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CrimeRe: Ese Oruru: Yunusa Dahiru Sentenced To 26 Years In Jail By Court by bencarson007(m): 2:36pm On May 21, 2020
Iyiataata92:
If the sentences run concurrently, then he'll be spending seven years in jail which, to me,is too small
The north should know that this their stupid act of marrying kids can only be tolerated in their region.
Any attempt to expand their criminal marriage to the south will be met with stiff resistance
Girls from the south are more than objects for the other rooms.
Over Here, We Don't Marry Kids And You Guys Should Respect That

Still, Seven Years Is Too Small
I followed this story bumper to bumper then when punch newspapers still had sense...

7 years is too small abeg
RomanceRe: Pls. Help! My Sister Now Fights With Me (What Should I Do?) by bencarson007(m): 5:48pm On May 20, 2020
Toxay:
She is an adult of some sort, you don't slap or beat a 17/18 yr old, you gain nothing from doing that but you can punish them through other means like not providing any financial support. That would actually hurt her
She is a kid...
Wetin she don see for life
She dey chop house food and go out go carry big manhood up and down no mean say she no go know where her boundary stops.

She is lucky she was not born as my sister... I no care o... Keep your respect but I will defend my honor to the last

What the hell
RomanceRe: Pls. Help! My Sister Now Fights With Me (What Should I Do?) by bencarson007(m): 5:45pm On May 20, 2020
Humanoid01:
Wow!

There are some things you need to learn here. As weird as this seems, this might be an opportunity for you to get her to come back to her senses.

Don't think about the fact that she slapped you, this isn't about your ego, but her attitude. Also, ignore the fact that she doesn't want to greet or talk to you at all. That was expected, after beating her up and considering her attitude.

Right now, you need to humble yourself and walk up to her, then apologize for laying your hands on her. Tell her that you didn't mean to do that, and you were just surprised about her recent attitude. Please be really sincere. If you are sincere enough, chances are she'll consider your apology and be cool.

From there, you can tackle the issue by having a heart to heart talk with her, ask her questions that you think might have a thing to do with her attitude. Be prepared to hear the worst, and learn to be calm, so your reaction doesn't kick start another outburst of anger.

You didn't get close enough to her, and you were probably being too hard on her, that's one of the reasons she "grew wings" . So now is that opportunity to get really close to her and instill those values you intend for her to have. I don't need to be too explicit for you to know what I mean. Again, please be calm, nor go let your anger make mata worse o.
Bros God no go shame us o.

There is a difference between discipline and allowing anger to get the better of you.

Abeg no vex, I go beat her mad and later call her and talk to her.

WTF
RomanceRe: Pls. Help! My Sister Now Fights With Me (What Should I Do?) by bencarson007(m): 5:41pm On May 20, 2020
Mira4Ashawo:
it's because you're broke and still staying with your parents.
You better go hustle, make money and get a nice apartment and your younger sister will respect you.
God punish owu

gbam you said it all.
God bless you.
Being broke is not a crime especially not among siblings. Everything and everybody get time and season. There is supposed to be honor among siblings and if the parents can't help him defend his honor, he should defend himself...the small witch even carry hand slap him sef... If na my younger age, she is finished. No be lie o
RomanceRe: Pls. Help! My Sister Now Fights With Me (What Should I Do?) by bencarson007(m): 5:28pm On May 20, 2020
17-18

I am the eldest in my house and my immediate younger sister is just 2 years younger but she knows that a Bleep up from her, I dey treat am as war and all of them plus my brother respect seniority.

Now if this is a kid you really watch grow, bros leave all this bla bla bla advice of she being an adult and you being broke. Guy even if you broke, you no kill person. Abeg defend your honor first na. Show her you came to earth first.

Guy wear her multiple slaps and forget wetin momsi talk o... Shoe get size na
She dey mad or na relaxer dey her brain?

She won't dare that rubbish with me o...
You need to meet my sisters... They know when to draw the line because before I left home, I was war on my own. I take no prisoners.

Haba

WTF
RomanceRe: Meet Another 2020 Youngest Couple From Kogi State Set To Workdown The Aisle [pho by bencarson007(m): 5:19pm On May 20, 2020
Wetin these ones don see?
Na wa o
God bless their union
CelebritiesRe: Meet The Mother Of 2face, The Tafidan Of Kudenda Kingdom, Who Never Wanted Him T by bencarson007(m): 5:16pm On May 20, 2020
This woman is cute o...
How come she fresh like this even at her age
God is good.

May all our mothers enjoy good health and be around to enjoy our successes in Jesus name.
Amen
PoliticsRe: The Secret Behind Low COVID-19 Infections In Africa by bencarson007(m): 5:10pm On May 20, 2020
What the developers of this shitty virus planned, didn't work out same as they did with Ebola...

It backfired on them and this is the result.
Imagine Sudan with very very very low death rate
CelebritiesRe: I Only Told Anita To Test My Boyfriend To Know If He Truly Loves Me, Not Married by bencarson007(m): 5:04pm On May 20, 2020
Sorry o
What you tried was expensive.

