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Nawa...90% of 9ja women these days are like this...i don't blame guys getting married 2 foreigners/outsid... it's because of situations like this...lack of trust...our pretty girls turning into liabilities...

ForeverYoung197:
Men who lives abroad are more appealing, have swag and have more experiences than those who just grew beard locally. But will I be tempted to ditched my boyfriend to date a dollar boy? I don't think so.

swag indeed...u go like boys with swag ooo...u go get hrt brk taya if care isn't taken...well..
what made u think 9ja guys ain't got none??
u never jam nai cos am...come down 2 my state....n see brotherz with more appealing swagzzz...

believe me ..i knw what u mean...because i dont run along with brothers with no style nor swag....
d ones without swag...na moni dem never get....e nor mean say dem de swagless...
my opinion though

ForeverYoung197:
Men who lives abroad are more appealing, have swag and have more experiences than those who just grew beard locally. But will I be tempted to ditched my boyfriend to date a dollar boy? I don't think so.

swag indeed...what made u think 9ja guys ain't got none??
u never jam nai cos am...come down 2 my state....n see brotherz with more appealing swagzzz...

believe me ..i knw what u mean...because i dont run along with brothers with no style nor swag....
d ones without swag...na moni dem never get....e nor mean say dem de swagless...
my opinion though

of cos it true....I've seen it happened again and again...yet our girls no wan learn...
psl be careful guys (our gurls)

prettythicksme:
Op dont tell me nonsense,my guy is coming home to give me belle.

lols...plsbe careful dear...just mk sure u guys r ending up 2gether...if not you'll end up just being a baby mAmA...but that ain't ur portion

STFUareyouG0d:
Bad belle

hahahahahahahaha no be small bad belle....but i ain't gat no trace of BB in my gene sweethrt....but thanks though...kisses

FvckShiT:
]Who fūcking read that

u can read it nw bro...you'll love it...

endowednicky:
woow!!!!!" interesting

yeah pretty girl it ain't just interesting but it's true....wait till December

black girls don really suffer 2 much fron these smelling pigs....well i don't blame them...

FvckShiT:
]Who fūcking read that

NOW MODIFIED

redgem:
Nope, a friend of mine....

super cute though...my taste...dark n lovely

...though It's a bit lengthy...u just have 2be patient...

It is almost that time of the year again when all our brothers return home from "the abroad". Soon, they will come from all parts of the world- America, Europe, The Philippines, Malaysia, South Africa and even Sudan- to celebrate Christmas.

It doesn't matter where they come from, they will come with a black American accent. Even the ones that came from Sudan will come with pounds and dollars. Because the default currency for "the abroad" people is dollars. Abroad person that is spraying Cedis, is that one abroad person?

They will come to the village, and they will be at every ceremony spraying dollars and pounds. They will wear their starched laces and their original gold chains. I don't care the authentic quality of the chain, but as long as it is from 'the abroad', it is original. They will bag chieftancy titles that ends with "Ego".

They are the real MVPs. The Mr Steal-your-chic-and-convert-them-to-wife. They are always single looking for a wife at home. Yes, they are notcirculate, they come back home to marry.

You have a boyfriend who is just a civil servant. Fresh young man who is just starting life. You think you love him until your mother tells you about Emeka, the "abroad guy" that just landed in town. She reminds you about how you both used to be really close friends before he left to 'the abroad' when you were just 3 months old. Mama tells you he wants to marry you. You take a look at Emeka and you see the glory of the Lord shining around him. You admire his British-American accent and his fresh money. You think about your boyfriend- mtchew, who "young man with Dreams" epp? You suddenly start hearing the voice of the Lord telling you that Emeka the abroad guy is the right one for you. You suddenly realize that at 23 you are no longer getting any younger and you can't wait for a graduate who is just starting life.

Emeka spoils you while he is in the village. You both keep in touch as he leaves for "the abroad". You don't see him again but you still talk on phone. You are now both engaged and you are happy, you are dating a guy in Indonesia with an American accent.

Two years pass, you've seen Emeka only once. Because body no be wood, you have a side boo in your town who lubricates the engine when the oga is not around. But you are still engaged. You are getting impatient. You were 23 two years ago but now you are 35, or you feel 35. You nag, whine, write three different please-hide-my-Identity messages to "Dear Amanda". Sacrifice 2 goats as burnt offering to the Fadalurd above. After some months, your prayer is answered. He fixes a wedding date but cannot attend the wedding because of work. So you just do the wedding with his enlarged picture anyway. That picture he was wearing a suit, that one. That's the one you kiss when it's time to "kiss the bride".

After three months, no Emeka. You realize you are now a western union wife. Another series of Dear Amanda messages, burnt offerings and pastor visits, God finally touches Emeka's heart to come home. He comes home for a few months to get you pregnant and go back. When he goes back, the real Lord - not my "Fadalurd" - decides to remember you this time and release you from your misery. You somehow realize that Emeka has two beautiful children with his abroad wife of 10 years now. Your eyes will now clear.

