Health › Re: Renua, Femi Giwa-Amu’s Daughter Commits Suicide After Rape Accusations by BENARI: 7:36am On Dec 29, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Do schizophrenics accuse their parents of rape? Did the schizophrenic girl you know accuse her dad of rape? If you read my post and perhaps did some research on the disease, you should be able answer those questions yourself. But again, like I said earlier, I'm not saying her parents didn't do what she's accusing them of, but just that there could be other possibilities. While rape accusation must be taken seriously, thorough investigation must be carried out to ensure an innocent life is not destroyed needlessly. And that innocent life could be yours. |
Health › Re: Renua, Femi Giwa-Amu’s Daughter Commits Suicide After Rape Accusations by BENARI: 9:08pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Those of you taking her story as fact ought to thread cautiously. Recently a friends daughter suffered schizophrenia, ran away from home, and was busy telling everyone how her Dad wanted to kill her and all. If I didn't know the family too well, I would have believed her. Funny enough, she accused her mum of hating her and her siblings of being jealous of her. I'm not ruling out her story, but I just think we should be careful the ease with which we accept stories of victims. Any one of us can become victim of a false accusation. Schizophrenics can be very suicidal too. |
Politics › Correction: Its Aniocha Not Onitsha by BENARI(op): 5:52pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Someone created a thread sometime ago asking if the name Onitsha is an Igbo word. Well here's the answer to that question; The Original name of the town is Aniocha and not Onitsha, and yes, you guessed it, Aniocha extend beyond to the other side of the niger river way into delta state. But then you must be wondering; how did the name survive in the Igbo speaking part of Delta State but changed to Onitsha on the other side?
The simple reason is the white man's arrival at the river port. When the white landed at the port of Aniocha(Onitsha) and began his trade with the people there, the best pronunciation he could come up with was something like a-ni-cha because of his accent, and as you know, the man who truely gives the name by which history will remember a person or place is the man who pens the name on paper. By the time the local people could learn to read and write, the name Aniocha had now been written as Onitsha by the white man for some long years. This error is not peculiar to Aniocha(Onitsha) alone, no, it is a very common error that permeates different geographical locations, cultures, etc in particularly Africa and some parts of Latin America. Reason being, we did not have a literate culture of our own which is why we do not have a record of our history before the white came. Some of this errors have been traced and corrected but most remain, perhaps lost in the sands of time. |
Politics › Re: What May Likely Play Out.(eastern Security Network(esn)) by BENARI: 11:45pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Exc2000:

Marching jobless armless weaponless bunch of Kanu worshipers are not a threat to any Government
Federal government would ignore them
Ibo State Government would ignore them
Northern and Southwestern Politicians who got Hisbah, Civilian JTF, Amotekun legally registered would simply laugh at Ibos and their Politicians
. Hope you've eaten your word now? |
Politics › Re: Eastern Security Network- Asari Dokubo Speaks by BENARI: 9:13pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
The cry is getting loud |
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Politics › Re: Massob Leader, Ralph Uwazuruike's Take On Nnamdi Kanu Eastern Security Network by BENARI: 6:06am On Dec 15, 2020 |
A word is enough for the wise. Nnamdi Kanu is building an army not a vigilante. |
Politics › Re: For Those Saying Photoshop Nnamdi Kanu Show Video Of Biafran Scorpions by BENARI: 2:10pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
If this is what they it is, then that means Nnamdi Kalu has got powerful international and local support, and another civil war is inevitable.
No one can secretly form an army in a sovereign country without sleeper cells in the government. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 1:28pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Favemmzar200: please tell me some steps. Daddy can be stubborn gan, he even went to farm yesterday  Ok, I will. You can do me a pm |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 10:09pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
nickishire: This topic hits hard. I lost my dad to hemorrhagic stroke barely two weeks ago. So sorry for your loss. Please take heart RIP to Dad |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 7:11pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:44pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Depressed101: op nice work. I will keep up with you. Honestly I feel the same way you do. I can begin to count how many times I've asked my parents "how e take die" their reply will always be "he slumped and died" or "he slept and didn't wake up". It's that bad and very rampant, even at such there is statistics from NBS to quantify the impact of this health condition.
I was greeted with the same reception you got when I tried to enlighten my own family and friends "what heart attack" really is and how we can learn manage it.
