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TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 10:37am On Dec 02, 2017
Osinowoosibanjo:
Good day sir and mamas in the house, pls i need correspondence contact of hospitals or doctor in Ohio toledo.

My email is osinowoosibanjo@yahoo.com.

Thank you.
You can also add your phone number and address so that people on the thread can call you or visit you to drop the information you seek
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 8:53am On Nov 09, 2017
iwuoahsamuels:
Good day everyone,
im new here, just stumbled into this group in my search for answers.
im 7w- first time mum and never been to US.
im ready financially to give birth in US but need to do each step right the first time so thats why i am here.
because its my first im dont know what i should know so pls help.
i can see a lot been said about this for years in previous threads but cant seem to find adequate infor
pls be kind to pls reply here with links on detailed explanations or converstaions that has been made on best experineces with
1.best way to get a 'yes' at interview, at POE,
2. pocket friendly budget from start till virginal birth and budget for any other 'unplanned' that may come up
3. best US cities that currently offer less-costlier medicals,
4. best cities with affordable hospitals , or names and contacts of the hospitals or doctors or refferals from mums that have used them
5. processing the citizenship, passports etc - post birth
or any other vital infor i should know.
pls paste pprevious vital posts or links
thanks so much for all that you all do to educate the unexperienced.
the lord is your reward.
God bless
lol... read! All the answers are in just this part 5 alone sef. Exercise your brain, READ!
If you want to hide something from a black man, put it in a book.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 4:41pm On Nov 06, 2017
Bellsmum:
I have been a silent reader here and I have learnt a lot on this thread. I went for my interview on the 26th of October with DH and my 3 year old daughter. We were refused. Transcript:
Vo: why do you want to go to America?
Me:childbirth and vacation
Vo:what do you do?
Me:I work as xxxxxx
Vo: to my husband what do you do?
DH: I work as xzxxz
Vo: Do you have your Dr's correspondence
Me: yes hand it over
Vo: can i see your statement of account
Me: hand it over
He goes through I said why don't you want to leave your daughter behind
Me: I don't trust anyone to look after her the way I will cos I will be gone for 3 months and I haven't left her for that Long before.
Then the Vo goes through my passport and asks you have been to the UK a couple Times
Me: yes I have
Vo:what was your duration of stay?
Me:3 weeks, 6 weeks, 8 weeks
Vo: you must have a relative there
Me:my aunt
Vo: Do you know anyone in the U.S.
Me:No
Vo:so why not go to the UK since u have been the and the healthcare system is as good as the Us?
The UK is closer and it's cheaper and you have a relative there
Me: it's not cheaper besides I can afford the bills in the US
Types endlessly and hands over the blue refusal paper

I applied for an emergency appointment and it was approved same day.
Interview 6:30am this morning I applied alone
Vo:good morning with smiles
Me: good morning
VO: why are you going to America
Me: childbirth
Vo: what hospital?
Me: HNWMC
Vo: Dr's name
Me: Dr Nicholas xydas
Vo:what do you do
Me: I.work.as xcccc
VO: how much do you earn
Me:bleep
Vo: what does your husband do
Me:works at xxxxcc
Vo: how much does he earn?
Me : bleep
Vo:how long have you been on your job
Me;5 years
Vo:Do you know anyone in the U.S.
Me;No
Vo: will your husband be joining you?
Me: yes if I get the visa and if his work permits as at that time
Vo: where will you be staying?
Me: I already booked an apartment on airbnb
Vo:I see you were interviewed recently so what has changed about your application?
Me: I applied with my family now I am applying alone to
Show ties.
Vo: I see you are a frequent traveller to the U.K. so why are you not going there for child birth
Me: I enquired about a hospital there but I am choosing to go to the U.S. because I have 2 friends who have used the hospital and they came recommended it highly I will rather go where I have had people recommend as to the hospital in the UK where I have not heard anyone's experience.
Types and hand over the blue paper.
Pls what went wrong in both interviews?
Though I have decided to stay back and have the baby here but is it a crime to have visited the UK? Cos that's where I can see the arrows pointing.
I think they just want you to be truthful about the citizenship part
FamilyRe: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Bcpump: 8:43am On Oct 28, 2017
imagine if your mother asked for the same thing and your wife was the one coming here to ask this question.

you are a horrible person!
EducationRe: 5 Departments In OAU Where Bagging First Class Degree Is Almost Impossible by Bcpump: 5:50pm On Oct 26, 2017
OP get your facts right. I gained admission 2006 into geology, and my friends got into chemistry same year. Yes it is very tough but 1 or 2 people do it sometimes. when we graduated 2010/2011, two people in my class has first class. verify it . fadugba Seun in geophysics and gbadamosi wale In geology. and some also came out with high 2:1s. that same set bimpe In chemistry came out with a first class and two years before that akin in chemistry came out with a first class.

