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They allowed an animal to rule is...this is the result

Numerouno94:
Chai!!. See hatred. God hv mercy on Nigerians cos we re a set of bitter ppl.

How is this hatred ...that's y people like u cant grow ....is there anything there that's not facts ... Hatred is cheating someone off what he deserves and people like u will support it

Pls stop confusing us ... That's yorubawood...anyway quick recovery

Pls what's this guys rise to fame??

Devops:
When will you people get it Trophies define team performance. Awards define individual brilliance. And no player born of a woman came close to Messi last season.
Goddamit too many pseudo pundits here

Was modric better than CR7 individually in 2018 ?? Was any player better than CR7 individually in 2018

Devops:
Shut up.. Modric won the champions league and Golden ball. Those two precedes over anything.

Will u still say this if Barca won the CL in 2018 and rakitic ended up winnin balon d'Or cos croatia got to the final and not Argentina ??

ecclize:
so Maharez should win African beat because he won more trophies than Mane or Salah?...

Was Mahrez the best player in man city?? Was he even among top 3 best in mancity ??

eni4real:
World Cup golden ball is the reason why Modric was better than Ronaldo in 2018!!!

Modric to Cristiano:

U sound like so do r that don't go to school... Y did Messi win 2010 balon d'Or despite forlan winning the golden ball... Y dint forlan win balon d'Or ...u reason with ur anus... Y dint Oliver khan win balon d'Or despite winning the golden ball...y dint zidane win the balon d'Or despite winning the golden ball that yr... Y dint Messi win the balon d'Or despite winning the golden ball... U have mental problem ooo and u don't know it

No soccer player has suffered more than Ronaldo .... He has been denied multiple achievements due to the wicked people of the world... Messi fans will say he doesn't fit to lace the boots of Messi ...can u imagine how daft people are ... Ronaldo deserved 2012 balon d'Or but it was given to Messi cos he scored 90 goals even after Ronaldo wrestled la Liga away from Messi ...Messi won nothing that yr ... The following yr Ronaldo then scored 78 goals , FIFA had no choice but to give him ahead of ribery cos they knew he deserved it the previous yr ... Messi won balon d'Or in 2010 despite being knocked out 4.0 in the quarter final against Germany despite not registering a single goal in that world cup ... Sneider won CL , Copa Italia and serie A , got to the final of the WC and was also joint top scorer in the WC ... Forward to 2018 ... Ronaldo became the first man in CL history to score in 10 consecutive games , he won lots of gAnes for them and they won the CL ...he scored the finest goal last yr against juve in Turin ... But they also robbed him of that ,giving it to one normal goal Salah scored in the epl ... Modric then went ahead to win balon d'Or ahead of him despite being disgraced in the final by France ... Alot of people here said modric deserved it just because they dint want Ronaldo to overtake Messi ... Now 2019 , Messi wins it again despite Ronaldo winning more trophies for club and country ... What did Messi win that mbappe , aguero , lewandovski dint win ... Despite registering only one goal in the Copa and being knocked out ... This balon d'Or is nothing but a scam Messi is meant to hv won only 3 balon d'Or ... 2009, 2011 and 2015 ... Ronaldo 2008 , 2014, 2016, 2017 , 2018

Fountainofyouth:
You have a very low self esteem, speak only for the yourself, your family, friends and relatives, you do not speak for all women.

How do you know why she is posting this? Are you in her mind or heart? She says she is happy, who are you to say she is not happy? Are you God?

Alot of people that commited suicide made people Ard them believe that they were happy ... I am a woman like u , but I hv decided to face the realities of life ... I used to live in denial like most women do , but i knew I wasn't happy cos I was only living a life of make belief ... It's time women start to tell themselves the truth of life realities ... Money is never happiness , that's a poor man's mentality ... Happiness is real family ... Having a husband that's loving with healthy kids is the best life can offer even if u can't afford a mercedes ... Or u think Genevieve and Linda are fulfilled ... Even men can b happy if they hv all the money in the world and no family to enjoy the wealth with ... Some occultic men that hv so much money have been told never to hv a family , and that's the price they hv to pay for wealth ... Do u think they are happy... They can only pretend to b happy ... Money without family is crap...anyone that tells u that they are happy is lying ... I hv an aunty that stays in ikoyi at Osborne ( her own house) drives the latest Benz and BMW ....she travels to different countries monthly but she keeps on telling my mum how sad she is that she doesn't hv a family ... She acts like she is very happy towards friends and colleagues , but we in the family know how she feels ...

izzou:
So from your statement, all married women are happy and fulfilled, right?

So everyone that has money is fulfilled and happy right??

If a married woman says shes happy and fulfilled , then she is ...

izzou:
She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

Don't b decieved .... We women love living in denial.... Hv u ever asked y we use make ups ?? It's to cover what we truly look like , but deep down we know it's all fake ... She's only posting this to make herself feel happy ... No woman , I repeat , no woman can ever b happy seeing her friends married with kids ... Even if she has all the money in the world , she will never b fulfilled

Harlequeen:
why do you say that last sentence of yours?

