Family › Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by BigJoe19: 5:39pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
OcVoice: An older friend, who could pass as a dad to me owns a bar and few a letout rooms for short sex or even a day booking.
He recently travelled to see his children abroad and asked me to come assist his wife once a while after work/hustle.
The first scenario: I was there yesterday and I noticed a man in his 60's and a woman in her 50's, drinking and eating together. Their language was of the Eastern and I understood correctly.
After having some bottles, the woman talked about her husband who was on a business trip and her grown up children at the university and all. She locked her shop to come be with the man.
The man also talked about his wife in the village for a function and grown up children bla bla bla!
The shock: The man was obviously trying to ask her out.....then she immediately told him that she wouldn't be interested in that. The man now asked what she wants and she said they should be fvck buddies. She said: "Any time my husband is away, I'll call u. "We would come here, drink and fvck well" The man accepted and they booked an hour and went into a room! Even though they are older and had grown up children, I still don't like adultery!
2nd scenario:
I noticed this last week.
I saw 2 beautiful kids, a boy (about 4 years) and a girl (about 2 years) playing inside the bar. I asked my friend's wife and she said one of her customer had issues with his wife and the wife left him with the kids.
From her story, the guy use to work and provide for his family, till he lost his job and the wife couldn't cope with the hardship. She abandoned her kids and went away with a rich alhaji. This guy has been taking care of the kids....bathing and feeding them, taking them to school and bringing them back, cleaning poos, etc. His rent expired and the landlord sent him packing forcefully, after some months. The reason he stays in the bar in the mean time.
Around 8pm that day, while he was out hustling, I saw the girl sleeping in an uncomfortable manner; hitting her head on the table while she dozed off, and I just thought to myself while carrying her on my arms so she could sleep well; she's innocent. She didn't bring herself to this world. She should be on bed sleeping now. She obviously hadn't had dinner.
Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don't want the man, can't u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them? Where is the love? Is marriage not in good times and in bad times anymore? I had to shed tears while pondering! I was told the man had no one in the city.
I waited till he came back and I spoke with him. He told me the same. I felt so sorry for him. He was looking so tired and stressed. I can't do more than supporting him financially with the little I can.
This has really been disturbing me. Pls ladies, if you know you're not ready to suffer with your man when things gets tough for him, don't bother going into marriage! Don't even bother. A rich man today could be poor tomorrow. Life happens....it might not be his making! Life is not always Rosy!
Our mothers suffered with our fathers when the going was tough, why can't we emulate it? How I wish I could like this a million times |
Romance › Re: Whenever I Want To Go Down On Her She Would Lift My Head And That Is.. by BigJoe19: 5:04pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
Fake story and useless story. |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Wants To Breakup With Me Because I Slept With His Boss - Lady Cries by BigJoe19: 5:00pm On Feb 17, 2020 |
The girl, the OP that posted this crap, the boyfriend and the boss are all mad. |
Celebrities › Re: I Need A New Car - Davido Shows Off His Bentley And Son, Ifeanyi (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 2:15pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
opebiboy: You are indeed super dumb. The affect of Globacom around every single individual makes your statement stupid It pointed your own stupidity. |
Celebrities › Re: I Need A New Car - Davido Shows Off His Bentley And Son, Ifeanyi (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 12:09pm On Feb 16, 2020*. Modified: 2:15pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
opebiboy: The total asset of this company you are shouting about is less than $30 million. The company is not even listed on the Nigerian stock exchange. Why do you choose to be this dumb? I guess you are enjoying it Is Globacom listed on Nigerian stock exchange, so if a company is not listed on NSE it means the company is not big, what a dumb fellow. |
Celebrities › Re: I Need A New Car - Davido Shows Off His Bentley And Son, Ifeanyi (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 12:06am On Feb 16, 2020 |
opebiboy: Why your body dey hot because the truth is out that there is no money like that in the music industry? These people are broke azz that's why you will never see them flaunt a hotel, filling station, bakery, school, factory etc because their money can't measure up. 90% of Nigerian celebrities have a net worth of under 50million. Deal with it brainwashed yoot! How many hotels have Mayweather flaunted or he is also broke. |
Celebrities › Re: I Need A New Car - Davido Shows Off His Bentley And Son, Ifeanyi (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 12:03am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Lovelyn451: How does she bathe the baby with those nails Someone else will do it for her. |
Celebrities › Re: I Need A New Car - Davido Shows Off His Bentley And Son, Ifeanyi (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 11:03pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
I am seeing some people here saying davido is not worth up to a billion naira. I laugh.
DMW is worth over 500million naira. His lekki house is worth over 150million. His house in athlanta is worth $1.2million His jewelries are worth over $700,000 His cars alone are worth over 500million naira. The lands he inherited from his grandfather in banana island is worth over 1billion naira. Plus some other investments, cash and crytocurrencies. |
Science/Technology › Re: 'Ghost' Human Ancestor Discovered In West Africa. Linked To Yoruba, Esan People by BigJoe19: 6:42pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
themonk: Thinking God said let us make man in our own image even when our DNA is 99% that of apes is the most ridiculous thing ever. Please take your ego to somewhere else. It's people like you that believed the sun revolved around the earth and humans are the very Centre of creation before we discovered that planet earth is just one planet out of trillions in the universe. Did your bible or Koran tell you about other planets? No! Thanks for replying him with these explanation. |
Romance › Re: Birthday Girl by BigJoe19: 12:33pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Happy birthday!! |
Romance › Re: My Valentine Gift To My Girlfriend by BigJoe19: 12:32pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
So how is this nairalanders business. Are nairalanders your girlfriend? Or your girlfriend is nairalanders? |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 4:29pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
TorukMakto: These same people can't challenge scientist and ask how does phone work. Most Nigerians believe Oyibo scientists stole juju from Africa and used it to build phones and other techs. You are correct, this is exactly how they think, their brains are totally useless. |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 4:25pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
mansakhalifa: You take things easy a lot, I see.
