times if i must add, and found it disgusting.
so u c u got experience.

izeeeeeeeeeeek arhhhh, she's a gud xtian gurl, it may b 4rm her frends xperience da she gadad these.
Having sex during menstruation can cause the flow of menstrual blood turn and cause infection in the pelvis, this condition can then spread to other body parts through the open blood vessel on the surface of uterus during menstrual period. its not safe

youngies:
The egret always grateful to the sea after taking its bath

Your Igbo dialect sounds like Ogwashi or Uguta

exactly was thinkin where dat dialect emerges from, ogwashi
@asha like ur sense of understandin n intelligent, kip it goin

luxoire:
you are not hte first to do it - neither are you the last - if however you are not comfortable with it - talk to her - because no one on NL will make it a more pleasant experience for you if you dont want to do it.

i just hope you are not one of these guys that like the favour to be returned and will get hurt if she too decides she wont go down on your manhood

seconded

gerout of here,

less important; i abhore dat

i don hear, but na my mind i talk, abi no more freedom of speech

she is one in a million stick to her, she is sincere anyway

dats s d word i don fink i can say that easily, no mata wat even wen i have to say it its not from the deepest of my heart.

guy d shoe is on ur toe n u alone know where it hurts u, so u alone know wat actually brot about the breakup n y u shud or shudnt attend d wedding.

honeric01:
@sasha
You skipped my other question, anyways I still think the environment dictates to you too, if you live in a black environment, I don't think you'll feel that white urge like you feel it now, All the same, it's fate and your nature that's involved now,
Conclusively I would like you to iron out what you get or enjoy from white men that your 2 black men couldn't offer you, that's a start to how to convince your parents in accepting your choice of Man.

good idea n suggestion

whitelexi:
Dude, cut your share, bone

Ok, seriously, give your neighbour a hint and ask him to come home unexpectedly. . . or u can send off a txt msg to signal when he needs to come home to see things for himself. If u keep quiet, the more u encourage that behaviour.

_Girls,

aorit, do as whitelexi talk if u must b a good neighbour. no come back to NL com seek advice on how to handle ur neighbour 4 turning against u afta tryin to rescue him from d hands of a home prositute,

izeek:
i still maintain its ur bussiness,
brothers shud be brothers keepers.

brodas keeper ova gf?

izeek:
@bblacky,
ur mind sure is black. haba!!

e no mean now na wetin kiss de cause i dey talk now, kilode

^{amebo u go tire, amebo u go tire}, but wait u wey dey c her u no dey go work? beta mind ur business. b4 dem go tak u settle dem case u go cme bcom dere enemy of progress,

Romeo4real:
What kinda question is that? Nigerian dudes are different to ANBODY else when it come to those kind of issues.

fink dats a reasonable answer 2 ur question, beta still ask babes wey don dat both America n 9ja guys for more answer.