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OJEEMAH:
Leave sentiment and be logical with your points....Do you even understand the things you write sometimes? how can he win UCL top scorer 6 good times and you dare say he doesn't replicate his la liga goals in UCL?

Suarez blasted 40goals but how consistent was he?

Zlatan flopped in that same Barcelona.

Ronaldo? A one time pinchichi winner in 9years?

Lewandoski? Bayern is as good as Barcelona.

Salah?? I laugh in Spanish.

See just rest with your argument cos it's always filled with sentiment.

U are even shooting urself in the foot... I said once in 9yrs , which u just proved... now that takes us bk to this topic...his best years was due to the xavi iniesta busquet combo... Ibrahimovic was never a flop at barca, he was even amongst the top scorers in la liga , he had more goals than messi leading to halfway of the season b4 messi requested for a more central role and that was y Ibrahimovic was kicked to the bench and handed a transfer request...thats the mai reason he has issues with guadiola...messi saw that ibra was taking his shine ...suarez was consistent, they also tried to overshadow him at a point in barca...the same suarez that looked finished at barca is now top scorer in la liga in his first season at Atletico...

OJEEMAH:
They forgot he was in his 30's when he won European Golden boot, Uefa Top Scorer, Uefa Best & Balon dor in 2019 and he was still the top scorer in the league last season. Just because he didn't hit the ground running this season, they have drawn a conclusion......The transfer battle with Bartomeu affected his game.

Any good striker will win Europe golden boot in barca of yesteryear... Lewandowski, suarez ,Ronaldo, salah , immobile will win it just as messi as long as they had been there for almost 2 decades... the guy is used to the league...even suarez blasted 40 league goals in barca and also win European golden boot ... any very powerful striker will hit 40 in Spain...thats the only league that has ever registered 40 goals and it was done by 3 different players, imagine salah , Lewandowski, immobile, zlatan in their peak playing for barca or Madrid...they will also b winning that European golden boot...if he was that terrific as a striker, y is it always difficult to replicate those goals in the CL?? Y is it difficult to also win top scorer in CL in recent years just like his European boots ... messi has only won top scorer outrightly in the CL once in 9 attempts...to score in the CL is most difficult than leagues

sapphiere:
Hmm men! Common 5k.
I don't blame him. He had just 200naira left in his acct. Jobless he-goat. His mates are out there hustling to better their lives and family while he's there using the stipend his parents gave him to mess around.

U must b a thief with ur mind set

[quote author=kkins25 post=98743234][/quote]The moment u get married , u will have to make sacrifices and thats part of adulthood... she is not a child, children are the ones that most likely leive without responsibilities... only a coward runs away when challenges comes forth... being an adult also means taking up responsibilities... if every married person should start to think of only themselves, then the institute of marriage will collapse... a husband that solely provides for the family can now stop taking care of his family and concentrate on enjoying his life with his money however it pleases him same as what this woman wanna do... people mention deadbeat dads , these are men that are selfish as well and want freedom ... wrong is wrong, right is right...u cant cross them

OJEEMAH:
You still haven't answered my question. How did he manage to win these awards with a mediocre performance like you rightly said??
See, allowing sentiment to cloud your sense of judgement is not healthy. You are so full of sentiment that's why I won't even try to persuade you cos we've schooled you severally but you still chose never to see anything good in Messi.

Too many excuses for Juventus & Ronaldo but none for Barca & Messi has proven how sentimental you are.

In case you have forgotten how he won 2019 Balon dor, see below

UEFA Best Player Award

UEFA Top Scorer

La Liga Title & European Top Scorer Award

And you still think he doesn't deserve the award??

