QuietHammer:
Any man who washes his girlfriend's undies shouldn't be allowed to breed

AgentJude007:
the only thing i do is call ugly girls ugly ! I dont see how that reveals my personality offline, like i said to someone last week, its all drama to me, if you have noticed, i am always laughing, people here, dont just like hearing the truth and i dont know how to pretend but i get your point in a way, thanks

AgentJude007:
i will ignore that

Raine80:
Women are equally hyprocritial ....They complain that there are no good men out there but if a brother has no car or is starting to make a name for himself he gets no mention or second look. The persuit is only for the rich negro .....

Fourwinds:
as a woman there are bounds... u must take dat into ur head...if u are single u can do what ever u like ok...it is not so when u are married to a man...u take d dignity of dat man with u also..some of u will come here and claim to be good christians...if u are let ur Bible guide u

demzylahot:
Beamborla, I hrt you...
I love you submissions, you've not lost your temper despite the barrage of insults hurled at you

TonyeBarcanista:

I agree with you once again. Every woman have right to state their preference of the kind of man they want as husband/boyfriend. No woman should be vilified. If she end up not meeting a man of such a standard, she's left to either lower her taste or remain single. Whatever path she follows, she will bear the effects of it alone-maybe along with her family. Same applies to men.

On that lady, I think you miss her point, the lady was simply saying that women should set standard that is "realistic"(from the conventional perspective). How realistic is realistic? That's her own headache. What is realistic for Dangote's daughter may be unrealistic for the average girl on the street. What is realistic for an educated Bimbo may not be realistic for an uneducated paraga selling Bilikisu. Bimbo may say "my husband must be educated" but should the uneducated Bilikisu say that people will look at her like "you no serious o". It doesn't mean Biliki has no choice, it simply means she should be realistic. Like I do say, the word "realistic" is relative. THIS ALSO APPLIES TO MEN

I think you now understand the point your friend was trying to make? Both of you are right but only coming from different perspective.

Certifiedboss:


Linda can choose her man of her dreams quietly without dropping criteria like it's a job offer where qualified candidate come and apply. Even you have the choice of man you want but I don't believe you listed out the criteria on your social media so qualify candidate come for you . She's making her search for a man look like a big deal .

truthsayer007:


But sista, you sef get time o, I was reading your replies from yesterday midnight till this morning..Chaii hehehe

Onyiridike:

You are crazy and arrogant as well. If your mother and other mothers had refused to marry, where will the daughters come from? Out of wedlock? Obviously, you are not a true christian?

I am pitying any man that will marry your type. Even if you have a boyfriend, the boy should have his head examined.

sirusX:

I am not against your opinion on a lady having her choice in a partner, cz I understood what you meant.
What others have been trying to make you understand is more about humility in a woman looking to become a wife.

What got me a little bit worried was the bolded statement you made...that mindset of you forcing your view on someone who hasn't said such would leave someone with the impression that this is how you think.

When you look down on others as less fortunate, that doesn't make you better than them.

@ bolded...I dunno why you keep saying this.
I am trying to get ur idea on this, but is that a general thought you have when it comes to marriage?

In a person, one should be looking out for the personality/character and how the person builds and complements you.
Rich or poor, no one knows who God has destined to be their partner. We just have to open our eyes and heart to see that diamond in the rough. That poor person might be the one that lifts you up beyond your imagination...it might not be the person's billion dollar idea, but maybe the peace the person brings to the home.

Weird enough, I have heard ladies make your last statement over and over, and many opting out cz they want a life of comfort...but only few good ones see the grace behind a hardworking man trying to make things better for his family.

Certifiedboss:


She's just giving her opinion and not forcing it down her throat . The lady speaking is also successful even if she might not be as successful as Linda which I'm not certain about

mctowel01:

I couldn't help replying this. You re still a kid. When you grow up and learn that misfortunes can take one to bottom zero, and completely unplanned circumstances can raise one high, you won't be talking thrash... See her mouth *ayaff God and ayaff hands and legs* Like its how it happens.. Millions going to church everyday, with brain, hands and legs today ko. You are simply with a kid's brain. Anyone mentioning this lady is simply wasting his time, just a child behind the screen.

repogirl:
I must say I love your ideas. There is nothing wrong in being your own woman, a self made woman. A good man will encourage his woman to be the best she can be and not stifle or hold her down. Many problems in our society can be traced to domineering men who believe it should be their way or the high way.

