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good one, pls can you provide the name of the hospitals you used and potential costs

biolabee: Please do

Under 40 Two or three yearly checkups are recommended
Over 40: Annually

NOT EXHAUSTIVE but i feel these are the key tests

Women: b.reast, BMI, ECG, blood test, blood sugar and cholesterol type (Low/High density), x-ray, eye, ENT, urine and stool analysis
Men: BMI, ECG, blood test, blood sugar and cholesterol type (Low/High density), x-ray, eye, ENT, urine and stool analysis

prostate checks can be done for men above 40
Also Dental checks can be done for holes and build up of bacteria which can damage gums and lead to tooth loss

This way you can manage yourself till you go yonder

Redington used to do this for about 150k about 4 years back
I dont know how much it is now but i am sure there are moderate hospitals that can do this

House, please any ideas of any good place and possible costs

https://www.nairaland.com/1210498/one-less-than-30-yrs

[quote author=Sky-walker]Maybe one of her future suitors or prospective Maga googled her name and found out she is a scam artist and the guy decided to bail. She is now using her anger on Nairaland[/quote]LOL,

LMAO

byvan: Don't you think that a mother's love should supersede whatever hurt she felt??atleast they apologised and gave her reasons??Taking it so far to the extent of not visiting when her daughter put to bed is extreme.If her daughter is anything like me,that's where the apologies ends.

before she became a mother, she is first a natural human being

I think FX has to chill now...


I get the MODS are advocating balance and possibly walking on egg shells for the focus getting Aieromons money back

thanks Ma..

timbros: Here we go again.....







I cant believe bbfever is no more!

He has been scammed despatched by the Oga at the top.
But I am sure he will be back

He's like a roach bird
The more you kill him the more he multiplies
You can't keep a good scammer man down!


He is not missed at the moment sha.. I'm enjoying the relative peace

Ish

Idowuogbo: Correct! Abeg no forget ya aburo o! If dem give u cream, ask for my soap.

LoL!! The thing tire me o
Remote control is worrying some people in old age

chaircover: very true! but it would have even been worse for this same couple if they stayed in separate rooms.

Excellent and true
It is possible for a same room couple to ignore each other for more than a day at the least but seperate rooms compound it.

It should however not be a life and death issue

CC and , sweet points!

greatgod2012: damn!!!

Madam greatgod why damn!
Good morning

Ok interesting tale of sufferance by the woman in question
 
My own take
 
1. There is nothing wrong if a man decides to sleep in different rooms with his wife but this should have been displayed prior to her moving into his home or at least she should have been intimated before he moved her
 
By not doing this,  he has sown the first seed of deceit and is culpable
 
2. He has now made demands that he will only see her when he desires to not taking into considerations her feelings in the matter. A young wife would like to spoon, cuddle and just be around her man whether there is in.tercourse or not especially in the first few months
 
He could have used a bit of change management, Allow her to stay except in the time she has her visitor; then she goes away to the second room; when she has kids.. he can then move her out to the second room
 
3. The issue of the joint account could have been better done. In an atmosphere of acrimony that is another disaster by this man not considering her feelings
You treat her like a harem woman and then want her to give you her money?
 
She should not step down on this. She at this point in time even needs to have some control over her finances than ever before. There can be a compromise sharing formula based on what each party earns and both should have access to this account. The rest of her earnings should be saved for the rainy day as it will come.. I can bet my life on it. It will come
 
Conclusion
I really feel for this sister as she has married an very inflexible man who will not budge on many issues relating to their marriage hwoever it is not a marital failure as women have lived and thrived in less favourable marriages. She has to have a positive mindset and enjoy her life
Moreover when kids come, s.ex will definitely be the last thing on her mind and her libido may reduce (average – not all o) so nothing spoil
 
However I fear for her, when decisions on school fees, religion of kids etc come up
 
 
 
Nobniger.. you are right as some chics forget themseselves truly in this area. But nuff said

Can you talk to a neutral person here

If you want a discreet person because I feel ur pain coming to a forum like this, send me a PM

Idowuogbo: Oluwa ju won lo! Brodamus, roll in front of ya altar o!

Nothing dey pa! Eni to ba ni Jesu ni ohun gbogbo.

