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Romance › Even in marriage, she's still pain. by Bedotfarms(op): 7:29pm On May 04, 2023

There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

Investment › Re: My Brother Is In Trouble Over Failed Online Business Transaction. by Bedotfarms: 2:12pm On Jan 25, 2023

I read few comments before responding. Please, if you have the means kindly help if you can. If he commit suicide, you'll be the one to later regret it because the burden of the wife and children will be you, the family.

A meeting will be held that let bygone be bygone.

It was a stupid risk he took, he'll respect you if you assist him now and listen to you more next time.

See Chris Delvan sharing his testimonies whenever he preaches how vagabond he was but the story is different today.

Education › Re: Rhematex Consulting & Training Ltd. Cad/programming/graphics Training Are You In by Bedotfarms: 10:18am On Dec 02, 2022

Rhema14:
registration in progress

Let's know the price attached to these courses.

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TV/Movies › Re: "Elesin Oba Passes Check On Cinematography, Storyline" - Shola-Adido Oladotun by Bedotfarms: 5:02pm On Nov 05, 2022

Good movie

Investment › Re: RIVER RANCH (RIVERRANCH.APP - Is It Scam or Legit) by Bedotfarms: 11:47am On Nov 01, 2022

By now, I know they've scammed many Nigerians as usual.

Investment › Re: Storytelling by Bedotfarms: 9:05am On Oct 05, 2022

Since you're earning daily, help other Nigerians by making it free.

What do you think?

Crime › Re: Woman Assaults Police Officer In Lagos, Police PRO Reacts by Bedotfarms: 11:37pm On Sep 17, 2022

Threat to life, attempted murder and unprofessionalism.

There's nothing I can say until the full video is released else deal with the police officer and free the woman.

Career › Re: What Do You Advise Me To Do? by Bedotfarms: 10:57pm On Aug 31, 2022

Finally, forget about how old you think you are, and find a good school to study nursing. E get why..

Good luck...

What kind of nursing.
BSc or just school of nursing

Crime › Crime Or No Crime by Bedotfarms(op): 9:45am On Jun 17, 2022

The picture is self explanatory

Travel › Re: General Bahrain Migration Thread by Bedotfarms: 3:49am On May 21, 2022

Update

Crime › Another Form Of Scam by Bedotfarms(op): 9:16pm On May 12, 2022

Please, avoid this..I was directly involved.

That's all I can say for now

Business › Re: Federal Government Accuses Ghana, Others Of Lobbying Companies To Leave Nigeria by Bedotfarms: 4:58pm On Apr 08, 2022

Good
Nothing like accuses.

I once tried resolving something like this among Vendors that rented shops in our organization.

A Vendor has his/her own unique commodity, so there won't be dispute. A particular Vendor kept languishing that others use to bad mouth what she sells, that, that particular commodity is not available

Being the Manager, when my MD got to know, he blamed me for interfering: that they'd make their commodity better and advertise

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Education › Re: My Inability To Speak Fluent English Is Costing Me Huge Opportunities. by Bedotfarms: 6:30pm On Mar 31, 2022

I got interested in your sincerity and readiness to change:

If you don't mind, I'll assist you;
I was once like that.

Get Brighter Grammar (Book 1 to 5/6), study them sincerely, I don't mean read, study.

Whatever happens after three months, tell me

Career › Re: Uber Driver by Bedotfarms(op): 9:10am On Feb 16, 2022

majatech:
There is nothing more better than being your own boss where you can plan how your life will be.I am presently looking for who to borrow me some money to join the one I have to collect a car for uber and pay the rest in bit,so if I were you,I will go for it, after paying your monthly car loan, 100000k will be child's play and you get determine the pace at which your life goes.

Thanks, I appreciate

Career › Uber Driver by Bedotfarms(op): 3:11pm On Feb 14, 2022*

I work in a reputable organization in Osogbo, where I received N70,000, my Boss intend to increase my income to N100,000 by the end of February.

I'm the Manager of the organization, I've access to the local security, Police and civil defense if need be.

A friend intends to buy me a car worth four million to do Uber and I can pay him back in bit. That's what my friend does too in Lagos.

Please, logically, what do you think, reasonable fellows of Nairalander

Crime › Real Definition Of Violence In Marriage by Bedotfarms(op): 1:01pm On Jan 31, 2022

Video at owner's discretion:

Men we can do better than this, having a good attitude will take the world a better place

Romance › Re: What Can Make You Beat Up A Woman? by Bedotfarms: 1:03pm On Nov 07, 2020

Pancakeey:
Your family doesn’t have sense.

Omo you ugly die, Yinka Odufote, ote, should mean wicked mean people: no wonder nothing meaningful is coming from you.

I thought you're against beating of women, only for me to read where you're praying for your mother and the entire women in your lineage to be beaten.

You're big idiotic fool.

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Romance › Re: What Can Make You Beat Up A Woman? by Bedotfarms: 7:11pm On Nov 04, 2020

Pancakeey:
I can’t imagine how you had to stoop so low to get my throwback
Wow I used to be a fine girl and I’m still one.

Now, back to you this woman beater!
As I said earlier, a man will beat your sisters and daughters.

Not only are you a fool but you’re an animal to raise your hand and beat a woman. Fools like you can’t fight with your fellow men that’s why you choose to beat women instead.

How I wish the woman you raised your hand on was educationally inclined to have arrested you. Maybe then you still won’t be here running your mouth.

And I’m not surprised you went to search for my throw back. In fact, I expected you’d do more since you’re an abusive idiot!

