alextayo:


In as much as I wouldn't want to be involved in this tribal war, let me correct you on this particular statement with an experience I had in 2006. I was born and grew up in Aba before moving back to Lagos.

I was posted to Eleme Rivers State for my NYSC in 2006 and there I met Onyinye, a pretty Igbo lady from Orlu l.g.a Abia state.

We visited her Uncle during one of the holidays and he asked for my state of origin. He was SHOCKED when I told him that I am from Epe l.g.a, Lagos state. The next word he uttered was: I THOUGHT LAGOS IS NO MANS LAND, HOW COME YOU ARE FROM LAGOS.

I felt insulted and embarrassed that my would be in-law is calling my ancestral home a NO MANS LAND. That was the beginning of the end of the relationship.

Lmao! I know this isn't exactly funny but I can't help it.
You just allowed a man dictate your future with a few words.
Do people like this actually exist in the real world?!
Unbelievable!

prettyboi1989:
everybody is just talking off point here, d impression m getting here is that most of d commenters here are shallowminded individuals who have no value to add other dan to engage in idle tribalistic arguements.
1, d traders were against d demolition
2. an agreement was made for d demolition to start on d 4th of october only to b surprised with a sudden move by govt officials to demolish the shops on 1st of october.
Any one who cant respect an agreement can never be relied on for anything.
3. this is what made the traders to resist the demolition attempt and noted d fact that traders whose shops were demolished in d past were never compensated.
no1 is focusing on these issues, if ur family members depended on the survival of any of d shops dere ya'll wont be engaging in idle conversations here.
4.d govt officials are taking food off peoples tables with no compensation n some persons are dere cursing out ibo n yoruba tribes. its a shame.

Finally!
I was just looking for that lone, reasonable comment that is the norm in threads like this.
Now, I can stop reading.

icedbeatz:
Hahahahahahahahaha funny you, your sense of assessment is deplorable my dear, are your male relatives Nigerians? (smart question you asked), little boy? ohhh my my :-) well I've assessed you and have been reading Ronald's post and I can sincerely tell you that even in your next life you won't be able to acquire or be near his level of intelligence. Wisdom comes with no height, physique or age tag how am I not surprised you don't know that.

When I saw the notification of a mention on a thread that I thought was done, I was expecting to read some reasonable points not the usual praise filled comments for advocates of rape and other lowly activities.
Speaking of level of intelligence, I'm guessing you mean the one measured by chauvinism, misogyny and in general, the usual stupidity that's common among a large percentage of guys on here. Well, I'll definitely never want to reach/acquire such level of "intelligence"

Sagamite:

How many Igbo people give their children Igbo names?

I'm yet to meet an Igbo couple that didn't give their kids Igbo names

Double post.

Is the lady a learner?
You have to be extremely foolish to think that a Nigerian guy will do you a favour as a female and not expect sex in return.
Nigerian ladies need to learn that the only men in that society that wouldn't ask for sex in exchange for a favour are their fathers, brothers and in some cases, their uncles.
Never collect money or gift from some guy; friend, boyfriend, brother in the Lord. Whatever fancy name you choose to give him, he's still a random guy. My parents told me this when I was younger.

The only thing the lady in the op can do is to figure out a way to give this messed up friend of hers his money.

Why is this not on the front page?

nuelzy:
if dis woman nah 31...make my nyash tear reach neck.....kini??....una lies dey purge abeg

You seem to know her so well.
Why don't you tell us her definite age.

mamziii:
well not all fathers can commit incest like urs.

He definitely deserved this.

ifeomaekol:
Am d youngest in my family n d least liked---------- my mum often times ll call my elder sisters name wheneva she wnts to call me, (inwardly it hurts) bt am used to it n I thnk God for understanding, while growing up she took all d lime light, guess cos she was sO social, fun to be wt n I was on d reserved side. Wen it comes to d boys she loves dem die. Thnk God I stil turned out right. So yes most nt all parents love a particlar child more than d rest.

Oh! That must really hurt.
In the end, all things work together for good.
I hope you stay strong.

I hope it isn't weird that I find this funny

TeamSimple:
People from other regions of the country be attacking the north over issues of early child marriage,but their hypocrisy won't let them see that they are the worst problem to a girl child. News like this hardly comes from the north.
NB: Instead of putting a girl child into a life long trauma and possible societal rejection, I had rather marry her. Not in support of the two though,but in a worst scenario I will do the latter.

