₦airaland Forum

Haha, this terrible roads reminds me of what the late Prof Ali Mazrui said.

"The big powers have gone to the moon and beyond but the African is still trying to get to the village"

Talk2Bella:
This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives.


They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married.


THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN}


I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation?


We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate.


I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement.


I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months.


We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away.


There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving.


These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart.


Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=937So_VluXQ


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-do-nigerian-men-come-back-home-to.html

Wow on the 2nd paragraph there....is all the reason for Kenyan girls to heed advise to stay away from their high spending,sweet talking Nigerian suitors.

KissChris:
I'll stop at this point


cc: Lalasticlala

Yeah ,you better stop .Give me an ugly ass president any day as long as he has the right policies,right focus & values ,he isn't selfish and has right vision + passion of improving his country.

Thats what a "beautiful African president" actually means to me.

claremont:
The white stuff is called Ugali, a maize meal.

I can see you thoroughly enjoyed your holiday in Kenya. I have been there thrice; twice officially and once on a personal holiday, and I enjoyed every minute of it. It is a good thing you are married, Kenyan ladies have a soft spot for Nigerian guys for some reason. They love our swag.

Glad you enjoyed your stay in Kenya.Contrary to what some Nigerians wrongly believe ,its actually a very good thing to see Nigerians and other brothers from accross the continent residing in Kenya.Its culturally enriching to all and creates more openmindedness,lowering barriers and creating new horizons + experiences.

A few deportations here and there shouldn't ruin all that rich fabric of shared benefits and law abiding Nigerians are certainly welcome to Kenya.If all Nigerians (and other africans) in Kenya left it would be terrible and would send a very bad message.A country where no foreigners want to live in is a terrible nation .

Sheba23:
I don't want African countries... Togo and Nigeria... I wonder the differences..

Its very sad when Africans don't value their own continent or think its not worth a visit.

How are other races and continents going to value Africa if we ourselves think and act in a manner that says "African countries are useless and not worth attention or respect" ??

Drlaw:
Be honest the most expensive cars and good houses in kenya is own by women not to talk of single mothers Nigerian men married many wives because we always capable and we don't run for our responsibility I don't meaning to disrespect a person like u that's logical in reasoning but to say the fact most kenya men can't withstand anyone been successful than them I have lived here and I know this I have a couple of Kenyan male friends when we are together they always amazed how we treat women and this where you guys have lost it. Most of us living here just enjoy the company and motivation of your women unlike Nigerian ladies ... I will talk about that later. .
And let reason it this way if anyone has not commit crime saying been in the country when their visa elapsed is absolute violation of free will of human right since they didn't come in illegal kwani what is the mean if "neutralization"?

On one hand "you don't mean to disrespect a logical person like MtuMsupa" but on the other hand in a different post you tarred all Kenyan men as "useless and lazy" Does that make any logic? You're not a true friend of your Kenyan male friends with such inconsistency,hidden contempt and a sweeping lack of respect yet you live in their country.

Drlaw:
Wewe kwenda uko. Stop that ure lying this is just
Jubilee administration cajoled on people like you why is Rialia ranting that picture is just for selected schools okay and this was just launched not quite 4months okay. It's in kenya here that I see so many street kids looking tarted and no one to care for them since -all u Kenyan men are useless and lazy-. Check around city stadium round about u will see them laying down sleeping on the grass early morning drunk and dirty while ur women are doing it big time. Or at the kenyantta round along moi avenue you will see them inhaling gums and u want to compare yourself with people that know the want to drink croc working hard to have the best thing where ever when ever it's. Guy the truth of this argument is just that u guys don't know " how" and ure begin to be violent on us.