They just give the whole it's impossible myth. but it happens. Check every set of Every two sets in geology and chemistry. even if it is just one person it happens.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 7:34pm On Oct 23, 2017
Mary land here. But due first week of Feb
Dechica:
Good day. Any Maryland mama's due in March 2018.
CelebritiesRe: Mr Eazi: "I Quit My N2Million Per Month Job For Music" by Bcpump: 6:32am On Sep 14, 2017
I tire. All the people I know who work in the same slb now earn same as that monthly. 6000$ in 2014 was less than a million naira. Ahn people sef!

NairaSand:
I mentioned you because it seems you're being totally unreasonable.

1. $6,000 in 2014 was less than N1,000,000

2. Mr Eazi Sold phones in computer village (big time). He went ahead to close a $100,000 investment deal.
Daily transaction in computer village is in excess of $100,000,000. - https://angel.co/obiwezy/jobs

3. As at 2014, Mr Eazi was making good dollars from song purchase on iTunes and he was absolutely unknown in Nigeria.

4. Mr Eazi as at last year was still the CEO of Phone Trader - http://phonetrader.ng/
So yes, he was still hawking phones.

All of you need to know that some people are not just your mate.

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FashionRe: Shoe Clearance by Bcpump: 2:03pm On Sep 01, 2017
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TV/MoviesRe: The Voice Nigeria Season 2: 2017 Thread by Bcpump: 6:20am On Aug 28, 2017
Afolayan has an awesome voice and spoilt it with his choice of song. iF he had sung something like what he sang during the battles, he would have been well noticed. Hightee won that pantsdown. Ifeoma' s performance was good. Song choice and the choice to sing through her nose. She deserved to have been picked in TeamYemi.
Music/RadioRe: Share The Most Emotional Songs You Ever Heard. by Bcpump: 5:33pm On Aug 25, 2017
your guardian Angel- red jumpsuit apparatus wait for me - theory of a deadman straight jacket feeling- all American rejects remembering Sunday- all time low miserable at best- mayday parade music of my heart - nsync $ Gloria estefan
WebmastersRe: Any Premium Wordpress, Joomla, Magento, HTML Theme For Just 1K - Get 1 Free by Bcpump: 3:47pm On Aug 12, 2017
so i get 2 premium WordPress themes for 1 thousand five hundred naira? In zip files?
WebmastersRe: Who Can Setup A Blog For Me? by Bcpump: 3:43pm On Aug 12, 2017
macduffrx:
I'm in need of someone that can set up a blog site for me at cheap rate, if you can; send a message to me telling amount it will cost me.
instead I can tell you how to do for free. I'm that nice sometimes. And you get to learn
WebmastersRe: Submit Your Website Url For Review by Bcpump: 3:40pm On Aug 12, 2017
FamilyBeing Pregnant by Bcpump(op): 5:55am On Aug 12, 2017
For those who want to share in a nigerian's weekly experience of being pregnant.
https://yaaypreg.com/wp/2017/08/11/week-1-of-pregnancy/

There is also a pregnancy estimation calculator
http://www.yaaypreg.com/calculator.php
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 8:14pm On Jul 27, 2017
BOmum:
Ok i promised to share for those that dread Houston Poe just to give you another view...Its not always as nasty as we all think..Atleast not all the time though....

Flew Turkish from Abuja at 35 weeks, I was sent to port health to get a fit to fly.I paid 2000 naira for the port-health report.The trip from Abuja to Turkey was ok..I wasn't so stressed.Had a 5 hour layover at Istanbul and i practically just got a waiting bench and slept most of the time.At check in at Istanbul for the Houston leg of the trip, I wasn't asked anything..no CBP officer asked me anything..I just boarded like every other person.the trip to Houston was long i must say...i watched movies, slept, woke up and we were still on air.....We finally arrived and it was just us and another united flight so the cue at the customs clearance wasn't so much.I wasn't given any preferential treatment, i had to wait my turn and here it goes......

