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all4naija: Is the any evidence to that? If there is and what is the level of things?

I have no information
It may interest you that the original story may be false

It does not mean the prevailing beef is not

all4naija: It is better. But, it is gradually derailing the topic.

Thanks it is much better

PHEW!!

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all4naija: Now, back to topic, without any information coming from the press as to what extent this issue has been addressed. My question is. What has the SA leaders done about it?

The first point of call is the governments of the two nations to be officially notified via the police

Then the investigation can start

all4naija: Is this now a dating thread as such? I don't want to be accused of jealousy before anything else.

It is not a dating thread but its better than the miasma of hate it was some few pages ago
Is that not better

[quote author=*Semuhle*Baby*]Your problem is that you like to focus on the bad and concentrate on the bad and the more you do that, the more you will continue to see bad in everyone. Unfortunately for example the islamic terrorist, a lot of people may see muslims such as iraqi"s and iranians as terrorist or may be suspicious of them but that does not mean everybody feels that way. Nigerians unfortunately have a bad reputation abroad but not everyone thinks they are bad or judges them. Everywhere you go, you will get individuals who are not open minded so just see things black and white and cannot see the good and you are starting to fall in that category. Believe me not everyone hates Nigerians. There are some Nigerians who are married to south africans, who are friends with us. You say the media shows nigeria in a bad way the same way it may make us seem like south africa is very xenophobic. Let those who hate, hate. It is their issue, rather focus all that anger and bitterness on something else. Because the more you hate or dispised something or someone, you will never be able to see the good in them. I cannot say much about Ghanaians in Ghana but the ones here that i know do not have any problems with Nigerians because i have attended even a few of functions, weddings etc and there are alot of Nigerians there. Even we as South Africans rather feel that at times you guys( Nig, Ghan, Zim etc) get together and bash south africans but i know that not everyone is like that also it is human nature to say something bad or talk about someone but what makes it different is when it turns to extreme hatred. So just try not to be biased in your thinking. Even if you meet 5000 South Africans who hate NIgerians, it does not represent every south african in South Africa and worldwide.[/quote]Wow.. a wise head you have

Tgirl4real: Simple!

A dedicated mistress is almost equals to having a second wife.

Secondly, a dedicated mistress will most likely have a love child for ur hubby.

Women don't love competition.

thanks for your response


@All, I have enjoyed the frank aand intelligent responses so far
Family Section is till on top

dominique: If only Arsenal had this kind of consistency all season, they'll be among the title contenders. These days seems AW is more interested in champs league qualification. Shame

na today?


2nd half...

[quote author=*Semuhle*Baby*]I wish more Nigerians were like Biolabee and Shymexx. These guys are such sweethearts[/quote]There are a lot whom beside i will be a devil but my point is that why let the shouts of a vocal minority determine how you see us

They are really vocal its sad

HT

1 nil to the arsenal

They must hold on

The remaining 225 minutes of football must yield nine points

1 minutes extra time

Adamskuty: i don't know,are you southafrican?

NOPE....

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Adamskuty: kimberly is a very kind and lovely girl,same with kasey,my very close friend,lol! Some of them are nice though

So how do you think they will they feel if they know you hate their people and country so

Sp*rs just score with Baale

They are now fourth

HumbledbYGrace: we all need to understand ourselves better in order to understand others.

True...KNOW THYSELF

HumbledbYGrace: lol, most of them says they faught for freedom so everything should be handed to them on a silver platter. I would say Apartheid should have tought them something, because it was then that they knew what it meant to work for a roof above their heads....

Even the AA after the got emancipated had to fight for right to vote, civil rights and right to seat in the same part of the bus with whites

Kunta Kinte has their fight
Rosa Parks and MLK fought for civil rights

Obama is still fighting

Frostyzone: LOL

What's wrong with my post?

Very witty and evil

carefreewannabe: It depends on the kind of party she wants to got to.
If she wants to go clubbing, no! She is underage and so it's illegal to enter a club.
If it's a birthday party at a friend's house where parents are around, ok. I'll drive her and pick her up, though.
She can also have a party in our house, every now and then. Invite some friends over, get some drinks (non-alcoholic), have a barbecue and listen to music. And I wouldn't disturb all the time. Boys and Girls are both welcomed but NOBODY will lock a room up and stay there with a boy or a girl.

your advice is defo not carefree.. me likey

Frostyzone: As a hardcore Man United fan, I feel nothing but sorry for Arsé-nal this days. I missed the days I used to watch almost all their matches because of my admiration of their beautiful version of tiki-taka, secretly wishing that Man United would incorporate it into their playing style.

Nowadays, Arsenal are shadows of their former selfs, with their tiki-taka tradition no where in evidence. They used to be considered a threat both domestically and Europe, but nowadays, Arsenal F.C is fair game. They barely managed to qualify for Europe last season, and this year is like another déjâ-vú.