How many female billionaires do we hv in the world ?? 90% of female billionaires got their wealth thru family wealth which was created by the father ( man) ... Most women dint know how to manage or grow a business ... Theresa may was given an opportunity as pm but she cudnt manage that position.. next thing is that we blame men for our failing in life not minding the fact that there are more women than men I the world ... Women are groomed to believe that they are entitled to every good thing but will challenge the hard things of life ... Feminists have never talked about the number of women accepted in the army but will challenge payments in sports even tho male sports is more accepted and viewed than female sports ... But also forget that Serena earns more that alot of male tennis players ... The world is designed in such a way that money can only b made thru crowd acceptance ... Men can easily pay a woman to hv a child for him but how many women can do same ?? Men gain employment due to their true credentials but women gain more employment because if credentials dont work , bottom power will work ... Men dont feel as entitled as women ... Men are pressured to mk money first b4 being accepted in the society most times compared to women and that's y they hustle harder than us cos they know that's the only way to mk money for them... Men get intimidated when they see a wealthy woman , they hardly approach wealthy women for marriage ask Linda and Genevieve ... Imagine if they were men , they would hv married a long time ago with loads of women not minding to b second , third or fourth wife ... The truth is that men rhle the world and we should accept it , what we should b fighting for is for them not to take us forgranted ... Can u compare the number of men that hv made people wealthy compared to the number of people women have made wealthy ... Even if men should pass the mantle to us women, we will make a mess of it

Harlequeen:
in that case you areost likely the real feminist here

I'm not a feminist but a realist ... Most ideologies that women are begining to believe these days will most likely ruin us .... We need men more than they need us really ....

Harlequeen:
you sound like a male hiding behind the f monicker

So because I don't support ur ideas or beliefs , I am a man ...lol... I am the only daughter with 4 bothers and I'm the last ... I hv more of male friends than women ... I know the way we women think and how men think as well... I hv seen life experiences thru my aunties ... Better wake up b4 u get lost in life ... Face reality and leave fantasy

healthserve:
What a matured womanly-insight, do you mind telling us more. Let we men learn from your woman-experience madam. There's an insight on these you seem to have I'm willing to learn from.

Can you expand on your comment overall on these kind of ladies asper your perception and understanding of them assuming the Op and pther ladies we come across falls into the category you believe she/the Op is?

I love Tyler Perry's movies for one thing ...it tells stories of the reality of life... Acrimony showed us how most of we women think .... The woman in the movie felt so entitled cos she sponsored the man all thru their existence together but dint 100% believe ,trust or loved the man ... He loved her a hundred percent but also believed in his dreams a hundred percent ... When u both come together as one , u both should trust ur dreams a hundred percent , even if it doesn't work in the end ... Most times God brings these challenges to test us ... And most times we give up in the dying minutes... She was the man's distraction but dint realise it... Love is for better for worse till the end ... But because she felts entitled , she tried to control him , and u can't take a man away from what he believes in..u can only support till the end ... She made the decision to move on , the man still came bk to beg but he was ridiculed ... Most women get bad advice from friends and relatives ... We women are not good managers cos we are illogical cos that's the way we are wired , but feminism has come to decieve most of us .... When a man truly loves a woman , nothing can ever change that feeling unless she cheats ... But when a woman loves a man alot of factors can change those feelings ... The woman in acrimony had an unforgiving spirit and that's y she dint accept him bk till she heard he was now in money ... Any woman that supports the woman in acrimony is a red flag , a glaring one at that

Messi ...balon d'Or robber ....he has robbed the Dutch twice

Officialgarri:
The nervousness was written all over him. He wanted the award so badly

He couldn't imagine a GOAT being compared with a hardworking sheep.

I'm glad he is now ahead and arguments have ended.

Messi with his current performance might win the next Ballon d' or

Which argument has ended ?? Someone that hasn't won anything for his nation or won CL in 5yrs .... Messi is a fraud and is like buhari and apc that is being favoured by the judges

Harlequeen:
he didn't try every humanly possible thing. He only thought she was good enough for him when he was broke and homeless. How.about coming to get her when he made it. Acrimony is the sad ending that wait for any person who plays the role of come up woman.

With ur understanding of acrimony ...it simply shows ur personality and I so pity any man that falls for u ... U are a certain feminist and a red flag for men.... U seem like the entitled unforgiven type .... U are the type that they men say they should fear

tfash96:
I b Barça and Messi fan to be frank I no like the way both Messi and Ronaldo no show during Modric time.. Sebi na other people sha dey show when dem dey collect their own.. But that 1 apart even if Serie A no hold anything yesterday night Ronaldo no go show still.. I no sabi d 1 Ronaldo don win wey Messi no show.. Forget about serie A awards even if hin no dey hin no go show.. Person wey no attend FIFA own.. So selfish say make everything go dey be hin own.. Mtchew

Go to YouTube and check 2016 and 2017 ... Messi dint show... Ronaldo stopped showing when Messi dint come for his own award

obembet:
Messi was absent last year because he was not among the probable winners, he was not among the top 3 .As for CR7 ,he was among the top 3; yet decided to snub the occasion.