You said "since all you Kenyan men are useless and lazy"

Generalization of whole populace is the building blocks of naked hatred.I know it makes you feel better about yourself by labelling a whole group of very diverse population with different values as "lazy and useless"

philip0906:
[size=13pt]Lol... You picked out a handful of "lone wolf" examples from different countries, but couldn't pick one from Nigeria? In other words you haven't come across a decent and great Nigerian of the thousands in Kenya or you have met them and chose to ignore that.
Let me help you say what you have been avoiding to say, You hate Nigerians. Quit this your "If you live on the wrong side of the law, expect it to catch up with you. ". It is stale.
During my last visit to Kenya, here is what I figured out
1. Kenyan men hate Nigerian men because Nigerian men are confident and your girls throw themselves around Nigerian men
2. Kenyan men are generally lazy men and so feel intimidated by a well doing Nigerian man.
Not trying to sound petty, it's what is easily verifiable by anyone [/size]

Hypocrisy detected :you loudly object to "lone wolf"examples yet you're glad to generalize and tar all Kenyan men as lazy.Its irony that Nigerian men are confident and "well doing" but yet you can't figure out how to keep 24/7 electricity,raise life expectancy/improve woeful child mortality rates ,save the tanking Naira or diversifying the economy.It just doesn't add up or make sense.

TonyeBarcanista:
The gods are wise

PS: We have the potentials to challenge countries like Austria and UK, but we have consistently mismanaged it to the point that we are only slightly better than countries like South Sudan and Somalia

Tony stop deluding yourself you're nowhere near challenging Austria or UK. You don't export luxury cars or make 2m cars a year,you don't have nuclear subs,nothing like a list of Nobel prize winning phycists and chemists,Nigeria doesn't have aircraft carriers,you don't own giant shipping lines,no subways or worldwide multinationals.

The day Nigeria starts making its own fighter aircraft,making blockbuster drugs ,having giant mining and oil companies,having a $trillion dollar budget and worldclass universities then you can say that. Just a friendly banter trying to make you see hard realities bro cuz as africans we're too far off the promised land.

uwagimboo:
I doubt the embolden..
Remember, we re the populous black nation in the world, manpower here is in excess, business owners in excess, their survival here would be hell...

You say that as if its a good thing.

Never ever paint your nation as unwelcoming and a tough place to do business to potential foreign investors....and another thing you can't have both excess business owners and have excess manpower - that's very incongruent it just doesn't add up.

naijalander:
Bifwoli

ThunderingHooves

NairobiWalker

Kenyanstar

MtuMsuper

I only tagged you guys so you can correct the false stereo types I knew would follow this post (like the dumb a$$ saying Kenyans are black). I am not your enemy, yeah I find Kenyans annoying sometimes but overall, Nairobi is a second home to me.

Congratulations.

What false stereotypes? The vitriol, outright hatred, belittling ,very ill feelings and other malicious content coming from Naija (admittedly not from ALL Nigerians)is not even comparable.You don't even seem to see your own lack of objectivity.

Daslim180:
How Buhari take enter this thread now? This is showing the level of confusion in you.

Na teacher go say A for class, you go say na B.

Can't you see there's 24 hr light ,South Sudans' currency is not in freefall and there's no "other room" in this big place?

psucc:
Those of una where the shout Kenya, Kenya, I no follow join o!

Una remember the last Twitter fight how Kenya use our President disgrace us? Now where our President don come do something 'baddier' than last time, hhmmm!, mek I no tell Kenyans wetin to carry slap us.

Very creative okada man knows well in the terrible Buhari economy people can't afford soap.

Okada man created armpit-high armrests to keep the air flowing.Its "the other room" to make airflow into stinky armpits a bit "fresh"

Kilonis:
To say it's ridiculous is an understatement, just look at how youths are making a mockery of serious things. I must say I'm utterly disappointed in this generation.

Look at all this madness,poor taste and lack of class.

Yet most here will always say Kenya,Ghana ,Zimbabwe is where all weird and tasteless stuff occurs rather than in "more noble and more civilized" Naija.Take the big log outta your eye fellas.

This all means Nigeria now falls to #3 behind Egypt in GDP size.

Buhari is truly implementing his genius economic blueprint.

Hollawaley:
i swear its only in kenya that police would assault you, then you would still have liver to push his bike down and the police man would later appologize to you by hugging you. chai naija police, i hail una where una dey

The policeman knows well he'll probably be subject to appear before a public police oversight committee to explain his conduct ,procedures and proffessionalism in this saga.

asuustrike2009:
It seems nairaland now have affinity for East Africa news.When would North Africa join the train

They'll never have such "affinity" for North Africa even in ten thousand years.

