₦airaland Forum

Goodysydney: Hate will always be there. Hate has always been there before we were all born and before our fore fathers were born. I don't bother myself with what lazy poor bastard Ghanaians and lazy Hiv/Aids rapist Southafricans think of Nigerians. The poor lazy bastard Ghanaians and lazy Hiv/Aids rapist Southafricans themselves too, don't like themselves as well, because before you can like others, you have to like yourself as well. It is only the spirit of God in the heart of human being that will make human being love themselves. 95% of why Nigerians are hated by lazy black Southafricans and Ghanaians is shear jealousy. Nigerians dominate lazy Southafricans and Ghanaians wherever they go and in heaven or in hell. So u lazy malnourished Southafricans and dwarf Ghanaians hate Nigerians or love Nigerians, we Nigerians will always dominate anywhere we go, whether in heaven or in hell. We must show ourselves.

carr96: okay, I understand

mygirrl: with the Job situation in this country if your girl/woman finds her self jobless by no fault of her own so you will dump her because she is now a liability. many of you men commenting are very shallow minded, being jobless is a temporary situation, everyone passes through the jobless route at one point or the other.

theghost: What I say here is from experience. If you are the hardworking type, and you care about people being grateful for what you do for them, then don't marry someone who doesn't work. The rare exception is when the person is loyal and takes care of the needs at home.

Women who don't work (generally) tend to not be very unappreciative. (Note that I say generally, not everyone)They complain a lot that you haven't bought this or that, you haven't taken them out. Sometimes, they could be using something you just bought them but yet still complain about some other thing you are yet to buy, or what someone else is doing for their spouse. The real issue is they don't have a sense of the value of getting things.

I don't intend to be sexist, but women tend to focus on the present and that is what they care about mostly. Men, on the other hand then to remember things they've done in the past. So if a woman doesn't work and she is the unappreciative type, her demands will never end, because she lives in the present most of the time, you have to keep doing things for her just to keep her happy. This is not sustainable.

SLIDE waxie: Let's reason and see if a woman is actually jobless:

1. She woke up by five to cook. Wake u up by 6am to take ur bath, eat and go to work!

2. Immediately, she wakes d kid and took them to school.

3. She came back and clean up the house.

4. Went to the market before you and the kids are back.

5. Prepare meals again.

6. U came back, eat, and at night jumped on her and pounding hard all in the name of sex! And worst still, she can't complain of being tired cos she won't want an excuse of fucckin the maid! U will simply doze off till she wakes u by 6am again after she has woken by 5am.

She starts all over again!

Dude, no true lady is jobless. Pls a little appreciation will suffice!

Aafulenu: see their mouth, call housewives jobless. op let me ask u one question. can u do half of what a 'jobless woman' does? yeye unappreciative man.
u expect to be fed, cleaned up after, well clothed, healthy, healthy and well fed kids. yet u say the woman is jobless. God punish u!!!. may u neva come near me or my sisters or even my enemies.

tomoro if the woman is working and very busy, its the same lot talking trash here that will still come here and complain that their home is being neglected. or if she becomes very successful its the same low-self-esteemed hediots that will come and talk trash.

nonsense.!!!!

because u have 9-5 and she doesn't does not make u better than her. neither does it make her useless.
in-short, y dont u find a nanny, a cook, and a cleaner, a dry cleaner, a teacher. and pay then each for their services. so we will knw ur wife is actually jobless.

and to ur frnd that is complaining. garbage in garbage out! its the way he treats his wife determines the way his wife treats him.

again NONSENSE!!! smh

dayokanu: Why are the lazy tricks making noise?

Your parents sent you to school so you wont depend on another human, But due to laziness some have decided to turn themselves to Feed and Bleep (ALABODO)

Those working mothers dont they have family? dont their children grow up or have dogs eaten their kids.

What message are you sending to your daughter/ Or why bother waste money sending your daughters to school? Why spend equal amount on your boys and girls education when you intend to sit your fat arsee at home while another human being feeds you

When some women are fighting for equality in the workplace with men Some lazybones still want to be housewives

carr96: @bolded I don't see how this comment is any of my biz,...
I don't believe I called anyone a warlord why quote me wit dat crap?
@un-bolded, that I understand

jonot: seriously? why should that happen? the way this world is going sef, parents will soon be asked to use sir/ma for their children

mekula: Can'tbe random. Diplomats have diplomatic licence plates on their cars, at least that is enough to identify him.

mekula: I keep telling folks here, if it goes beyond poking fun at each other and enters the realm of beef, it becomes a problem. We all (Africans) have similar problems plaguing us so lets us stop trying to act like some of us are better off than the rest. Sweetcheecks and her SA comrades are always eager for a fight even when the situation doesnt warrant one. Too sad! They see any news about SA as an attack on their nation. Now that is not the attitude of people who are supposedly enlightened as they claim. It just shows a very high level of psychological insecurity.

carr96: iv got no idea why most people take stuff like this too personal
Whenever I see topics like dis, I jump right into it cos ITS FUN
Personally iv got nothing against any country.....

yellowpawpaw: Its better u close ur mouth then! Read ur posts,wished u were near me,then I will teach u how to become d man of the house and not d man in d house!what a mindset!

shymexx: At least Steven Biko educated more than two generations of the black world with his "black consciousness" ideology..

