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this is the reason 4 courtship....i believe u dated her n u saw the red flags but u were covered n confused with love...this is d reason we shouldn't go into a r/ship with just our hrt bt our head 2...u don enter...wetin u go find 4 yoruba land wen there're plenty pretty n lovely igbo ladies...even most yoruba guys de run frm dia ladies because of these stuffs u listed...
well d did hs been done....
now u hv 2 be d man of the house...don't let ur wife bully u like a piece of shit....u r 2 soft for her...u need 2 man up...n start actin like d man of d house n not d house boy...if u continue like dis very soon she'll start sleeping outside with a real man...
u de really 4k up...I'm nt even sure u r an IGBO guy...I'm nt frm d East but i knw say igbo no de mk d kind of mistake u made....

wydmag:
find the right/compatible one and you wont regret being in love!

find which right n compatible one?
4 where....bro don't be deceived...ain't nothing like right n compatible B!TCH anymore ...expecially here in 9ja....beta wise up

4k these Bitchez...
a B!tch did similar thing 2 me when i was still in skul...mehn i was totally in love....i loved this b!tch* with all my tender hrt (weak hrt), that girl showed me cameroon pepper...sll the big boys 4 my skul bleeped this B!tch taya except me...n yet she de claim say she love me...she frustrated me just because i was broke back then...but dat was 2012...uptill nw dem still de cast dia net...but 3 no avail...cos d net de catch dem...Never gv ur hrt 2 a b!tch*...neva mk dat silly mistake bro....ot you'll 4 ever regret....just enjoy dia pussiez...4k as many as u can...life gies on bro...trust no lady but ur Mom....

prettythicksme:
Dammm!Tho wat the gurl did was very bad buh op all women are not the same.Like me, any guy that try shiit with me will hate his life. I swear with my life,d guy will regret the day he was born.



#Team faithful partner#noguyfuvkwithme.

what are u gonna do sweetie ..CRY BLOOD OR KILL HIM....?
Sister let it go....it is what it is....ee don de hear that thoughts since 1820

[quote author=wydmag post=52161765]find the right/compatible one and you wont regret being in love![/quote
which right compatible one? 4 this generation or next?.... i think d OP is somehow right....trust No WOMEN...EXCEPT UR MOM

Estharfabian:
Calm the fùck down...



I do too... and It's Not as bad as you Paint it to be..
Look at the bright side, You don't get To feel Heartbreaks and all those Crap Love induced feelings...

that's exactly what i was tryin 2 tell him....he should enjoy his single-hood 4 now....b4 getting locked-up 4 life...
me i made myself single...just 2 get a lil peace of mind....nw I'm swimming in it...

so bros enjoy ur single-hood...hv much fun...its fun being single though....no one go de call u every 30 minutes tryin 2 check up on u...no one go de bring u out any how....
don't let this get 2 u...u r a man...u get much time 2 flex b4 being locked up 4 life....be happy n luv ur self bro...

seriously
ur r/ship ended june...and u r here seeking 4 help....
mine is worse...i don't think i hv a hrt anymore...due 2 d last bitc* i gave my hrt 2, that was 4yrs back...during my College days....well it's nt her fault because i contributed 2 d brk up...but she b Runs girl...sleeping with niggass 4 money...was still in college n was broke then...wen we parted ways that was wen i discovered i luvd her with my whole hrt...i was 4kn hurt...couldn't sleep nor eat 4 couple of weeks....my brother if u see me den...i be like broom...
so after dat particular incident i prayed hard 4 God 2 grant me d hrt of stone...n fortunately 4me my prayer was answered...now it's been 4yrs since i graduated..yet i still can't fall in love with anyone....I've broken couple of innocent hrts.... (dated many pretty B*tches...good n naughty)...evn d ones willing 2 die 4 me...
nw I'm tired of all these... i don't enjoy seeing pretty ones gettint hurt... just because 1 b*tch broke my hrt 2 pieces 2wice...i was a fool then sha....nw na innocent ones de pay d price....I wish i cn get my tender hrt bck..

Ken4Christ:
Most of the Churches that attracts great crowds within a short time have questionable foundations. We should therefore be careful not to follow the crowd. Don't join a Church because of the miracles. Join a Church that will build you up in the word of God. Miracles follows the preaching of the word and not the other way round.

Most of the miracle Churches getting the attention of people this days are devoid of the sound word of God. This is a sign they may not be called by God. Again, they make merchandise of gullible people by selling miracle materials of all sorts.

exactly

Barney11:
things dey happen oh! I have come to know that there is nothing like devil, Satan!we only have humans! even animals don't go to this extent with their likes!

i think satan is in human form...

this is the reason I'll never date a virgin....where's d fun in that?....
my dear it's ur decision...sex is nothing these days....so if u think he's worth it n u r ready...u can gv it 2 him....or be ready 2 loose him n wait 4 the nxt bf.....4 yrs no b beans...d boy don try....it's ur choice...

yomi007k:

IPOD international.