I get replies like "abeg, person wey dey healthy yesterday?, dem don kill that one since, na spiritual" I stopped enlightening them. But my interest in the subject has been rekindled reading your post..
I think the best thing to do is find an NGO in health sector that we can bring their attention to about the subject and have them create awareness. What do you think I agree with you 100%. A noble idea! I'm personally thinking of creating perhaps a YouTube channel through which to educate our people on matters like this and more. But that's all I've been able to do thus far, "thinking" and no more.  I can get in touch with you if you wish. You can quote me with a means of contact if safe to do so here. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:30pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
enokings: Personally I'm taking the time to know the cause of the disease that eventually leads to this emergencies and also taking steps that could likely help prevent things from getting so bad, and I think the time has come for each and everyone to begin doing the same. Because I'm not a medical professional, I cannot recommend what people should or shouldn't do to reduce their risk, however, I'll gladly share materials that can educate people on lifestyle choices that can help them.
Lost a young colleague 3 days ago to this. Very apt topic So sorry for your loss. The problem is very alarming. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:26pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
higgs: Thanks OP My pleasure |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:25pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
ALEX182: Hemorrhagic stroke is more deadly because of bleeding in the brain and the compression of the brain by the bleeding. If immediate intervention isn't carried out, death is sure. This condition usually leaves it survivors with permanent disabilities.
Myocardial infarction or heart attack on the other hand is less fatal even without intervention. But the problem with a heart attack is that the part of the heart that doesn't receive blood flow due to ischemia becomes less functional. This eventually leads to heart failure and eventually death in the long run. This process may take years too. Thanks for the enlightenment. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:22pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
itoroakban: I'm logging into Nairaland for the first time in 3 years to reply to this post, because this one hits close to home, my mother had an hemorragic stroke in early September, and it's by the Grace of Google that she survived.
Mum's stroke occurred on the morning of September 6, she suddenly started complaining of intense headache, and for the first 10 minutes my younger sister and I were confused not knowing what to do. It was only after quickly googling for the cause of sudden intense headache that I saw that 'Thunderclap Headaches' were one of the major symptoms of Hemorragic Stroke.
We rushed her to a nearby hospital, where they checked her bp and found it was 190 over something (can't really remember the specific figure). She was in a coma for 3 days, then in a minimally conscious state for 2+ weeks where she was conscious but couldn't move any part of her body.
She started recovering in early October, and Physically she's now fully recovered, but memory wise, my heart breaks every day. The stroke led to my wonderful, funny, witty, joke-telling mother losing a major portion of her memories prior to the Stroke, and completely losing the ability to form new memories. She can cook, do things around the house, and hold a basic conversation, but whatever she does in the morning, she forgets by evening, and during the evenings her condition worsens. She wakes up after an afternoon nap thinking it's early in thr morning, brushes more than 4 times a day because she's forgotten that she has already brushed, and lots of other minor heart-wrenching issues.
And to be honest, all this is my fault. After mum was diagnosed of high blood pressure in 2018, I should have bought a bp checking machine for her to use in checking her bp every morning, so as to know whether or not to take a blood pressure reducing drug, but foolishly the thought never crossed my mind.
So I'm begging everyone who reads this, please and please, PLEASE, don't be as stupid as I was, if a loved one has high blood pressure, please either get a bp machine for her to check her blood pressure every morning and ask a pharmacist/doctor for bp medications she can be taking regularly, or at the very least take her to a nearby pharmacy every week to check her bp. If you're too busy, beg someone close to you to be doing it. Because if the loved one gets a Hemorragic stroke in Nigeria today, whether she recovers or not, you've lost her.
