₦airaland Forum

orgasticdance: 1. You need money and commitment, lots of it.
2. If you can, MADE in the USA is better than MADE in Nigeria; Heck, it doesn't guarantee anything but you limit the down potential if all else fails
3. You'll need more money and time for ballet classes, piano lessons, the swimming instructor, biannual excursions to the dutch art institute, funding for Eton, Pencey prep etc.

Idowuogbo: again? lmaooo!!!

kulyie,egbonbee come and see o!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Temismith: His kidney aπϑ intestine.¤

oyin50: sleep around if u will, no one cares. It's ur elasticity maam.

Decryptor: SMH @ some of the comments from sissy-men here. I caught my ex whom i was to wed sometime last year cheating and i kicked her aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ .se to the curb one hand! How much more a woman i call my wife. It is not out of this world that here in Nigeria, women will definitely forgive their spouse if caught cheating because of the status marriage put them. It would be so demeaning for a woman who was once married to suddenly go back to her father's house and become single again. Secondly, the thought of her fellow woman (whom the husband cheated with) taking over her matrimonial home is painful enough.
Compare the Western world such as the United States where if a woman divorces a man' she gets custody of the children and all the other things such as the house, cars etc remains in her possession and the husband pays her monthly alimony for the upkeep of the children. I can bet my life on it that if that was the case in Nigeria, no nigerian woman will ever think of forgiveness! Infact, we would constantly witness countless situations whereby a woman would deliberately set her husband up in an infidelity rap in order to claim his wealth and belongings. We all know how materialistic the average Nigerian woman is in our society. So pleaseeee all these NL ladies ranting here, save your sermons! I know what is in the dark mind of most Nigerian women of today.

freechat: I invoke the defence of alibi.

debosky: You need to remember that decisions based on your family's needs (nuclear first, extended secondary) will generate certain kinds of responses.

In this case the aunties seem convinced you're simply quitting work forever - I think you need to allay their fears. This is only temporary and you will not lose your income generating ability forever.

Secondly, you'll just have to endure the barbs and snide comments. Your mum has lived her life in a certain way for over 30 years so don't expect her to change her views overnight. Like Biola said, beneath the snide comments etc. is a genuine concern for your wellbeing (albeit based on theirs/others negative experiences).

Try to take it in good faith and understand where they are coming from. However, you need to maintain your resolve and don't get intimidated. Definitely do not get yourself in financial difficulty because of 'bukata' - these people won't pay if Lloyds and HSBC come calling for damiso to settle her gbese.

It's simply another dimension of dealing with parents and relatives - as you go through different phases, people will have their own views on what you should do. Nothing wrong with that, but take them as advice only - you will be the one to sink/swim by your own decisions.

jibsai: Um! Barca was 70% sure of winning dz season same 4 bayarn in germany with about 9matches dey already won and in epl manU showed d sign early enuff unlike last season dat went into day 38! BBA is meant 4 jobless peeps dats all...where are d bba winners are dey really celebs after dat show??

KazeKage1: I doubt Tobirama's as strong as Madara.

KazeKage1: Okay..let's end this.

All those in favor of the motion that sticks with the fact that Tobirama would've killed Madara if he was in hashi's shoes..say "AYE!"

CFCfan: In other words, Mourinho's disposable income will be the equivalent of N2 billion per year. The guy has hammered big time!

coolheed: This is not fair. Why did you sniff what you are not willing to eat. Three years is a lot and this is a clear case of disappointing the poor girl. Height is important but it is not a virtue. Isn't it better to have a responsible family that is not so tall than an irresponsible one with height of basketballers - a family of drunkards and never-do-wells who will bring shame and disgrace to the family and the nation. I don't pray you end up with the latter but you need to re-think your decision so as not to regret in the future. Even if you marry a tall girl, who tells you your kids will not have the same type of your height? You never know what you have until you lose them. It is not too late to rethink the situation. Obedience is better than sacrifice.

ayobase: Sure.....with one there is time, and its not like Chelsea and Man U are gonna play all day long!

You will surprise that some people on here are gonna watch BBA throughout the whole night just to see how they toss and turn on beds!

With my football, it more of weekend tinz...time to chill with family and friends!

ayobase: Besides, one wouldn't watch every match...there are options!

Besides, 380 games in premier league will take 380x2hrs=760hrs making it just 32days to watch all the matches, and you are gonna have time to do some other important things without even missing a match!

Is my calculation right?

ayobase: Two different things!
One you will know the final before the end of 3hrs, that include extra time and penalty kicks!

And the other, the winner is gonna be after 90DAYS for God's sake!

A wife can still cope with Man U fan as husband, but a man coping with BBA fan as wife na DIE o!

ayobase: I gez its one of the 5 ways to increase our intelligence as one of the front page threads depicted!

But, sorry to say, its not for the busy people.

After work since morning, coming in the evening to watch news, eat dinner, play, read and tuck your children in. Your spouse is there waiting for u in the bedroom....na for midnight u go watch urs when the housemates dey sleep also.

Maybe they should start weekend edition!

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Even those people can't watch it 247.....entertaining sha. Educative? Its depends on the kind of person......just as somepeople will say that there are many lessons to learn from Africamagic!