₦airaland Forum

Image123:
GDP is taught in Secondary school, we don't need politicians to bamboozle us about it. We know what it means, how it's calculated and so forth. With all the patchpatch ANIDS, WHO soon declared Onitsha as most polluted city in the world. Obi's family cannot live in Anambra.
Anambra governors can't openly support Obi till date. Abeg, talk another one.

How the fk are you dragging him with a ranking that was made 2 years after he left office?

PlayMaker14:
Do you love having nightmares?

Nightmares as to...?

Persephone1:
BTW I read your post again, why does it sound like you are begging for some compassion? cry cry baby, you wey i never start with.

I swear, e shock me sef o.

See both him and friend trying to call for a cease-fire like what I don't know lol.

advanceDNA:
I never said my opinion is standard...so why are u stating it as if i said so....??..

that said.

If she will be a team player...she wont be ending relationship over who will buy flowers or gifts...

You're not making your opinion the standard, yet you're dragging her over who she wants to buy flowers and gifts?

I have said she is a traditional woman that expects traditional actions from all indications, and she is likely going to be bringing other traditional benefits that doesn't have to do with money.

What is the problem with what I said biko? If she was forming independence and still wanted the man to provide, I would have had an issue with her. But she's willing to be a submissive woman to a provider man. That is her own idea of a relationship and she is not necessarily wrong.

Do what is in your mind to do and let the matter rest. :-|

You only live once, and there are plenty jobs out there, so...

But to find a Tinubu's picture like this, and from the mid 2000s in our backyard here, person go overturn the whole Library of Alexandria and still not come up with a thing.

B2B23:

Waaaaaaaiit. Na Peter Obi fine like this?

Phew.

Persephone1:
The guy is one seasonal e-idiot , yesterday he jumped on my post in family section unprovoked calling me all sort of names.Now that I want to show him the classic definition of "who're" and "werey" he is itching to sign a peace treaty with him mama

I will cure his seasonal madness for him if he doesn't know who to direct it to next time.

Ohhh. He went that far sef?

I only saw him saying something like 'you were acting like you have sense.' That's always his play rule. Insult, and then when you come for him, he tries to downplay and act all innocently.

Wipe the m*dress out of his dada very well, please.

advanceDNA:
I sincerely dont know the point of your long talk....u were all over the place...

Couples are suppose to have the mentality to help each other out when needed...nothing should be anybody's conventional role so that no one is under pressure..... weda its domestic work or financial...traditional or non-traditional, thats what team mentality means to me..
..whoever can do it should do it...if both of them can do it, they should both do it, including chivalry...

I was not all over the place, I was being holistic and if you fail to see the point I was making, that's on you.

Whatever anything means to you in this matter is not the standard for everyone else.

The babe's a traditional woman that expects the man to lead and be in charge and supply everything on the table.

What makes you think she wouldn't be a complimentary and submissive homemaker to the man?

And I definitely said the most important thing is communication and each couple finding out what works for them. Your idea of a team mentality is not the same for other people out there, and I clearly mentioned how how some get married to people they don't love enough to help.

I agree nothing should be the conventional role of anybody, and ideally, couples should share and help out each other, but alas, that's not always the reality.

Three times a day.

As a seasoned sexologist.

Persephone1:
The way you are pretending to have sense right now.

Na elemi geisha to n ma d'aku d'aji. Fashi am. Na classic on-and-off thing; e go soon revert back go im normal mode now.

Stop supporting Tinubu and port to the league of cool, fly, and beards-sporting men rallying behind Obi.

You will come here to give a different testimony in few days time.

Iru super story wo leleyi bayi?

Harddiskng:
These ***** girls cannot even afford the things they desire, if you can’t afford what you want for yourself; why should you think another person can afford to give you such.

Ask non-virgin men looking for virgins o.

The only people I am here for are traditional men who'll come to bash this babe.

*calmly observing the siesta before vawulence moments*

Harddiskng:
Lol I believe in gender equality.

Oh. Case closed then. I don't have no issues with you.

And I hope you don't only believe in gender equality when it comes to bills, lmao.

Harddiskng:
Lmao. If you check well. This girl has no job, no successful business, provides no value whatever…

…it beats me how such useless humans have the audacity to mutter the word “standard”. When its clear they are just hungry and greedy.

Nothing will ever satisfy you people, and I am not even moved by that at this point.

You people will scream about how you're the heads from morning 'till night, 365 days all round, and how you wanna be dominant shit that takes charge and LEAD a woman, but the moment a woman says exactly the same thing, kasala go burst.