CBP Officer: Hello where are you coming from

me: Nigeria

CBP Officer: What are you here for

Me: Medicals and vacation

CBP officer: What medicals

Me: I am here to have my baby

CBP officer: Let me have your custom declaration form please (He already had the passport)

Me: Hands over form

CBP Officer: I see you declared money above 10,000 dollars and you have got some food

Me: Yes

CBP Officer: Why so much money for this trip

Me: I mentioned earlier that i am here for medicals sir

CBP Officer: Yes that is right, when next you are coming to the US make sure you have all your receipts from your medical payments.I might have to send you to go check your bags and fill out the currency declaration form (Beckons to another officer)

Me: Ok..Follows officer....

My bags were scanned and only my indomie was seized (I had lots of stuff like beans, garri, custard, cereal,milk, udah, ogiri, egusi, ogbono, crayfish, dryfish, dried ugu leaves etc)

I moved on to fill the declaration form for my money and off i zoomed with uber to my destination

I spent less than 5 mins with the CBP officer ( I carried all my documents from hospital fees to paid accommodation and he didint even ask to see any documents at all)

I spent about 20 mins at the bags place because they took some time getting all my bags but once they got it..it was scanned in a few minutes and i was gone

In all asides the long flight from Istanbul to Houston, it was a pretty regular trip and experience.

NB: I got my visa last year for a vacation which i used for a 3 weeks vacation at that time and now i am using for childbirth

So there goes my experience...I am waiting for my first appointment with Xydas while i spend the time doing some baby shopping

I hope i didn't miss anything out....
nice. prior to travelling, did you write or call for any change of intent since your visa was issued for a vacation and not to go give birth?
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Bcpump: 5:24pm On Jul 23, 2017
TONY56:
First Bank amongst the three you metioned USUALLY have the highest TB rates BUT STANBIC USUALLY out perform ALL.

At the secondary market, FIRST USUALLY come first and STAMBIC too is not bad.
oh thank You!
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Bcpump: 9:44am On Jul 22, 2017
zenith, first or diamond, which of these 3 have the highest TB rates ??
CrimeInsecurity In Nigeria - Any Way Forward? by Bcpump(op):
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FamilyRe: My Friend Wants To Chase Me Out Because Of Ordinary Milk by Bcpump: 7:30am On Jun 26, 2017
stressedout:
Pls nairalanders, I am in deep mess right now. I have been living in my compound for 6 yrs now but due to some money issues I was evicted and my friend/fellow tenant was kind enough to take me in for the time being. It is him the wife and their small baby son that stays.

The problem started when the wife start complaining that am wasteful. i have never remained food they give me. from then they reduced quantity of food they give me and i dont complain.

Now just this morning am making tea and take 3 spoons of milk in her presence and all hell break loose. she starts shouting and call her husband that even them dont take more than 2 spoons. the man called me later and said it is time for us to part ways.

Am devastated now. i even used my last cash to buy a tin of milk for them. what do i do now? i have no where to go. sad
guy 3 spoons of milk? You are wasteful. if you did that in my house with milk I bought I will kick you out myself. if you bought the milk yourself, fine. 3 spoons is too much. next time two spoons of milo and one spoon of milk. Next time!
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Bcpump: 9:25pm On Jun 07, 2017
Good evening house.
please anyone with any Maryland Edgewood doctor 's contact?
I would prefer Maryland since I have a sister I can stay with.
Thanks
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 1:00pm On Apr 30, 2017
Nma27:
lol.... Seems like many nigerians don't even know a sarcastic comment when they see one.
honestly.. .. now i understand why we are where we are.... backwards, underdeveloped etc.......
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 10:52am On Apr 30, 2017
Danhumprey:
Calm down! can't you sense sarcasm when you come across one? that guy is just being sarcastic.


