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Guitarlife: Good maybe you could help me stay up. I have exams and I have so much to read up on but my eye lids are beginning to kiss themselves.

oya wake up. *Pours sand in ur eyes so you can wake*

ayobase: Who be virgin....Onila?
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I dey laugh for Mandarine....Fashola likey me!

just wait make onila catch you. I no no know dey oh

nikkyshyne: ^^ you no know say some Virgins be guru in cuddling, smooching & kissing but still knows where to STOP?!. No dulling abeg.

me thinks say virgins no dey do those kind things

I spend hours condemning others, telling them they are doomed to hell. Jesus says thou shall not condemn, well i didnt condemn, they deserve hell i thought. They are sinners, big sinners. I admit i sin but its only little sins, i know God wil forgive me. Others wont be forgiven because their sins are too big.
I condemn 'men of God' without rest. They steal from people, they dont help the needy. But what about me? What about those equipments i have 'taken' from the office, what about that customer i had just cheated? What about the money meant for office budget i had just converted? Well, God will understand after all, i didnt have a choice.
Pastors dont help those in need, how many times have i helped a poor widow just next door? What about that orphan who needs love? Well, thats the job of the pastor.
Jesus is going to say to those pastors 'ye workers of iniquity get away from me' but will welcome me wit open arms? Well i doubt that. He'd probably call me a 'pharisee'
I criticize alas i'm guilty of what i criticize others for.
For i saw that man with no cloths, but spent so much on clothes which i rarely wore. I wasted food when there was an orphan in the streets who died of malnutrition.
I am not just a hypocrite if am guilty of the these, i am worse than a hypocrite.
Perhaps God will just over look it.

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Guitarlife: kkk, so we are agreeing twice in 6 hour's huh ? I'd say interesting. But why are you up this late ?

yea, interesting. i slept in the day time for more than four hours. Sleep has fled from me.

nikkyshyne: See you, you no sabi anitin.

sister nikki wetin i do na?

Eyaa no body is supporting u. Oya make i comment.

Guitarlife: I heard she does that every day and that you have grown a thick skin too. I'm quite surprised you are using that as an alibi. Ok maybe you want me to go first . I wouldn't mind isn't age just a number ? So should I ? If you consent then you are under obligation to state yours too. Lol.

well, i love the fact that am anonymous on NL. I'll send you a private email.

Guitarlife: *whispering* how can I know whether you are too young or not when you have not told me your age and your profile picture doesn't either.
So how old are you? Or maybe you can tell me your shoe size I will calculate your age from there. I heard there's a formula to that intent .

hahaha*whispering* my mummy will spank me.

onila: smooching

wetin concern virgin concern smooching?

Guitarlife: You still haven't answered the question but do not allow mr dgr8 know that you responded o. You can just whisper it I am all ears. And trust me my ears are quite big. Hehehee

hahaha..*whispering* Lol, am single. Everyone is telling me am too young. Is it true?;-(

fellis: So I am allowed to have premarital sexx as long as I don't do it with wh.ores?

did u read what i wrote before? ANYway, a LovePeddler is any person(m or f) dat is intimate be4 marriage. So as far as am concerned, if you deciede to hav sexx or have had sexx be4 marriage, you my dear, are a WHOR.E.

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sorry but i didnt read that. I asked for the passage which Jesus said 'another' comforter would come.

dagr8: wats d meaning of dat?

lolz

Guitarlife: Oh I forgot, christians are not allowed to engage in loose discussions.
I only asked a decent question and for crying out loud, get some sense of humour.
@bella, please can you sing ? Do you have a sonorous voice? I hope you are not an unbeliever ?*winks*

'em i sing in the choir sometimes bt dat doesnt mean i hav a good voice bt atleast i cn sing, lol.
Saved by His Grace and trying to hold steadfast. I lose faith many atimes, bt the lord is my strength.

Guitarlife: @mr dagr8, I must confess I am not as versed as you think I am . But I believe the most important thing to hold on to is precedence rather than inference.
I showed two precedences but you believe it's still ok to base your judgement on inference ?
I must admit my dream is to settle down with a good christian lady, with a good voice and an unparralleled interest in music cos that is my calling.
But this is not enough reason to pretend as if the bible does not accomodate those whose beliefs are quite different from mine.
The bible must be told the way it is not the way we think it should be otherwise the stories of indiscretion of great men like david and abraham would have been edited.
I hope this is clear enough. @bella are you single ? Lol.

i sound married right? I am a small baby ooh.

fellis: Really? Wasn't he just saying they should avoid the wh.ores not premarital sexy times?

if you avoid the who.res you are avoiding fornication.

