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kulyie: which kain dialogue.the dialogue isa make belief or pretence so that the man will think all is well.let the man go out first.words like oloriburuku,asiere,ole sorire will be flying around.shey pikin fit siddon for that kain house and read his books.the funny part of it is that its flimsly and petty stuffs that cause fight.nothing worthwhile

@kulyie... the reality is that most cases of marital discord in a polygamic setting centres around feelings of deprivation and inequality

In Islam, polygamy is only permitted if you can treat all women the same

When the man dies, the wives suffer because the inlaws embezzle the property. This also happens under monogamy

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]xxxxxxx.[/quote]Woman

Since you also will never get it.. but let me try and make it divisible....

If women are stuck in polygamic arragements for want of no options ... (this also applies to spousal abuse)
Now that more women are empowered.. will they consider polygamy as an alternative marriage option
One person said she will leave
Another says she will stay and chase all trespassers away
Do you get it now?

@Let me put it to you, will you leave if ur man/husband goes polygamic?

We can all talk without abuse.. we may not agree but life is multifaceted

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]About 99% of the reasons given against polygamy had absolutely nothing to do with "Economic Realities", "female empowerment" or lack thereof, so what are you talking about or are you reading a different thread (it will will explain a whole lot, of course). If you are, then do share so for once....you can be on the same page with everyone.[/quote]Good to know there can be dialog...
sisikill, polygamy and bickering has always been about one thing - inheritance n money
Access to the top of the pyramid provided favours to the winning wife hence the competition


Wealthy households managed well albeit with an undercurrent of hostility among the wives
But a poor household was a battle field
Focus on the issue and lets discuss

If you believe otherwise. no problem too

ileobatojo: Why didn't you discuss polygamy instead of deliberately starting shyte with people? If you wanted an issues based discussion, why didn't you do just that, discuss the issues and responses on ground like every other sane person on the thread was doing? Why didn't you post your own opinion and move on? Why didn't you go about your business instead of minding other people's business for them?

My dear ileoba u r the one looking for a fight where there was none
My point was clear and if u have objectively read as u claim you are

Polygamy is unfashionable due to economic realities not because of religion or strenght of xtianity
So if the women themsleves are empowered as they are
Will they still have an issue with it

As for you the reality is that the genders are not equal but different
If u are prowl around looking for your warped version of equality
Good luck on that OYO

What's your point.... Why don't you answer on the topic so we can discuss on polygamy
The likes of you can never intimidate me.. moreover you dont know me and likewise me you..

Your problem is that you have a superiority complex and in your lust for equality make laughable comments.
I grant that you are smart but you really have a chip on your shoulders


Why don't you take up your issues with your creator that deemed you a woman
Woman.. Let's have an issues based discussion

@on the feminists, theyvve made their point they will leave the marriage. So no further points
Theres a feminism thread.. u are welcome to join in https://www.nairaland.com/1254189/feminism-why-women-general-

ileobatojo: xxxxx

Ortarico: You guyz're right, there was a mistake in his question. Here it is jare:

A man is x years old, his son is y years old. The sum of their ages is twice the difference of their ages. If the product of their ages is 675, find the age of the man.

@rashywire, pls try to reveiw your questions before posting.

x + y = 2 (x-y)---------------(1)
x + y = 2x - 2y
-x = -3y
x= 3y ------------------- (1a)

x.y = 675 ---------------------(2)
substituting

3y.y = 675
y^2 = 675/3 = 225

y = sq rt (225) = 15

x = 15 x 3 = 45

ileobatojo: xxxxx

Go in peace.. the ink maketh not the person
u are free to type,.. i dont need to compare myself with you// leave that to the Joneses...
im happy with my life...

all these ur rants are just what they are...

Every person has to be at Times Square at night once in their life time
The excitement is better than SE.x

Put on my bucket list....

Woman I will never be a victim and moreso to the likes of you

Since you are the omniscient tome of grammar.. Be content with your crown #forumcopz

As for christening others' posts stewpid, if it satisfies an inner longing to be superior then be fulfilled

Thank God my joy is not in the hand of you or your ilk
#corroded tingods

Sorry for the derailment

ileobatojo: xxxxx

The lannisters are viruses

adaobi123: Same here. I heard its a good show.




Oh yeah, I forgot. I hate the mum too.

anybody that calls points a finger at any other has four pointing back at his or herself

#Not Up to it today...

adaobi123: Okay, I'm up to date with this show

Next stop Spatacus

I think I will start Spartacus... myself

s1 this weekend

adaobi123:

I know the grandpa is the problem but Geoffrey needs to die too, his face is bloody irritating.

i dont like that guy myself... his head is so square... but he is King
If he dies... his mum will rule while the junior ones get of age...

So the Lannisters are the viruz

bukatyne: Fiery Buka?