North Africa is too culturally mainstream with not enough dirt and juicy stories to make "good" malicious propaganda fit for front page.

naijalander:
Bifwoli

ThunderingHooves

NairobiWalker

Kenyanstar

MtuMsuper

Now who do we believe?

Why even ask when we know Naijalander will believe the Baby Daddy bcoz that'll cement his anti Kenya propaganda.

Double post.

uwagimboo:
Nigeria go to Libya, they kill them..
Nigeria go to SA, they kill them..
Nigeria go to Liberia, they kill them..
Even Nigerians going to Northern Nigeria re not spared..
Nigerian ladies who even go to other room re killed...


Is it not time we change this name Nigeria to WAZOBIA...

But how are other Africans treated in Nigeria?

Nigeria probably has a lack of "multiculturalism" that's why other west Africans,east Africans or southern Africans are not living in Nigeria.

lajoshua:
lol..but seriously all these big stores affect the sales of the local market, any city they are located the local market suffers and the irony is the import even basic things such as fruits,pathetic. lalasticlala what do you think??

But the big stores are far much better.

They bring economies of scale thus lowering prices,they're better in terms of sanitation standards and they help modernize a retail market still encumbered by stoneage style of chaotic small mom & pop road side shacks who probably don't remit sales taxes.

Don't tell me you prefer those filthy markets with open sewers,dusty outdated merchandize and smelly trash heaps next to them.

Chicha1:
Let me guess....this is in Kenya right?

Boko Haram is killing people,Naira is fallin hard,no fuel,there's rice shortage,Buhari is publicly embarrassing Nigeria abroad and most Chibok girls are still in captivity.

Why not be obsessed with these real issues instead of worrying about "kenya did this" yet they have 24/7 power and no fuel rationing there?

Thank God for these wonderful guys

The 1st photo is that the kitchen cabinet or is it the "yes men" cabinet?

ShakurM:
Kenya and absurdities

And the Nigerian girls caught going to prostitute themselves in Russia isn't an absurdity?

Buhari publicly fighting embarrassing media wars with his wife isn't an absurdity?

Eish ,thats an untimely death.

At times its better to be richer when you're older ,more responsible and much more level headed coz that way you avoid early death.

MtuMsuper:
1.Kenya is a medium HDI country.
2.45 million people is not a small population.
3. The most important resource is HUMAN resource.
4. Kenya is an export oriented country, you guys loooove importing hence the weakening Naira.
5. Kenya is not a biblical paradise but it's NOT a hell hole.

Except that obaadaremi didn't tell you that this "audacious eko city" is not the brainchild of indigenous locals but its actually fronted by very rich Lebanese.

Its mostly a residencial city and not strictly a business hub .Residential cities never have much in terms of productivity + innovation .

Its a city of just 250k residents thus its impact on the 21m strong Lagos city will not provide Lagos with really meaningful positive uplift.

It has serious environmental issues due to being built on reclaimed land thus its experiencing ocean surges,flooding of access roads and flooding of Victoria island.Several dozen people have already lost their lives resulting in litigation to halt the project and compensation of bereaved families.

Isn't this a positive thing? She's travelling "light" thru reducing the weight of her carry-on stuff ....a.k.a overdressing.

Coldplay89:
U are ignorant. This statement of yours is reallly senseless.

Its amazing how this thread is full of insults,put downs ,belittling of other nations and childish abuse instead of countering points in a mature and rational manner.One poster here has insults in all their posts throughout this thread- its says alot about that person.

Civilised people always attack the points raised,not the messenger.I weep for Africa.

Haha well done Naijalander , the 1st step into solving your issues is to admit you've got a problem ,and to be honest all societies have their issues.As far as i'm concerned Kenyans also need to accept their alcoholism and illegal brews is a major social ill that they need to confront.

Haha well done Naijaland , the 1st step into solving your issues is to admit you've got a problem ,and to be honest all societies have their issues.As far as i'm concerned Kenyans also need to accept their alcoholism and illegal brews is a major social ill that they need to confront.

Whichever lowlife took a photo of this and leaked it to embarrass president Zuma should be punished.This is hitting below the belt ,its low.

Frankly,its the message that matters not the hand writting.