"Black Consciousness is in essence the realization by the black man of the need to rally together with his brothers around the cause of their operation - the blackness of their skin - and to operate as a group in order to rid themselves of the shackles that bind them to perpetual servitude." - Steve Biko

This man gave his life(he was brutally murdered) and promising medical career for the liberation of black South Africans... My life changed the day I read about him... I literally shed a tear!! That was a great man and arguably one of the most intelligent guy to ever come out of the continent of Africa!!

Nelson Mandela on the other hand compromised!!

carr96: heard in S.A women also rap.e men

sweetcheecks: Shym, read my first comment before we were told we deserved apartheid and our parents were shot as game. You do go there I lost family members in that crap. Fire with fire!

all4naija: Who cares?!

shymexx: How come? Nigeria's diplomats in SA are GEJ and Nigeria's face in that country...

That's the problem with Nigeria - we've no foreign policy, and all these clowns running the country in the name of "technocrats" only care about what to loot...

If they could attack a Nigerian diplomat, then our high commission in that country is game as well...

CFCfan: FACT: Mandela, Chinua Achebe et al are genuine African icons

druid06: I'm just going to give a quick summary of a story. I have lived in 3 different countries in Africa. Two of which are francophone speajing and while one is an English speaking country. You should see the ways Nigerians are treated there. We're worse than prisoners of wars in some countries. These countries I am speaking about are all in Ecowas. As a Nigerian living in this countries, you have to always walk around with your International passport all the time or else you would be arrested and asked to pay a ''huge'' fine. You should see the way they speak about Nigerians in spite and you expect me not to think that these guys don't have issues with Nigerians if not jealousy. You see in these countries I have been, the Nigerians there are well to do living in expensive home an average citizen wouldn't dream of residing and driving in expensive cars. They don't wait to talk bad about Nigerians in these countries and you expect me not to think that they are jealous. We don't act like all knowing and omnipotent, it's the idea you guys have about us and I feel flattered that you think of us that way though.

druid06: Once again, you are wrong with your perspective and views about Nigerians. We don't all trade in illicit drugs neither are we all into internet fraud and mail fraud. This is the image the media has painted us to be. They don't talk about Columbia, Cuba and Brazil that are a hundred percent into the drug trade. No . The media would tell the world that Nigerians all over the world are drug peddlers also let's talk about internet fraud. 50% of online dating scams emanating anywhere in the world is in Romania but no, the media wouldn't talk about that. It's ofcourse the Nigerians doing these scams, they would say. 83% of spam messages received anywhere in the world comes from Russia. Nigerians with our ways is different from all other countries in Africa. We do things differently and because our ways might seem different, doesn't mean we should change to please the world. So you have problem with our pride? In which way do you think we are proud. A Nigerian works hard and play harder and if you care to take a look through google, we are the least depressed country in the world because we tend to keep some time to enjoy the fruit of our labor. There's a popular saying in Nigeria, if an Agama lizards falls from the fence to the ground and no one praises him, the Agama lizard would praise it self. If you think because we have this air of confidence around us and it means pride to you, so be with. I am a proud Nigerian, I love my attitude and I am not going to change who I am for the world just because other people have a different idealogy about me.

mekula: Pardon me jare, just annoying we are having a lost generation so soon!

mekula: Parents these days dont want kids to be kids again. They are looking for friends, if you want afriend go out and get one. Leave your kid out of it. You will see a situation where a parent will send a child on an errand and the kid's response will be like: 'Dad send tola, shebi I went the last time, me I dont have strength'

U dey MAAAADT? Ti m ba gba e nko! M Were okpo vuwashi cha gi ishi!

mekula: Imagine! That's why we as africans dont have values anymore. Too much copy copy from movies and dstv. Even oyinbo sef dey wish to revert to the values we are now seeing as archaic. Chopping under my roof and I fit come dey hear oh yeah!, oh my god! fvck me baby! Hmmn! As the pikin don be adult like dat na hin be say hin go go find hin own house take dey do am. What nonsense!

khukhi: OKAY we in the boxing ring now..lets go...

sweetchicks throws a punch...

Borussia Dortmond 4 Real Madrid 3. 4 + 3= 7. Bayern Munich 7 Barcelona 0. 7 + 0= 7. Chelsea 5 Basel 2. 5 + 2= 7.

7! 7!! 7!!! Is a number for UEFA's Semi final matches.. Let's go dia

jamp: U sure say u get gf.

CFCfan: I'm not the OP