Me sef don gbaradi put bullet proof
I need to consult pagan9ja for more voodun jazz

ferdimako: If urs got selected, you must leave for the US within the expiration of the visa and it is usually 6months. If your wife's got selected and interview successful, she must enter first or with you guys and every movement is within the visa expiry date...6months. So if urs was selected and u intend to go to prepare grounds for wife and kid, you can after u got ur passports back but ur beneficiaries must come in within the expiry date or forfeit.

So if the spouse goes within the initial six months

When can they return
I have a friend who works in naija but his family is there

How is this done

MsDarkSkin: This story is MADDENING!!

but this is r3tarded!



WHAT?! so they knew what was going on and waited until the situation worsened before going into action?!

Ish..

Baba Oyo: Hahaha .....my thoughts exactly!!
I guess when you know something, you don know am be that!!
Oya teacher oga...why you wan marry Tonto if you get money?
Hahaha.....................
.
Ti ILE ba da.....gbogbo ni ole!!

Tisha .. Tonto

Tisha don't tish me nonsense

ichidodo: Look at my face very well Do u c me give a damn? BOUBOU all the waaayyy!

Ignore the dude

adabeke12: Im to young to get married
Coogar u like my page?

I'm no cougar

Ish

r231: It's on

It's on baby.. Is that the product of the union that coogar was looking for

obowunmi: biolabee abeg pls my babe alone....

Hmmmm

Abali1: women una wahala too much ohh.
If he had married her and starts bang'ing (pardon my french) her right and left.... She will complain "is that why you married me?, to kill me with sex?" or "why is he using me like a wh.ore?"

He decides to respect his lovely wife (after all it is for a life time that they have each other), and she comes here, "Is my case different?"

Op, NL will not give you the required result. Open up to your husband, communicate with him about your feelings. tell him that you need hot and steamy s,ex.... at least tell him how much you need his thing in you....
Haba, as una be friend so, you can't even talk to him. Am sure if he was the one in your shoes he would have already told you what he wants and how he wants it.

COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION and COMMUNICATION.

Bros you talk true
If the guy dey do am na once daily or every two days you will big grammer like libido mismatch

Case in point. See thread https://www.nairaland.com/1226035/what-like-sex-more-than

[quote author=Sky-walker]Can moderators please explain why threads are hidden and topics modified?

Shopclue and bbfever are replacing their post with ".".[/quote]Na job na
ALL NA WASH

[quote author=A-40]No need to be defensive I was just reminding ninjas I don't think there was any part of my post that suggested I was responding to an attack so chill bruh!
The tyres screwed him up and made him make more stops than necessary[/quote]Kk true dat
As I said early days

adabeke12: Lmao... Watever makes u sleep better at night
Nd if its not ur business I wonder why u keep checking in on my thread

Just come out plain
Say you dey fine hubby to marry

A problem shared is one half solved
I just chevk in today after like 4 days to see if anything of note dey hapn

Ish

toshmann: There are US senators who were caught sleeping with another man's wife.
A US president didn't know that Canada( their neighbor) has no president
Obama couldn't tell how many states were in the US during the campaigns
Palin didn't know why there were two koreas or Berlin Wall
McCain didn't know how many houses he owns
A US governor left his office and disappeared, he went to Argentina for over two weeks, not for treatment, but to enjoy sex and romance with his lover, he didn't resign.

99% of US senators and congressmen don't read the bills they vote into law.

Even the US president doesn't know everything in the law he signs into effect.

Incompetence is everywhere, but enlightened people help minimize the level of incompetence in a nation.

I'm not worried about people like this man, I'm more worried about the aninis, obasanjos, goodlucks, PDP barons who loot without control, I'm mor worried about boko haram, I'm more worried about kidnappers, I'm more worried about doctors going on strike, hopeless universities etc

Sweet also..

Oahray: smh... and she talks about double standards. So what makes those republicans any less of hypocrites than the Nigerians on this thread asking the NSCDC man to resign? If Obama were republican, would they have asked him to resign?

If one does not want to be criticized at all, he should not exist at all. The meme thing did not begin with Nigeria, neither did it begin with the NSCDC man. Was Patience Jonathan not mocked too? What of Rita of koko mansion? Ever heard of the President-Bush-inspired 'Internets' meme? What makes Nigeria the hypocrite nation of the world?

I know it feels good trying to sound like the good person, but do not overdo it. What Nigerians are doing is totally normal and they would soon get tired of it, so give the self-righteousness a lil break.

Sweet!