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@kulyie.. i think u shd not comment any further... any post u make will still be misconstrued

very true.. people take things personally on this land
they forgetthat the anonymity of this forum allows people to reinvent themselves

On NL, everybody is rich
On NL, everyone that is married has a perfect marriage
On NL, people claim to be american citizens or bahamian hotties

NL for show....

kulyie: that is how nairalanders and nigerians are.

Have you sat close to a news paper stand and observe all those men arguing about news from the news papers they've read on the stand.[b]they will first start on a good note,make friendly gestures and all,later it will graduate to a level of exchanging banters,later it will degenerate to hot arguements where they will start getting aggressive,calling each other offensive names and cursing.[/b]before you say jack robinson,you will see this same people that exchanged friendly banters a couple of hours ago exchanging fists,tearing each others clothes and beating each other up.have you ever wondered why females are more often than not absent or not part of the news paper stand commentators anyway

nairaland is not any different from a news paper stand,the only difference is that it is a faceless forum so people dont have the opportunity to get violent even though the strong urge to get violent is there.here you see people get friendly and after sometime because they share contrary opinions,they start engaging in hot arguements and it later degenerates to cursing.i know that if this wasnt a faceless forum and people could see each other,many people will have been locked up in cell.infact they will still be arguing and cursing in the police station so no one should be suprised.nairaland is just a reflection of the average nigerians mentality and capability

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huggies

why will texaco1 trust his wife when he knows what his mistress shopclue is capable of?

Feraz: lmao... Na the same one you dey read oh. . . .
Hopefully, when I'm not mobile, I'll chip in something.....

I know its the same thing but really there is no sequence to the argument so that others can contribute
The last discussion we were having is how others are able to use more than one or two chakra natures(jonin) and suddenly theories spring up

How do we know naruto will not die already making him Grand Kage...

na wa o

[quote author=2s£xy]I have come to realise that most sympathisers of this monster are females. Mostly females. They feel the monster is wrongly accused; they take side with her because they feel she is a woman that's why people are on her and they fail to
ask themselves why is THIS woman the only one having issues with different people? Why?[/quote]Because they equate a man not marrying a girl after a failed relationship as a scammer too
So man scams woman; now this one is scamming men too.. God no vex

May it never be well we you all who spoil the name of Nigeria and Nigerians and make it difficult for well meaning Nigerians who still believe in dignity of labour or hardwork to do business legitimately. You all will rot in hell!

AMEN!!!!

The companies I was dealing through a friend all backed out because I am a Nigerian, a country widely know for its scamming nature.

I'm now forced to change by identity and hide under false IP... Where is the freedom?

Luckily shopclue is American as she has been saying up and down.... or is she?

una wey dey sympathise like say na only una get 'soft heart' and the others get 'hard heart' , una go go one day and una go know.

So let it be written; so let it be done

fellis: If you believe in gender equality then you're a feminist, I don't know what you are rejecting there.

if social justice is gender equality to you
I will never stand for something that has become an instrument of home breakages and male emasculation which the brand of feminism we see today stand for

Children without fathers because they have supposed strong mothers



but this is offtopic abeg

This argument..I'm confused

Na this same naruto wey me dey read

@ify maybe the mums wealth is not as much to cater for the maum and dad sef and there is a possibility that the responsibility will be theirs. I think the concerns are legitimate.

I think the mums motive of adopting them is still vague considering they are old enough

OP you may need to provide more info on these kids
Are they in school or are they struggling if you get what I mean

Who stands to gain whaat is what you should analyse.

Then you know your answer

Interesting ....

[quote author=c.fours]most likely.
even for the ones that were late to marry (17,18,19yr olds) aka old spinsters will still be married off to men who are significantly older than them. old enough to be their fathers or sometimes grandfathers[/quote]

Away!!!! Never

I hope for social justice though

Caracta: You must be a feminist

Tragic

[quote author=Somorin#1]Yes it is usually not because the Father is irresponsible. The Father in this case as described by neighbors is a working stiff.

The US family court system still archaically believes that a Mother is the best care giver so they judge based on that, awarding sole custody to Mothers and enslaving Fathers in staggering unpayable amount of child support. The Women on the other hand turn their children into money making slave of the system.

This case should make a good social study for a Psychiatrist as well as a documentary.

Here you have what seems a well balanced kid from an allegedly good Christian home who committed such an atrocity on society. The entire UK community needs to be pushing not so much for swift justice as much as understanding of what went wrong. I believe that there are many more like the accused who are roaming freely amongst them.[/quote]

Caracta: hahahaha. It should be in the previous page from pipsland's comments. Want to spice the thread a little, huh? You'll need a partner to do that. You can change it to BOB action.

nopes... the ultimate is alway GOG..
so whos in...

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fredoooooo: the we are going to renew our rivalry for tennis thread , you know how much i love your footie team

women-- serena williams and vika
men team-- nadal and baba ibeji ( fed)

vika is who again.. azarenka? - i no like wetin she dey do during games... toilet breaks, etc
she used it to destabilise serena II

it would be nice to hear the two of them moaning on the court


men - nole, fed then nadal ( but he is back!)

