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fellis: I was trying to say it is that way due to religious beliefs.

It doesn't always work when you apply human logic because most men are bad leaders.

Pls if i may ask on what basis did you mean most men are bad leaders
Or did you mean most bad leaders are men

Im sure you know they dont mean the same thing

salt 1: No. Real life and known and connected with me.

bros.. why u answer na

too many jambite juveniles on this thread; referring to experiences as nollywood... pity

kulyie: this is the most hilarious curse abi na threat i have read so far on nairaland.idowu con see wetin i dey see o

i reject it on your behalf...


@tosingcfr
I hope you dont use your cussing mouth to pray God/Allah at the same time
I dont think He will like that kind of prayer

rolchi: Nollywood?!

Welcome to the real world

One may have more clothes than an old person but you can never have enough rags as the old person
EXPERIENCE IS IMPORTANT!

coogar: longer/bigger only feeds the eyes but when it comes to the act itself, the length and width hardly matters. it's like claiming i cannot get sëxual pleasure from a woman with smaller breasts or below average-sized bütt. says who?

succintly put

you are really a bad professsor monsieur

yoddy01: You are not understanding. This is not proof. The women said they preferred bigger, does not mean that bigger is better. Pls refer to biola's post. I will not argue with you anymore, but I am happy to see that you have taken my advice and started doing your research

bro,, i thought you will have tired by now...

khukhi: Sandton and Cape town are the places to be

sho you are a classy lady yourself
Enjoy the weekend!

salt 1: Says who? I have seen a marriage where the wife's infidelity produced a son. The husband was hurt but he forgave and brought up that son along with his other children. The son never knew till the man died. And in the man's old age, it was that son that took care of him.
Op has no healthy option except to forgive and re-build trust. Forgiving is for his own emotional and physical health.
Who said a second wife will be faithful? Women are good at keeping secrets.

wow.. that man has a heart of gold

Always dodgy ish with you guys to prove what is not
Did u see the bolded below in your long post
Maybe you are on the 10-20% that are stimulated via penetration... its all good
But some of us are not small bois in this matter though we are not females

This is all arising out of ingrauined female stereoptypes that men are just one bam thank you maam
Some of us actually care abt how to make our partners feel gooood



[quote author=baby_123]33.8 per cent of that figure claimed to prefer bigger-than-average manlinesses, 60 per cent said size did not matter to them, and 6.3 per cent said they preferred shorter appendages.

Overall the women who reported the highest number of womanly heavenly feelings during the previous 30 days tended to say they preferred longer manlinesses, the findings revealed.

Researchers found joystick size was however not related to the frequency of clitoral heavenly feeling.
[/quote]

[quote author=BABE!]Right .... 90% of the intercourse/fun itself is all about friction. The Women that cry "size matters" have slacked VJs and their partners PNs aren't big enough (even if they're average size) to cause the necessary friction.

So size does matter (not all women are super young), however, too much of everything .....

A woman with a perfect sizeVJ wouldn't complain about her partner's size; her main thirst will be for good performance ...[/quote]

coogar: even the width hardly matters - it's about knowing which positions to take. the only reason any woman would think size matters is because she only practises missionary position.

secondly, the first one-third of her vagïna (the third closest to the opening) is the area that houses all of the nerve endings and is, therefore, the only area that actually registers sensation. so ramming it down the whole length is just a waste of time and effort....

thats why ladies will die for some good ol' fashioned cunilingus

kulyie: ewww what a gross human being.men dont menstrate,biola is a man 8-)

why are answerin the asinine fellow

his brain is undergoing rigor mortis..

For those fixated on the size vs skill debate cum average size of ....

A survey of more than 1,000 men in India has concluded that condoms made according to international sizes are too large for a majority of Indian men. The study found that more than half of the men measured had joysticks that were shorter than international standards for condoms. It has led to a call for condoms of mixed sizes to be made more widely available in India. The two-year study was carried out by the Indian Council of Medical Research.

Over 1,200 volunteers from the length and breadth of the country had their joysticks measured precisely, down to the last millimetre. The scientists even checked their sample was representative of India as a whole in terms of class, religion and urban and rural dwellers. The conclusion of all this scientific endeavour is that about 60% of Indian men have joysticks which are between three and five centimetres shorter than international standards used in condom manufacture.