So what of ronaldo that won the CL , was top scorer in the CL , broke the record by scoring in 11 consecutive games, scored the best goal that season against juve, scored a hat-trick against Spain to salvage a 3.3 draw ...was uefas best player ..scored 44 goals in 44 games that same season dint deserve it...but messi did ...we know these stuffs are rigged cos these awards are decided behind closed doors ...if modric deserved it, van dyke deserved it ... if Messi deserved it, Ronaldo also deserved it ...today they give these awards based on one thing, tomorrow they change it again to favor who they want

OJEEMAH:
Mr/Mrs I know it all....... How did Messi manage to win these awards in the absence of these guys? What has Ronaldo given juve? Has he performed better without Modric & Kroos? You no go understand argument, you go just jump in simply because you hate Messi.

He has given them 2 league titles and dont mention they had been winning it b4 he joined cos they have been struggling for the past 2 seasons...winning by just a point last season, remove Ronaldo's goals and they wud hv surrendered their title ... we all know messis last balon dor was fake cos he dint deserve it, that title was for van dyke winning CL and leading the Dutch national team to the nations league final against Portugal... he even knocked messi and barca out in the CL but messi that couldn't score a goal in the copa with only 1 penalty to show for his appearance in the copa America with a red card was given the award, same red card that denied zidane the award in 06... van dyke achieved about the same thing modric achieved that gave modric the balon dor ...but as usual , awards are crap cos it will always b sentimental...messi only had league title to show ... messi dominated because of those trio...ronaldo still got nominated even at juve and was behind Lewandowski who won it

OJEEMAH:
it is wrong to say Messi is nothing without Xavi & Iniesta.....without Xavi, Iniesta and Neymar Messi still went ahead to win balon dor and other numerous awards including UEFA best player, European and UCL top scorer. Yes, he hasn't won the CL without them and that's because other members of his team have been playing far below expectation. Football is not an individual game therefore, Messi needs his teammate to be at the top of their game to achieve success. Ronaldo hasn't done much since he left and the reason is not far fetched.

Messi won nothing outside barca during that same period...but those trio won the world cup and 2 European Cups ... y is it that u messu fans are not just logical...is it too hard for u guys to understand?? Barca won 2 CL titles during that same period....but since they left barca hasn't appeared in a CL final ... if u talk about age ,Ronaldo won back to back to back CL at age 31-33, and was top scorer all thru with nothing less than 15 goals on each occasion...

paulolee:
dis ur aguement is partially tru n can b argued bcoz i dnt agree wit u...u guys keep saying this n forgetting dt lionel messi was d main catalyst oiling that midfield...u keep forgetting dt some clubs would easily find a way to stop n break dt midfield trio bt just cnt because they are too busy trying to set up dier teams on how to stop messi..
my point is dt, dt amazing messi made dt trio superb n thats why they dominated in less number of games n years in spain than in barca bcoz of messi

So y dint he oil the argentine midfield?? Or y isn't he oiling barca now... instead, he wants to run to another club thst will oil him... since those trio retired, barca died, they stopped being influential in the CL... imagine Ronaldo with those trio... but still Ronaldo challenged with the trio he had and won it 4 times( CL and balon dor) ... Those guys won a world Cup and back to back European championships all within 5yrs...08-12 same time messi was winning balon dor back to back... that was when those trio were at their peak ... at the same period, Argentina was fumbling

SegFault:
The person Behind this moniker is either an suffering from chronic slave mentality or is just a man And a misogynist.

Just because I dont agree with ur opinion...u want freedom but still condemn my freedom to choice

kkins25:
wisely spoken sir. what you forget is, in a country where women were just granted right to drive cars, one doesn't expect the law to favor the woman. They may be other reasons she may have been scared to mention, after all- even the sharia law has more regards for men than they do for women and has never favored women. Women seeking divorce under Islam religion are seldom granted.


At what expense? your happiness? your life's sense of purpose?


It was a patriarchal move. If you want to create a slave from a sane man, you must first destroy that which gives him strength,sense of pride, self esteem, etc.

