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Whobedatte:
Lamentations chapter 7
Messi is 9 goals away and played 143 games less
Better goal ratio , man of the match and MVP in all competitions
That's what I call the true G.O.A.T

Thats y he ran to farmers league to stat pad ...history will remember ronaldo as the first player to ever do it... unless ur fake fraud does 800 which we know it can never happen.... No one cares about the second place

Whobedatte:
10 games , 1 goal , 0 assist
Of course , he's not normal

700 Goals is not normal... season just started ...he will shame u guys as usual... I Remember last season when he was only 4 goals in January...u all laughed at him...he still shamed u guys ... I goal in 8 games with just one start

OJEEMAH:
2002-2022?

This stats is wrong…… he started scoring 35goals in 2007/2008

On average oooo

lhordspy:
Baba OBj.. Leave plenty english alone.
We caught you, daddy.

You talk am abi you no talk am?

Show us a video ...not a fake written article

Eagba:
He is just a goalscorer. Just harvesting the work of others

Pain mumu go and tell that to haaland...

Haters said he is the problem....he keeps on providing them wrong.... Ronaldo scores the winner yet again

Averaging 35 goals a season for the past 20 years ... Ronaldo is not normal

Jokerman:
Don't allow nairaland one person many monikers deceive you with their Tinubu will win speeches.

I was at a barbing saloon yesterday, I'm even shocked that some yoruba Muslim youths are campaigning for Peter Obi

Na there I know say its over for Tinubu .

Nigerian youths are taking this election seriously and educated ones even the Muslims are many on Obi side

When ud know the country has gone to the dogs is when Area touts will confidently come out to do one million man match and some people will be celebrating it

Badgers14:
I thought he was dating Abi married to a gorgeous TV reporter (a female).

What happened?

I hope she didn't show him shege and decided not to date women again?

But why does he need to announce it?

Many of us wouldn't have known if he hadn't said nothing.. who cares anyways??

I guess that was what ended the marriage

madridguy:
A gay with two children.

Gay...not A gay ...

ugbedeojo1993:
How to make a nuclear bomb ��

So u have never tried salad that has both in it?

Romanoff:
It is also not a necessity.

There are still homes where husband and wife bear same name and they are not happy.

It's neither a requirement nor a necessity for a happy and committed union.

It's same way I don't frown at couples who have separate bedrooms. If they are both happy, that's what works for them.

Cause there are couples who sleep on same bed but there's nothing joining them together.

All that's needed for a happy marriage is commitment, loyalty, respect and understanding. Love is the icing on the cake and some can still have their cake without icing.

OP needs to evaluate what is important to him in a marriage and then act accordingly, breaking up being on the table if name change is a deal breaker.

What does name have to do with being happy in a marriage or not... ur type of reason will only destroy us more ... do we have to complain about everything... imagine if men totally decide to stop providing for us , do u think women can handle it?? Imagine if a man proposes to u and u know that u as a woman must bring 50% of all wedding expenses, 50% house rent or 50% mortgage , 50% feeding and clothing for the family, 50% of school fees , medicals and home expenses , 50% of transportation or vehicle ... if men now put it as a must b4 they marry a woman, then 90% of us will never get married . When men become broke, most women leave the marriage or relationship, imagine if men also decide to start doing same , we will be in trouble...please let's stick to our gender roles and stop putting pressure on men... men are now going the other way because alot of women just want it all and don't want to give back... lets kill entitlement mentality or we will destroy ourselves ... To make money and provide is the most difficult task to do on earth. Imagine if men stop giving women money or favors for sex , tell me how life will be for the women that even think they are sharp.. If not for men like Atiku , Ned, Danjuma , Akande , Amaechi... where will women like Genevieve , Regina, Caroline, Dakore and Mo Abudu be today?? Mention one man that Women made a success today ... even if a woman makes a man successful, its usually her husband that the main juice will be coming from. Mention one Artist that Tiwa savage or Yemi Alade or any woman in the industry has brought up like Banky , Davido , olamide and the rest male artist have ...instead the women fight themselves...

We are pushing it too much.... I have a daughter abeg, I don't want it to be a disaster for her when she grows up... I make money, tho not upto 20% of what my husband makes, but its really not easy to make money ooo....

Romanoff:
No one should force anyone into something they are uncomfortable with.

If he can't deal with it, let him end it now.

There are plenty wives with their husbands last name who are adulterous and give their husbands headache.

Last name is not as requirement for a happy marriage.

But a necessity... if she was getting married to Dangote or Adenuga, wudnt she change her last name... Oga, ur GF is already disrespecting u...better leave her now . So what will the kids bare?? Hrr fathers name too?? She is not a celebrity so y she comparing herself to Joke silva who was a celebrity b4 she married Olu Jacobs . Even foreigners change their last name

photoshop ...APC and deception sha

Corporate2020:
A Bank Chairman is someone who has plenty legal or illegal money to fund a Bank. Any idiot with big money can be that.

Who told u that? Oh my, Tinubu supporters are are either educated illiterates are stark illiterates

Throwback:
How many of such get hired eventually?

Nominal inclusion is not the same as actual hiring.

To buttress my valid disapproval of such people like Peter Obi, he parades a GCE but Fidelity Bank is only interested in WAEC/NECO.

Even after such a GCE holder has acquired higher education with a good university grade, they still screen him out with WAEC/NECO.

They continue to discriminate against Nigerian youths by setting up a standard they never met.

U displayed ur stupidity and still trying to defend ur same stupidity... its really true that u cant defend Tinubu without sounding stupid ...

