igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

So because of sex? How many hours enjoyment again? You want to ruin God’s blessings for your new home? Are you kidding me? Waiting a few days, weeks or months will kill you? For Pete’s sake you waited for a year, what on earth is the big deal? devil is at it again and you must resist him at all costs! Stay on guard please!

badfuckerz:
i once have similar experience i purchase a phone from a seller on aliexpress , i told her to send to my agent in china , so one was sent to the agent while another customer rep thought the item has not been sent so she send through hk mail to me , i told her and she told me she i should help send $45 instead of $60 , i help her sold the phone to a nairaland through my former profile on nairaland and send her money to her via paypal.

Please is it possible to withdraw cash from PayPal account in Nigeria?

Lagos is dirty....blabla like dirts grow in Lagos! I don’t know how a sane human being would drink up a soft drink in a bottle and next thing throws the bottle on the floor, also takeaways and tissues...like seriously!

Pangea:
Finally

Welcome to the club! Android is too slow for my liking, hangs a lot as well!

Yinibixema:

It’s part of house chores as a wife material

Na so
I don’t mind though, but it shouldn’t made compulsory.

It’s possible it is all in your head, that is why it is written “God has not given us the spirit of fear “ because this is one of the devil’s top tools in capturing souls. I had similar experience of fear but not sex related, I saw all the symptoms I wanted to see but I was fine until I prayed hard for God to break the yoke and that very day I was free from all and all the symptoms disappeared.

Men we are not slaves please!!!!

It's expensive.

You rise and fall and rise again, You don’t fall and stay down.

Depressed101:
I think our meeting is iconic, I mean we held a healthy discussion this long. So i thought i did give it stamp. Courtesy of you. You are the real VIP. Cheers

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwh now you make me want to cry lol you are really sweeeeeeet!!! Thank you dear, it was nice having this conversation with you. It is because of members like you that my love for Nairaland keeps waxing stronger.

Depressed101:
from the east. Cassie also means encourage/take courage in Igbo also. Oh, I'm glad I guessed right. I was not trying to shoot my shot tho. I did need more intel if I was to do that...

[/b]© Becacia 2019[b]

Hummmmm loool explain the bolded hehe

mumu9gerian:


Calm down he never ask whether u are single na

I like to go straight to the point.

Depressed101:
Becacia means cut scatter in Igbo. And it implies that the bearer is gifted tremendously axx wise. Correct me if I'm wrong doh

Wow wow! Where are you from? I’m shocked the name “Becacia” actually has a meaning because it’s a name formed out from different names “Bey,Cassie and Ciara” they were my favorite female musicians back when I was in High school which was the time the nick was formed.

Haha well I’m gifted and well blessed and not single too looool

Depressed101:
nope, the name is just mouthy, are you from the east side

Looolz oh I see... from the West ooo

slapandfall:
I play drums in church. i went to night vigil from Work after that VI/Lekki traffic.
when pastor was preaching i was sleeping on the drums, na so i fall yakata for ground and the whole drum scatter with big noise

Everybody was shocked even the other people who were sleeping screamed Jesus from sleep cos they were all shocked by the sudden loud noise.

Pastor was just looking at me and i just open my mouth for ground cos i no fit talk.

I just carry my bible dey go house

Hahahahaha you people oooo

cenaman:
No! he didn't wake up, he is typing from the land of the death.

I’m on the road, please take it easy on me

Depressed101:
becacia. Cut scatter .

Oh do you know me?

mumu9gerian:

Your problem

Before?

I’ll read according to number of likes

CaptainMitch:
Welcome, Hope the culprits were all rounded up? Still follow it up until the case gets to a logical conclusion

Just one, apparently others are somewhere lavishing the money or setting up their next site, but the one who was apprehended happens to be their boss “Alhaji Tesleem”. I hope we get justice for all these.

CaptainMitch:
How did this end?

Lol Dragging it in court oooo but you trust Naija way naa they keep adjourning the case, no progress one bit! To be honest, most of us have moved on but we still need justice to avoid another case like this again, as people will keep falling for scams no matter how obvious such scams are. Thanks a lot for checking.

maynation:



I def won't let it slide.

Your kind is rare....you remind me of a good friend, people like you are just few in this world, really I’m impressed.

EmptyCoconutHead:
hi dear! how are you doing?
pls my sister is asking how long will it take before she starts seeing effects?
will it be more than two weeks?
note : she has stocked her kitchen with fish, garri, yam and lots of food stuffs

Lol within weeks trust me and she must eat atleast 4 times a day. She can test the result by wearing some of her old clothes, because they’d have become too small for her.