I'm afraid, in a religious system like islam where arranged marriage is still practiced and enforced, i am prejudiced to support the woman even though her argument was insufficient to free herself from the boundary(as she sees it).

moreso, this is why men should listen to ubunja. This story has showed that money cannot buy a woman's happiness forever, it seems money may have been the tool used by the man to hook the woman in the first place. The woman is realizing that her purpose in life cannot be fulfilled by money alone( touche on her). If the man really loves her, then he should make some way to help her fulfil her dreams because "God" knows the reason i avoid getting into relationship now is because i still feel there is alot for me to see before i get tied down to the cycle of work-house to house-work.

Marriage should foster happiness to both parties involved, that is what we have evolved to know as a characteristic of a righteous marriage.



Incase you are unaware, Money is what we relentlessly work for in order to acquire freedom. Freedom to eat what you like, marry whom you want, and mostly live the life you want.



If you read the text you would see where the man says sometimes the lady visit friends without his knowledge. I am forced to suspect that this dream of hers to travel the world was shared with the man but he must have refused to assist her with such en devours. If your husband has a certain goal he has set his mind to fulfill wouldn't you support him? if the lady wants to tour the world why cant he help her.
I used to work at a resort- which means i've seen people come from all walks of life traveling for thousands of miles to feast their eyes on things in a world other than theirs. My point is, it is not an insane request by the woman.




Pardon me, but relationship as society has brought me up to understand entails compromising in one way or the other to meet up with expectations of the spouse and vice versa. Its a contract that was signed with the inks of love on a paper of commitment.
Does she have freedom to dress the way she wants, to be-friend who she wants, to get an education, to get a job?

i, once switching through channels sometime ago and stumbled upon a "men and women conference" taking place in Saudi Arabia. Apart form not understanding the Arabic, you know what else i didn't understand? why the hell did a "men and women" conference didn't have women inside but rather where represented by male family members? where all the women on antenatal or what?

In this case, there is definitely more to it than that which meets the eye.

I wouldn't say they like terrorism but i do agree with you that "she was obviously married off na".

So in other words... due to freedom to do whatever u want, u should leave a marriage whenever u feel like...I always warn family and friends to b careful with giving their hearts to selfish beings ... if we all show act of selfishness to display freedom, this world will collapse... this world is really full of wicked selfish people...hope u will b fine if u are treated the same way after being good to ur partner and sacrifices alot... let ur partner also leave u too cos ur partner feels they need freedom...also leave ur kids cos u want freedom from their burden

bukatyne:
What can we say na.

People want to be free to walk out of marriages at will;

If there was something wrong in that marriage, the wife would have mentioned it.

This is not the West where people divorce for 'freedom' or 'growth'.

She needed to state a reason why she was leaving: to come up with what she said means there is nothing wrong.

Even affairs last more than marriages today.

Cc: Beverlyjean

If men start to toe that part...we women will still complain and start to tag men irresponsible and will then start to quote the same bible some overlook ... western culture is killing the institute of marriage... people would say arrangee marriage that our fore fathers practiced is bad and archaic... but the love marriage that we have accepted dont even last as well ... infact arangee marriages last longer than I hv found love marriages ... it simply shows that both marriages need something in common , and thats tolerance , understanding, sacrifice , responsibility and commitment ...but these days its turned to a competition between man and woman

TruthHurts1:
She's in her early 40s and was married 25 years ago. Do the math. That means she was between 15 and 17 when she got married. It was obviously a forced and arranged marriage. If she had enough after 25 years she should be allowed to leave.

They never mentioned early 40s ...u are the one that deceptively applied that... they said 40s , which could b 48 as well and the man 50s

BRATISLAVA:
Did you?

Is there a problem with her wanting her freedom?

I hope ud b nappy if ur bf of many years that u love alot dumps u cos he wants his freedom ... even after rejecting suitors and mayb after 2 abortions or 1 kid ... afterall everyone has the right to b free to do whatever pleases them...its their right

JovialJune:
This thread is an eye opener on how loathsome men are, in their heart, they hate the freedom and voice women have these days and will love if it is completely cut off,

Just take a look at most comments of idiot males here and some stupid ass females supporting the Judge and husband, how the hell can one even think of not allowing someone who wants to be free and be at peace, do you fools know what she's been facing in the marriage? Yet most foolish comments centers mainly on the money he gives her,

Bunch of broke ass akuyas who'd sell their manhood cos of money, ye t they insult women that only go for rich men, they think everyone is hungry like them, schmucks.