Doctor Chander Puri, a specialist in reproductive health at the Indian Council of Medical Research, told the BBC there was an obvious need in India for custom-made condoms, as most of those currently on sale are too large. The issue is serious because about one in every five times a condom is used in India it either falls off or tears, an extremely high failure rate. And the country already has the highest number of HIV infections of any nation.

"Not a problem", Mr Puri said that since Indians would be embarrassed about going to a chemist to ask for smaller condoms there should be vending machines dispensing different sizes all around the country. "Smaller condoms are on sale in India. But there is a lack of awareness that different sizes are available. There is anxiety talking about the issue. And normally one feels shy to go to a chemist's shop and ask for a smaller size condom."

But Indian men need not be concerned about measuring up internationally according to Sunil Mehra, the former editor of the Indian version of the men's magazine Maxim. "It's not size, it's what you do with it that matters," he said. "From our population, the evidence is Indians are doing pretty well. "With apologies to the poet Alexander Pope, you could say, for inches and centimetres, let fools contend." -BBC

Source: http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/?articleID=2000066632&pageNo=1

all4naija: It is easy to say. We have seen Wole Soyinka almost attacked in his hotel room in SA, also other visiting Nigerian musicians, the one carried out on recent diplomat and just to mention but a few, among those who have been innocent victims of these failed attacks.

We keep treating these problems with carelessness knowing fully well they will repeat themselves in the very present or nearest future. Can we continue to accept these attacks with equanimity? Are we just comfortable in the face of troubles? While these ruthless South Africans keep molesting and incriminating innocent Nigerians routinely without question is still something that is very challenging to me. That I cannot accept to be fair. Such situation is not right and should be condemned by all good citizens of Nigerians and South Africans alike.

Attacks of any nature should be condemned.. and I will never condone such
But generally ZA can be violent and one shd exercise common sense precautions which can be helpful
Thanks

emiye: Make i talk my own too, Talking about size, it could be length or width(diameter).

A womans vj is about 4.5inches on the avg, the g spot is some 2 inches. so all the 7 inches or more noise is mere psychology, but psychology also matters in sex.

The width(diameter), i think matters considerably than the length, a woman with a narrow opening will feel pain until the expansion happens

A wide opening will also mean the man will barely enjoy, the more reason doctors reccomend kegel exercise for ladies after vj child birth.

Sorry Op, for the diversion.

nice analysis...

coogar: i bagged a master's degree in this field at 19.

badt professor..

Stats show 80 percent of women fake orgasm...

Also most women are stimulated clitorally rather than vjay-wise

Of course, as Meg Ryan proved in another movie, “When Harry Met Sally,” women can use their voices to fake an orgasm, too. In Brewer’s survey, more than 25 percent of women routinely used vocalization to fake it. They did it about 90 percent of the time they realized they would not climax. About 80 percent faked using vocalizations about half the time they were unable to have an orgasm.

Women do this because their men are so goal-directed they won’t stop until a woman climaxes, the authors say.

http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38006774/ns/health-sexual_health/t/sorry-guys-percent-women-admit-faking-it/

coogar: if you look hard enough - you would see they are inter-related. the op was asking if marrying an older woman alters the headship that normally exists in man-woman relationships.

Maybe,,,, But An gender supremacy argument will spoil the feel good factor so far on the thread

fellis: It sure is!

Biolabee, would you be okay with your wife keeping tabs on how you spend your money because she wants to make sure you don't squander it?

Yep.. I outlined a formula above because that's what I got from discussing with my elder friends

It allows the common account with some for your own discretionary spending

For a thread that has been wholesome and mature, you know when the agents of bitterness causing discord

Ok carry gooo

You have a big dikk lover
Yippee!!!

Next..

