₦airaland Forum

Gaggi:
Don't tell, it could backfire against you as it will be your word against his. BTW, guys always value who paved the way for them and hold such people in high esteem. If you can record the conversation on your fone, then you can decide to tell. If no evidence, don't dare.

rhufffryda:
lmao, Igbo men uhn

Its all about the money. Money = Love in igbo language. U know the theory between money and the igbo species (they love and can do anything for money). So, the igbo father marries wife 2 , wife 3 etc and abandons wife 1. wife 1 does everything to raise money to train junior. He grows up thinking his mom has a strong hold on him.

Problem solved?

MRbrownJAY:
people, stop saying she is desperate as anyone living in the real world would know that meeting ones parent aint a big deal, ESPECIALLY if you live at your parents place.
my parents met most of my girls while i was growing up living in their homes. there was absolutely nothing wrong with it as they knew pretty well that we were not going into some marriage plans. parents should have an idea of what their children are doing and meeting their dates/friends earlier on isnt wrong at all especially if that person come to your home to pick you up.
my parents would make a fuss if someone came to our house and didnt come and say hello to them so i can understand the poster.
if i had a girl who came by while we had dinner then she would come and join us, long term gf or just 1week old relationships. its all about how comfortable you are around your parents and who you are hanging out with.
in 9ja people see it differently, it isnt better or worst , it is just different.
if she was talking marriage after 3months then that would be a sign of desperation and "foolishness" but it isnt so.
one of the problem today is that people aint comfortable with who they are and what they do. if you are ok with laying with her and be with a girl then dont be afraid to tell your folks that this is the girl you are "courting" or "getting to know". if your parents are open minded they will understand that it could be something like it could be nothing.
relax.