Twilights:
1. It was in my first year ,1st semester in Unilorin, we had this practical test CHM 111 or so then. This particular day I didn't know it was going to be a test, like all other practical days we will be allowed to run the test in the lab den go outside to record our results on a sheet of paper and submit. Usually, people were entering in batches cus we were too much, like 7departments or more taking the course and we were given few minutes to run the salt analysis test on that particular day. I collected my salt ran up and down performing diff.confirmatory tests. I recorded on a rough paper first, silly me. Then within five minutes we were told STOP! i Then I was like WTF, the lecturer was like submit. I asked the guy beside me stupidly, 'did they ask us to submit ni, I thought we wud be allowed to go outside and write ni' . I quickly tried to copy it to a new sheet. Na only matric number and name I write before the woman raised plank of wood on me and shouted submit. I was begging, she said my friend 'are u stupid' submit!! There are other batches outside waiting to come in. I felt dejected that day. As I was coming out friends were asking me how far, I said it was 'fine'. How cud I tell dem what happened exactly? lest I started hearing 'eyah, eyah' sorry. I hate those words mehn. So I went home feeling bad, embarrassed, and unhappy. How was I fool?? I should av been smarter and known better!!! damn!!. Prayed to God to help me because practical test carried 60marks , exam 40. Meaning widout the test , CO dey wait for me already. Fortunately/unfortunately, weeks later a list came out tagged 'missing scripts' which my name was there. after going to the department we were told by the lecturer to come at a particular date after general exams to come and retake the test. I was happy, surely God answers prayers!! On that particular day, I woke up late. naso I Started cooking rice, local man was hungry wanted to eat. Rice was half done . naso I remember that I have a test oo. i off gas. food i no fit chop. it was 10am already, test of 9am Jesus!!. I just quickly put on clothes, took a taxi to the school. on getting to the department, guys were just coming out of the lab. Lord Jesus, they have finished the test. Ahhh, I felt double embarrassment , stood in the lab for few minutes looking dumbfounded, i was peeing inside my trousers!! i was crying inside, how cud this happened to me ??!!! How!!!! . Damn!! first year 1st semester CO, I wept without seeing my result I knew my fate already, what a hard pill. I prayed for miracle make result change for portal make God give another person result to me and dash mine to another, lol miracle no happen o. Cud it have been my village people or my carelessness Till this day I didn't know how I forgot or what came over me. I took the course the next year and had an A tho. But the deed had been done... but Glory be to God in the highest it is now a story.

Ahaaaaan! This one is deep oooo! Village people no do you well that year ooo loooolz

DaddyMorenike:
lol. Expect your query on Monday.

Haha my boss is out of the country my colleague had to ask me why I was crying...I couldn’t show him your post though, I just said “ Nairanders will not kee me oh” lol

DaddyMorenike:
lol. All these ladies in my mentions ehn... It's not Tiger ba3 oh, e just never charge ni.

You are still cracking me up so much ooooo hahahaha making me look unserious at work...haha your post was the best! I will still go back and read it again

DaddyMorenike:
Definitely has to be during a pool party. Got out the pool and was sitting beside the pool, didn't know my preeq cap was outside already, thanks to those Tommy Hilfiger boxers wey get buttons that year. I notice say breeze just dey blow that area but I didn't pay much attention afterall, I just got outta the pool. Like 1mins plus, one babe wey I no even know signaled to my crotch area, as I see my cap outside, I fly enter pool ASAP, I even injured my knees.
I can never ever ever ever forget! Especially the look on the girl face n her friends. Preeq wey never charge, e come be like say tiger ba3. DAMN!!

I am in tears plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss………………..I can't stop laughing....oh goodness!!!

Here is mine!
It was my birthday, so I was obviously the best dressed in class for that day. We had Law lecture that morning and the lecturer is extremely strict and also fond of throwing questions at students, so majority usually run to the back seats or seat outside to avoid being called, but unfortunately for me that day, I sat on the second row with a not so close friend of mine. During the lecture, my friend started dozing and it was so hilarious, but I kept cool and ignored her, tho I woke her up few times. So when the attendance was passed to her, I noticed she held on to it for long...then I looked to see what was taking her so long, only for me to see that she had written rubbish and also drew rubbish on the attendance sheet because she was sleep-writing and to top it all, she started dozing in a way that her head was about hitting the table hard.....I couldn't hold it, I busted out into laughter and that was how I got the lecturer's attention, who was pissed at the moment and decided to pass all the aggression on me. He asked me a question about his last statement, which obviously I didn't pick because my friend was entertaining me with her dozing skills lol the lecturer went on to ask me how I passed my JAMB, even asked me my scores and so many embarrassing questions.....I felt like running out and never returning back to the school....it was so bad!

kestolove95:
D girl ugly

Still looking for the ugliness ooo! Cuppy is very very beautiful, don’t be too jealous to admit this truth! She is an epitome of beauty...deal with it!

OP, you were absolutely wrong for teaching same sex marriage because it is never and will never be a valid marriage! Don't use ignorance to corrupt those kids just because you feel the world is accepting it, as acceptance doesn't means validity. Be wise.

EmptyCoconutHead:
why do u have up to 250 followers on nairaland are u a celebrity?
lastly kindly share me a cover photo of how the drugs looks like.
thanks

Lol I have been active here since 2013 I believe, so I guess it is reasonable to have such high numbers of followers based on my time here as I also follow many people. I am in the office now, but I could help you out with a pic from the internet.

EmptyCoconutHead:
ok don't worry, let's just be chatting here though.
I'll update u as that stuff works, just that I needed us to interact on WhatsApp so the communication and updates could be effective.

Okay no problem.