I guess my mechanic is the only honest Mechanic in Nigeria but the Rewire he works with is an "armed robber" and would be inciting the mechanic against me.
Somehow I always feel Wizkid is doing all these in response to Davido. He has just learnt that it is one thing to have money and another to have power/influence. Davido has got both and he showed it in his uncle's election in Osun State. Now Wizkid has started giving crazily to garner same influence his rival has. What he doesn't know is that - giving is natural. There are natural Givers who find it difficult to say NO to others in need and there are others who just don't have any plan of giving. He can't sustain it because, it's not whom he is.
Obavoh: I am not a beggar. It is a loan I will surely pay back. Why can’t he just say he can’t lend me , instead of playing my life like long tennis
It's like that bro! He has the money but not to be borrowed to you, has others plans for his money. Even you with your stubbornness can behave like that. You should have gotten the message already. He will not borrow you the money. The earlier you recover from this, the better. Next time you go to someone's house for something, don't start eating and making yourself comfortable. Focus on what you came for and always bear it in mind that it's either possible or not. It reminds me of how I gave money to people around me and had so many friends but when it's was time to raise an emergency money - I then realized I had no one. I was alone, only one person I met newly (who didn't know my home or much about me. He is even Igbo and am yoruba) helped. God bless you Chidi and bless your family!
dominique: And answer more questions about how such amount of money got in their possession especially if they're on a visit visa and not expected to work. They knew what they were doing by hiding that money
Was it what the risk? Losing over N70m just like that. Total loss! Why not use the money to purchase items and send it to Nigeria to be sold afterwards.
Objectivist04: I don't think this is justice, why giving him only $216 instead of $10000 which he declared , at least he didn't tell them he has zero cash on him.
It is what you declare that you are allowed to go with. You lose the rest to the US Government.
Houseontherock1: Once you get involved in illegal deals, you must learn how your colleagues launder their funds! How can you under declare when your bags and baggages will go through security checks?
I even saw a video where similar amount was seized from a white American family for the same issue of non-declarance. It's outright forfeiture!
When is Sanusi going to run for the office of the President! He is my favourite candidate of all time. Sanusi please, declare for Presidency and look for a good party to join sir.
Offpointng: Shey this chestbeating no too much for just two Korope brothers wey Ooni go dash out the next minute the donor steps out?? See weytin dem dey donate give person wey get collections of Rolls Royce, abi na bike Ooni go dey climb now?
Besides, ion know how y'all came bout the knowledge of Yoruba hating Igbos. how many Yorubas you don see hate Igbos
It's actually on the contrary, it's Igbos who hate Yorubas and they don't hide it but they can still come under them to do business and make money and still turn around to start hating.
He is actually a hero! More courageous than most of the guys here condemning him. The only mistake is fighting a handbag, mobile phones or even cars are not worth your life. These are things we easily gain and lose. Infact, we lose them more than we gain them. But standing up for one of your own is noble - only let it be life-for-a- life and not for a bag or phones.
jeromestarks: I was scrolling through my contacts tonight and I saw my ex's number so , I called my ex (...very dumb move).
We talked and talked about how we weren't meant for each other.
Our conversation read in part: Me: I thought you won't pick my call.
Her: why won't I? I don't have any problem with you and you didn't offend me.
Me: hmmmm so, what can make you not to pick my call?
She: if you ask any of my sisters out.
Me: 🤣 . We didn't work. Maybe I and your sister will work.
Her: I don't want you around any of my family.
Me: This is why we never happened. You're too jealous. Okay bye. It's better we go separate ways (.... Foolish thing to say on my path).
Her: Better. If you don't want to talk to me anymore, fine. But I will still visit your mother whenever I want to.
I just said good night and hung up.
I feel like an idiot right now.
I don't know why I called her sef. I'm angry with myself. I shouldn't have made that call.
Please always delete your ex 's number and move on.