Time and experience has tot me only broke people call others broke... or those that struggled out of poverty... when money has always been a part of ur lifestyle, u would nor refer others as broke ... I have never heard about obo or cuppy call people broke ...but wizkid , Tiwa, zlatan , marley are quick to call people broke cos they have experienced it and it makes them feel better when they try to think someone else is presently in a situation that they once experienced or are experiencing...

To the topic , I can bet u will curse a guy that dumps his gf of 10yrs to go marry another , even if she had a child for him ...if I should judge it based on ur belief, then he did no wrong cos he also wanted freedom... I'm sure u watched the Tyler perry's movie whr a very rich lawyer husband asked his wife of 18yrs to leave cos he dint want her again ...I'm sure u were amongst those that cursed him , but he also wanted his freedom to do whatever he wanted to please himself.... selfish people are the worst type of humans on earth ... being responsible comes first b4 freedom ...

BRATISLAVA:
Poor people will always put the money first before the issue.

So after 25 years of enduring the controlling man, she wants to live her life, and he won't let her. Why do you think this is so? Because he's a saint? She shouldn't because of "the amount on a regular basis"? Money may buy you, but not everyone else.

Did u read the story at all??

bukatyne:
You don vex ke?

Welcome to the new world.

People should do short-term marriages: renewable every two years.

I dont agree to that...the devil is trying to destroy God's work and we are using being woke and freedom to enable the devils plans ...

ziondaughter247:
Honestly, i have come to the conclusion that many of you are simply retarded. It is obvious it wasn't a woman that gave birth to some of you! Obviously this woman married as a child-bride. She probably had no say in her marriage. Yes her husband is very rich, but she is willing to find her happiness now that the children have grown. Some of you are really really mean, honestly. This is a woman that is obviously trapped, even with all the money is not willing to stay again, she probably suffers domestic violence. I pray you don't find yourselves in a situation like this. We are blacks and the truth is that many blacks are already living that this in your daily life but are rejoicing because a 'woman' is being oppressed. No wonder the black man hardly makes much progress. Typical blacks have a big issue with mentality, they can barely see beyond their noses. Why force someone to stay when they are not interested? It is the same thing a white man, an Indian, a Chinese does to you and you shout oppression. but you're happy now because it's a woman??

It's obvious she isn't and has never been happy in that marriage.

You are a black man abroad. You have no say and most times you might not get justice even when you've been obviously wronged. This woman married as a child, obviously against her will. It's still the same thing!

U claim she married as a child bride , whats ur proof?? She is in her 40s as stated , 40s could b 47 as well and that means she could hv married at 22...the husband is in his 50s , means she probably 10 yrs older...now its definite that u are mentally challenged or u hv so much hate in u that it has affected ur way of reasoning appropriately

ziondaughter247:
See this narcissist. I love the way things are changing. Most of you just make mouth here, you can't try this rubbish in real life. if you are such a 'saint', why would she leave after 25 years? This is obviously an oppressed woman, who endured till her children were grown. The same arab man that you're happy is oppressing his wife still see you as lower than his camels unfortunately.

U are mentally sick...u need help...you see the way u are creating delusional statements...did she ever mention she was oppressed?? She has a luxury car given to her by her husband and 25000 d equivalent to 2.5 million monthly, didn't u read the part whr the husband said she has always had her freedom to party with friends and he never complained...and that freedom is definitely what has lead to her wanting a divorce.... if men cage women , we complain , now freedom and luxury is given to her for a whole 25yrs and she still complains...she is a married woman and not a girlfriend...u are either a kid or mentally challenged

JovialJune:
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Da hell!!! See nonsense this one typed abeg, a woman is willing to leave a marriage so that she'd stop disrespecting her husband, you're saying she cant leave cos marriage bla bla bla, see talk abeg, she said she wants to be free, she has the fvcking right to leave a marriage where she feels caged, marriage hlas it is in this century is not sacred anymore, at least for some, you hear husband and wives commiting disgusting atrocities in secret when they can easily divorce and do it freely with no guilt,

The lady should better go to a better Judge or court where she will be granted her divorce abeg, marriage is not by force, everybody has the right to leave a marriage they are no more interested in, regardless of whoever is enjoying it or not.

