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You can really try to please in any way you can just to please hher and she also needs to take you the way you are !

aisha2:
The highlighted part says it all for me. All you were thinking of was your show, i will not call it wedding, you were already legally married for heavens sake. He was sad and down, you are meant to be his wife and friend, when greater challenges come and it conflicts with your interest EG sickness and death, as long as there is a show you will still insist on carrying on. I am not excsuing his violence but really your first statement says it all for me. Really I dont know how to advice you, you are already married o the guy, it is the man I pity, he is not marrying a friend, sorry to say, because when the kids come and go, after the bosom and sex have waned, after the challenges life may bring as a couple, it is the friendhip , respect and understanding that keeps the marriage going. Friendship and mutual respect, so much that before he speaks you know what he is thinking and vice versa.
Marraige is beyound the wedding day, wedding gown, cake, dance steps, bridal train and sparying, marraige is a long sometimes hard journey, a jorney you must embark on with soemone who can ease your burden not add to it

I really concour. But funny enough, we just heard and judging from the lady's story without giving a fair hearing to the man. And from what i read from the lady's story; the man never called off the wedding himself.

This wedding thing is just all about people coming to eat and drink. Abeg just do your planning around 1million and you'll be glad you did. The you can keep the other 1million for the family. Plan or invest that 1m for your unborn child.

Can we see the enginecompartment ?

I don't think it's right. Cus your dad might lose his respect.

Why not advice him ?

mutter:
jennykadry, I wonder just how young you are to give such advice because it sounds like the advice of a kid. Sorry no offence meant.
@ poster. This man is already your husband legally so the church wedding has nothing to do with a display of his love but is more like a religious obligation, the seeking of Gods blessing for the marriage.
When you saw how devastated your husband was you should have stood by him and felt his pain and been a bit more sensitive to his needs.
All you were interested in is ,"the show must go on". I don`t blame you because you were thinking of the costs. Well this is all part of our attitude in Nigeria of always celebrating the big way. traditional, then court then church. There must be a way of bringing them all together to save costs. A young couple should be more interested in having money to build up a new home and not feeding the whole world at a wedding function.
Marriage is about tolerance and compromise you need to learn that and it takes time. If you had stood to your husband the guests would have reacted differently and it would not have been a public disagreement but a called of wedding. I think you need to apologise to your husband too. You hurt him more.
The slap was out of provocation and pain and so can easily be excused. I hope he has not done this before though.
You need to be careful not to let this situation arise again because it might became a habit and then the beating could became more intensive.

Mutter, am so impressed ! This is absolutely matured and direct.

ubiaa5:
people are actually dropping their e-mails, amazing,the poster probably opened new ids and replied to himself to give an illusion that people are actually interested.crazy.

And how did you get to know about that if you've not done that before ?

gametalk:
U NO GET WORK>>>>>>SHHHHIT

Na u dey jobless pass. Bloody saddist !

MUHAMMAD ALI'S ADVICE

[b]Boxer Muhammad Ali's advice to his daughter
An incident transpired when Muhammad Ali's daughters arrived at his home
wearing clothes that were quite revealing. Here is the story as told by
one of his daughters:

"When we finally arrived, the chauffeur escorted my younger sister,
Laila, and me up to my father's suite. As usual, he was hiding behind
the door waiting to scare us. We exchanged many hugs and kisses as we
could possibly give in one day. My father took a good look at us. Then
he sat me down on his lap and said something that I will never forget.
He looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Hana, everything that God
made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to. Where do you
find diamonds? Deep down in the ground, covered and protected. Where do
you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and
protected in a beautiful shell. Where do you
find gold? Way down in the mine, covered over with layers and layers of
rock.
You've got to work hard to get to them."

He looked at me with serious eyes. "Your body is sacred. You're far more
precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too."[/b]

agabaI23:
Big father it is difficult you know but then, the man can as well beat her to the extent she might lose the baby before birth.

The truth is that I hate a man that lays a hand on a woman who is not Jacky Chan's cousin.

There 2 questions to be asked here.

1. Has this been happening before the wedding ?
2. And if the beating thing has been on,why hasn't she dumped the guy?

Congrats bro !

agabaI23:
He slapped a woman
He slapped a pregnant woman
He slapped his wife
he slapped his pregnant wife.

Has he been always like that?

A man should be able to shoulder the pressure that comes with life and still act rationally.

You have to consider a lot of things here before you make your next move. But, he is not coming across to me as someone you can live happily with.

So what do you advise with the baby in her tommy ?

Selena586:
can you translate i dont know what it means

Abi o !

Even with 1MILLA you are cool !

It is really sad to lose someone close to you and most especially when the friend was on his way to your wedding,though i really blame your husband for slapping you and i guess this was due to over reaction. Since he has realised his mistake, i feel you should go ahead and marry him,considering that fact that you ar carrying his baby.
Best of luck !

acaolly1:
Why dont you name your price? afterall its a market and negotiations are bound. I am sure ure just here to look. not even have one.

Even if i want to have one,it won't be THIS ! Mind you, this is a public forum and anybody is entitiled to his/her opinion and besides, i never said anything bad about the car.So why the fuss ?!

Nice one with a reasonale price. Happy sales bro !

acaolly1:
Automatic, Factory fitted a/c, auto seat belt, CD player, Alloy wheels,

Contact me on alliallimony@yahoo.com or 08123107792 only serious buyer no flashing

520K for a naija used 91 model camry ? !

Studio CFR:
Small father - take am easy with me and that flat chested kunbee of a gurl.
Never turm am to fight.

I forget say u get hot-temper.

I take d hot temper resemble u !

Kunbee:
I dont find things funny as easily as you do

Then the joke section is not meant for you.

Studio CFR:
I beg to differ--there's nothing nice about this true life story.

Too long-- Too Dry.

Am sure you are being forced to read ? So you can flip over and if you think it's too dry , you can as well make it wet with your saliva !

NA LIE !

Letbond:
That bcz of the price you offered, This is a give away, let me knw if you're interested.

Confirm good deal. But na the manual transmission break bone o !
Happy sales.

[b]Reports just coming in indicate that the popular German Octopus paul was kidnapped in the early hours of today 12th July 2010, a day after the World Cup Final.
Police Authorities in Germany said they have arrested two stalwarts of the ruling Party in Nigeria who were the last set of tourists seen around the Octopus before the disapperance. No ransom has been demanded by the kidnappers.
The psychic cephalopod became a global sensation by correctly predicting the result of every Germany game at the World Cup. He signed off with a perfect eight out of eight record by picking Spain to beat the Netherlands in the final.
Paul, who was born in Weymouth but lives at Sea Life in Oberhausen, Germany, became a talisman for gamblers, with bookmakers William Hill claiming the octopus's forecasts cost them £500,000 as punters flocked to follow his advice.
Before each match, his keepers would lower a plastic container with two compartments - one for each team - into Paul's tank. A clam was placed into each compartment, and the clam he ate first represented his prediction.
He correctly backed Germany to beat Australia, Ghana, England, Argentina and Uruguay, but lose to Serbia and Spain, then nailed the result of the final. A £10 accumulator on all eight results would have won around £2,000.
Political analysts are already saying that this might not be unconnected with the Presidential Election coming up in the country in 2011.
Culled from BreakingNewsOnline.Com [/b]

Omolola1:
ah! wot happnd next

Wetin for happin ? Na their family issue be that.

kehneah:
are u seriousso wht happened nxt??abi u dint wait??

Wait for wetin ?