Caracta: This really got me laughing hard. I wonder what kind of man equates feminism to lesbianism. It's ridiculous. So much for education. I guess femdom activists too are feminists.

where was feminism and lez ish equated....(some distraction is a good thing)
though some GOG action will not be undesirable around here... this thread has gotten too dark

interesting that issues are being dissected on basis of gender

the males vs the females
hunter v prey
father vs mothers

really interesting

fredoooooo: sure bros , which camp you dey o

#team serena williams and vika plus anybody that beat sharapoopoo

me i an pro or anti-serena (they don try we need new faces abeg) but defo team nole (to complete his first career slam)

barcanista: officer i know you before? i talk to you? na you be kulyie ni? guy because my posts appeared in about 5 or so pages, does that makes me a stalker? you read the content of the messages so? o boy you sure say you go school? pls you'd do the society good by making the dictionary your friend. kai, i now understand what is meant by wasted education.

i will let this slide out of respect to nikkykay...

yamunla: Cant stop laughin...tomakint fe do kulyie,barcanista gan fe do idowu-bambam....oro di hun...i dey laff o

bros.... abeg no start the kasala again oo...

And Still I see no changes
Wake up and i ask myself
Is life worth living or should i blast myself



Tupac Changes

koastar: I think it is time to start training up our kids in the African way. Beating will not kill a child, it's a means of correction. Training up a kid in the west makes a him spoilt. Imagine you correcting your child and the next thing he says is 'I will call the police!' How dare you say that in Naija! The policeman sef go join hand beat you. If that guy was trained here in Naija and received beating of his life for doing wrong or sighted hanging out with bad guys, oyeyeye!...the kind beating e go receive from e papa eh! E go dey shout "yepa! Moku o! Iya Bisi egbami o! Daddy, mo ni shebe mo. Ah! I promise I won't do it again..." If I do it again punish me! Nobody go beg the guy before e go dey behave.
This guy was born in UK, raised and bred in UK and the Britain was proud to call him Briton. When he suddenly became radicalised (also there in the UK) and committed this crime, they now call him Nigerian. Nonsense! :<( After they have succeeded in using their system and laws to spoil the boy and he's now radicalised, they now call him Nigerian. 'Eleru gbe eru e o'...Britain, na ena load, make ena carry am

Thank you jaawe... thats how they called Kweku Adoboli ghanian,,... after he has lived all his life in the UK

[quote author=Somorin#1]I haven't read the details but I can bet good money that the Dad wouldn't have not been around intentionally.

Here in the US, it is a money grabbing scheme for local governments to disband families and cultivate angst. For every $1 that a state collects in child support the federal government gives them $2

So yes some Dad may choose to allow the Mother to play babysitter but only under duress.

I shiver when I look at the future generations and now they'll cope.[/quote]damn...no wonder the family structure is really under threat especially in the black areas of the US.
Coupled with black males who have allowed their women to become mismatched education-wise; priced them out as potential partners
The men will not read and the women are so empowered....

so the rise of the single mum is confirmed; there will be more of these....

Men should just try and stay but i know its not easy

Anyone that does not want to be called a stalker should step aside
we have seen 5 pages on one persin mata and una say una no be stalkers...

creepy dudes

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greatgod2012: In my own opinion, i think your mum knows what shes doing, i think(i may be wrong anyway) shes trying to secure your future. When all of you turn out good in the nearest future and your step siblings are not, they start coming to you for assistance of various forms, and by then, it may be like they are disturbing you, so, your mum is trying to nurture (train)them in order not to be dependent on you people in the future. So, for this reason, i think you need to let her be.
May God help her and all of us.

That may be true but what if the parents demselves are not secure... that means the kids will have 2 extra mouths in addition to their own parents


OP.
How old are these kids... and if ur mum has accepted them, can she render help from afar
Also you guys need to know why ur mum wants to bring them in
is she bored?

if i ,may ask what is ur mum's take on it first? why does she want to adopt her husband;s kids?

[quote author=Somorin#1]I hope all the "modern" Women read this attentively.

Sons needs Fathers to raise them properly.[/quote]this is true.. but some dads should hang around more just because of kids
i know its not easy but its a sacrifice

MMotimo: Naija parents in the West have to do a lot more when it comes to setting their kids on the right path. I don't know where it went wrong in Michael's case but I will say - Get your priotities straight, if you bring kids to the earth, you are responsible for guiding them in the way that they should go. At a certain age, if not earlier, you have to realize these kids have excess energy to burn. Be there to help them channel that energy productively.

If it's soccer they like, enrol them in the local, community league. If it's karate, enrol them in a school, get them extra tutoring for academics, whatever you need to do to keep them busy. An idle mind is the devil's workshop.

Extra curricular activities will not prevent every criminal act but it does help.

honest feedback

Witty07: Obviously, higher % of todays wife have found it hard to always reflect humility and submissvness. In those days, u find wives looking for what makes their husbands happy and once they know, that's the key to get whatever they want. But today is not as everything has been diluted with foreign culture, marriage rules are not even followed, everyone just do what pleases them.

hmm... u want them to feast upon your head
Submission? Humility? This is the new age of women standing on their own
They dont need men.. men mstcheww

lacrusty

chookychooky

tintingz: nope... am still learning and watching https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-laughing011.gif seeking for knowledge

And i will not discourage people from getting married and having kids
And am not dating Jesus, am serving God

fair enough... we are all learning here but knowledge should be without prejudice....
let others express themselves and we can learn from it

of course she is not dating Jesus also...