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daddytime:
Zero respect for self and worth...

Very sad....


Her killer would sure meet his end soon.

lead us not in to puverty

we still get fine lady's only wide holes be the issues

Lamasta:
Barca lost to Bilbao
Barca lost to Coutinho
Barca which way

Barca really lost to cotinho

him na team

In other words him do fail

Try again later

captainking:
Funny enough..i know this guy from his elder brother who is a pastor and calls himself.. Prophetic papa.. Invictus group.. Clear yourself bro.

pls o am just a simple guy who don't understand English much pls break am down for me

Citytrend:
Hnmm my brother the western life has finally gotten in our culture

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U c why the old don't want to give the youth chance



because they can't be trusted on there own





no sense to talk sense

try God is ur leed

U mean sly baby Mama's abi also slyin in office uku idi ala

lion heart

mubi

Dannyset:

The Tinubu wankers are here again. They've forgotten so soon that they said more for Buhari.

Tinubu has proven to be greater than you all, and the least you can do is to pick a rope and look at the ceiling if there's anything you can do to be remembered as a martyr.

Pls not on a Friday and more over them no get ceiling na P O P them get so

miss00000:
We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children.

We started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year.

About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business.

8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine.

After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me.

One day I cried and begged him to tell me what was going on, after hours of begging, the first question he asked me was "where was it written in the bible that marriage has to be between one man and one woman and not with different women", "why can't a man marry two or more wives if he has the resources to take care of them equally"(the lady is a muslim btw).

He confessed that he has been dating this lady for over two years and has no plan of leaving her, and theres a possibility he's going to marry her. I'm just 26yo with a one month old baby, I didn't sign up for this.

While growing up, my mum has always warned us against polygamy. although he's promised to be there for me and still wants our marriage to continue, but the thought of my husband being with someone else is killing me. I've tried to reason with him several times but I end up hurting even more. I've been praying but still no change. He's been trying to compensate with gifts and money but thats not what I want. he doesn't want me to tell anyone and I feel reporting him to his family will even worsen the case. We've always settled our issues ourselves without involving anyone. I've tried everything I can just to take my mind off it. I need someone to talk to, prolly a friend or a counsellor. I've been crying for days now, I've not been eating well and I have to breastfeed my child. I never knew my life would be this complicated. I don't know why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.

first are u a full house wife or not
if u are good, but if u are not a full house wife bad.
try to get in to is head a little,
if is around Live the baby for him go out for a walk maybe one or two hours if u come back tell him u just stroll to clear your head of thinking

let is food be let some times.

pretend to look for work even when u not

he will surely tell people by himself what is going true

by then people will sit bout of down

pls don't kill ur self is not whout it

hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

I read with pity how holy heart like ours get cut in this web call love may your sorrow be put to joy and God grant u wisdom to rule over your house



one thing I will advise u do is make her cox her self with Bible in hand or if u a Muslim let her hold the Quran in hand I swear that all the Cox in it be hers the day she chit on u again




some partners don't think what is the person she is cheating with as AIDS


she brings it home to u abi

u

Nemesis909:

Who say Aboki no they read

Lordave:



Onye nwe anyi nara nkpuru obi ya na ndokwa!

This are Nigeria worth to mention and emulate in league of if not above funke Ramsonkuti, Queen Amina and others great mother

thisnaijaguy:
Fine girls.

It's difficult to say but can they meet me in za oza room to decide ?

za order room is for man and woman not woman and woman

Nukilia:
Travel warning alert should be issued by the Nigerian government advising Nigerians to stay away from troubled states in the US.

okada hit Moto jam trailer

swag it up as if u they chop melon

ha aaa

Na this small boy they make my some thing water

[quote author= post=81019344]Sure, you have to thank him from the bottom of your heart.
Atleast he did not run away the way someone did wearing his wife's gown in the middle of the night!
He's in Israel as we speak.
To come back home.......for where?!
Cownu, the JAPAAAA master![/quote]When u put personal issue above national interest we get collateral damage

dreams

qualityovenbake:
Hope him receive Bitterlemon. Nonsense

What happen to the woman who invited him in













mallam mugu

IneedSugarMumy1:




Upon all the problems in Nigeria the dude own was to press breast





Sorry Aunty maybe you exposed your boobi somehow

him for rape her abi

GrabHisBalls:
They never learn.

saying by who














u don't mean to say that I suppose

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I get share for diamond Bank, wema bank, Dangote flower and oceanic bank bout I no no them registered how I for do now

gidgiddy:
In Sudan it was the military that overthrew the president and not the protesters

how did the revolution start before the military came in Algeria Egypt Morocco Philippines

deji17:
Atiku can continue to bark like a rabid dog on social media. But one thing that is sure is that Atiku is not cumming. Wailers can continue to wail.

if boko Haram operation is carried out in adamawa buchi niger and order hausa land and his school business is not attack for one day










boy o boy

gidgiddy:
There is just one thing you are missing. It is not possible for unarmed people to overthrow a government.


Freedom to protest is very essential in a democracy, without it, it is no longer democracy you are practicing

was arm use in SUDAN before the government was overtrone