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MRbrownJAY: ^^^^ bro, as a father i certainly know how I and my kids would feel if we were denied access to one another. no matter how these NL women want to look at it, children will ultimately (and always) suffer if denied access to BOTH their parents. yes, some single mothers can make ends meet but that doesnt mean its better. see how they are quick to talk about diapers and what not.

yes, the guy may not get custody (i mean, why should he?) but he will at least get to have a r/ship with his daughter, which is much.

I agree with you and though its a fact that women use the kid card to 'manipulate' their way n frustrate baby daddies , a conventional 2 parent home still remains the optimal way to raise kids n the man owes it to his daughter to be involved in her life.
However in this case, the op has not been open or acknowledged any error from his part
Rather he seems to be insistent on portraying his wife as a terrible person

Let him change to a conciliatory tone n reach out to the mum
You never know

If it was your sis nko?

naijababe: Every time I look at Wenger's face my stomach turns! That's not a good sign, is it? The guy dey vex me wella

Hahaha....... its not

Mr BJ, It seems you know more on this issue than the OP is letting on

What if this man is not even the biological fada

Why did the relationship dabaru after 8 months

slimyem: Divorce shouldn't be celebrated but in this age where the institution called marriage has become a joke of sorts,what can you do?
It used to be a difficult and heartbreaking process,something last resort but not anymore.
Who doesn't know that in every marriage,there are grounds for divorce but the trick is continuing to find, grounds
for marriage? But, No,people would rather the easy way out now.
I saw a quote that labelled "celebration" as an act of impressing the sadistic someone inside of you. I would think it applies in this case. Divorcees have failed. What more to do than to try to console themselves that they haven't?

Bolded is a very Honest response

hmm...
It still seems you actually put a lot of faith in the jounrmalist

Lets take it one by one

THE Police in Ondo State have arrested a 47-year-old bricklayer, Damilare Olotu, for allegedly poisoning his wife, Mary, for being barren.

She is not barren,, she was not able to provide a child for her second hubby

Meanwhile, the corpse of the deceased has been deposited in mortuary for autopsy.

Where is the evidence that she died from poisoning if not from the brother and not a police source
The PRO said the case has been trransferred to a station for further investigation

Maybe it is you that did not read the story but made deductions

Hahaha

[quote author=Juan_De_Dios]Seems you don't get it. Read my posts again, starting from the first one.[/quote]On the contrary, i get it... you are saying it should not be taken too seriously as the word alleged has been used

But already the tribalists, man haters, divorce-advocates have jumped on the wagon and moved on

See?

Allegedly again??

Forgit to add

TiiTees post is crisp...

Let me add another dimension

maybe the babalao or dibia has warned except the prodigal child steps into his house, there will be no progress



@AfrikaMagicTinz

well i dont really understand Mr BJ but all i will say is that single motherhood is not a desirable state to be in
And to do it without spousal support from some one who is being vindictive or trying to be stingy with his resources

This is a sad topic for me cos i know what some of my friends are going through alone

You get pikin outside, you no get money but u fit buy z10 or you travel to UK to enjoy cool air
Spare a thought for that baby mama who is having to do unwholesome things to get by

She misses job interviews cos she has no one to take care of baby
She cannot take that job in abuja cos she does not have enough to get a 1 room there
She missed that exam cos baby was sick with rotavirus
That new fiance left cos he does not want to raise anoda man;s bastard
Some runz girls you meet are doing it to buy things for their kids

ive said it and i will say it
Ladies pls close your leg
if you cant, abort it and deal with the consequences

Men dont have grudges abandoning their OWN SEED; why are women vilified

Stand your ground law is deadly oo...

It causes fatalities ..


#Just Saying

kulyie: give me a galss of wine o jare

noo.. i will not give you a glass of wine but rather shekpe and alomo

The imagery of people doing husband liberation showers was just too funny to me

But this is a disturbing trend...

I hope men will learn to treat women better and engage them rather than resorting to assault and battery
lets not forget women also assault men physically

Soon there will be wife liberation parties too

pop pop something...

yellowpawpaw: Mr Biola,leave Juan alone.u r looking for trouble.

good morning, ... he assumes people have the time and patience to dissect a sensationalist headline and come to a balanced conclusion

Thats funny

The headline is sensationalist in the first place because they want to sell papers...

Anyhow sha,,. nice day

Van snickers: When Zimmerman was told to stop following Trayvon, he stopped.

He did not stop

Coogar the despatch recommended he did not follow but did not order
He was within his rights to follow

People die like flies in the states... na today?

All these on allegedly

Where is juan di dios


I laff in spanish

Yes

coogar: wow!
i know this dude - very exciting player. his nickname was chucho...

RIP, bro!!!

Yes chucho

I remember that 2 2 bham liverpool draw in 2011

Bro I feel u but in my book, if you are not ready to father a child, dont let it come into the world

MRbrownJAY: ^^^the important question you must ask yourself IS:"how long do you think Vettel would stay at RBR, knowing that nobody would ever believe he is "one of" the greatest of F1, until he wins the championship with another team?!"

his credibility as a great driver (after winning 3 Championship) is definitely not where it should be..... simply because he drives that RBR. yeah he is a good driver, won 3 wdc, yep.......one of the greatest? still to be confirmed!