What is more peaceful that freeing someone who wants to leave?

thanks for your response

bukatyne: My man or my husband?

How can my husband decide to marry another wife? It means we were never truly married in the sense of the word. If he wants to go, I let him. I can't tie his legs, can I?

Husband... hmm... ok more like the fiery buka...

@mama jhyde... when u say ur father what do you mean...

bukatyne: I thought you were waiting for feminazis

It depends on the woman

if ur man asked u he wanted to marry a second wife, what will u say
And lets assume he means it whther you accept or not(he has even impregnated the said lady)

jidegirl12: Crazy guy looking for trouble

Walk out gini ? Hubby sharing is complete NO NO.

I drove all my Dad's applicants away He's allowed to chop clean mouth , dwelling in my territory is not gonna happen. Never

mama jhyde.... in that case, we are all kolo

Im particular on this case because financial reasons are usually adduced to the failings of polygamy
Now women are rich... why not polygamy anymore...

interesting,,,like ur practicality... so u know men like to chop

[quote author=Red-Light]damn it, this show is a complete badass .. i need to get the book.. i just cant wait till next year for another season [/quote]I intend to start the book
I have book 1 and 2

adaobi123:

That was a rubbish season finale. I was expecting Geoffrey to die.

calm down....

The Mother of Dragons.., The white walkers, The Outsiders, Stannis/// all in the mix

geoffrey is not even a problem. its his grandpa....

bukatyne: Why are you always waiting for feminazis?

It's best you make your points and move on. Waiting for feminazis, cabals and co only waters down your points.

what is your opinion on polygamy....

Do u think a financially empowered woman should stay in a polygamic union where she is being taken care of wella with her kids

this is afrika

afi ri ika....


if u are freestyling... do what works for you

for me... until the second semester

i am still waiting for the feminazis

if a man brings a second wife into the home, you are at liberty to walk out if you are not satisfied
#marriageNobeByForce

interesting.. but i dont see why you are transferring the emotions of the elders to the younger
My father came from a polygamous and notwithstanding all the machinations of the mums, my grandfather ensured the brothers saw themselves as one

Failure of polygamy is the man's responsibility

Failure of mono gamy is the man's responsibility

onila: I hate them because I hate their mothers

their mothers are dumb evil wicked b1tches. .trust me, their mothers will transfer der wickedness to the children

thank heavens, am abroad . .I pray i wnt have to deal with those as-sholes in the future
I am also lucky my step brothers are younger than me

the only step siblings that are accepted by their other siblings is when the or yr mother has kids from another marriage or relationship

when its yr father that has kids from another woman, trust me u will hate that kid despite if the bas-tard is nice or wicked

teeo: Vampires are better

have u seen van helsing

^^^ good woman....

dear onila.. can u explain more

When u say hate it is a strong word...

I feel if a woman is comfortable with her kids and there is a well defined poking arrangment, should there be negative feelings

onila: there is no happiness

I hate all my step brothers from my father

if its there is money, there is still no happiness

when the father dies, trust me
most polygamous families go thru hell

one will be like you did not come from my mother so I aint helping you or yr not inheriting it

men are dumb for marrying more than one wife

coogar: religion has a big part to play in that. muslim ladies don't have any gripe with their husbands having more than one wife.

i used to think so,,. but as said by and chick-poster onila [s](surprised to see she actually posts other than chicks and virginity stuff), [/s]women dont do good in an enclosed space
They fight and scratch
In Afrika, they go diabolical...

Polygamy breeds mistrust and a man could lose his children due to infighting and jealousy

my own is how does this gel with feminism

Good one..that's cool

kraftykc: I think the misunderstanding is my fault. I read your statement as "Fellas is Naruto a Kunoichi?" Sorry

I like the dispassionate way you been commenting because at first it seemed it was another man-bashing thread

I believe our sisters that suffered in the past can be forgiven but not so the ones in these age of facebook when you can do internet searches and ven spy via google street view

babyosisi: There may not even be a marriage sef
Just a promise and she is already shouting "my husband,my husband"
Some women are that Stoopid

coogar: there are happy polygamous homes.....
it's only when there's no money you see strife and raw anger.[b]. i used to have an asian boss with 4 wives. the wives work as a team with mutual respect. they even go camping with the kids of the other wives for days!

I want to agree with the bolded but from commens of NL ladies who are supposedly empowered and are earning their own income, they still can't stomach sharing their man

Why is this so

LMAO..

AjanleKoko: There's no such thing as equality in marriage
Else couples would be doing the deed face to face, both lying on their sides

@jide why would I be jealous of you and your marital life
As they say if you get yam and you get palm oil chop am, enjoy am na

Why you dey look the person wey dey manage without palm oil

Ish

Funny e badu belle... I don miss calotti halotti

Nice car..
Looks at his account.
May God help us