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Adamskuty: pls stop trying to make fun of me?? hehehe

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Big BossMan: HELLO POSTER
FIRST AND FOREMOST, LET ME THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY. I JUST LEARNT A VITAL LESSON FROM IT. MY WIFE IS PREGNANT NOW I WAS CONSIDERING GET THE GETTING IT (SEX) FROM "OUTSIDE" SINCE OUR SEX-LIFE IS AT ITS LOWEST EBB NOW. BUT WITH YOUR STORY, I WONT TRY THAT! THANKS
FROM WHAT I COULD DEDUCE, YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND WERE FOND OF EACH OTHER BEFORE AND IN THE EARLY STAGE OF YOUR MARRIAGE. YOU GUYS NEED TO BRING BACK THE GOOD OLD DAYS.
THE FIRST STEP IS COMMUNICATION: DISCUSS THE PROBLEM WITH HIM WITHOUT NAGGING (SORRY IF THAT HURTS)
FOLLOWED BY GENUINE FORGIVENESS: FORGIVE HIM SO THAT YOU CAN FREE YOURSELF FROM THE BITTERNESS INSIDE. REMEMBER LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE OF WRONG DOINGS.
FINALLY HOLD ON TO YOUR MARRIAGE COS THE GRASS LOOKS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE

NB: THE TALK ABOUT YOUR SUPERIOR JOB AND SALARY SHOULD NOT ARISE! IT WILL ONLY WIDEN THE DIVIDE.
REMAIN BLESSED

pleep: Don't get me wrong... i'm not in support of it, i'm just saying that is the justification most cultures used to have.

From a financial standpoint it does not make much sense for a family to send thier daughter to med school, almost 100k in total, for her to end up as a house-wife.

pleep: The funniest part about this discussion... is this is why most cultures didnt even bother to educate females until very recently... They figured it was a waste of time and money because the ladies would always revert back to a man to take care of them.Were they right

Richvkunt: ^^
When you pay peanuts,__

shymexx: Damn!!! That was a low-blow - calling someone Adam-skunk is hella funny!!

Skunk = weed/ganjar variation known for causing mental sickness...

ooseven: Summary so far:

- Naija civil servant attacked in SA

- Naija NLers voice discontent

- SA national (sweetcheeks) tries to defend her country but is sucker punched by someone's statement on apartheid and loses it.

- nuclear weapons fly back and forth

- Ghanians (ABN) saw conflict and started poking their heads in, trying to get caught up in the debacle.

-eventually they succeeded in getting into the fight because some naijas had been waiting for it too

- nuclear weapons flu back and forth

- the SA fighters either had a day job, got tired or had a dik to suck, left to face more important life issues.

- sadly the Ghanians are still here, as this sort of thread happens to unite them and Ginger their swagger, especially as they have nothing else to do same also with some naija haters.

- meanwhile three confirmed crazies from Naija are keeping them on leash, so they don't leave as he has figured they are on a "I must have the last word " fix

- nuclear weapons fly back and forth...

Meanwhile the original gladiators have agreed to disagree

- the show continues

samtoye: Kai, i read comments from here sometimes and i shake my head in disbelieve. I guess the forum is opened to all both the mature and the immature, all you need is just the simple internet device and a connection.

OP thanks for the head up! its an old trick they used, another trick is for them to give you the right amount and collect your foreign currency thereafter call you back and give you a reason they cannot do the exchange again and would return your money; the problem is they would have replaced your original notes with fake and you wont notice.

I have Rules i have created for myself to survive when in Nigeria

1,I do not patronize mobile vendors for anything expensive.
2,Cheap prices most times means hidden defect.
3,I only deal with people with a verified place of business or office where i can return to if i have issues.
4,Any stranger that promises to bestow wealth on me should first go and help his family members.
5,I don't do Jackpots, lottery, bets or lucky charms.
6,I don't believe in sudden wealth so you can't win me over with that.
7,Introducing yourself in first instance as a Born Again Christian in a business transaction would only raise my suspicion.
8,If the deal sounds too good/sweet I run.
9,I believe i should work for all i own, no shortcut so offer of gifts raises my suspicion.
10,Any deal that involves cheating anybody dead or alive I don't do it.
11,I separate sentiments from business i.e. No family, no religion, no tribe, no language etc. I judge by your instance.
12,If you talk too much i don't do business with you.
13,Meeting you as a stranger and I catch you lying just once, no business deal.
14,You look rough, you dress rough, you smell rough, i don't do business with you.
15,If the deal involves reaping where i did not sow i back off.
16,I have survived without your money so i can still continue living without it.


Many more when i remember.


When you live in Rome act like the Romans....

pappilo: English my friend! I never said all Nigerians are bad people. I am Nigerian too and suspicious of my own damn self as well. Being suspicious of everyone has always helped me. Although I must admit, I have missed out on a few real opportunities because of my suspicions.

xhosanostraZAR: Thanks for the welcome. Will try to keep an open mind. Even though I love politics guess it wouldn't hurt to check other threads too...so will do.

druid06: Haha! You just made my day.

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Goodysydney: Look at this xxxxx....ixxxx

Adamskuty: lmaooo! But the last time i check,many of ur girls are chasing after them like cat chasing rat,hmm!

And secondly the drug mule are mainly southafricans,and mostly ur guys behaves like some kind of primitive being possessed by evil spirit.

And lastly go get teabagged by a dog in a damp alley,cos most of y'all are ugly looking mofos,only monkeys,a mad monkey will date ur kind and pls upload ur pix,i will like to crack my ribs a little after seeing ur burnt lips and smeghead :Dhehehe! Buzz off!!!

xhosanostraZAR: Been a long time follower of this forum but just recently decides to join. Its hard to not generalize or get a bit emotional especially when all I've seen whenever a thread is about SA - is hate, hate, hate and,more hate on the daily.

Like really...whats up with that?

BluIvy: @biolabee you need stop the two Yaba left patients adamskunk and goodysydney. They dont even make sense they just insult everything that moves.

BluIvy: Ohhh! Biola! You woke up early to come and play ref in this madness? I feel you my brother you know! And you have my support. 100%

xhosanostraZAR: Could've fooled me

xhosanostraZAR: I'm here to check what "haters" are saying about my country. Who in their right mind would go out and search for a Nigerian man, an aspiring drug mule maybe, but definitely not me. So crawl right back to whatever hole you came from with that bs. I don't need nor want a Naija man. Y'all would never ever make the list of men I would ever date.

Boy bye!

Adamskuty: if u xxxxxx water,ectricity..education

your sick LovePeddler of a mother is dying and i heard Ghanaian doctors are on strike now? your old man is too helpless and poor to help! your President Atta Mills who was supposed to bring better health care to Ghana is dead and probably dancing Azonto in the pit of hell with a thousand demons....