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Nigerian women are useless to the society and themselves.

Brightgem:
You men folks should fix it. Ladies would probably sit up if men stop acting like all women need or want is money.

It's a behavior the ladies are getting away with cuz of men folk. A man should be turned off by a lady that's quick to ask him for money, but no, they'll be feeling like something, the women won't change.

Shut up!!! Let the women change their bad attitude themselves.

Openbusiness:
Yeah, I have seen them, and they are "BROKE PEOPLE". If cost of maintenance is a serious criteria for you before buying a car, then you are in the BROKE PEOPLE category. Even if you have millions in your account, forget it, you're still broke, because being broke is not just lack of money, it's also a way of thinking. When rich people buy cars, they buy the cars they love to buy, cost of maintenance is not and never a factor in their consideration at all. That's why it's rich people that buy Ferraris, Bugattis, Lamborghinis, Porsches, Roll Royces, Land Rovers, Mercedes Benz etc. They don't care about mpg, they don’t care about parts availability, they don’t care if there's no dealership or workshop for it in town, they don’t care if they have to ship it to another country for servicing, they don’t care about nothing. They love the car for the luxury and performance it provides and they buy it. That's what they care about. But CHECK OUT people buying Toyotas and Hondas. They care about mpg, you always see them vibrating like hot oil that was splashed with water, vibrating over whether it is V4 or V6, whether the 4 plugs can drive 1000km with 1 liter of fuel, whether Kabiru his neighborhood mechanic can fix it, whether Uche Obi in Ladipo has the parts, whether the parts are everywhere in lagos and along the forests of interstate roads, they worry about resale value, whether they can buy the car for N2m, use it for 10 years and still re-sell it with a banged up body, 650k miles covered, vandalized interior, gearbox on ICU and an engine on life support at N1.5m. They worry about everything. I'm not being rude, and apologies to anyone that feels offended. But the truth is, it's "BROKE PEOPLE" that drive (own) Toyotas and Hondas etc!

Where is the sense in what you said? What of the people that have both Mercedes and Toyota cars, are they also broke?

Mason greenwood is very good, he doesn't waste chances.

Timileyin1234:
Shey we no go swap this girl into super eagle like this

Swap her into super eagles, she won't even hold a ball for four matches.

Randy100:
very useless, my brother.

As in if not for all this nonsense feminism, women should not be even playing football. I prefer watching underage boys play football than the nonsense women play.

Female football is useless, they can score 100goals in a season.

MorataFC:
Ronaldo scores ratio is 0.73 per game
While
Messi score ratio is 0.88per game
Abeg, who is better?

In people's lives, sentiments will always have a role to play in making some decisions.
Once someone is your favorite is your pal, no matter what his/her strengths or weaknesses are, you will sink or swim with him.


In all fairness Messi is one in a billion but Ronaldo is people's choice.

0.8 not 0.88

homirefacuny:
Well they can defend but not for 90 minutes at anfield. They will be taught a great lesson bro. The gloom on their players faces after the final whistle says it all. The tie is very very far from over

Abeg athletico is not like Barcelona, they won't be foolish to play out, they will most likely win at anfield, you can mark my words.

SBL28:
Maybe you have been asking the wrong girls out, change nyour strategy and see how it goes.

How come it is the wrong girls he has been asking out, it shows the wrongs girls are the majority.

Enough of all this women talk, if they like them be prostitutes, sluts and idiots. There are more important things in life than women.

yeyeosoronga:
You've probably done the right thing for you.
You were only able to do this because you're financially able to.
Contrary to popular beliefs, it seems more women contribute financially in their homes than men otherwise most children won't be allowed to go with their mothers when things fall apart.
We see how Churchill is fighting tooth and nail for his son, we saw the way Babangida's son fought for his children with the ex wife, we see how Emeka Ike grabbed all his children from his wife.
However, single mothers doing it all alone far exceeds the number of men who do.
To those shouting in outrage that a woman left her children behind:
I really believe the most capable parent should raise the children, and not necessarily the woman.
It's the normal thing for fathers to also raise their children, but it seems it's only the black race that has a problem with this. Other races will do everything to have access to their children, infact complete custody but here we are arguing that a woman should have complete custody of her children and a father shouldn't have that privilege.
It's a joy to instill your principles, values on your progeny despite the challenges of raising them.
Life in itself is not a smooth ride, and it's time for many men to face their fears of directly raising their children, and conquering those fears.
Women have done it for centuries, some other men are doing it gallantly too. It can be done. You don't need the brain of Einstein , nor the experience of Metuselah. You learn along the way, just as the woman too would. Nothing special when a woman raises a child except for breastfeeding in the first year (maximum). The child will get nourishment, but after that a man can comfortably raise the child. Even without breastfeeding, it can be done with formula, and the child less than 1year would still thrive under its father.
BigJoe19: Please, kindly share with other men on here practical steps you take to raise your children, and how you cope doing so. It might go a long way to dispel the special magic people think they need to raise their own children.

