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tellwisdom: Now i beleive u can date goats # No offence

Oops! He is jealous! Awww....sorry, bt am verry sure he is more hotter than u! And i'd rather smile at a goat dan stand a worwor boy like u! Sorry...

acidtalk: @Poster, lots of people bring this same shyness issue onto nairaland and never get the real solution to their problem and this leaves them dejected.

I won't claim to be a pro on this and as such will offer advice only to the best of my knowledge.

From what I understand, the girl in question is one who you see regularly, either in your school, office, or neighborhood. The face is that that lady might just have noticed you also. Believe it or not, ladies usually have that instinct to always know when a particular man is admiring them or likes them (even when he hasn't approached them).

What I will advice you to do is always take risk. Do you know what most sales people around the world always get successful? Because they are risk takers and never allow themselves get dejected when they are turned down.

Look at yourself like a sales person that doesn't expect much from the prospect (lady). Walk up to her and open up that "you have noticed her all these while but have been too shy to approach her for the fear that she would embarass you". What this does is it will make her to be really polite and accomodating and it will make you feel more relaxed and jack up yourself confidence at that point in time.

Do not start talking of like, love, emotional attached and the other crap. Just come as a friend who won't mind having her number. If she doesn't give you that day don't push it. Since you said you see her regularly, she is most likely to give you on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.
Don't chat her up on the street or when in the midst of her friends, as she is most likely not going to listen to you under such environment.

Just my 2cents.

you are soooooooo on point! Niceeeeeeeee*

[quote author=BabyGeneral][/quote]oh really? So this is another guy?? Am not here to judge or condemn u bt to tell u d truth. U need to learn from ur past! All guys got sweet mouth of Marriage nd stuffs its just a way of getting u laid, just get ur head straight nd stop dis husband ish! Have u thought abt ursef for sometime now?? Have u thought abt things that are best for u?? Have u thought abt ow to improve ur self-esteem nd ur ways of life? Have u thought abt things that wud take u to d next level?? Have u thought abt how to achieve greater things by urself?? You ve got a child right? Why not start thinking of how to give dat child d best by working verry hard in achieveing so many things nd stop thinking abt boyfrds or watsoever! Any gal who can stand on her own, achieve so many things on her own, wud b respected by guys nd wudnt need to rush into marriage or get desperate abt marriage. If u rush in, u will rush out...get ur goals first nd guys wud b desperate to be wid u either wid a child or not!

ifyalways: Is it the man that was on your neck for seex, the one that gave you stoopid ultimatum or you've got another man already?
I think you really need a self assessment and evaluation.

Am so sure its still d same guy, probably she wana give him a chance...bt d question is, have she done it?? All i know is she deserves som1 better.

tobechi74: Tel him on his sick bed, d shock wil heal him...what a miracle

lmaooo....*Wicked*

We are not dressing gorgeously because of guys, we dress to feel confident of ourselves, not to feel intimidated by other girls, to be appreciated nd not to be harrased by guys. You should know that this same gals got boyfrds they wna look good for nd not some strangers or whatsoever. You are allowed to harrass a girl if d way she dressed is passing a wrong message, like wearing skimpy gowns, skimpy skirts nd any clothes that exposes the sensitive parts of her body. Sorry i used the word*Harrass* some guys need to be lectured on how to walk up to a girl....seriously!

I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee coooooooool FM! Mehn.....they are d best! No dulling moments at all...they alwys come up wid d best songs nd they r verry current! My best programmes are: American Top 40 songs with Ryan, Top 20 songs nd Request night with Doyce! They Rockkkk!!!

Too bad i missed it, chngd d channel when it ws getting broing. I Love Mr.Bean...

abiolabello: plz na hw much abeg.

actually am not sure...but i guess it shud b arnd 10k, u can goto d school to confirm or their website. Yabatech.edu.ng.

abiolabello: pls anybdy shud tel me any latest ongoin part time info within lagos schls, abeg pls.

Yabatech P.T form is available nw ooo...

akinkuowo32: NEWS IN FULL. UNILAG CUTMARK TO BE RELEASED IN NEXT 24HRS AND LISTS IN FULL. COMiNG FRM SENATE BUILDING

yea, i heard they have compiled the 1st/Merit List.