It's been more than 3 months, and I consider myself a very strong hearted person, but every 2 or 3 days, I look at mum, and I break down in tears. O my God! I just shed tears now reading your story. I'm so sorry with what you're going through. Well, thank God you still have your Mum with you. Hopefully her condition continues to improve. And please stop blaming yourself; every tragedy in life could have been averted, but tragedies keep happening. That's solid proof we are imperfect. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:07pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Mutemenot: We medical Checkup here, we believe only the sick goes to the hospital not knowing we have some illness that has little or no symptoms .. infact some illness develops symptoms at the point of death. With regular medical Checkup, we 'll easily overcome the challenges... Sad to say This, my father of died stroke, alot believed it was a spiritual attack but I know it wasn't.. Sorry about the loss of your Dad. RIP to him |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:04pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
lecoeur: Nice write up says a lot about our carelessness regarding our health issues. My dad was really been ignorant about his health challenge until he slumped one day got ill, man is fighting partial stroke now. Too bad Wishing you beloved Dad a quick and steady recovery. Thank God he survived |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 5:00pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Dvin: Yes they do. Managed one case recently, haemrrhagic stroke. Px was very bad at presentation. I didn't believe he could make it initially. Wanted to refer to the specialist, neurologist but the relatives declined on account of financial constraint. The px made it but has mild neurological deficits. Still on recovering process though. Thanks for providing care. You are a Hero. We celebrate you. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:59pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Farki: Thank you for creating this topic and thank you mods for pushing it to the front page.
The best way to protect yourself is to first know your cardiovascular health status and if you are an individual who is at risk. Such people are;
- People over 40 especially men. - People who are overweight - People with a family history of cardiovascular disorders - People with stressful jobs or going through traumatic life situations - People who abuse drugs
You can prevent sudden heart attacks by - Knowing your family history - checking and testing with your doctor regularly, preferably once a month if you are a high risk individual. - maintaining a healthy weight and diet - and very important stay off recreational drugs.
I know of someone who survived but it was a real struggle and most of her mobility has been compromised. She's still very sharp mentally though. Thanks for the guide |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:56pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Sonnobax15:
. Op, Nigerians have been wired to survive any kind of heart attack,no matter how hard it may be.... There's no amount of heart break that can disfigure me.....
Chelsea just gave me a heart attack yesterday
common ordinary over 2.5 Dem no fit play Lampard just go use my money take cook draw soup yesterday  |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:55pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
InvertedHammer: / If you perform CPR and the patient dies later, how do you explain yourself to the police and the family members? To be a good Samaritan in Nigeria is an invitation to trouble.
If you take an accident victim or armed robbery victim to the hospital, your problems have just multiplied.
/ You're perfectly on point with the concerns you've raised. That's why everyone should be involved in this. Not just the people, but also those in authority. The government must encourage people to save lives whenever possible without having to be punished for doing so. Looks like there's being some progress in that direction of late. For example, accident victims are now attended to without police presence, but much more needs to be done, I agree. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
HUSTLER001: My dad died of stroke and now your post is bringing back memories. We did everything to make him make good use of his limbs again but then death strikes.RIP Dad. O so sorry for your loss. And sorry my post brought back sad memories. I hope is that we can all be moved to save lives whenever possible. RIP to your Beloved Dad |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
paulolee: nice post..love d contents Thank you. The goal however is to awaken our consciousness in this area. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:45pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
dynicks: Na only wealthy Nigerians fit experience that one.....or have u ever heard of a poor Nigerian that have died of either of those attacks before?.....the level of suffering a poor man suffers in this country pass heart attack still yet they survive it......abeg none of them get level for where street niggars dey.........That thing dey observe face/condition first before it attacks Well, I wish you were right. The vast majority of those who blame unexplained deaths on spiritual attacks are the very poor. By the way, I know some poor security men who have slumped and died on duty. |
Health › Re: Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Favemmzar200: I love this write up so much
Just two weeks ago my dad slumped at the church. Its still by Gods grace he recovered in less than a week Please accept my sympathies. Thank God your Dad survived it. You must however help him take necessary steps to avoid a recurrence please. |
Health › Heart Attacks And Hemorrhagic Strokes: Do Nigerians Survive These Attacks? by BENARI(op): 12:19pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
It is with a sense of dismay that I create this thread. I don't know about you, but I've observed particularly in the last decade or two that more and more Nigerians are dying suddenly; either they slump, sleep and not wake up, or simply let out a shout(my head my head my head), and next thing you know, they are gone. These 3 scenarios are typical of Heart attacks, Cardiac arrest, and Hemorrhagic Strokes.
Sad to say, a lot of the people I know, even seemingly very literate ones tend to blame such deaths on spiritual attacks, and for that reason I believe we miss the opportunity to fashion out a way to prevent as much as possible, a recurrence.