I am not saying fathers cannot raise children, I am just amazed with the way people here left the woman of blames and started saying things that doesn't concern the topic.

Digmygold:
So writing trash on SM automatically means he cares? Lol. Audio love, audio father.

I guess you also have audio brain?

Xisnin:
Then, you don't have a babymama, you had a surrogate which most Nigerian men cannot afford.

Ok.

Women are useless.

opebiboy:
It is the same thing man. They even made more money then na now. How much was the best car then and how much to build a duplex then as well. The more we think things change the more they stay the same

No I disagree, even cost of albums were cheaper even if you used inflation rates.
Well you are the guy that said davido is worth less than 150mllion naira, so what do I know?

CaptainFM1:
I've seen you too.

You are just a fool mister.

opebiboy:
It is not rant. These people didn't sell records or headline mega shows like majek fashek, king sunny ade or daddy showkey. Those folks can't even claim to buy range rover every week.

You know nothing, you can't compare ok'd music to new music,. Was there spotify, YouTube during sunny ade's time. Besides this is the second car mayorkun has posted that he bought it.
How much is a 2014 range rover, even unknown small boys drive it.

CaptainFM1:
My friend go and sit down. Must you bring all your life activities to social media?

If he doesn't bring it to social media, it is fools like you that will say he doesn't care. So he is only doing what you fools want.

opebiboy:
Them don come again. This one na tokunbo. Last last na we go pay for their medical bills when breeze blow and fowl yansh open

I knew you must be here with your regular rants.

If you are man and you read this thread, I think you have gained some lessons about women, now go and act wise.

2016easy2017:
Please kindly share a bank account for thean on air. I like we find the schooling of the children. Or help in anyway we can. We need pics too to butress

Thank you so much. OP see this.

Pataricatering:
and they are always looking for women like their mothers - which simply tells u - they saw their mothers suffer , don’t give a Bleep about it and are looking for their own personal doormat , punching bag , domestic slave etc .

What are women meant for it not been domestic slaves. What have women offered the world as a whole?

Lovelypet28:
Am very sure she has a deep hatred for your dad, am very she would cane you guys excessively out of frustration, am very sure there were nights she cried, over what? penis? MBA
See we are not ready for that, I should endure a bad marriage of over 40 years, that's even more I would have stayed with my parents.
You men scream endurance all the time, but you cant take even 1/3rd of what you dish out.
If una no wan marry, loneliness go deal with una for old age.

Loneliness don't deal with men who have free spirit, we ball everyday of our lives till our last breath.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol. Do you think men have any sense at all judging from their emotional response to a man having to take care of his children? The way they hang women is always with the money and cheating lie. In this case, they've began acting like the man is a hero because the wife cheated on him with an Alhaji. What if she discovered he was cheating and decided to give him his pound of flesh with a better man than him? Since her husband was a wise drunken philanderer, he could only think to bring children to a sleazy motel. The intelligence of the man speaks for all men. It is shockingly foolish, extremely wicked and evil.

Stop creating scenarios, we are only working with what the OP gave us.

UKusedBoyfriend:
Bad is bad regardless of which gender committed it. I'm sure the females here will justify a female who raped a male because it's rare rather than calling it bad.

You are just said the truth, I have always argued that women are also wicked like men just that they don't have the strength to go wicked acts, that is why you see people that have lower status, strength and authority than they have been dealt with by majorly women.

Mstick:
Where’s the prove that his wife abandoned him?

Even in sharia court the woman will be given a chance to defend herself.


