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PoliticsRe: Sultan Rubbishes "Operation Shege Ka Fasa" Outfit by bencarson007(m): 9:18am On Feb 07, 2020
There was a country
CrimeRe: Don't try too hard to prove that you're righteous or perfect by bencarson007(m): 8:00pm On Feb 06, 2020
constancefriday:
I simply want to tell everyone that without House On The Rock (Fake) Church, the World will be a better place. I have nothing more to say. That place is the worst place to find yourself on a Sunday or any other worship day. If you truly desire to know God properly, and serve God in Spirit and in truth and you're going to that Church, you're wasting precious time. I say this without anger, hate, malice or grudges. It's just plain truth.
Thanks.
Oga give facts or shut up
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by bencarson007(m): 7:49pm On Feb 06, 2020
Timileyin1234:
Women narrate something for u and u take it to heart. They are destruction if one is not careful
She doesn’t even say the good part of the BIL
If u register on inmessage, u see different girls that want to get laid by men for shikini amount. I only have respect for virgin
Got you bro... But there are also some devilish virgins too... Bros as for the BIL, he error as he take dey drag kitchen with madam... That's her sanctuary... Bros no go there...
I greet you bros
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by bencarson007(m): 7:24pm On Feb 06, 2020
Timileyin1234:
Ask the woman fess whether the husband met her as a virgin. Do u know how much pussy cost these days bro
What's your point sir... What that little bugger is doing is wrong and he needs to Bleep off it cos he is gradually pissing this woman off.... Haba
FamilyRe: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by bencarson007(m): 6:32pm On Feb 06, 2020
Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?
Madam, you are gonna get a lot of wrong pieces of advices from here...

First of all note that this is your new home... So kindly let the little bugger know that.

That you allowed him dip hands into your cooked food when still dating don't give him the right to do so now that you are married.

I am a man and I always do something... I protect my woman... What brings her peace and happiness is what I will do... My kid bro won't dare dip hands in my wife's pot when she didn't give her express permission. Some little things we take for granted are actually relationship spoilers...

If the kid bro had any sense, he would know that he needs to respect the home owner and not come and start disregarding her...

Auntie your husband is your problem... If he allows this shot to continue, then he respects you not...

I once told my family members to stay the hell away from any woman I bring home... If she make any wrong moves that don't go down well with them, they should tell me and allow me do the discipline part rather than them talk to her in ways that would cause fraca... It's called protecting my woman...

Fix that little bugger before he bleeps you up...

Little rascal
AutosRe: Lexus Rx 350 2005 #2.1m by bencarson007(m): 11:56am On Feb 06, 2020
Slimpink:
lets do it for 1.95m call me or text me
1.9 bro... E no easy Na bros
SportsRe: Odion Ighalo In A Manchester United Shirt (First Picture) by bencarson007(m): 7:53pm On Feb 05, 2020
illitrate:
I am already great.
Good for you sir
SportsRe: Odion Ighalo In A Manchester United Shirt (First Picture) by bencarson007(m): 4:03pm On Feb 05, 2020
illitrate:
Dont know why Manu Like useless players, Like Ighalo like kpoba angry
Bros sorry o... To attain greatness go hard you o... Why you no fit rejoice for the guy...
SportsRe: Odion Ighalo In A Manchester United Shirt (First Picture) by bencarson007(m): 4:00pm On Feb 05, 2020
foreshore:
With all una Oloosho abi?
I don't understand you sir...
AutosRe: Lexus Rx 350 2005 #2.1m by bencarson007(m): 4:03am On Feb 05, 2020
Can it fly for 1.9m
SportsRe: Odion Ighalo In A Manchester United Shirt (First Picture) by bencarson007(m): 4:00am On Feb 05, 2020
This guy has God as his very close pal and dad... God been pulling grace strings for men since immemorial times... Chai... Baba God uwese
PoliticsRe: Protest Under GEJ Vs Prayer Walk Under Buhari by bencarson007(m): 9:17pm On Feb 02, 2020
Fear is real... �
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Compilations Of Type Of Animals/meats Sold In Wuhan (+8graphics) by bencarson007(m): 11:00am On Feb 02, 2020
God have mercy.... See crocodile barbecue.... Jesus
CelebritiesRe: Comedian And Actor, Okey Bakassi Gets Driven In A Car By His First Daughter by bencarson007(m): 10:11am On Jan 31, 2020
Shibaraba:
Money good I swear .See as them fresh papa still leave motor for Pikin to drive.