Me? I just feel like shedding tears sometimes.
But then, I remember my father's words- "men don't cry"- and I stop myself.
But I am steady losing my sanity day in day out with these comments. Don't post such threads on NL if you are like me. Do you know why I laugh? Africans don't take corrections, they like sticking to tales of things they can't see, feel or hear from, they take such things sacred. |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 4:16pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
mansakhalifa: Tell you what, we don't think deeply. We just like to indulge in things that have no basis in reality.
Can you imagine? I once met a doctor in this country praying for his patient. And the family members joined in.
Now, how about revoking the charlatan's bloody license? Nobody thought of that.
Sad. Our blooming reality. It's just too funny, sometimes when they react to things with their myopic mindset, I just laugh and shake my head. |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 3:56pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
mansakhalifa: Oh, of course. Of course.
How we think gives me the jitters sometimes. It scares and embarrasses me all at once.
We are miles behind in this regard. Wonder what all our science departments are really churning out in the name of graduates. Many of these guys making these dumb comments might probably identify as science students or hold science degrees you know? Most of them only get interested in things that have to do with tales of spirituality, like stories of how a person performed blood money, how a virgin can pray for you to be successful and many other funny things. |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 3:42pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Joystark: 330million?
Biko how old is the earth again? For me to answer your question, I have to ask you a question. Which department were you in when you were in secondary school ? |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 3:33pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
mansakhalifa: Can they even spell photosynthesis to start with. Explaining it might be too big a task to accomplish.
Look at the comments. They are simply nauseating. To think this forum is global.
What would people think of us? I am really ashamed. Sometimes when whites give racist remarks on blacks, I just laugh because deep down we gave them the opportunity to do it. |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 3:26pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
mansakhalifa: It's sad, men.
Some amongst us look like humans but baboons are far more intelligent than these jokers. Too sad, most of them have made their brains useless. Ordinary photosynthesis graduates from universities can't explain again. Soon they would say how do scientist know the composition of water |
Science/Technology › Re: 330-Million-Year-Old Shark's Head Fossilized In Kentucky Cave Found By Scientist by BigJoe19: 3:14pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
I am seeing a lot of idiots up there saying how did the scientist know the number of years, I guess doing chemistry in secondary school was a waste of time for them, if it is to shout hallelujah and say "my enemy die by fire", they would remember. |
Romance › Re: Don't Fall In Love With These Kind Of Girls If You Value Your Sanity. by BigJoe19: 5:34pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
frankdre: I smell gay, this one na yansh buster...Lol How can I be gay when I have a babymama and two children? |
Romance › Re: Don't Fall In Love With These Kind Of Girls If You Value Your Sanity. by BigJoe19: 9:25am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Don't fall in love with any girl, they are all the same. |
Celebrities › Re: Justin Bieber Makes A Superfan’s Dream Come True With $100K Check (photos) by BigJoe19: 12:21am On Feb 10, 2020 |
subtlemee: this boy is really maturing He is not a boy, he is man with a wife and he is almost 26years old. |
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Nairaland General › Re: Massive Female Python Killed In Apapa - Conoil Fueling Station (Picture) by BigJoe19: 6:26pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Pattypatt: How did they know it's a female python? Do make python lay eggs? Some of you have sold your senses. |
Romance › Re: The Way Ladies Accuse Guys Of Rape These Days Is Out Of This World (screenshots) by BigJoe19: 4:27pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
If not for reproduction, women would have been useless to humanity. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido And Chioma In Arabian Outfits (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 3:14pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
miniziter: That shows who you're because you started it. You are quoting the wrong person, I was only telling you to stop arguing with the other guy. |
Romance › Re: Wife Runs Away With A Man She Claimed Raped Her Five Years Ago by BigJoe19: 3:07pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
pocohantas: Fear women indeed,
Is it women that blew up a bank alongside someone's brain or does the side guy not know he is hurting his fellow man?
If he wants to fight for the child, he should go ahead or go find his own child in another man's house. Story that touches the heart.  Why do you women always lie that a guy raped you when you all have lived a slutty life. |
Romance › Re: Wife Runs Away With A Man She Claimed Raped Her Five Years Ago by BigJoe19: 3:01pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Why do I feel Timi Dakolo will end up like this man. |
Celebrities › Re: Dabota Lawson Gifts Herself A Brand New Whip (photos/video) by BigJoe19: 5:58pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
partnerbizn4: So what does she do? She is married to a billionaire family. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido And Chioma In Arabian Outfits (Pictures) by BigJoe19: 5:55pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
miniziter: Let's see her pix. Post yours and I'll post mine. Only little children argue about their girlfriend's or wife's beauty. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Build Your Ideal Man. by BigJoe19: 10:54pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Ladylite: LOL, so you didn't see that she said 1 extra naira... Your sperm filled brain just wanted me to notice your homo erectus existence,
Kindly remove your brain from your deek and stop replying people who we made to make you miserable.
Get lost. After dey go say na men dey bully women for Nairaland, see insult. |
Romance › Re: I Want To Give Him Back His SUV And The Diamond Necklace Gifted Me by BigJoe19: 11:03pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
thunderfirebubu: Hustle oo.. So Dat girls go chase u even wen u get ebola, Corona virus, epilepsy. Abi na. |