E be things, lol.

"She doesn't have a job." Are you not supposed to be aspiring to marry a housewife who doesn't wear pants and submits to a boss in the corrupted modern world? O****.

Kingjebba:
Why are women now shouting equal gender. That gender is so confused

Because she's a traditional, and not a feminist woman?

advanceDNA:
She said she wants flowers, to be taken cared of....contributing to the table doesnt mean you man wont still care for you..

Make una dey calm down before ending relationship over things that mean one thing in discussion but different in practicable terms...

lack of team mentality is this woman's problem...some women just want marriage to be a ticket to not paying bills... it can even be when your man is very rich....if he's yet not blown, be ready to help without being told...

how do you women marry someone u love and still have the "i cannot help you" mentality

Lol...this is...

I hope you're not one of the men that talk about how women of nowadays are not like your mothers and modernity is spoiling things, bla bla bla. Because this lady's mentality is just exactly like our mothers.' She's a 'traditional' woman who believes in chivalry and headship and all attending standards, so what's your issue with it? Or unless you're not of them traditional guys sha.

For their relationship, I am sure she is bringing in things expected of her "as a woman" too. The only shortchanging would be if she's not a virgin.

And I am also hoping she has all the childbearing, childrearing, homemaking, emotional and domestic provisions in the bag that she's bringing to the table. Since she wouldn't share 50/50, I don't expect her to still want him to wash and clean, etc., "as a man."

Also, you say a man providing doesn't mean she won't bring anything to the table... I guess you're talking in terms of finances and romantic gestures. There's no where in that chat too the lady says she won't contribute once in a while, she's just saying it's not her role/job "as a woman", all the time.

Whatever will make you want a woman that contributes finances once in a while will also make you share in domestic duties once in a while.

All in all, communication and personal relational preferences takes number one. There's no one-size-fits-all.

As for the mentality you talk about, it is exactly the same way men marry women they don't love enough to share child- and home-care duties with. If you understand this, you'll understand why both sexes get married, but do not want to "help" each other out.

As usual, they'll not calm down and learn, but will keep on in their bullheadedness.

Nothing concern me and my future virgin husband sha; y'all can carry on in your selfish fornications.

God that did her own will did my own.

Easternmind:
Nothing like "Igbo coup" in ademoyega's 'Why we struck' whom was present during the plotting and execution of the coup.
Tribalism only crept into it all....

So how do you address the number of the people killed then?

A lot of people on this thread have mentioned the disproportionate numbers of Igbos that were killed during the coup vs. people of other regions that were killed?

pansophist:
Mtcheew, na mouth you get. No be woman you be? Just one gunshot now, you go run enter kitchen go wash plate, and leave the stage for real men wey carry violence for gene

Thankfully, we're not in that era of constant violence and I have plenty choices of paths, of which none involve brawns.

All I need is my wits, brains and professionalism for me to be at the top of many "strong men" lmao.

- from a staunch admirer of @firstladyship, @AmazonTopaz, Ndi Kato, Amina J. Muhammed, (small of) Aisha Yesufu, and other women political thought leaders

Tooooor.

I know who our (sensible collective Nigerians) votes go be for sha.

Photocopy no fit be like original... e clear!

MaliCampus:
Lmao @ the bolded. Same APC that people are ashamed of associating themselves with? Obi is a really giving me joy the way he goes about his campaign. 90% of NBA members vote in the bag for him, 90% ICAN members vote for him in the bag, the man is everywhere meeting the right groups and organisations He has been to CNN, BBC Arise tv channels TV etc.Who is your candidate again? Person wey no get Teeth, e dey drag bone. .,while Tinubu is busy meeting MC oluomo and APC members. That thing Obi did in Anambra state with an unknown APGA, he is about to do it again in Nigeria. He go shock the entire world

Pleeeeaseee, get out of my head! No, dude, get out!

I can see the parallels so clearly. Man did it with APGA!

And he will do it with LP. And you know whaaaat? PO will win either way, because if them rig am, my man go drag them go court. He fought for his rightful position in Anambra State for three years! Are you playing?!

PO can only win or win.

pansophist:
Violence no fit you. For my head, you sound so soft. You be choir?

According to multiple, subjective sources, I don't know how to use my voice, so no, I no be choir.

As for vawulence, don't even try to understand that part about me, lmao. I do anyhow as I want as my SPIRIT, not sex, leads. Na politics section turn to see am (that side of me) now, but omo, those guys were born, bred, and buttered in violence .

I go soon find a mentor sha, and I'll be good to go.