Why are you guys not asking for her side of the story?!

Sorry to say you are a big idiot, people are only reacting based on what the OP posted here. The man and his wife are not the ones telling this story.

Mstick:
Ok so I’ve read EVERY comment on this thread and as expected it’s a women bashing thread and our “holy” men missed the damn point.

Yes the women are bad, evil, dangerous and all that, and she abandoned her kids blah blah blah is that why he has to dump them at a bar filled with people of questionable character?

In Nigeria all it takes to tag a woman bad 1) accuse her of abandoning her husband because of no money 2) accuse her of adultery. If this was a thread about a man abandoning his kids our “wise” men will bring up scenarios where she’s at fault and absolve the man of all blames but now no one of them is asking for the woman’s part of the story.

No “man” here cares to know if she wanted to take them along but she refused.

My cousin’s father abandoned 5 KIDS for his wife and went into the sunset, guess what? He was even the one telling people that his wife abandoned him and the kids and travelled abroad for prostitution. When my one of his daughter’s was about to get married that was when the truth came out. Still they wanted her to continue the marriage.


For every Nigerian woman that leaves her marriage look very very well not with gender biased eye and you would see that she has tried but couldn’t take it no more.

Men want to cheat but don’t want to be cheated on, is that not stupidity? You want to be hurting your wife but you don’t want her to hurt you. Till men change it would only get worst.

LET WICKED MEN MARRY WICKED WOMEN!

Still didn't address the topic at hand.

Xisnin:
Do you really have a babymama or you are one of those mean who pretend that they do because they are not married
while practically relating as husband and wife?
Does your babymama invites her boyfriends to sleep over at her house?

Are the children the only relationship between you guys or you are still engaging in a romantic relationship
even though you claim masturbation have replaced it?

There is a reason why Oloshoism is expanding and it is not because men have abandoned sex, it is quite the
opposite.

Oh, you have 2 kids, you don't have a babymama, you have an unwed wife.
In the UK, your arrangement will be considered married whether you signed a paper or not.

There is practically no difference between you and a married man.

I don't care what she does. I have paid her off, she has no right to the kids anymore.

Ybaby:
The patrichiahy caused it. Our grandfathers and fathers and today's men caused it. Women are angry and have signed out. Today's men are in trouble but they only have themselves to blame. It is the kids my heart goes out to.

A woman carries a child for 9 months, breastfeed the child and nurtures the child, gives the child your name, changes her name to your name and you cannot pay the rent alone you are asking her for half of the rent. Men have really eaten the whole pie and now women have kuku broken the table too.

I dont pity the men o but my heart goes out to the kids. 85% of cheating is being done by women now unlike before women were faithful. Men have really dropped it and .....

If it continues like this, it is the kids that would suffer and for what I know most men don't give a Fvck, it is still the women that it will affect. A man can plan to have a child when he is very old, women have expiry dates.

Xisnin:
It is no one's fault if you get dumped at a motherless home.

You create senseless threads to bash women every day.
You call them useless in marriage while you believe you are superman.
When they now decide to walk your talk, you start crying for attention.
Some women have realized that it is not worth it to sacrifice their life just for
you to be happy that is why no one is condemning the woman for doing what is best for herself.
If you want kids, be ready to babysit.

The age of emotional blackmail is over.

I like this, if all men can apply what you said here I think it would work out well, a man doesn't really care.

Xisnin:
There are human mothers who do that too. But what do they get at the end of the day?
Namecalling from man-kids and women are getting the message clearly.

Many of you believe that women are useless in marriage and only money matters but turn around to
cry foul when responsibilities are dumped on you.

There is even a group of degenerate who create multiple threads daily about how women are useless
safe for sex and they get multiple boys to agree and cheer them on.
These half-wits don't realize that they are engaging in self-sabotage.
If just 20% of women believe the same thing as them and act on it, life will be hell for men in the next generation
whether they get married or not.
As long as a man wants kids, he will not be exempted from crushing responsibilities which he was not trained for.

Wrong. Life won't be hell for man, infact it will bring freedom to mankind, the only thing women have over men is sex and masturbation has come to replace it. I have a babymama and two children and I must say I am living the best of my life. I have no need for a woman again!!!