Same thing has happened to other silly women over and over again
PoliticsRe: 2023: See The Only Man Who Can Scuttle Tinubu's Presidential Ambition by bencarson007(m): 9:30am On May 20, 2020
bolaayenimo:
Tinubu even saved his ass from impeachment
You get the point now
PoliticsRe: Breaking News - We Want To Go Back To China But There Is No Plane by bencarson007(m): 8:26am On May 20, 2020
This na story abeg... How una take come
People that even FG did not know their whereabouts suddenly surface and want to go home.
Hian
Nothing Musa no go see for gate lol
PoliticsRe: 2023: See The Only Man Who Can Scuttle Tinubu's Presidential Ambition by bencarson007(m): 8:23am On May 20, 2020
Ambode can't do shit... He gave up without a fight and now he is in limbo
He is not planning anything.
People should allow him enjoy his defeat in peace abeg
RomanceRe: My Breast Skin Died, But A Photographer Saved Me (full Video) by bencarson007(m): 8:21am On May 20, 2020
Vitiligo is not a joke.
Be strong lady. You will be fine
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 11:55am On May 19, 2020
Babyforever:
Because i read what you wrote like you were present saying it the exclamations was what made me laugh "who said so , i'm not married o" cheesy cheesy cheesy
It's alright
Guess you are good
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 8:54am On May 19, 2020
Babyforever:
I took time off just to laugh cheesy cheesy cheesy
I am trying to understand why... It's okay though
RomanceRe: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by bencarson007(m): 5:44am On May 19, 2020
Ladycewhy:
person dey borrow transport fare from e wife you dey advise am to get side chick grin grin, didn't you read where he stylish pointed out that he is broke undecided
Babe relax... Lol...
No be all side chicks dey collect bar from men
This nigga needs his peace right now.
Give me timetable for sex kwa... Odiegwu
Na as the spirit leads o.

E too much we go return bride price o
Haba for wetin I pay put...
Abeg baby I can't do it...

Give me my peace or I move

As for being broke, local man is not ready to hustle... I dodge carry blocks and concrete that year so that we no go beg... Today the story is different na.

If land finish, we go vex buy house...
Na hustle we dey.
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 5:39am On May 19, 2020
Babyforever:
Are you married like they say ?
Who said so... �
I am not married o
Maybe they have seen one or two posts that I personalized to drive home my points
But No I am not married
PoliticsRe: Ekpenyong Akom Killed In Calabar Cult War by bencarson007(m): 11:49pm On May 18, 2020
Ihategirls:
Plot twist, Marcus is not your younger brother, you are Marcus!!!
I have nothing to prove to you sister.
If you think everyone lies like you, then sorry I can't help you...

Wonderful night sweetie
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 11:47pm On May 18, 2020
Babyforever:
I not always here
Okay...
Have fun
AutosRe: Meet The All-new 2021 Toyota Venza (photos) by bencarson007(m): 9:42pm On May 18, 2020
This car teck o...
Make girls safeguard themselves o because some boys go vex dey find people for sacrifice now o...

Just a joke but this car is seriously dope
PoliticsRe: PHOTOS; President Buhari Receives General TY Danjuma At This State House, Abuja by bencarson007(m): 9:38pm On May 18, 2020
What's Danjuma doing there

Is that not the same idiot called Buhari that refused showing up when citizens ask after him but now comes out to welcome another fool with no business with Aso Rock...

Of what benefit is this news to us now?
RomanceRe: South Korean Football Club, FC Seoul Use Sex Dolls To Fill Empty Stadium(photo) by bencarson007(m): 9:36pm On May 18, 2020
Nbote:
Dis one week me ooo
What of month you... Lol

Na joke o
PoliticsRe: Buhari’s Chief Of Staff, Ibrahim Gambari Resigns Appointment by bencarson007(m): 9:31pm On May 18, 2020
What's wrong with this OP...
This is misleading na... Please change topic abeg
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 9:30pm On May 18, 2020
Babyforever:
smiley
Baby where you hide since na...
PoliticsRe: Kaduna: Army General Arrested For Flouting Lockdown Order by bencarson007(m): 9:28pm On May 18, 2020
Do these idiots even know who an Army General is....

He is not a church general overseer o...

Make I no talk first
CultureRe: Oba Of Benin, Queen Iyayota Welcome Baby Boy by bencarson007(m): 9:23pm On May 18, 2020
Born a blue blood
Born to enjoy

Long live the Oba...

Oba gha tokpere...

Iseeeee
RomanceRe: I Finally Broke Up With Her (pictures) by bencarson007(m): 9:17pm On May 18, 2020
seanwilliam:
you are saying nonsense with full confidence sir
I am only responsible for what I know not what you believe sir.

I respect your response.
Thanks alot
RomanceRe: I Never Wanted To Have Sex With Her On The First Visit by bencarson007(m): 4:36pm On May 18, 2020
[quote author=goodman41 post=88162638]I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?[/quote


Be who you want her to be

You are selfish bro.
Are you sure you are looking for a wife or a kpanshing material.

Why don't you be a good man and let nature do the rest...

My opinion though.
Bye
PoliticsRe: Ekpenyong Akom Killed In Calabar Cult War by bencarson007(m): 4:29pm On May 18, 2020
brightology3:
hmmmmmmmm

deep breath.

Na wa ooooo.

Things dey happen.

Thank God for im life,

do make u self go join am abeg, nija tire person
Dem no dey tell person the story

Na movement men dey plan for now abeg
PoliticsRe: Ekpenyong Akom Killed In Calabar Cult War by bencarson007(m): 2:16pm On May 18, 2020
Abouwaza:
I'm thankful for Marcus and his life
If I share my experience ehn, nairaland go ban me
Bros the story dem plenty
I understand sha

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