When they see a woman who does not need their bullshit and wants to be her own person they get touchy.

Many say they don't want gold diggers who will latch onto them, take their shi.t and kiss their ass for material things but when a woman who has got her own says she has a certain standard, they get really pissed as if a woman can't have standards as they themselves have their own standards.

Although I believe the type of person Linda wants is fictional and she might be deluding herself, it's her choice to make. She will live with it afterall, so guys saying sh.it should back off. If Linda thinks this is what will make her have a happy marriage, abeg leave her and go and find the one that will conform to your own requirements. Simple.

Even when you enter market, you price what you like and what you can afford not what is above you or beneath you. Everyone is entitled to their choices, right or wrong.

uzolexis:



This afikpo chick is jobless sha, Linda explained her definition of rich as someone who is successful and does not stifle her and the fickle minded woman is saying which African man won't stifle his wife Like for real Is this how African women see themselves, that their men have the right to stifle their dreams, women, we are our own worse enemies I swear.

Fourwinds:
according to d writer., her marriage has failed before it started... I tell u d truth....it will be so.. u cannt serve devil and God at same time

superstarDikk:
Lets be sincere to ourselves, Linda has plenty money but age is not on her side. in other words, she is old. What if all the rich guys say they won't marry an old mama? The lady said ' no condition is permanent' and she is right. Go ABJ go see as hitherto big and wealthy boys de sell their houses. you think say dem build am to sell am?

bobo65:



How many rich young man, who is equally successful will wanna spend his life with a 36 years old lady?

See eh, I never get money o, but I can't marry someone like this cos on d long run, her pride will make me start looking out of the marriage

Plus Menopause sef

Abeg if u do talk to Linda, tell her Men dat are not rich (tho not church rat poor) think better and are more faithful than d rich

Vanillaskin:

You say that it is better happily single than tearfully married
My dear, who told you that single people don't cry again or have difficult moments? That it is all fun and games begin single? There is pain and joy in every part of life, that's just a fact of life
You say marriage or childbearing is not the peak or the purpose of a woman's existence
But to Auntie Linda it seems to be because of the way she keeps talking about it like she is running some sort of subtle marriage campaign for herself
You say mothers start teaching their girl child that becoming a Mrs. is not what your life is all about
But the Bible which we all love so much and always like to make reference to by saying "is it in the Bible" says that it is not good for (man/woman) to be alone
You say the male spicie is not doing us any favour by marrying us
Hate it or love it, a man must marry a woman, a woman can't marry a man

TonyeBarcanista:

Been following the conversation from page 1, and I have to admit that ...

Anyway, if I get you correctly, you are saying that the choice of Linda should be respected and she shouldn't be vilified for setting her own standard because she is a woman. Am I correct?

The problem with your position is that you are yet to realise that the Nigeria society is one that gives advice to our neighbours. If Linda wish for her opinion to be private, it is best she keep it to herself.

My Dear, the worst poverty is not lack of money, it is having a poor mindset/ideology about money. Money is good but setting standard for "rich man" showed that Linda is still mentally poor. Success is relative, Bill Gate is richer than Dangote but both are successful. Anybody can be rich, it is matter of luck, grace and hard work (for some). A determined person with vision will be rich in no time. I think Linda (and women generally) should look out for guys that are successful or potentially successful or guys with right attitude towards money.

It is a shame that Linda is still suffering from mental poverty despite being a billionaire.

@Your Bold: Spot On! God give you your own man!

emusmithy:
Sharp mouth

amanikondo:


But you are not rich. You should not date a rich guy.

modsRbastard:




Make no mistake Ombre, it's called smart mouth

PeridotBelle:


I did not write any bad stuff about you, I said

And you did not hit any cord sorry, it's just that am allergic to disrespectful people which I have sensed.

And I only waltz into ur mention because of a certain comment you made about men having preference and setting standard, so women too should be allowed to do so too.
Once again, good day

warmachine:



I'm sorry...no vex...it wasn't really intended @ hurting you...but Sha m also human...we make mistakes... I'm truly sorry.


And as for that issue I think you should listen to your friend and the legislator...it will do you good...any man hu doesn't agree with her simply doesn't know his place and by implication doesn't know what marriage really is.