Stupid hypocrites ...did Messi attend when ronaldo won 2015 and 16....u Messi fans are moda4kin ass.holes

The earlier we female understand the world and society , the better it will b for us ... All these gra gra will never work

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

What happened between u and ur ex?? Did u end the relationship ,or did he end it?... all I'm saying is that u guys should hv fought to mk it work... Sex is so cheap these days that it will b very hard to find a commited guy ooo.... They are lots of facts that contributes to men being unserious these days unlike the past.... Eg economy , finance , social media , cheap sex , upbringing ... Try to figure out if u can get bk to ur ex

Moura7:
who is the heartbeat of arg for the past ten years? I'm asking you

There is no heartbeat in Argentina ...they are all the same

Numerouno94:
U sound so pained. Wat has Messi done to u?
Do u even watch barca games ? Messi is d hrt bit of barca. He controls d flow of d game, frm mildfield to attack..
Ur Ronaldo stays in d opponents 18yard box for tap ins nd penalty.
I hv promised nt to engage in any argument wit anybody abt Messi nd Ronaldo, buh i had to qoute u cos u sound so pained.
Am nt a Ronaldo fan, buh i dnt hate him, i lyk him buh i jux luv messi cos he is d best.
U jump frm one Messi nd Ronaldo thread abt hatin on Messi, u no get work?
Pls dat una leave barca to anoda club is becomin a clinche.

When someone points at facts...u guys call it hating ... U say he is the heart of Barca , but I'd he the heart of Argentina?? Can't u guys reason properly ??

TissuePaper:
The truth is that it is only habitual for women to play the victim...it will surprise u to know that nothing of such actually happened, this might be her own way of getting back at the guy for maybe dumping her or refusing to grant a request made by her.

We have seen it all, them busola dakolo's, and Stephanie otobo's ..if u really had a case u should be in court and not on twitter.

U are a psychopath and potential rapist ... Dint u read that they were witnesses or u dint c others that are coming forward ??

Memberclub:
you're deluded. You need help

Counter my post and stop posting rubbish...no difference btw u Messi minions and those abokis in the north that blindly support APC , despite the poverty rate there

I just can't believe how people get carried away by messis fraud ... Messi can only shine in Barca cos every player plays for him... Once a player in a team is being helped by every player in the team , he will surpass expectations ... Henry was a legend while playing for arsenal cos everyone played for him ...but the moment he moved to Barca story changed ... So as shevchenko in Milan , rud van nistelrooy wasn't as prolific in Madrid as Manchester cos Raul was already there ... How can people call this man the greatest ...how!!! It's baffles me honestly ... A player that hasn't won champions League in 5yrs or an international trophy for his national team ... He himself knows that if he ever left Barca , he will not shine as he does in Barca... Neymar , was a god in Santos and the Brazilian national team till he joined Barca , greizman atletico power reduces to nothing at Barca , Suarez wàs a genius in Liverpool but dropped below expectation at Barca ... All these players dont get played for in their new club as former clubs that's y they seem like they ain't as good as b4 ... Messi controls everything in Barca and the players know this , if u don't play for him, u are off the team ...and u call him greatest

World cup 2018 , Messi scored only one goal in 4 appearances ,and that was against Nigeria ... Copa America 2019 , he also scored only one penalty in 5appearances ...doesn't that tell u guys that this guy isn't as good as u think ... If he joins a team like man city or atletico he wudnt score much cos aguero also wants to b tip scorer and aguero is already a man city legend , so he didn't hv to play for him... Atletico is not a high scoring team just like juve so scoring goals will b a problem for him ... Open ur eyes and stop being decieved ... It's not by awards , but by vast contribution in football ... Barca will only remember Messi many years to come and not the whole soccer world ... Ask the late Alfred Di Stefano and Johan Cruyff

Fake list .... How can Ronaldo finish forth when the 3 nominees are himself , Messi and VVD ... Now how did Salah enter top 3??

Biglittlelois:
Pains everywhere, the reason why Op brought this chat here is because he cant afford her, if he can, none of us will know of Op's existence

It doesn't really have to do with money... Even adenugas son will b pissed at her response ... No sane person wastes money on a fool

eitsei:
being a virgin should be a lady's priority and then what should be a man's priority?
well, each to his own...Virginity would be the last thing on my list if I want to settle down with a woman

Keep on living in denial... I hv brothers and I know how men think ... Everyman wants to marry a virgin..everyman might not want to date a virgin, but everyman wants to marry a virgin... No man is comfortable knowing that his wife hv 4kd a number of guys b4 him ...it breeds disrespect subconsciously