There is nothing wrong in having sex once in 5yrs. For me i think she is just trying to avoid any sexual immoralities. probably, when she had d first sex with him she regretted it nd felt she has sinned against God! Then vowed not to have sex wid him or anyone til her wedding night or she felt dat if she continues to have sex wid him, she might look cheap nd his love for her might reduce. Anyway am sure she has so many reasonable reasons for that, bt this doesnt mean that when he gets married to her, she might starve him of sex...am sure she wudnt do that! She is only trying to make him value her. now.

Tizzie: why 're u screaming my name,besides who even told u my name??

lol...*screaming*

xyloxloto: Bros on point the babe quickly realized and made A QUICK U TURN like you said she realized she can not find a looser like the op at least let her keep him by the side till she find another dude and then discard the looser of a boyfriend this is a case of half bread is better than none

Actually guys, its LOSER not LOOSER!

I know and understand what you are going thru. This shws you are an introvert nd y'aint confident of urself. Really, i don't think you should pass this question to us, all u need to do is search for a Topic on Google on how to communicate confidently in public and u gna get as many answers as u want and it is really going to help you.

You are absolutely wrong! Ama give u C.O for this, so Go nd carry out ur research wella...

acidtalk: Her boy friend is certainly on the brink of having a heart attack.

lmao...too bad for him! Cause i can't help it...

micoco: hahaha babe your own crushing heavy sha.

loool...its more than Heavy o! Bt harmless...bt if i gat opportunity wid any of dem...m dumping him straight!

jhydebaba: Tap current? U be electric pole? Small time now, una go dey go pastor house say u nid husband.

Do u xpect evry1 on Nairaland to be single like u are Next plzz.....

Ayubaayo: And who gives a f*ck how you feel.

And who d hell are u? Gat a prob wid ma comment Dis shws ow dumb u are....its a comment remeber nd any comment means u need to xpress urself concerning d Topic! Geeez....get lost jawee...

DECOtech: I'm sorry to say this dear. This is really a flintstone age kind of reasoning. Unless na deeper life church u de go. Na wah for those of u that see smile as laughter, frown as weeping. U'll definitely see holding as f.ucking.

And dat is ur own cup of Tea o! I Lizzy, only decides whose hands get curved around my waist or not! For goodness sake its my Body nah! If any guy tries it wid me....i wud just silently ignore him for d rest of my life! I dnt find it romantic wen a guy curves his hands around my waist..makes me feel like he wana tap current, nd it is kinda childish...i rather prefer he curves his hand around my neck, dat wud make me feel kinda safe nd loved!

I have a crush on all d cute celebrities *Male* pple like 2face idibia-Mehn 2face is charming, handsome,cute,sexy, swt...i mean he is damn toooooo cuteee....love his Nose nd his lips! Mehn...i just wna hug him nd squeeze him tight, bt too bad he is married..bt in my head he is all mine! I have anoda crush on Justin hartley(Green Arrow-smallville movie) mehn dat guy is handsome ooo....2face cant stand bsd him o! I ve anoda on Zac Efron(Troy of high school Musicals) his eyes can make me float on d air, den d last of them all is wizkid...though am getting over him! But if i wud love to Marry any...dat wud be Justin Hartley...buh guess wht? he is Married...so am left wid Zac-efron! American guys are cute sha... *breaths in*

Haba! Sis ke Well am not suprised, since some girls actually expose their bodies in front of their brothers...nd i find dat verry embarrasing. My boyfrd isnt evn allowed to curve his hands around my waist while walking, not to talk of my frd...or my bruv...i wudnt wna imagine dat!

samuelee1: Jst heard d news 2. Unilag 1st in 9ja, 16th in africa.

seriously guys, dont be suprised if Unaab takes over! Cause for now....they r d best! My bruv finished 4yrs course in just 3yrs nd apart frm dat, they are good in so many ways!

Wow! Its tensed nd hot in here! You all shud just calm down...its not like its d end of d world or so...y'all seem like u gna get an heart-attack wen d cut-off is out...just relax nd let the will of God b done in our various lives...i pray for success for us all, but we just need to slow this down a little and pray more...nd i pray that by This time Tomorrow nd by this time Next year By His Special Grace, we shall remeber this for good and thank God cause we Made it! See u guys on Campus!

Booty4me: Op am not impressed

me too....i cnt see anyfn thrilling thou...d only point dt made sense is- if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!!!!

ballow: nice 1 buddie.....u ve spoken well or shld i said u had written so well...thumbs up for dat...it only takes a matured mind to say somtin more mature

lol..its typed actually!