LOLZ what does that even mean brother...

THE PASTOR WHO USED HUMAN BODIES LINED UP AS PART OF HIS CHURCH FOUNDATION HAS FINALLY APPREHENDED IN ENUGU STATE.

MAY ALMIGHTY GOD PROTECT AND GUIDE OUR GOING OUT AND COMING...4 THE REST OF OUR LIFE....AMEN

Ifakiland:
Ure an idiot...so oshodi gals are local gals Where in lag do u live again?

my guy easy naaaa....u 2 sabi curse sef...haa
i be like u bco of this particular thread....abeg easy on d curses,,,,

Ifakiland:
Where u wan even meet dangote's son or a billionaire's son for dat matter? Ur dat ghetto sch u attend or d ghetto area u live and go to Madam shift one side....its ur type dat guys even fork with ordinary ice cream.

kai...my guy na girl u de tell all these?
easy on her na...she just spill her opinion....i no think say she mean any harm or disrespect....peace bro

i believe it works most of the time(on 85% of 9ja babes)...expecially on those shawama babes.....but i don't really need all these lies 2 get into her panties....i just be me n allow everything 2 fall into place...

Raine80:
There is no must in a proposal..he asks in any way he feels that makes the moment poignant. It might be watching tv, having breakfast or maybe you are far away in a distant land. He has thought about making you his wife there are no rules and regulations about this. Insisting on one way of proposing is for fairytales....it's the thought not the method that's matters here.

May God Bless u n ur entire Generations 4 this....

Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork.

i de tell you...u na KORREKT GUY....
but i can kneel... if she's 100% worth it....that's if she's 100%...which is almost impossible....

well 4me....kneeling down on one knee jst 2 propose isn't a big deal ... i can do it...that's only if she's 100% worth it...and it's impossible 4 a 9ja B!tch 2 worth it these days...because loyalty is 2 rare...good girls gone badtttt.... and again I've seen so many ladies turn a good man down...4 some 4kd up reasons beyond my comprehensive abilities....so it's beta not 2 kneel...but if kneeling dwn 2 a Lady/B!tch....or even getting married 2 a Lady/B!tch is what it takes 2 be a real man...then i don't want 2 be a real man/tied down 4ka...but a real N!gga 2 my Real family alone....
you've been spitting out real men this.... real men that...what abt real women....can we find a real woman these days...
but wait a minute...4k that sh!t...i don't even care.....

freemile2ru:
The simple reason why many women are still single is simply becos so many men are single too and they don't care. Some of us are not even willing to settle down sef. Its not based on any probabilistic statistics that you are giving

yea bro..this is definitely part of d reason....i made myself single cos r/ship these days sucks n its 4kn choking... and i think I'm really enjoying my single hood...no chick tryin 2 knw wot I'm upto or tryin 2 bring me out wen i wnt to be alone...no naggin...I'm really 4kn with lots of peace of mind these days...can do whatever i like...huh...so sweet n stress free...so brothers if u feel chocked in ur r/ship u should try 2 take a brk n see hw it feels...it feels lovely. ..PECAE OUT

freemile2ru:
why? So half of Nigerian men die b4 40? Nawa for u o

when did i say that?...i never said anything like that...all I know is that men de die wella pass women...n women plenty pass men worldwide...that was what i was tryin 2 say...besides hw many men de last reach 75 to 80yrs these days...?

freemile2ru:
Its not still adding, its not like the ladies are going to marry their age mates or something morova some men go ahead and marry from 3-4 wife's in Nigeria so that should cover up for the mortality rate. Please come up with another explanation so that I can debug it

even if govt forces men 2 marry at least a man to 5 wives. ..believe me men won't still be enough 2 go round...

yeah op u r right....and d rate at which men die these days eh...baffles me alot...n i think the ratio is 70:30...that's another reason there's more ladies in this world...some r in d prison...both d innocent n guilty ones... some lost their lives in the battle field (the cult-war n the actual war)...some in a tragic accidents...etc....n if it continues like thes in d next 5 to 7 years this country wld definitely be running out of men.. (potential husbands)...may God help us all

Ginaz:
Allow me soak garri , it's better than your aba clothes you parade yourself in. From your up to down its not up to 30k so don't over hype yourself. (nigga everything na package we understand)

You don't even look a bit responsible or attractive in your attire. It's only girls with no value to their life will find you rich or attractive.

kai...i be like u ooo...but u 2 get bad mouth....

Ginaz:
Just pull out, what the goddamn shiit is wrong with you? You are seeing this, all this character of hers you're asking if you should stay? I don't believe it.