I've often wondered why everyone I learnt had a heart attack in Nigeria or a Hemorrhagic stroke ends up dying. Perhaps I've not been very observant, but I've never met a survivor of any of these medical emergencies. Mind you, I'm not talking about the less severe stroke that usually partially paralyze a part of the body. Ironically, in the western world, statistics shows that only a third of victims end up dying from these emergencies. Some persons have even survived repeated heart attacks.
Well, I know some will say we don't have the facilities and emergency response, yes, but even those who do make it to the hospital end up dying. On the part of the populace, we are usually helpless when such emergencies occur which I find rather unfortunate. Now let me say this, the reason why people end dying from heart attacks particularly in Nigeria, is not only due to inadequate facilities, but also due to ignorance. A simple CPR(chest compress) which can be performed by anybody can and have saved many lives(a CPR is by no means a solution to heart attacks, but can help to keep the victim alive till medical professionals take over management). I simply cannot understand why both the government and we the people have not yet seen the need to educate ourselves about this simple live saving procedure. Personally I've tried to train loved ones on this procedure, but often they laugh it off or don't take it seriously. They're usually quick to label me a coward, pessimist or faithless person. I'm certain I'll do whatever I can to help a heart attack victim if I encounter any such emergencies, but I sometimes worry that no one will be able to come to my aid if I were to be a victim some day.
I think we need a change of attitude toward this sudden killers. More and more are dying needless deaths, and we can do more that just blowing breeze or pouring water on victims while we wait for them to die. We need to educate ourselves, our spouses, children, friends, and relatives. Your effort can save a loved ones life including yours. This emergencies can befall anyone irrespective of age or gender(although men 30 years and above are disproportionately affected, but women over 45 years of age are at increased risk)
Doctors and Medical professionals in the house please throw more light on this topic; how to prevent the conditions that leads to this medical emergencies and what to do when such emergencies do occur. I'm however aware of the ignorance and debate that exist in the medical field as to what causes the disease that leads to these emergencies.
The sudden death trend is an alarming one in Nigeria that should be declared a national emergency in my view. Looks like 2 in every 3 deaths this days are sudden.
Personally I'm taking the time to know the cause of the disease that eventually leads to this emergencies and also taking steps that could likely help prevent things from getting so bad, and I think the time has come for each and everyone to begin doing the same. Because I'm not a medical professional, I cannot recommend what people should or shouldn't do to reduce their risk, however, I'll gladly share materials that can educate people on lifestyle choices that can help them. |
Family › Re: Pius Angbo: Channels TV Reacts To News Of Their Staff Who Beat Up His Wife by BENARI: 3:04pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
dotedote: Never set foot in which home ? Where are you ? Restriction orders aren't given here. Wake Up! It's in his best interest and that of the wife and children. The next thing he will do is to kill the woman and maybe himself. For the sake of himself, the woman and the children, they should never be together again until perhaps they can resolve thier differences if at all possible. But infidelity matter whether true or suspected is hardly ever resolved. |
Family › Re: Pius Angbo: Channels TV Reacts To News Of Their Staff Who Beat Up His Wife by BENARI: 2:59pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
morgstreme: Violence against anyone isn't acceptable.. . But then,it isnt right to take sides with the "victim" without a fair hearing from both parties involved I'm not taking sides, never! Just condemning the condemnable. Nothing justifies that kind of violence against ones wife or husband. A man or woman capable of doing this to a mate is a danger to live with. My gut feeling is that the woman is probably violent tongued, but no married person goes to jail for running thier mouth. We need to learn when to call it quite before we ruin our lives and that of others. Irrespective of who the guilty party is, he's the monster now before the eyes of the law, the public, and his own Children. |
Family › Re: Pius Angbo: Channels TV Reacts To News Of Their Staff Who Beat Up His Wife by BENARI: 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
This is too bad.
The guy must be made to face the law. At the very least he must never set foot in that home again while at the same time paying children welfare.
You Ladies here, keep the number of children small, to make it easier for you, in case you have to care for them alone. How she wan take care for 4 children now. Men are losing it . |
Politics › Re: Which Tribe In Nigeria Do You Consider Most Honest? by BENARI: 10:30am On Dec 06, 2020 |
MightySparrow: mine is not, your contribution shows you are not honest, maybe you are representing your own tribe, be bold to tell us where you are from. Ok Mr. Journalist. I'll tell you, I'm coming.... |