Are you saying he must change teams ti be regarded as the greatest

I cannot but frown at the generation in which nature imposed on me. A generation where ENTERTAINERS are legends, ACTORS are role models, MODELS have become epitaphs of beauty, NUDITY the new fashion statement and a change of MARITAL status a synonym for fulfillment. In the nearest future( if it’s not happening already) just as we have parties in celebration of birthdays, house warming, baby bump, bridal shower, chieftaincy and the likes so would we also have for divorce with colorful asoebi and strictly by invitation cards to mark the moment.

To those of us who are still single we are most lucky as we have the chance to get it right. Just before you jump the broom, understand that marriage is an institution and is therefore sacred but never because its societal expectations!

When we celebrate
We dey pop champagne
Pop pop pop
Pop something

Ok.. still smells fishy

Seems you hold tabloid journalism in nigeria to a really high standard

Good luck


Even daily mail is descending to tabloid level n you call this original article commendable because they used allegedly?

Funny guy

[quote author=Juan_De_Dios]The title is NOT misleading. Why? Because it says allegedly! You want to misunderstand that? Go ahead! And an average Nigerians knows what allegedly means.

Anyway, I understand the point about Nigerians misreading things. So what would you have them reporters do? Stop reporting? In 2007, shortly after Ohakim was sworn in as Imo State governor a graduate sitting across from me in the office was reading his profile online. Then he exclaimed that he was impressed to learn that the governor had a Ph.D. I got up and read what he was reading: "Ph.D. Cand." At which I told him it said "Ph.D. candidate". No one can do anything about your misreading things but yourself. Except they stop writing things altogether.[/quote]

Juan de dios///
The title is misleading

It has led to insinuations of the character of the man and could lead to predjudice against him in a trial if he brought to court

Some more shocking news

Amerika.. The Land of Paranoid Gun-Madt Folks
But people still love ya

A gunman holding hostages in an apartment block near Miami in Florida killed six people before being shot dead by police, officials say.
Pedro Vargas, 42, who lived in the residential complex with his elderly mother, was described as a body-building loner.
Officers stormed the block of flats in Hialeah, north of Miami, on Saturday morning after an hours-long stand-off.
Two hostages were freed unharmed, police said.
Five of the victims were found inside the complex. Another man was killed while walking across a street outside.
A neighbour said Vargas was an anti-social type who liked to work out his anger by lifting weights.
"He'd just say this was the only thing that would keep him normal, pulling out all the anger in the gym," Jorge Bagos told the Associated Press news agency.
Mr Bagos said the gunman had expressed frustration over bad experiences with women and losing all his hair from steroid use.
"He said he'd rather be by himself, that women were no good," Mr Bagos said.
Police were called after shots were fired on Friday evening.
They said Vargas set his apartment on fire. When the building manager Italo Pisciotti, 79, and his wife, Samira, 69, noticed the smoke and went to investigate, he shot them dead.
He then began firing from his balcony, killing Carlos Javier Gavilanes, 33, who neighbours said was returning home from his son's boxing practice.
Then he stormed into another apartment, shooting dead a family of three: Patricio Simono, 64, Merly Niebles, 51, and her 17-year-old daughter, Priscilla Perez.
Vargas then barricaded himself in a flat and took two people hostage.
Police moved in after almost eight hours of negotiations, local media said.
"They made the decision to go in there and save and rescue the hostages," Sgt Eddie Rodriguez told the Associated Press.
A 9mm pistol was found at the scene.
Police say there was no clear motive for the shooting and they are still investigating the circumstances.

https://news.bbcimg.co.uk/media/images/69002000/jpg/_69002897_69002896.jpg


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-23476888

i think the allianz was financed with govt help..
put up facts to the contrary

LOL/// tyrone minde...

[quote author=tpia@]the man is not nigerian.[/quote]Na so dem be na

If hin do well, na American or worst Nigerian-American

But if na criminal, na Nigerian

See yesterday at the Diamond League Anniversary Games, Christine Ohuruogu a british lady ...

But if she is found to be doping, she will be come a nigerian sharperly

She may have known.. no be interview?

How many people don fail interview tire... so that was not the bridge

the bridge is now...

To take up the offer or NOT

Some coys are notorious for scheduling you for 4 interviews before they even call you for medical...

tonydoes: That guy with the Knife on his neck...probaly regrets that pic now http://gidigooner..com/

Is it your blog
How does one subscribe by email
Seems interesting..

Oh i get you now... its not easy
May God help us

Ujujoan: Do you know that half of those who live in Abj don't actually live in abj? Most can only afford to pay rent on really remote areas very far away from town where they work.

Public transport is not as organized in abj as it is in lagos so going to and from work is not very easy for those without their own cars. Then try adding the cost and stress of child care.

One thing is sure, if I were in that position, I won't even bother. I'll jeje resign my job and go and stay with hubby. If na garri we see chop, good!