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Ujujoan:

Ezinmma was very fertile o . . she had 10 kids but they all died at infancy!

Thanks for clarifiying that
it even buttresses the point being made
A woman may be pregnant and still lose the child post wedding

Humans should not play God as youve rightly pointed out

Hmm .. Then you can get someone in the mosque

Preferred option is face to face mentoring since you are still coming up

Also it can be an uncle or cousin but someone who is mature and you think will be discreet

captainnigeria: yeah thanks although i'm muslim and i think i'll take the online advice

You are defo right.
Some people's children have become burdens or source of pain to them in old age
Look at the Boston bombers or the Rigby killers

If you look at it one way,is it not better those kids were not born

As Uju said, people deign to play God with others' lives

Even in the olden days, this was not so

Okonkwo had to marry Ezinma;s mother though she was the least fertile of his wives

Jacob still loved Rachel though she only had 2 kids (late in life sef)

damiso: True.My kids are the most important thing to me BUT i still believe there is more to life or rather i am called to be a blessing to other people APART from my kids.Alot of people scold me for this but really i feel not having kids is not the end of the world. .

Its just not having the kids ojare,its God guiding us and us being responsible parents for them to turn out right.The serial killers,fraudsters etc of this world are some people's children.

True broda but is the joy of parentin really in the kids coming out or that they achieve their goals in life


Some people have lost all their kids in one day


Patrick kennedy nearly almost lost all his sons

acaolly1: THE MOST IMPORTANT PRAYER IS:

MAY WE NOT BE STERILE AND BARREN. CHILDREN ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE AND NO ONE WILL DENY TO HAVE THE JOY OF BEING CALLED A FATHER OR MOTHER.

passkey

sexkillz: [color=#000030]You can vote up to 11. [/color]

Graise
vanneni
nikkyshyne
nadia
sleekchic
luppy
dazzle
adaobi

Sorry its not clear.. what do you mean by 11 contestants

Do i have one vote or 11 votes

Eh ya.. Pele

Some parents take sibling favoritism a bit far but remember you have your own life to lead


You have to believe in yourself for you that you have what it takes to succeed and that you will excel


Since your major goal is admission

Focus on strenghts on that, it may be local or abroad

Also identify someone who is responsible in your church who can take the role of a mentor

Someone online too can suffice that you can be emailing who can advise and guide you in respect of your career
This is important because it seems you have too many negative feelings which are not making you happy

It's a matter of time; they will acknowledge you

It is well wit you

captainnigeria: yeah mabe that's what i'll do.i'm currently seeking admission and my brother just graduated from uni bear in mind he's 6yrs older.i also have good qualities can't they see that

Wow..
Tragedy

zetdee: most people commenting have clearly stated they've been to SA.

i dont think that is true...The comments of those who have been to ZA are less extreme

No need to pray for his downfall but that God will uplift yo so that you will both be rocks in the stead of your parents

People are put into out lives for a reason, emulate the good tings he has but live your life for you

remove all hate from you so that you will also obtain mercy

Are u in uni or working etc

Mr Calculus: plz guyz need ur help:::Convert 1111.100110 base 2 to base
12 and 123.X4 base 12 to base 2 without converting first to base 10

This will be interesting... i was gonna convert to base 10 first but will stand by and let the gurus do the DO...

Move your sister into her own apartment and get your wife back

kulyie: what is funny about it.i find the family of the teenage girl pathetic.by the way whatever the girl experiences in that home,she has to endure since her family has sold her and she herself wants to be 'madam' before her time while her mates are in ss2 or ss3 about planning for their waec or neco to get to the university,she chooses to be a semi illiterate house wife to a rich paedophile courtesy of her disgusting/hungry family members that think money is all to life[

And that is why i labell it a tragicomedy - funny yet sad
The family has chosen to eat of a bowl of pottage for their birthright

Whyclefjohn

devoid

safe06: @biolabee,thanks so much. Amin to the prayers . God bless u.

You too ma

di.ldo

funny,,,,,,,

ifyalways: Things dey happen for lagos. I know a very rich, old,really old man that got a teen pregnant.some "good samaritans" were working towards getting the man arrested and taken to court but guess what? The old man bought a car for the lil'girls elder brother,rented them a new house and before we knew what was happening, the girls family "manufactured" a birth certificate presenting the girl as an adult,22 years and asked everyone to mind their biz. The girl is even happy and enjoying her "little madam" status.

Itsokay!