[quote author=baby_123]You really need to get a life. You have issues.[/quote]Woman thanks but no thanks
I have a life

Moreover where did you get the average is 6 inches

More dodgy stats. Did you consider race or you are just spewing
A child think his fathers farm is the biggest

Pity..

coogar: size did not destroy those marriages - the poor performance did. why do people carry this myth of size matters? which yeye size? the average length of a woman's vägina is 5 inches. anything beyond that is just a waste of sausage.....

it's not about the size of the dog in the fight, it's about the size of the fight in the dog.



because men don't partake in this same sëxual matters. be deceiving yourself that size matters. the human eye cannot even tell the difference between 7 inches and 8 inches so it's all in your head that size matters.....

performance is the koko......

Coogar on point!

He shall be referred to as a half minute man

coogar: size does not matter, jare.....it's all in the head! the performance matters more. what's the point of a large girth if he cannot last a minute?

Toks2008: Young man or woman, size does matter don't get me wrong please but a man of 5inch can satisfy a woman even better than a 12 inch man if he knows what to do and how to stimulate her erogenous zones..

You seem not to understand my standpoint as shown by the way you respond to my posts asking me if im married and explaining poo to me about a woman moaning. Sorry , i taught the moan was a laughter.

A lady does not value extra jagumo over matters of the heart so try and be matured to get the angle am coming from.

How many ladies see the size of a man's gun before flowing with him?

Welcome to baby123 don't worry her twin jidegirl will soon step in

Toks2008: forget story, a woman does not need any extra jagumo to enjoy intimacy.

before i met my wife i have had vast experience with many ladies and i can tell you this fact. Many of them feel more pain than pleasure and GOD in his infinite wisdom has made it possible that even a man with 5inc can make a woman happy in bed.

I dont want to go back into the bedmatics of how to please a woman but believe me, its not about the size as believed by some men or women, its all psychology.

There are even more important things that turn a lady on than the guns in between men's legs.

Learning Mode loading

Please oh this is about marrying an older woman make una no derail am with male v female supremacy

rman: This post confirms my thoughts.

You are lonley and bitter. You may be 40,but you express yourelf like a 20yr old. Unfortunately, girls like you will continue to act like being in a relatiship with a man does not matter, but deep down, you know something is missing.

You have more than 20 posts on this thread alone all in support of a childish way of handling a simple matter. Your support of the poster is a deep rooted hatred for men.

A failed attempt at love does not make everyman evil.

You need to get over your past, or, your were not rasied in a loving caring home.

dude,, stop crapping
You dont know anything about nobody online.. anyone can claim to be what they are or not

Kulyie... nothing do you
when ID Marcos goes on time off, na you go be the next badosky here...

debosky: I sense a lot of guys here are expressing anger over their previous experiences of being mugu'd. Not to worry, it's a part of growing up.

If I had to choose, I'd prefer the lesson teacher that made the guy buy 3 months' food than the food wasting lesson teacher. At least the money was put to good use in the former case.

Yes i agree,,, Up Kulyie!!!!

^^^ then all is well with the world

Ok.. Nice one guys!

gbokukueba: Thanks man... I had forgotten about totally until i saw this topic yesterday all of a sudden i just started suspecting her again... i know am paranoid as we are both far away from the character...

It is well sir

I respect you guys that have come forth with your experiences

tinuolababy: this must be A̶̲̥̅ movie. Op what's d title?

Iya Ijo BABA IJEBU...

jhydebaba: The guy own better now, what about millions who don't have the means to treat themselves?

May God help us.

exactly... what of the less privileged or famous ones..

When will we get social justice in this country

I get u,, the celebs can be a voice for social change YES

But the lawmakers and law enforcement agencies must also work against this

Its too much,,.,, haba!

gbokukueba: @OP,

I have followed this topic all day and each time i think about it i feel a rush of bile in my mouth... I really dont know how to advise you but i really know how you feel it like you have been stabbed in the heart... I had a similar experience last year when my wife told me of a guy in her work place who was showing her affection and she got carried away although she said it didnt get physical but at that point i lost it and was ready to let her go and all these affection happened when she was pregnant unfortunately we lost the pregnancy and each time i think back i felt betrayed but we were able to work things out but this your story has taken me back to that situation and reminded me of how i feel.

I pray you make the right choice but for me if i know she had physical relationship with another man its the end of the marriage...

May you obtain grace in your time of need

Hmmph,,,na wa o