OK stay o, Mr 7 years relationship , who years epp? Soon you will even wish you had wasted that years and jump inside lagoon than marrying her. Her family will show you pepper, she curses without feeling she's at wrong cos it's used to her, that's her family hot tea, to throw hurtful words at someone.

If you want to live, Mr man, run without picking ur shoes, that marriage is doomed. Words kills faster than bullet. Both of you will so insult each other in your marriage with no respect.

If u like, u can stay o. I can't forget love makes one look like a mumu.

lolz...@love makes some1 2 look like MUMU....
really

thebest1210:
That's what I really want to do.
Wanted to go see her parents about a week or two ago, but, sometin came up, which made her postponed the visitation to early January, b4 this recent problem came up.
I was opportune to go for a short course in the US, came back with some little cash. Pimped my room to be like a normal guy's room. But she finds everything unappealing. Telling me how the small change I have is swelling my head (God knows I don't brag to her, unless, jokingly), how I am using d small properties I bought to do "iyanga" for her. How Imagine, telling me not to laugh for so long, dat I will fall again. Can one who loves her guy tell her such?
Just confused!

i don't think u r confused. ..u r just in a deep messy sh!t..n d only remedy is 4 u 2 run as fast as possible...this kind lady fit poison u d day u go upset her...d day she'll think u r cheating on her...bro say bye bye 2 ur d!ck dat nyt...
n she'll be heartless in no times....a man that will end up with this kind of gurl won't last up to a year b4 dying of hrt attack...be wise...

no offence bro.....pls b honest. ..is there something wrong with u?...i don't think so...
wat de heck r u doing with her in d 1st plc ..a girl has zero respect 4 u n u r here reconsidering Wether 2 leave or stay...her family hate n despise men...na dat kind family u wan enter?
what kind of family is that...a broken home...nai u wan enter with ur eyes wide open...hv u ever bought half of the things u bought 4her...4 u ur mom?
it's obvious she's jealous of u...
n maybe she don wash something put 4 ur food...but if na ordinary hand she de use 4 u...my broda u need more dan a deliverance...

this kind girl no wnt ur progress oo at all. ..instead of her praying 4u she de curse u n praying 4 u to continue 2 de fall...tell me...is she using juju on u?...or u need a soldier 2 reset ur head with compound slap...?
she doesn't respect men...she'll never respect ur dad or ur frnds... omo d greatest mistake u go mk na 2 marry frm dat family...well it's ur life....choose ur path

i think it's d other way round dear...girls of nowadays don't enjoy s*x with condom$ these days...most complain that u r depriving them of d complete pleasure of s*x....
expecially the one u r in a r/ship with...some will claim that u don't love/trust dem that's the reason u r using protection on them...some ladies will say condom$ hurts inside....so u see...its not always d dude....most times its d ladies....
i think d ratio should be 60:40...
60 for d ladies because they despise using it...while 40 goes 4 d guys....

dacblogger:
those that you ve been proving ur love to since, have they been taking them to the altar

hey dear... calm down..i knw some guys ain't worth it...but knw this... is either u love him or u hate him. ..there is no sitting on d fence...so if u can't prove ur love n loyalty 2 him...then prove ur hatred 4 him mk i see where that 1 go carry u reach 4 future....dont let ur past deprive u frm enjoying d good things of life..abi do u think that all r/ship must lead 2 marriage?
even guy do suffer hrt ache 2...no b only girls...
ok?...pls easy on ur bf...if he's worthy...then treat him right...if he isn't. .then dump him...no waste your time with a time waster...u r a lady...i see no reason why a lady go de cold n stiff yet de xpect d guy 2 tk u 2 alter b4 provin ur loyalty...no man with his right senses would do that..
peace out dear...

Hadez:
What do we have here? The leader of royal majesties. The name that sounds like kindergarten school. Mr cultist go away boy

i swear HADEZ you've got a pretty bad mouth...u knw u don't need 2 answer every1 quoting u now n then...you just hv 2 learn hw 2 ignore some...it portrays ur maturity in high instance....pls learn 2 ignore...ok?
PEACE OUT

[quote author=Hadez post=51752376]I trust myself not to be a snitch but someone like dharay99 or Warhawk. If you break their heart, they are not mature not to bring it to nairaland [/quot
]

This Hadez is pretty funny though...
why would u brk his hrt...are u dating a brother only 2 brk brother his heart?...
because you've said it several times now...n i quote "If i brk his heart now he may hurt me"
"If i brk his heart now he may bring it up here...
...why would u even think of that...hmnn
my sister easy ooo...i de suspect say u b player...
that's 1 thing abt online dating...the What IFs..

the question u should be asking is...."IS ONLINE DATING SAFE?"...not just nairalanders....

4me i don't see anything wrong in that...i can date a nairalander if i really do like her....but 4 ppl like me i hardly like what i haven't met/dont know... its possible though...but d probability 4me is kinda slim....
good luck with ur search OP...