he's an atheist, incase you don't know. he's mocking gullible Christians.
lool exactly!!!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 10:48am On Apr 30, 2017
HateU2:
I just can't stop laughing grin grin grin grin
LMAO exactly!!! so funny. I can't believe people got worked up with this comment and his other comments. i laughed immediately I read it and said funny guy. when I checked his profile i even realised he isn't a Christian.
Dude just had his fun and people didn't get it and got soo angry. they even replied him and he replied them grin; D

check some of his posts. He is an atheist. https://www.nairaland.com/3697087/lion-tribe-judah

he is funny sha. And I like it
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 10:37am On Apr 30, 2017
lool @frank317 just had fun with everybody here and y'all let it affect you, cursing up and down. His first comment alone had sarcasm all over it and instead of laugh and play along, No, you chose to get angry or just argue along... loooool!!!! very interesting morning!
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 10:35am On Apr 30, 2017
frank317:
What pleasure? You are indeed a worldly Christian. Keep in feeding your flesh. You better pray to God for forgiveness, and stop allowing earthly pleasures to confuse u.
A holy person cannot be taking his wife from behind like a worldly person. How can u claim to be holy yet as a woman u will be screaming give it to me, don't stop, this is sweet, dig me harder, during sex? Or allow a man to mess up ur holy body by slapping Ur ass and having sex in different positions like a LovePeddler, grabbing his dick with the same hand you use in opening the Bible? And even sucking it with the same mouth u use to preach the word.
Did Jesus do any of those?
What kind of mind do u have? Where do u even learn all those rubbish from? Why will u give Ur woman doggy? Are u a dog? Why will u have sex like an animal?
Guy, stick to the holy position... Lie her down respectively, kiss her with love, gently caress her untill she is wet the enter her and pump gently or are your holy mind leads u until u come. And the woman must just moan just because of the effect of ur touch... She must avoid sounding vulgar and getting over excited.
We must no allow the pleasures of sex make us miss heaven.
hahaha still can't believe they can't get it....SARCASM!
Christianity EtcRe: Does Christianity Allow Sex Styles For Married Ones? by Bcpump: 10:33am On Apr 30, 2017
frank317:
Imagine if Jesus was married, would he give his wife doggy?

No, Christianity only allows for holy sex. God will definitely send you to hell if you take your wife from behind or allow her to ride you from the top. Sex must be holy...the woman lies down, the man puts it in, pump till he comes and that's all. Remember nothing like 'ohhh don't stop, faster, please faster' from the woman. This will upset God and the next thing, u will find yourself in hell.

A word is enough for the wise.
LMAO.. ....dumb people cannot smell this is pure sarcasm. all the Sheldon Coopers here!! lool. they instead get angry and argue at this comment here.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dilemma Of A 2.2 Graduate by Bcpump: 2:18am On Apr 13, 2017
Greatbeard:
Inspirational write up.

Do you have any tips(not the generic advice we hear every day) on how one can land a good paying job?
Honestly there are no tips. It's the grace of God and your hard/smart work when you finally get the job. so while waiting for that 'dream job', do something.. .. never believe you need so much to start something. Just start up something. ideas or marketing other people's ideas.
There is a thread in the business section on businesses you can start with almost nothing. Check there for something and start.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dilemma Of A 2.2 Graduate by Bcpump: 12:28am On Apr 11, 2017
While it is good to graduate with a good grade (to make it easier to attend exams and interviews), It doesn't matter at the end of the day. all that matters is the grace of God.
I graduated with a 2:2. a low one o. cgpa 2.52.......... and this is my second job. My first job was awesome and the only reason I left it for this is because this pays 5 times the first did and it is a multinational one. And for the two jobs, I did not know anybody. All the grace of God.
And my advice is for you to try doing something for yourself. Even if you get a job where you earn 2m monthly, you will hate working for someone and want to start your own business...from my experience. Even though its easier from here because I can play around with business ideas knowing i have a monthly steady income, But once one blows I'm resigning. And trust me that is how you will feel 3-4 years after working for people....

So think ahead of the 2:2. Do something. develop a skill. perfect it. or find someone's idea partner with them, and help them market it. Stop being limited.
FoodRe: Nigerian Food / African Food In Maryland by Bcpump(op): 3:39am On Apr 08, 2017
yummy

FoodNigerian Food / African Food In Maryland by Bcpump(op):
Hello guys,

If you are in Edgewood Baltimore Maryland or just passing through, and you happen to crave some Nigerian / African cuisine, just check up Diddy's place. Pick-up services and Home delivery within Harford county, MD.

Try today.

http://diidysplace.com

Thanks.

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