My papa motor if you no sabi maths you no fit drive am. We go first find the area of where he park. Come use Pythagoras theorem find the adjacent to the wall where he park. I kid you not peeps we go still use chalk draw the exact location of the tires. Then there was no camera so we have to know how dirty the rim be. For if e over clean he go catch us. If e dirty he go still catch us. When we successfully tiff and return the car na to open bonnet dey fan engine. Make e cold before alaye come. Still the guy man go still catch us.

One day I go flex bash the car. Na from there I lost. I see my face for paper before I return home. As I return My papa happy cry tears of joy. Cook food. Kiss me. I happy say I Don safe


Guy man still wake me for night beat stupid and baskard comot for my body
You no well o... Laugh Don kill me here I swear
PoliticsRe: MURIC: "Amotekun Is A Christian Name, Must Be Changed" by bencarson007(m): 8:40am On Jan 28, 2020
goodnessme1:
I think muric is right.


Why are Amotekun members mostly christian,even when we Yoruba muslims are more in population here.

At least 92% muslims 8%christians.
Ogbeni shut up and sit down... Where did you get that lousy statistic from
PoliticsRe: Mr Malami's Bias: If Amotekun Is Not Legal, Who Legalized This? - Pictures by bencarson007(m): 4:45am On Jan 20, 2020
This country dey go in ways I can't comprehend... May God help us all...


As for Malami and his co-travellers, everyday for the thief and one day yawa go gas...
TravelRe: Truck Crushes 13 Passengers On Ogbomoso-Ilorin Expressway (Disturbing Photos) by bencarson007(m): 11:00pm On Jan 19, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Don't be scared of death. Even next three weeks am going to Abuja from Benin city to rectify my passport issue because have been banned from entering Dubai. And i will be using God is good Moto. So anything can happen to me on my way to Abuja. Am not scared niggarrr. Infact am going to book front seat because i heard front seat is dangerous. I repeat am not scared.
Let me tell you a secret niggarrr

For every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die
Death is only the beginning
We were born to die.

Like i will always say: The only prayer we should be praying as real niggarrrz is for us to smoke enough weed, drink enough beer, bang enough pussy and make some dope money before we die
Right now am in play house in Benin city drinking enough beer
Brother you right... I dey Royal Marble like this like this... If you know you know
CelebritiesRe: David Ifeanyi Adeleke Is American Citizen Officially by bencarson007(m): 8:49pm On Dec 19, 2019
Zombiekiller010:
Up till now my parent haven't tell me the reason why they make me a Nigerian, me that i was on my way to the womb of a mother that lives in a country where things works fine, they now hijacked me.

How can God give me options of Citizenship that i will now choose to be a Nigerian when I'm not mad.


Dude you have my respects... Salute boss... Please show us the way and leave those slowpoke that are arguing rubbish


Youre stupid, i packed into my own house @24, did i ever mentioned American citizenship? Is America the only country that works fine, you're stupid for replying me senselessly , tell me your achievement as at the age i became a landlord, dont just come to nairaland to insult people because this is a faceless forum, expressing my feelings that i wouldn't have choose to be a nigerian if i had the option before ending up in womb, how is that your headache ? Did buhari's Children studied in Nigeria? has he ever taken treatment here in Nigeria? boy, use your brain.if you watched the video of NDLEA aptitude test and you're still telling me you're proud been a Nigerian then you're sick, i won't be surprise if some mofos start to ask for my source of income to became a landlord at 24, just because they are raised in a country where it is hard to make it.

because you find it hard to buy half plot of land doesn't mean everybody is finding it hard to do good things, stop quoting me, focus on how your life will be better. A slowpoke that typed 'yourself as ur is telling me i can't write well in good English, you're a disgrace to the higher institution you represent.



Another slowpoke that is looking up to his parent before he can succeed grin so in Nigeria,if you're not from a rich home, you don't have the potential to live large, if you continue with this your mentality,you'll never be great especially if you're not from a rich home, if my parent passed wealth on me ,does that mean i shouldn't hustle on my own to be greater than them?, and if my parent didn't passed wealth to me, does that mean i shouldn't live large ? must i have grey hair before i should make it? Zlatan is celebrating 25, tell me if we can see the name of his parent on google .