You still have feelings for her! Face it. There is be no arrogance in love but discipline and responsibility. I don't believe in Exes being enemies. My wife knows my ex and we still talk till date and I don't hide it. Things didn't work out between us but we are still good friends till date even though we haven't seen each other for over 10years. She has left for the UK and we still talk and check on each other. And I don't delete my chats and my wife reads them and they both know each other very well.
I don't feel any responsible individual and most especially a highly placed dignitary should visit or associate with this criminal except they profited from his thieving reign. Emefiele practically crippled Nigerians for months. Even with the small money wey dey our hands, we couldn't eat or move around freely. People lost jobs, lost businesses and means livelihoods, a few lost their lives. It was horrific! It's obvious the new naira notes is a botched project and a scam! Expertriate companies are leaving Nigeria because they could not get their naira earnings converted to dollars yet the ex-CBN thief gave billions of dollars to Dangote at criminal rates. Well, it's because we are endemically corrupt people in Nigeria. I don't see Nigerians as people of value but potential criminals, if not, someone like Emefiele and his likes would have been executed for their crimes.
What does blaxk race expect when they sell votes both in primary election and main election.
Election are not cheap and in today Nigeria is for the highest bidder. Some Senetor spend over 300-500m to become senator. President spend over 100-300 billion to become president .
Atiku has wasted over a trillion in all his failed bid to become president.
Black people has the lowest IQ in the whole world just after orangutan.
Nigeria is in mess today because of black race and low IQ. Not just politicians but the generality on the people.
DeLaRue: The so-called investors have more money than sense, hence the reason they invest in 'tech' companies that are ultimately doomed to fail.
Many of these so-called tech companies have nothing more than brightly coloured offices, a few computers/laptops and a half-baked, bound-to- fail idea that they wax lyrics around and sell to investors as a viable business.
Many of these founders have no tangible business or life experience - yet, misguided investors will give them money.
It is no surprise over 95% of them fail.
This particular company raised $2m less than a year ago, yet they're already out of business. No doubt the founders took very good care of themselves and left the naive investors licking their wounds.
The way people make so much noise about tech companies eh! Infact, I feel like founding one myself. I don start to dey learn coding sef... But what people don't really realize is tech can be very feeble and volatile where the practitioners lack commitment, dedication and continuous innovation (which is a lot of hard work).
DeLaRue: The so-called investors have more money than sense, hence the reason they invest in 'tech' companies that are ultimately doomed to fail.
Many of these so-called tech companies have nothing more than brightly coloured offices, a few computers/laptops and a half-baked, bound-to- fail idea that they wax lyrics around and sell to investors as a viable business.
Many of these founders have no tangible business or life experience - yet, misguided investors will give them money.
It is no surprise over 95% of them fail.
This particular company raised $2m less than a year ago, yet they're already out of business. No doubt the founders took very good care of themselves and left the naive investors licking their wounds.
The way people make so much noise about tech companies eh! Infact, I feel like founding one myself. I don start to dey learn coding sef... But what people don't really realize is tech can be very feeble where the practitioners lack commitment, dedication and continuous innovation (which is a lot of hard work).
My take is that, you sound worried, and that is to be taken into consideration. If you the husband and one that lives with her is this disturbed then there must be underlying reasons for you to feel such. Therefore, I support whatever your heart tells you to do. You can't go wrong! In my own situation, I will allow her to go. She doesn't even have friends (I always encourage to do), she has never travelled for any event in 9years and so far, I think I trust her. If she ever asks to travel for anything or any reason, I will be more than happy to allow her. I have had no reason to doubt her.
XY23: Lol. So much noise about a tribe a drug lord has rubbished everything sacred about. No value left, no dignity, nothing. That you're all now ranting like rodents online shows how depraved the once acclaimed sophisticated tribe has become. The day is coming in this country when you folks will dance naked to your own songs. At every turn, you've made enemies of everyone. A tribe whose progenitor fell from the sky ( the first of its kind in the history of mankind). SMH!