Arsenal, out of the kindness of my heart, I'm wishing you success in today's game. I need you rather than Tottenham in UCL next season, because of your specialty in reaching the knock-out stages. I feel you will represent EPL better.
You are not my first choice, neither are you my 4th but you are better than nothing...and Tottenham, Everton and Liverpool are nothing.

You deserve a spanking for this your post

HumbledbYGrace: @ bolded he is indeed an embarassment but let's not point fingers because he was voted by black south africans to be a president.

The problem of most black south african is they want quick money, they hate school, end up being junkies and bitter! so when our African brothers come down here to help their economy grow they fight them, call them names; WHY? Because truth be told, this people are way smarter than them! They are educated and mostly earn a living in an honest way. Look @ the foreign salons in sunnyside Pretoria for instance; those people are earning a living in a most, decent and honest way and to top it all; they are educated. 60% of black South Africans are L.A.Z.Y!

One more thing, parents tend to show their children that non S.A citizens are not human, so they grow with that stupid mentality! Only an educated sane man knows how to treat another African brother.

Very objective post

And herein is the solution, nationals have first right to the resources of a nation
If they step up and the opportunities are there, they will have first choice

HumbledbYGrace: almost there dear, almost there.

36th page and counting

My sister so you remember.. it seems like yesterday i said it o

So much prejudice... Gawd!!

Seun: The fact that you feel the need to threaten your wife about this is worrying.

That is perfectly natural irrespective of whether he has told the partner or not

Female posters on this forum has said the same to her husband

Its about boundaries

Richvkunt: So because Wikipedia does not pay their moderators,Nairaland should also not pay their moderators? Very logical.

Dude, that may be the practice in forums generlly as voluntary moderation may be a model supported by a low revenue business
You are not privy to the arrangement he has with his mods <equity, recognition etc>
I just pointed that out so that it is not seen as a naija thing.. DAZALL

Sorry for the derailment

Back to topic

Three way battle for 4th spot

Who will prevail

Adamskuty: I have some southafrican friends though,and i haven't being to ghana or S.a

Pls one more how is the relationship with the ZA people.

Adamskuty: hm! Dude,lemme just make everything short,lol! I don't hate anyone,i see everybody as being equal,i think it's the ghanains and southafricans that hate nigerians the most. That's due to what i have seen on t.v,read on papers and even in this forum.


I have some southafrican friends though,and i haven't being to ghana or S.a

Thanks for responding
ok good.. though i would like to ask why you think they hate nigerians first and thus eliciting a negative response from you

If from what youve seen on tv or this forum and based on a minority you adjudge that to be a whole nation
Are we not generalising

ZA has 60m people and GH about 30m

If 5 people determine my world view of either 30 or 60m people, it does not make sense to me
Similarly illogical is judging 160m people with the actions of a few people youve never met or seen before

Adamskuty: haha! Thanks bro,i just got pissed off then

i raised some questions for you on the thread, would appreciate your response

[quote author=i-smoke-weed]you have not sat down for just 30mins observing when guys/gamblers are playing 'whot' card game? now convert the cards into currency and watch the magic

my dear, the kind of tricks used by a chronic cheater is unlimited . . . TRUST ME![/quote]i watch this program on BBC - i think its called conmen or sth like that
but i no say dem dey do am for naija here wey everybody eye chook

@Adamskuty

Back to our discussion, If you dont mind i will ask you some questions similar to one i raised yesterday

1. What is your perception of the average GH/ZAn national

2. Is this perception formed by what you have experienced directly or a family member or based on hear say

3. Have you or are you ever had a close relationship with any GH/ZA
how was the relationship and what was unique about the relationship

4 Have u travelled to Ghana or South Africa before

Thanks in advance

pleep: I disagree with feminism because its ideologies are founded on B.S and innacurate statistics.

... but by no means is traditionalism a better solution. After my mother had me and my brother she quit her job and became a stay at home mom for several years.

she now says it is the most lazy and unproductive lifestyle imaginable... thats why she started working again. I'm sorry, but when the children are past a certain age a stay at home mom is nothing more than a glorified mooch... This is not 1820 where women had to wash cloths by hand, do dishes by hand or even cook dinners from scratch.

As much as i hate feminism, i will admit that the traditionalist system was extremely outdated and incompatible with modern life in the 60's ... and it is 100x more incompatible with life today.

I agree with you and i appreciate your balanced post noting that there are some virtues of modern day empowerment for women

Adamskuty: bros i came here to have peace of mind,pls let me be nau pls don't make me cry *sobbing.already*

you seem like a nice guy but im really curious to know why u beleive bad things abt your brother
ok we meet on the other thread

one love bro