Oh please!
There's no difference between the two.
Ultimately, an adult has carnal knowledge of a child. It's disgusting.
Neither of the two is better.

Typical.
Why don't you tell the men not to steal public money.

For most Nigeian men, it's so easy to blame the woman.

naijaboiy:

Just shut the fuçk up lady if all you will do is to foam in the mouth and generalise.

If you won't get married to a nigerian man,,good for you. It's not affecting anything in our lives.

Just don't type bullshit because you've got a phone and probably a free internet connection.

Go meet your fellow dafties, little boy.
Oh, and feel free to keep quoting when you return

naijaboiy:

It's still the same nigerian male that you see on the streets who are on this forum. It's the same males you are generalising on now that you will still get married to or is already married to.

You'll just spit out pointless assertions without real facts.

99.5% kor!

Bullshit!

You got it all wrong in your first paragraph
but carry on

ronald4lif:


Applause for a wonderful remark. But don't you think the 99.5% quota is rather low, perhaps it'd have been 99.9% with remaining 0.1% allocated to your male relatives as I'm confident they must be equally daft like the NL guys.

Any lady who thinks Nigerian men mind are fvcked up must be a fvcktard themselves. If you feel all a guy wants from you is sex that's because sex is the only thing you've got to bring into the affair. Nonsense!

Ouch! Someone's hurt.
Ahaha! And where did the last sentence come from? Bringing my male relatives into this wouldn't change a thing, hun. I've seen some comments of yours on here, little boy. Face it, you're just as messed up as the rest.

Well, I'll let you in on what I told some other user. Save your energy. Your daughters will definitely be needing it

MrBasketball:

It's only a daft girl will say 95.5% of guys are daft.

**rolls eyes**
Save your energy, dear.
If you're living in Nigeria, your daughters will be needing much of it.

classicB:

ClassicB, your thread was right on point. You don't have to pay attention to these guys. Everyone knows 99.5% of the males on this forum are just daft, low self-esteemed chauvinists.

Quote me any day, the mind of the average Nigerian male is fucke.d up.
It's sickening. I tell you.

delectablegyal:



Which kind of s.tupid opinion is this?


How many keys have opened ur own lock?

Stupiid doesn't even begin to describe that "opinion".

Poor blackface

Do I really have to tell you that it's wrong to verbally abuse anyone, much less a child

KINGSAMURAI:
yea u tell me

Truckpusher:
Wrong .

I read your comment as a misrepresentation of doting fathers with no form of abuse in their mind consciously or unconsciously because they do exist.
Hope you dig?

Well, we can't take away the fact that abusive parents exist. We hear about them everyday. This abuse starts from somewhere and most times, the other parent is usually aware.
So, as you give him the benefit of the doubt (of being a doting father), remember, he could also be an abusive one.

Truckpusher:
Every opinion matters when kids are involved after all the society bears the brunt if one kid is emotionally unstable due to bad parenting or other factors but again we don't need to overreact here.

Fine, Truckpusher. Fine.
Although, it seems like you read my comment as an affront to men.
Right or wrong?

Truckpusher:
I got your drift but again you can always agree with me that some fathers are like this and saying that it is a sure way to abuses on his own part is simply an overreaction.

Fine. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.
It's not like my opinion matters anyway.

KINGSAMURAI:
and why is that?

Do you really need to ask?

Truckpusher:
In as much as some fathers dotes on their daughters I find it inappropriate for a man to bath his 12 yr old daughter but I still feel that the abuse aspect you were highlighting is simply an overreaction.

Overreaction? I don't think so.
A male adult that doesn't know it's time to stop scrubbing his daughter that has developing breastss, has hair in her vaginal region and has quite possibly started her menstrual cycle is not trustworthy.
The thought of it is disturbing.

KINGSAMURAI:
even the girl herself is a dundee

Please, leave the child out of your insults.

This is wrong. She's still a child but definitely not a little girl anymore. Besides, females hit puberty at an early age.
I don't care if the man is doing it innocently or not. He's an adult and should be reasonable enough to know it's time to stop. Where is her mother anyway?
I hate hearing things like this 'cause this is how abuse starts.

Obinoscopy:
I think he has been found.

Yes, he has.
I'm glad

Very shameless.

Nice argument op.
I completely agree with you

phiftz:

Why don't you tag the mods so they can do the right thing.

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