You talk as though you are knowledgeable but your whole composition lacks any atom of sense. You condemn a tribe so much that they still provide your leaders till date, how more ridiculous can you be? Continue to lament and wail all you want but you will still continue to be subjects to this tribe because you are simply devoid of leadership charisma, all you are good for is wailing...
seunmsg: The Bini people are our brothers and we’ve always treated them as such. However, the Oba of Bini dragged the Bini kingdom into the mud by coming to Lagos to share a beer parlor gossip as Yoruba history. As a proud people who know our history, we have to put him in his place which is what we’ve done. We will not allow any miscreant in any guise to disrespect us and misrepresent our history. Oba wey no respect himself go collect wotowoto.
Omo this one bad o .... Kabaka go come for you o....
Yugoslavia247: Funny enough many of the gals or boys supporting the ex woman of Israel have parents begging customer to buy market, drivers, cleaners, office workers who stand up when their boss walks in, people who say yes sir from morning till day break.
Same people have brothers serving as servant, some sisters learning tailoring and kneel down when they come late.
The juju man is just being good.
Now the useless woman spoilt everything.
Never marry a gal brought up by a single mother. They have a messed up brain. Most of them saw their mothers dating multiple men.
Imagine marrying a a daughter of a woman with three ex husband.
What are you thinking. We never finish the issue of gals from broken homes. Na olosho mama child
Exception to widows though.
God go give you better blessings. Funny enough, I watched some content creators give some Nigerians cash ie. N100,000, N200,000, come see how they instantly go down on their knees immediately to show appreciation but are here criticizing someone who was given an employment/continuous means of livelihood. We are really crazy people in this country and the country perfectly reflects how we are - how we think, these things we say and how we behave. Just like mad people and then we have an insane country absolutely. Nigeria is us and we are Nigerians. We are what we are.
jmoore: When Nigeria security agencies are ready to fight terrorism, we will know. Sane countries like Israel would have sent hitmen to Finland to eliminate that Ekperima.
Secondly, it is not a secret that police are targets in southeast. Instead of the police to adopt measures to counter such attacks, they have made extorting money from motorists their priority.
The police value money more than their own lives. Do they even wear bulletproof vests?
They have actually been condemned to extort. Nigerian system encourages all sorts of ills for survival. A country where a signed paltry minimum wage of N30,000 is not even paid. No infrastructure, no adequate healthcare, no virile insurance and pension. Nigerians always feel insecure hence the tendency to always act corrupt and violent if possible but in a situation where everyone is taken care of (as we have abroad), there will be less criminality.
I think you love the lady and hence respects her. But then, you are the one in the relationship. I am sure of something... You will end up loving her, if for nothing but for the contributions she will be making to your life. I prefer a woman that respects me to the one that "loves" me, because you can't respect me if you don't love me. I know women love money sha and hence love whoever holds the money
1Alex: Have you now seen a typical women brain. If becoming a farmer in Canada can give me 10 times my salary as a banker in Nigeria, why won't I migrate?
Who is talking about stooping so low when money is involved.
Matinox: This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.
Women are built different!
I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy! The female body is a work of art!
I considered the pains they go through... My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!
This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.
First sex - Pain Pregnant - Pain Delivery - Pain First Breast feeding - Intense pain Resume sex after child birth - Pain Wean your baby - Pain
Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.
My mum & wife inclusive!
Yeah! We give it to them. A lot of them make life worth living. But with the exception of few ones that make life the opposite. Life of a man too is never painless! Mentally, physically and otherwise.
It's just a shame.... that people who deserve care and love don't get them but some nuisance and disgruntled people get them. This life no balance! I appreciate the fact that you keep referring to Davido as Oga. That's loyalty! I pray you keep growing... You will get someone better and you will forget all about her. A man should always chase money first before women. Never cancel any money-making opportunity to please a woman, except she is extremely worth it. Sorry bro... Move on!
kcstyle40: Good day beautiful people, I am in a bit of a fix and need advice on how best to confront this situation .
