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as long as you are happy.. go for it

I Hate 9ja: Honestly,i am attracted to ladies older than me,but i cant do this in d nigerian culture,but in europe/usa i can date them and if she possess all i want in a wife....am good to go
@least my late uncle married a wife 5yrs older than he is and it was platonic....*usa* and mind u,not becoz of papers.
Irrespective of my parents decision i wld love to marry an older babe,but the age max. Of 5yrs.....its my life and if it goes wrong,i wld start all over.....
#go for Love,whereva u find it#.....destinies are diff.

Good for you....


Dont forget we have other males in other races in this world

Toodle-ooo

shadowhunter15: You are all seriously deluded. This is the type of mind set that prevents me or my sisters from wanting to go back to Nigeria.The women do most of the work and have the most stresses in the marriage. The men expect you to work your asses off to make ends meet, then enslave ourselves in The kitchen and housework. Get off your high horses that women are meant to be in the kitchen and taking care of the children that you are also responsible.Cases show that woman are typically smarter than guys. Its a fact. This is one of the reasons why I love America where traditional values don't apply and people are subject to change. Over there, still fighting over tribal relations.Yes, maybe I will remain single but i'm perfectly content with that. I'll rather support myself and my parents any day. So glad i'm not attracted to African/Nigerian guys.

Baddestguyp: den y was'nt itachi d acting leader of akatsuki? In naruto, the rinnegan is respected more dan the sharringan (ms or ems) pein is simply stronger. D dude can even remove one's soul

to remove your soul.. he has to touch you

you fit catch crow....

@firestar.. arigatou...

No ma.. im sorry if it seemed i picked on you...

pls carry on... I appreciate your inputs on this section

i hope the guy takes the comments on board though.. and focuses on his madam....helping her

I dont believe you do it but there are posters here who project their utopia of married life-dom here...

You keep it real that comment was not for you

^^^ LMAO>>>>>.....

spongeback: I think every intelligent woman would love to have a family what is the point of having the highest IQ and going to an empty house everybody needs somebody.

maybe that level of intelligence is hidden for some...

Fazhy: so it is now clever not to have family. Hmmm,

funny guy,,,

^^^
yepa... see my life for outside... its very entertaining though,,,

A fan for life... sumisesai.... (firestart help me)

symbian123: Lol. Bros which side you dey na?

Bro i dey oo

the six paths are very strong and have an array of abilities not yet seen by anyone

But itachi who can see chakra will decipher the secret of nagato in no time and put him under a genjutsu..

Dont forget he has susanoo too

Lol..

Our perfect e-wives of this cyber land


They don't take it funny oooo

No

for me .. itachi agauinst push-pull pain

for the six paths,... that one na voicemail o...

So you agree that the basement buys of 2011 were in response to the 8 2 drubbing by the scums

It's not itk

It's funny to me that arteta believes great buys are made at the end of the trf window

I dont need to prove i am rght or not.. we all know wenger was buying no star player,.. and gazidis just said that for the people to renew their season ticket

debosky: What about last year? Or in January - was Monreal also bargain basement? What 'bargain basement' players did he buy then? Or is the transfer window of 2 years ago the only valid window? When he bought Arshavin in January a few years ago - was that also bargain basement?

Like I said, ease up on the ITK business for a little while. The window will close soon enough so y'all can come back and tell us how right you were.

debosky: ^^ Who are the bargain basement players that Arsene is going to buy or do you already know what will happen in the future?

Y'all should chill with the Nostradamus imitations - put out your prediction and then sit back for it to be fulfilled before getting all triumphalist.

Wenger 2 years ago bought 5 or 6 players on the last day of the trf window
bargain basement

yellowpawpaw: Very productive I tell u. He will come back and modify his posts or dish out more info, but one thing is certain,at least he knows that not everybody is ready to sweet tongue him.
Have u been to law court? It has a name but I can't seem to remember it naw.

cross examination?

[quote author=fresh_dude]Isn't this nairaland, the place everyone is holier than the Holy Spirit and wiser than Solomon? He's lucky he opened this thread on a tuesday morning. I shudder to think of the responses had it been a sunday afternoon/evening.
I guess people just must judge and condemn.[/quote]lol/////

I don't get why una dey attack the man

It is a sign of strenth for him to come out and express his challenges

This is the family section and it's to provide advice and succour not knock one when he is down

Get time saving equipment like washing machines etc

Get a help that comes in daily or twice weekly

Let her reduce her ginjah

A little dirt never hurtt anyone

Drop the kids with their grandparants and take a 5 day break to cotonou, whispering palm or dubai or the famed obudu showdown( re baba oyo )

You already have a positive mind so don't go down that slope

It could be deadly

This is good but in my opinion there is no sustainable enabling environment - justice system, police, ngos to rehabilitate the abused.
All this will lead to issues

I know of a sole income family man who abuses his wife

Yet the company has policies to fire such incidents

Will the woman report her husband and live in penury..