You finally wake up, after 300 posts cursing Emeka and other men specifically, you decide to join the Association of Online Feminists of Nigeria. Dear sister, Kolewerk. You are not a feminist, you are just an aggrieved mega idiot who hates men, and that is not feminism. Receive sense in Jesus name!

Christmas is coming, if you like, follow abroad husband and go.

redgem:
And why should he leave her?

hey redgem....is that your real pix...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Op is a boy.
Real men don't leave women simply because they have had sex with them, real men strive to marry women whom they feel they are sexually compatible with and whom they feel they can leave a happy life with.
Don't forget, women still refuse to marry me if they think the men are not their type when it comes to sex.
If ur assertions where to be true, there there will be no need getting married because u will get tired of the sex since it becomes more frequent in marriage.

cute saying from a pretty girl...
what's ur name n where r u from swthrt...

Nori:
Lol. It's just quite irritating when men feel that women must always accept their advances because we are women and should be desperate. Everyone has a right to chose.
And I don't belief a man is better because he is richer or more handsome, neither is a woman better because she is more beautiful. Its called having a choice.

i like this girl...she gave her reply without insults...she's really matured... most replies made here by females are either insulting or sometimes worse....but she gave a str8 answer with no insult...i luv her 4 that...Nne if u r single i get good n sweet nigga 4u

lols
Reminds me of my friend in university. She used this trick steady on her bf way back...claiming the guy is stingy.
When they broke up the guy called me, "I am done with your friend, she doesn't have womb again".

I laugh fall from chair. Nigga didn't know we were using his money to eat sweet jollof rice @ direct labour.

the girl yas so much 2 loose because she's spoiling her name...
2moro when some1 would come 4 her hand in marriage...the brother go de hear advice frm different folks....'OMO THAT GIRL NA NO GO AREA OOO...SHE DON ABORT CHILDREN TAYA...SHE AIN'T GAT NO WOMB ANYMORE OOO....ADVICE URSELF' then who go con de laugh...she just de spoil her name repeatedly 4 her own town because when it happens now they'll be nowhere 2 hide....

mulattoclaro:
see this fool. I'm married to a Brazilian not a Nigerian. Get laid with nigerian whores? God forbid.

omo wetin 9ja girls do u na
why u hate dem with passion like this bro....abeg easy na...abeg

@Op why do u guys enjoy rubbishing our girls...devaluing them as if they ain't nothing...if we can't appreciate them who will?
if every 9ja man keep dating n getting married 2 all these so called ugly n shapeless white bitchez ...then who's gonna datr n marry ours...who's gonna marry ur sisters?
pls it's high time we change our orientation abt our ladies...because our ladies are very beautiful (black is beautiful) believe it or not...I've seen so many white bitches..there ain't nothing special abt them...most ain't got no shape with dia flat slippers ass...but take a look at our african ladies...aren't they pretty? aren't they shapy....aren't they sweet n sexy OUTWARDLY....
abeg change ur view abt our ladies...this is why foreigners talk less abt our ladies....
PLS LEARN 2 LOVE N CHERISH WHAT U HAVE... FOR OUR LADIES ROCK...that's my opinion..na u sabi...

well @OP thanks 4 the wonderful advice...but note that women r the ones 2 suffer it emotionally....u are advising all the good guys 2 start acting bad...hmnnn

well i think I'll take ur advice...not all though well @OP thanks 4 the wonderful advice...but note that women r the ones 2 suffer it emotionally....u are advising all the good guys 2 start acting bad...hmnnn

well i think I'll take ur advice...not all though well @OP thanks 4 the wonderful advice...but note that women r the ones 2 suffer it emotionally....u are advising all the good guys 2 start acting bad...hmnnn

well i think I'll take ur advice...not all though

Ceoflexygist:
Nigerian Man Proposed To His Girlfriend Of Six Years & She Turned Him Down

A Friend Of Him Share the story on Twitter.

See what he wrote Below...

Source: http://www.flexygist.com/2016/10/21/man-proposed-to-his-girlfriend-of-six-years-she-turned-him-down/

It's hard 2 believe this story though...here in Nigeria...this kind thing fit happen?
when so many ladies de look 4 husbands like no 2moro...while a girl in a relationship for 6yrs had d guts 2 turn hers down....it's almost impossible though...unless no be 4 9ja here...

Seunpaul01:
The fact is, if the guy didn't make it you wouldn't have waited for him nor marry him.

Funny but it's actually a fact

AuroraB:
Mbanu . This kain worwor wey I worwor, nose ring will worsen it

Ugly keh
U never see ugly person

My Sister U ain't Ugly....OK!!!

Nigeria girls and money....that's why u ladies get dumped here and there...2moro u go say all guys are dsame...no go work...de look 4 an already made man...till you'll turn 35....u ladies should take it easy oo...no be so

who said u can't be independent?
no man want a liability...u can only get used and dumped 4 an independent lady...

better look 4 a way 2 build urself...u can do it

add me....girls only pls... 58FE228E