I am yet to meet a Tinubu supporter that has sense , this simply shows what this country will turn to if elected

U are not a serious person... I advice the girl to dump ur ass

He has finally broken the long awaiting record... everyone has their priorities in their footballing careers ... some want to be remembered as the one with the goal records, another wants to be remembered with assists record... Ramos wants to be remembered with the Red card record which is unique... congrats the Ram

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista



NB: Obi was sworn in as Governor of Anambra State in March 2006 and March 2010 for a second term

Omokri ... u should be ashamed of urself .

MJBOLT:

Haaland has 15 goals in 9 matches,farmers league for a reason

Halaand in psg wud hv been on 40 goals by now

lhordspy:
United state be acting like an evil First wife jittering all around fakely, just to appear they do care about the stability of the house after they must have wickedly and secretly instigated a fight between the second wife and the husband. Hypocrites.

It is funny how sane people still support such an hypocrital altitude of this evil US.

The same United state that threatened to invade Cuba if the Russians established any military set-up in cuba near United state.

It is the same United state going around secretly setting up military bases in Ukraine near Russia and in Taiwan near China, which may gives room to the establishment of biological and nuclear weapons being installed near Russia and china. There were confirmed traces of biological weapons in ukraine already which prompt Russia to start their 'special operations' before it gets out of hand.

Same hypocrital US that almost caused a nuclear war confrontation during the Cuban missille crises, threatening to nuke cuban because of Russia installing military base in cuba are still the same One crying and wailing that Russia is threatening to nuke ukraine, because of same reasons they also threatened Cuba.


Is that not hypocrisy?


View the picture below and confirm yourself, or you can read more extensively on cuban missile crises and bays of pig invasion. I will also drop the link below.


Like i promised, i wont stop until i emancipates you ignorant ones from the shackles of western invisible chains. That they made you guys completely brainwashed and turned into a zombie, whereby they can now remote control your minds through mainstream media propaganda and fake news. Allowing you only see what they want you to see and know.



From the official US office of historian itself.
Here is the link : https://history.state.gov/milestones/1961-1968/cuban-missile-crisis


Here are the screenshots:

Alot of people don't research..they just follow blindly... all because they grew up watching Hollywood ... they now think USA is the right one

oloyedewaris:
Ode, how can there be when assist isn't successful

There van never be an assist without a goal... there are multiple goals without assist...

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

Oga , its unfortunate...but she doesn't love u and I doubt she ever did... she is a narcissist... unfortunately, u dint dodge this bullet , it hit u bad

This is the reason why men are becoming redpilled . I dont think any woman will do this to a redpilled man . Only a simp gets this treatment, but I always tell women that one day that simp that u prefer will change it one day for you cos all men are the same ...some react quickly, others react late ... most women are the ones making good men become something else. I hv always been against the feminism ideology...it will ruin us

Sheistoopretty:
Wrecked my life? Don't mistake me for your Pathetic illiterate of a father Sis

I just went through your page and all I can see is a wretched old woman who sleeps with one married man or the other

Take heart ehn? I'm not the one who cursed your generations You'll die single and wretched, old pig

U must be talking about ur prostitute mother that made u a bastard cos she doesn't know the fool that busted her while prostituting... now show me the married man I hv slept with u fool or remain silent ... I am notvas useless as the family u come from... pauper like u

rtdCivilservant:
May be u have comprehension issue. There is no where I stated that soludo will campaign against Obi, but ideally Soludo would campaign for his own party's candidate except if apga doesn't have one. But let me even ask u, so one good reason u think Soludo should campaign for Obi is because they are 9f the same state? Then why do u expect people from other states to campaign for Obi then?

Sentiment.most times will playva role... but any reasonable person of which soludo is , will support Obi... soludo will never support that condemned party called APC , soludo will never support a Muslim Muslim ticket , Soludo will never support a confirmed criminal called Tinubu , soludo will never support a tribe that had 8yrs president and 8yrs VP when his own tribe had never tasted power, even as VP ... soludo will not support a Northerner because a Northerner just completed 8yrs ... only a wicked fool will support that criminal with bulgy eyes

rtdCivilservant:
So because Obiano campaign for Buhari it now automatically means Soludo should campaign for Obi?

So u actually think soludo will campaign against obi or what?? His own state man

Sheistoopretty:
Can u just make your points without quoting me? I would've ignored u that you'd doubt your existence if u hadn't mentioned me! T for thanks.

I'm sure u must have wrecked ur life and u are looking for who to blame...go find a shrink or better off kill urself...the world dont care bout u...

BlaqFaze:
The only award Ronaldo is winning this season

The leprechaun dint even mk top 30 nomination for the balon dir... first time in history that the previous winner cudnt even mk top 30 nomination...if that's not the meaning of " finished " whatelse does it mean? Told u he never deserved that award last year...it belonged to Lewandowski...the short fraud stole his award, just like the leprechaun that he is

BlaqFaze:
Those of you complaining about team...

Ronaldo can't start league games in Man U

He won't start in Arsenal

U will be made fun of las las.. the world cup is next month... same wY u all laughed at him last season cos he was only on 4 goals by January...u know how the season ended on the score chat...

Sheistoopretty:
Honestly I'm so ashamed of u, I feel like spitting on your bald head tbh

U couldn't help a stranded lady, but rushed to bring the topic here for your fellow BJRAN brothers to hail u right?

Shame on u

Stop embarrassing women... y cant u speak the truth for once ... what sort of beggar with an entitlement mentality... if u are hungry , u beg for money to buy food not order ... she is an embarrassment to the female gender so are u

Any player that comes to play in England will never be allowed to focus...their media is a curse ....