Men like you who beat women for no reason deserve to be castrated and be killed by hanging.
People like you who beat women will always live to regret it. As the Bible says the sins of their fathers shall be passed down to them.

So shall it be in your case too. Your daughter and every female who comes from you will suffer at the hand of a man.

You’re free to search my Facebook page for more old pictures. You can also go through my blog if you have no sense of reasoning too.

I’m not scared of you. I’m not afraid
You dare not touch a female friend I know. Talk less me and go scot free
I’m not educated for nothing.
You’ll be sorry you raised your hands on a woman

Animal!

Girl, you no get sense at all

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Celebrities › Re: Babjide Kolade-otitoju: The Professional Heckler by Bedotfarms: 2:10pm On Oct 29, 2019

He has paid his dues....
I celebrate you....a great mentor

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Celebrities › Re: Babjide Kolade-otitoju: The Professional Heckler by Bedotfarms: 2:09pm On Oct 29, 2019

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Christianity Etc › Re: Police Seize Pastor Fatoyinbo’s Passport, Conduct Search On His House, Office by Bedotfarms: 6:18pm On Aug 29, 2019

jesusjnr:
The serial rapist refused to repent, so he may have consequently sealed his fate.

He probably thought that he could deceive his way out of this, but when God comes for you, who can you run to, and where can you hide?

He made two big mistakes.

1. Committing those atrocities.

You're joker

2. Not humbling himself afterwards before God and truly turning from his wicked ways.

This is what it means when ones cup is full.

Really sad that he chose this path.

It's not hopeless though as long as he yet remains alive, but would he take it?

That's the question.

He has the answer to that question.

May the Lord have mercy on him.

Politics › Re: Nnamdi Azikwe Vs Obafemi Awolowo Achievement For Their Tribes by Bedotfarms: 3:31am On Aug 28, 2019

Olatunji1929:
rubbish go and read why we struck by ademola ademoyega one of the soldiers that masterminded the first coup

Pick books from the library, go on Wikipedia, (type what caused the coup in Nigeria or what led to Civil War in Nigeria)

The hausa are the most calm people in Nigeria but at the same time dangerous.... Know their likes and what they don't like..... Then you'll be their best friends... People think they're the most foolish but I laugh when I see them reason this way

Visit other Nations library and equip yourself.....

Stop dying from beer parlor syndrome.

Politics › Re: Nnamdi Azikwe Vs Obafemi Awolowo Achievement For Their Tribes by Bedotfarms: 7:10pm On Aug 27, 2019

I should be creating my thread soon to enlighten few of us.

I'll go with the Northerners, that the first coup was deliberately master minded by Aguyi Johnson executed by Nzeogu Kaduna:

Simply because justice didn't prevail if you say you're fighting corruption (when Nzeogu killed all the northern politicians including the first Prime Minister of Nigeria, sir Tafawa) why was Nnamdi not killed, na so e get power reach.... The Sardauna of Sokoto went for it.

I've met a lot of igbos. Hmmmmm

Please, let the educated ones try to encourage those that have refused to read.

All this beer parlor stories are actually affecting the country.

To solve a problem, you need to have an understanding about the problem.

You'll hear something like, the hausas were killing the igbos in the north, that was what led to the Biafra war..... How could someone in his/her sound state just killing....

Devolve power of the federal government and give its to the states......let each state starts feeding herself.....

To be continued.

Crime › Re: Nigerians And Pakistanis Clash In Hong Kong (graphic Pics) by Bedotfarms: 7:08pm On Aug 05, 2019

Pakistanis are another violent set of people in this world, Nigerians please stay away from this people ooooooo.

Crime › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Rubbishes Timi Dakolo’s Claim Of Gunmen In Front Of His House by Bedotfarms: 7:32pm On Jul 20, 2019

Please stop this hate and let's embrace the real thing. Stop abusing or insulting her person. She's a career person and she's doing her work. Let's learn to respect each other.

We don't know the truth (nobody prays for rape) but she's doing her best to get something out. From my little observation about her, I like her kind of person.

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Sports › Re: Let Support NIGERIA To Beat ALGERIA by Bedotfarms: 2:51pm On Jul 14, 2019

Bro, I fear you die

Sports › Re: Cameroon Going Hard In Training Against Nigeria by Bedotfarms: 4:25pm On Jul 07, 2019

ManspaceBarber:
I'm a Nigerian, but I support good football. May the best side win.

Now, I can come here and tell you that no matter what, be patriotic.... Your country is your country... Whether in rain or heat... Stay connected.

Divided we fall

Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Reacts To Coza’s Rape Saga by Bedotfarms: 8:04am On Jul 06, 2019

He didn't side anybody.
He respected the decisions made by the authorities. One mind, one voice and one spirit.

He gave an advice for the young people and tells us how to avoid such in the future....

From the way he spoke its either he didn't or not.

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Crime › Re: Lady Loses N50k To Fraudster Who Promised Her Double (Photos) by Bedotfarms: 3:29pm On Jul 04, 2019

Anybody could have fallen prey for this, no harm in trying just like MMM...

I used to do such not until they ate my money too. The thing pain me.
Since there's an account she paid to, let her get lawyer.... To block the account and other accounts this fraudulent person has and it'd be open when the person opens up.

He might be fast in transferring the money to another account, every account linked to the account is a suspect and should be suspended

Please avoid making mockery when people fall victim of negative circumstances or tells you their stories, you're only better off than them either by privilege or experience

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