It takes money to live a fake life and to brag, hustle, become a landlord so that you can also brag , I'm proud of my parent but not proud been a Nigerian , a country where senators are receiving hardship allowance and Buhari's haircut allowance for a year is 79 million naira, check google for facts, how many children of Your leaders are studying, given birth and doing business here, you think you're wiser than those that are giving birth outside? A country where Graduates are forced to become tailor after studying Engineering grin, as to your second paragraph, a Nigeria citizen that cant afford 3 meals per day can't become a landlord @24. vanity crew grin
EducationRe: Victory Obasi: "Fubi And Her Seed Planting Story" by bencarson007(m): 12:06pm On Dec 02, 2019
Great one from her... Respects ma'm
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Omashola Kissing His Parrot by bencarson007(m): 11:48am On Jul 18, 2019
This is exactly why youths can't lead this nation... mentally lazy lot we have sadly become
CrimeRe: Internet Fraudster Bags Jail Term In Kaduna by bencarson007(m): 5:13pm On Jul 09, 2019
yrex01:
hypocrite !!
please what what did i say wrong sir... please watch your language sire
CrimeRe: Internet Fraudster Bags Jail Term In Kaduna by bencarson007(m): 1:26pm On Jul 09, 2019
EFCC should also go after our politicians...
PoliticsRe: Governor Ganduje Laughs, Emir Sanusi Frowns: Video Of The 2 Meeting by bencarson007(m): 3:28pm On Jun 06, 2019
things fall apart
RomanceRe: Lady Strips Unclad, Paints Her Body Red To Protest Against Ritual Killing In Lag by bencarson007(m): 5:37pm On Mar 25, 2019
Activist spotted doing it the western way... by the way boys don too use women take buy benz and other funny rituals... ladies are mostly the victims... its not cool... nice one lady
CelebritiesRe: My Mother Wanted Me To Be A Reverend Father"- John Dumelo Shares Throwback Photo by bencarson007(m): 2:12pm On Mar 22, 2019
full convent for get belle... Father Dumelo... abeg make i hide first
CelebritiesRe: Country Music Singer, Justin Carter Accidentally Shoots Himself To Death (Photo) by bencarson007(m):
silly
A loaded gun in set... no be madness be that
PoliticsRe: N4 Billion Dangi Roundabout In Kano (Photos) by bencarson007(m): 8:15am On Mar 15, 2019
wisemrtortoise:
Really? that's all you've got? then i hereby revoke your keyboard warrior rights and sentence you to ten years of internet isolation.
Okay now this got me... lol
You one crazy comedian
Truce
Make we no dey fight for these useless politicians matter.
They are all mediocres and compared to other nations with even less than what we have, we are doing poorly... very poorly...

Anyhow we have to be constructive because we waste too much data to argue but these morons in government and their families as well as their cronies continually feed fat on our sweat...

its sad
PoliticsRe: N4 Billion Dangi Roundabout In Kano (Photos) by bencarson007(m): 11:03pm On Mar 09, 2019
wisemrtortoise:
why are you deflecting? you were complaining about the costs, i asked you to give me a breakdown of what you think is reasonable, and your response was to call google? i guess we now know who's really the uneducated one.
Kids...
PoliticsRe: N4 Billion Dangi Roundabout In Kano (Photos) by bencarson007(m): 9:35am On Mar 04, 2019
wisemrtortoise:
So Mr. education, can you give us the breakdown of the costs that goes into the construction of a flyover bridge?
Mr Mediocre, google is your friend...
PoliticsRe: N4 Billion Dangi Roundabout In Kano (Photos) by bencarson007(m): 8:55pm On Mar 03, 2019
Afamed:
Keep quiet, it's not round about but overhead bridge over 2 Klm
Oga look at the topic and the write up before you judge me...

And ogbeni shut up... no matter what you call it... do you have any idea what 4 billion naira is... imagine you feel its justifiable to have an ordinary flyover of 2km for 4 billion naira... thats which is more than the budget of 2 say like 5 local governments in some places... you need your head examined... stop supporting thieves you hear...

Jesus... 4 billion... bros you dull sha
damn mediocre sychophant
PoliticsRe: N4 Billion Dangi Roundabout In Kano (Photos) by bencarson007(m): 5:52pm On Mar 03, 2019
dukeprince50:
wow, commendable, I like kano State, they rise above critics,
we always blame the north for our misfortune and say they are the problem of this country,
just
because ur neighbour refuse to keep his room in order, u will
not tidy urs but blame ur neighbour.
the north is never ur problem, the govt is the
problem, we the oil producing states get 13% derivatives but
nothing to show for it, was it cos of d north?

former and present Governor of Rivers State fighting and
throwing tantrums like kids, was it cos of d north?

Africa is so backward, yet d western countries are growing
bigger, they didn't blame Africa for misfortunes.

The whole of Bayelsa state doesn't have even a 10cm long flyover but they will insult the north.


Ask them how the north became their problem, they won't say, Africa is den d problem of the world, we are so backward, refuse to grow and still blame ourselves.
Are you mad or just not educated... 4 billion naira for an ordinary roundabout and you are here praising fools... may God help you

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