Please don't ever go into marriage...remain single all ur life and don't ever allow any man commit to u cos its certain that u have a selfish , greedy and wicked personality... 25000 d is 2.5 million naira monthly, luxury car and even gave her freedom , and now she repays him after 25yrs with divorce on the grounds that she wants total freedom to flex... cos money is now in her wallet to live however she wishes... if the man was giving her only 1000 d monthly, she would not hv gone to court ...u see we women are the cause of most problems in marriages due to greed and selfishness... u think marriage is relationship... the man should even seize her passport cos she will wanna run away from the country... freedom is good but giving absolute freedom can destroy

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Gamesmart:
Which match?

Was a penalty scored?

This foolish man....ur brains don't work properly...u should go check into a rehab or mental institution...messi, pele, biscan all scored over 100 penalties just like Ronaldo... u are so dumb not to realise that scoring of penalties is an attribute in football... penalties have existed since conception of the game ... its like saying a player scoring 1 on 1 goals against a goalie isn't as good as goals that are scored when others are in the box... forgetting that 1 on 1 or penalties are the hardest to score cos of the pressure of expectancy to certainly deliver ... u are indeed a very dull child... this apart u really think like re.tards ... and I dont reply re.tards cos they have a mental condition

Seems mbgn title was more of a curse

PortableToDynam:
representative of fake gods dey kiss publicly. The Queen self no fit kneel collect ring from King. Tueehhhhh.. All these political Kings with no history self

Its called mumu button

Kilishihunter:
All these Ronaldo people Sha I hope you are not referring to another Messi because the Messi I know has 4 champions league titles for Barcelona And secondly the profit Messi makes for Barcelona is more than double of this cash that was stupidly leaked out It's not his fault Bartomeu mismanaged the club's finances and also the impact of the coronavirus since Barcelona doesn't have a wealthy owner to finance it regularly Infact what have you even given to your city, state or country sef
Stop hating on greatness bro

Nonsense talk... part of the mismanagement was also giving him that ridiculous contract... 4 CL but only partipated in 3 ...by the way we are talking about since 2017 when he signed that ridiculous contract...what did he give in return??

And all he could give in return was la liga titles, golden boots ...while Lewandowski and Ronaldo was giving the same with with champions league inclusive

modsfucker:
You apparently sound frustrated, may be due to poverty.... No wonder you dish out this incoherent gibberish

Everything to people like u is poverty....it simply shows poverty has mentally destroyed ur brain cells

Imagine...what sort of useless set of rulers do we have...how can they b enforcing NIN registration during this deadly wave .... anything northerners touch or head , ended up in disaster...they hv never even brought glory to this nation...whether thru innovation or sports or entertainment, even production...but they wanna always control the country...no recognised northern professor abroad, or even established business abroad...4kin parasites

VaselineCrew:
The same Black Lives Matter that rioted all summer last year?

The same guys that burnt down city after city?

The same guys that destroyed businesses to the tune of billions of dollars?


THE SAME GUYS THAT CAUSED THE DEATH OF OVER 30 people last summer?



I just hate hypocrisy!

One riot on one day by so called republicans and they term it insurrection, but burn down cities, kill children and destroy businesses and they give you a Nobel prize

Uv said it all...only a few are as intelligent as u

I agree with falana...miyetti and their likes have been issuing threats , even said they own all land in nigeria...

Everytime close bridge everytime close bridge...I am tired of these guys