The society,you and I are the problem of the society.

move away or else u have sown seeds of generational hatred

may you know the joy of motherhood in due time

Amin

Wow.. I am touched
May you continually be comforted for this loss amin

Aside this is one of the reason why I will continually abhor men who don't manu up and lead to the proliferation of single motherhood as it not the way it's supposed to be

It really pains me

As one said it's a game between the sexes it's the smarter who wins

Men who have spoiled young women and through countless abortions do not trust women

Matriarchs who will only give consent to marriages once the belly is round and full

People who will do not want to go through tribulations of child birth after witnessing friends and family go through same

Women who will attempt deliberately or not, successful or not to ensnare guy with a pregnancy either for security or to avoid shame

We all know biblically it's wrong but It's a product of the times

lorretta u: you really think that?wow.that means you're really ignorant of the wickedness of men..SMH.I can tell you from personal experience that it happens to virgins.personal experience!don't doubt it.by careless life,you mean giving in to the desire of a man just like you who abandoned her when the going got tough?which is almost what all of you do.except you're getting old and need a child.like I always say,if you've made a girl pregnant before and didn't marry her,pls shut up.help me ask am.happens all the time.only the pretending men will pretend like they don't know it happens.

[quote author=Calculusf(x)]Please nairaland gurus.help me with this question...2^x + 3^x=13...pls my email address is omoyeleolalekanjacob@gmail.com or 2go username mathemagician[/quote]Bros this q na die
I know say the answer na x = 2

Ok since you have nothing to contribute..

See you later

I do stand on my own and I agree with logically sound posts

Pity I can't say the same for some of your posts

logica: Ha! I don't and I don't want to. I speak based on your antecedent on NAIRALAND. Stop backing people up. Stand on your own (stop being a cheerleader male). No more.

My dear friend sorry my post offended you but you have your right to respond and you have a right not to

Thfact does not negate the fact your posts have been laced with bigotry ditto the nigerians on the thread

They are speaking from ignorance? What are you speaking from

sweetcheecks: Why are you Nigerians such Fffin HYPOCRITES?
FFFFF YOU! Did you read the first 20 pafes when we just ignored and ignored the repeated insults, joke and slander? I sent report to you fffin moderators to stop the insults to no avail. They did not edit or hide the insults. And now all of sudden when we respond then likes of you come out of the woodworks to clump us together with your sickos!

Get a grip! Nxa!

Tragically true
I weep for Afrika

successcertain: Africa has never been unite and i doubt if it will ever be, theirs a whole lot of hates in the minds of the black africans which passed down from generation to generation, studies shows there were so many distinct tibes in africa during the 14th to 19th century who were savagely murdered, ate by canibal warlords,jealous, violent africans tribes. They always waged war against each other for the stupid reason, thus made it easier for the european invaders to coqured, colonize and enslaved without stress. After that we were forcied to live together in hopes of togetherness but it never and it has never work. The european understood this which is why they manipulate and control our mind into hating each other while they control/loot our resources and economic to their glorious kingdom. War and genocide all over africa for the stupid reason is something that is shocking to my been one thing i know is to be free in life you need to liberate yourself from mental slavery then you will be able to see beyund hatred for the stupid reason.
to your fellow men either white or black.

Instead of us to embrace each other and work together in pan africanism to operate against the interest of our opressor and make life fair on each other we ar busy spreading hatred/attacking each other like a ball game. Crime is a white man language fueled by their economic dominant in all over the world which is to make the percieved inferrior poorer and the supeiror get richer. Politic/religion and media are not meant to liberate humankind but to enslave and control the inferrio race while the superior enjoy their heaven on earth. Africa wise up and stop allowing hatred to manipulate us into killing more of ourselves who will save mother africa i ask? for how long are we going to let this savage behaviour continue which is what this thread is all about.

All join

Dude.. I never implied it was a gender war

Men have been known to be faithless especially in situations like these and let me ask you a q if it was your sister what will you do


What protection does the lady have



If you can answer me then we can talk


By the way,WTF do you mean by consistency in siding with ladies.. You don't know me mehn

logica: Ha ha ha ha...side with who? Dude put on your glasses and see that this is not a gender war. Maybe that will explain your consistency in siding with the ladies; I hope your endeavor will yield fruit. But the news is, this is a matter of personal opinion. No need siding with anybody. In this same thread, you will find "ladies" speak for and against.

And this is MINT!!
Some guys have abandoned the baby mamas even with all the promise of marriage.

I'm still thinking of the story brought by yvete..

ileobatojo: Kudos to any man that finds a mindless sheep of a woman to consent to such a disrespectful plan. At the very least, the woman too should set love aside and involve a lawyer in drawing up a foolproof plan accounting for any negative occurrence. Anything less than that suggests the man might be marrying an imbe*cile.



Abeg tell that to all the brainless women agreeing to such useless plans o.

This is true and I really feel your pain but you have to consider that traditionally african males and society view kids as the goal of marriage

A family has no kid; get one - YAY!

Within two years they are already clamouring for the second grandchild

Una go help with money for college or trust fund?!

Nothing ooooo..

Just dey born dey go

The lady will be feted, yes our fertile daughter

Really the way it is

lovelydoll: Even people who are truly in love and married ,don't rush to have kids.They enjoy their married life together first while they can before having the responsibility of a child.


STOP RUSHING FOR THINGS,ELSE YOU WILL GET SCREWED AT THE END.

be patient