Cows will jump over the moon first

Hahahaha

Long life and prosperity to the celeb

Not a good idea


Humans are extremely possessive

Thanks

True.. Bro

The human race is capable of so much good yet so much evil, it's so astounding

My bad if you felt the pun was a play on our complexion

Ayatullah: I am not pointing at another man's inadequecies to justify 'our' own, I am only reminding us that we all belong to the human race, White, Black, or Whatever Colour and prone to commit evil act, so I do not believe a particular race is BLACK-HEARTED.

Hahahah... Arteta?

Bargain basement players na great players?

Arteta don dey believe wenger hype eh..Mo


Arsenal never bid for benard sef

Arsenal did also not bid according to peres

Dear sir, I feel your pain but un fortunately this is one sided and we don't know what led to the outburst from the lady

Which is why I said the guy should be cautious before he breaks the egg

Something attracted them to each other

What has changed

It does not make sense for a girl to lose interest in getting a job if that is her goal

I beleieve he should ezzplore all options and be objective before he goes

But that replacement statement no good choi

Royal Roy: Oga B.B , u can't see the issue?
A girlfriend who makes a scathing comment on a boyfriend's not so affluent background is definitely not worth it.
He is trying to push her on to greater heights & she referred to him as a loser!!!
Some ladies can be so careless with words but it shouldn't be excused.
Out of the abundance of the heart, so the mouth speaketh!!!

I will advice Op to move on!
How can ur gf open her mouth to tell you "your replacement is on the way"?
She already sees u as a pooohsie!!!

Me I no know the kain intelligence wey women dey flaunt these days

Women like marie curie get pikin.. They don't come more intelligent than that

I no know

All of us


Righteousness exalt a nation but sin ....

oneliegeria: You and who?

Noted.. Same to me

A nation so religious yet so black hearted

Same to me

free2ryhme: point of correction, some were born-wicked

My dear friend .. I feel your urge to speak for the black race or your urge for patriotism but this is the way it is

We maltreat the elders and let them line up in the sun for paltry pensions

We let our citizens die due to bad roads and poor health

The late pres had to go to saudi
The gov of lagos father died abroad due to lack of good centres at home

Our children are married off to pedophiles

And you say we are normal

I know we have sociopaths among the caucausians

Look at ariel castro.. But it's illogical to point to another man's inadequacies to justify my own

Ayatullah: How many of you? If you are referring to the Black Race, then you do not know what you are talking about.........Are you watching ZONE REALITY on DSTV? If you are,
you will know that The White Race are worse. Let us blame the Employer that cut his Maid's toes and not start a blame game on the Black Race.

Ok.. Now I get what you were trying to pass across

It's herculean to change someone though

But believe you me abusers and beaters hide their traits wella.. You will not know

Spendthrifts are a bit easy to know but ra.pists, homos you may never know because they will pretend

What do you think

Gaggi: People dnt change, when would u guys learn? Its d reason people marry a mismatch hoping they would change after marriage.
I knw d flaws of my wife, I studied it and decided I could live with it. I'm sure u couldn't live with such flaws but I knw what I can cope with.
Study d way ur partner behaves around others not around u. A persons behaviour will always be at its best when their luv interest is around. If it means hiring an investigator pls do so. Marriage is a lifetime thing.
I will only sympathize with a divorcee or even divorce my partner if INFIDELITY comes in.
My husband drinks too much, he is dirty, he snores, he is violent, he comes home at night, he has no respect bla bla bla. An adult doesn't acquire these traits in one day. Seek and ye shall find.
In d case of infidelity, follow d 11th commandment...lol. If u are not disciplined enough to control ur libido then dnt get caught. Even d good book knws that this is unpardonable.
I'm tempted to say men have a leverage here because d society permits polygamy and a man must be unfaithful in d process of courting d next wife...lol.

bukatyne: I said girls that marry for money have NO standard

yes,,, they dont in the spiritual sense but in the REAL, CARNAL sense, they have a high standard
You have to supply peruvian, z10, ipad, macbook air and an annual vacation to dobuy...

e no easy for man folk o

choi

hmm.. you come across as some one who is infallible

people do change

I dont believe you even have a grasp of everything you are capable of personally not to talk of the next person

However everyman(woman) to himself

Gaggi: I have no sympathy for.divorcees, people should look before leaping. I dnt subscribe to that crap that people change during marriage. Most people are more concerned abt d partying, bearing Mr or Mrs and flaunting their wedding rings.and kids.
If u do a thorough search u can tell if ur partner is not for u. Divorcees should not play the 'my partner is a devil' card, they should blame themselves for poor judgement.
Anyways, people can opt for divorce as a way of correcting their faulty judgement but they shouldn't go abt claiming to be victims. They should use it as a learning curve to correct their mistakes not going abt crucifying their ex.

yellowpawpaw: Sad as it may be almost all gals hv financial security in marriage at the back of their mind while dating.u date a not well to do guy just bc u c he has prospects else u stylishly withdraw. That's reality.

Thanks ma... its the plain reality.. its not the best but na so e dey be....