₦airaland Forum

She is brainy.
Omolabi, Iwe Larii.

I don't care whose ox is gored, let corruption be fought to a stand still.

Kwara State is backward even on the revenue ladder. A first generation state for that matter.

Of all the fixtures, it's Atletico Madrid Vs Leicester that is somehow not difficult, the remaining ones are cracker and tug of war.

Jammiiee:
Baba gbagbe, Leicester no dey go anywhere. Dem no fit komot 2 Spanish teams lailai.

If dem go mistakenly qualify over Atletico, e go make semifinal be short1 for whomever dem face, e no go sweet

Forget how e go take happen.

U go dey surprise as I talk am.

Amusaopeyemi:
Aye Leicester City ti baje.

Haba! Ba wo ni aye won she baje?

Don't be surprised if Leicester progress to Semis. It's 180 minutes

Vested interests, bane of Nigeria's success.

Vanity.

APC at the centre brings more confusion and avoidable issue.

Governor Yahya Bello's shade no get part 2.

She gone too soon. That's pathetic. The guy is an evil.

May his flaws be forgiven and soul be blessed eternally Ameen.

_*HUSBAND SCARCITY...*_

_*(By Maryam matawalle ringim ).*_

_This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern._

_Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home._

_Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves._

_Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem._

_You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small._

_The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity"._

_Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity._

_The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth._

_For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow._

_Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials._

_What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen._

_Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent._

All the best.