Yucee55: Jesus did not abolish any law. He came to fulfill the Law. Read Matthew 5:17 "Think not that I came to destroy the law or the prophets: I came not to destroy, but to fulfil..."

when something is fulfiled, i believe it has come to pass right?

Great! We've reached an agreement.

[quote author=Maria-G]hear thee, OP....there is no difference between dating and courtship...infact the proper word is courtship.[/quote]

fellis: Did he say they should not commit fornication?

yes!

Guitarlife: I believe as christians the passage expects us to be impervious to the whims and caprices of an unbeliving partner. It further suggests that marrying unbelievers might actually be a way to win them over becos if we are truly born again then we should rather be ecstatic that the light of God in us will shine forth to redeem those lost souls rather than them having the capacity to change us.
In essence any christian who is rather won over by an unbelieving partner may have a weak faith to start with.
That is what that passage was pointing out from my own perspective.

Good. It is nt advisable for al christians?

[quote author=e-monkey]I don't know the answer to that but I'd rather ignore this strange fellow. Every single post that he has made so far since he joined Nairaland forum short while ago has either been to insult other people's viewpoint or to provoke controversy. He is the classic troll. English doesn't seem to come out okay for him as he says he is from Uruguay, and I think he is really a hacker in disguise looking for the best means to destroy the forum. This guy needs watching [/quote]i dnt want to agree, bt my spirit has already agreed.

fellis: The original message by Paul in his letters was not 'avoid sex before marriage', it was 'avoid the p.rostitutes and who.res in your town'. This was what I wanted to point out so why are you getting worked up?

an according to paul and early christains, every girl that sleeps with a man before marriage is a whor.e.

Acidosis: its in my first post

yea, i knw. Bt christianity has been able to define christian dating. I think the right word should be courting bt then nothing wrong in calling it dating, as far as it is properly defined.

I think you'd have to define dating first.

obadiah777: LOL nothing to be worried about Hun. The lord got your back if you got his back.

*sighs*

dagr8: BTW pls stop calling Bella Madam or Sir, she is Bella or u call her sweet Bella
dont let me take it personal wit u

Loool. Funny you!

Guitarlife: Exactly my thought's. Nothing give's you the exclusive right to pronounce such union as not advisable since you have tacitly agreed that the bible did not condemn it.
As christians whatever we propound that does not have a solid biblical backing is what is called unscriptural.
No matter how sensible it appears. The church is so much engrossed in sensationalisation that we have forgotten that the scripture says,
'we should not add or remove from the word of God'.
How did you conclude that it was not advisable ? What if God intentionally instructed your kid brother to marry an unbeliever so he can manifest his glory like he did with hosea and samson.
I am sure you will put your foot down and say you are not a part of it on the basis of he 'being unequally yoked with unbelievers'.
The things of the kingdom defy logic therefore whatever question or scenarios we are faced with as long as we do not have a clearcut biblical reference it's always best we excercise caution because we may be in danger of heresy if we are not careful.
And just like the bible says, iron sharpeneth iron. It will be good if we as christians can accept our mistakes when they are pointed out. It's a sign of humility.
God bless you.

thanks. I get your point. Bt kindly read 1 cor. 7:12 to 16 nd tell me what you understood from the passage.

Buzugèe what is wrong? Am seriously worried.

obadiah777: i like the way you think. i see where you are going with this

permit my errors in that post. How do you explain the passage?

Guitarlife: bella hi, I take you were too busy to have read my posts cos it's kinda surprising you are still argueing after I had given you concrete biblical references to debunk your blanket generalisation.
What do you make of God when he instructed hosea a prophet to marry a harlot.
What do you make of judges 14:4 which stated clearly that it was Gods plan for samson an isrealite to fall in love and get married to a daughter of an uncircumcised philistine.
Just like Goshen would say, anything that you cannot preach anywhere, at any time and under any condition is not the gospel.
Please kindly respond to my two questions .
God bless you.

Sir, did u read the last paragraph of my post?
If a christian marries an unbeliever the marriage and children are purified by the christ through the christian . This is from a passage in the bible (cant rememba exact verse). This shows that while u can marry an unbeliever, it is not advisable. Thanks.

musKeeto: Madam/Sir, the verse is do not be 'UNEQUALLY' yoked with unbelievers. And you'd be a HYPOCRITE if you criticise those Men of God without knowing them personally, just saying..

i know some personally sir!