There is this mama put restaurant besides my house in lagos but separated by a fence. However the said restaurant is built attached to the fence in the next compound and that makes it awfully close to my windows and they cook with firewood not even charcoal but all manner of firewood.
The owner of the mama-put a yoruba woman ( very hard working ) starts cooking by 6 a.m up till 11 p.m with smokes going up and into the windows of my bedroom ( upstairs) and other rooms in my house making my room very stuffy and causing me to keep shutting all my windows .
Personally I can't stand any form of smoke be it cigarettes or smokes from burning stuffs
With the high cost of fuel I can't keep running Gen to keep my rooms ventilated and power supply is poor in my area .
I have thought of approaching her concerning this matter but from my observation the woman is very harsh n raze and I fear she might not reason with me .
I understand it's her means of livelihood but I am suffering cus of it and all my cloths in my wardrobes are all smelling smoke ... My room has smoke smell as a result of this , it only reduces if I keep my windows shut for weeks . I hate problems and I avoid conflicts in every way ... But I have been suffering this for long now
Is there any authority I can report to ?
Or is there a better way to make her understand my plight and switch to cooking with gas without appearing like her enemy of progress ?
Please your advice is needed thanks
If you are in Lagos report het to LASEPA. I believe they deal with these issues.... Noise pollution and other forms... Report her don't let her kill you with smoke.
Ahmed0336: This post reminds me of what a friend told me about his past. He had a fiancée whom he had finished paying her dowry. She visited uninvited from the state where she resides to where he was then only to meet him on top of a lady He wasn't aware of her presence,only for him to realise after Cumming that she's sitting, watching them. He was so shocked and confused but she was calm. She now asked them if they were through that she'd want to wash the bedsheet After seeing the other lady off, his fiancée washed the bedsheet and even prepared pounded yam without showing any sign of anger.
My people my people, because of his fiancée reaction, HE REFUSED TO MARRY HER.
E go surprise you oh! I don't know how they do it but she fit win the case o... These women accusers mostly win even if it's 100years ago. The so-called Western society always unduly favour women over men.
Faiththatworks: The summary of this story is very simple,some oyinbo people came to Nigeria and got some Nigerian collaborators to help them loot the country dry It started with Russians,then Americans and finally Indians.In all,close to Seven Billions dollars was looted using this medium and not one single ounce of steel has left this facility If there is a Guinness world record for this kind of activity, Nigeria would be given the world record effortlessly What a country,sometimes I seriously feel we are the most unfortunate set of people when it comes to Leadership Now some people are advising this government to keep spending money on this God forsaken project,they should better turn that place to a agriculture industrial hub and start planting Yam,Cassava,legumes and other cash crops
Your analysis is quite good but where I have an issue is mentioning LEADERSHIP. Our problem is not leadership but the Nigerian citizenry. Most Nigerians are dubious, desperate, wasteful, crazy and worthless set of people. When we realize this and start to correct it, the country will start to get meaningful.
It's appearing as if this so-called Femi Gbajabiamila is a scam! The last time he was accused of owing his former client in the US $10,000 and left for Nigeria. Now over 280 staff not paid for 15months. Are these the people I voted to repair Nigeria? If APC fails in this first time, I will put everything up to bring them down.
immortalcrown: Now that she is proudly enjoying her drama, you won't see people campaigning in her favour. But if the marriage later goes bad, people will begin to carry placards and condemn her husband. That is when people will say that her marriage is a forced girl-child marriage.
Most people have spoken and spoken well. He has also learnt his lessons. He should work on the way forward. Possibly call them to apologise and look for other opportunities to make up. First impression is key and lasting, but the world would not end because of that. I feel he is just a young man still in the process of settling down maturely. We all learn...