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anonymous12: update is coming soon, i will finish you here, you will regret coming to nairaland

Outstrip: If she was really cheating on him then she would not have done the traditional wedding. I wonder what the flimsy excuses are? I would like to know. If my sister told me that the man she was marrying tells her that if she commits adultery then something bad would happen then I would tell her to reconsider. Not because of the adultery but because someone who hangs a threat over your head like that even though it has not basis is not marrying you based on trust. If the way you plan to keep your spouse faithful is hoping on some thing to keep her to you in fear then you will make her life hell with your insecurity. The part about her hugging her ex shows that this man probably had driven her away with his insecurity. Someone who suspects someone of actually cheating would say things like I saw this on her phone or she is secretive etc. All this one says is about hugging her ex. I don't get it. It just sounds like such a one sided story. It takes a lot for a woman to walk away after her traditional and court wedding. Your friend is not saying everything.

samcus: Bisjosh u can definately do beta dan what u did,well am not surprise but should ve let me knw d problem b4 u did dat anyway  care abt u nd u knw dat,takecare hope we will see again one day!!!!!

hollas2jnr: @OP: There is no such thing as early prayer... Its good your mum started it early. All you have to make her understand is that its about your life and no her's; she's to guide you in your plans and not live her life through you. Early marriage is not a sin, likewise late marriages as well but GOD'S TIME IS THE BEST. Pursue you career and have 'that' in mind too... May God see you through - AMEN! ***I know it isn't easy coping with such pressure***

kaffy2002: After my marriage my husband have been disturbing to change my phone number, and is not possible for me to change it because have been using the sim for the past 6years i also use it for my business, My marriage is about to distory because of phone number. pls help out. What shuld i do.

Tolucciii: @Poster
I can reali undastand how u ar feelin rite now. But I wl advice u take slowly cos anxiety kills. Marriage is nt wat ucan rush into. I wl encourage u trust in God mor nd try 2b more virtuos in ur friendsip wt men. Stop burderin instead b happi alwayz nd add values 2ur life. If u ar xtian ucan b attendin single submit nd d rest. God wl surely grant u ur heart desire. But b warned dont take decisions under presure, cos it cud b dangerous. Shalom

Idowuogbo: Bisi d otondo i quoted above na werey ooo, d foolishaski send me mail say he wan lomance hin sister.As he dey so, he is sexually frustratedddd o! ikeji aja ni werey ara e o

tpm: As undergraduates studying the same course in the same school, we were once into each other. We both know each others strengths and weaknesses. We have had it rough in virtually every hidden corners of the campus and in all styles possible. Today we are graduates and i am working while she's still searching for job. Upon my graduation, i discovered i was loving someone else more than her. We talked and then decided to end the relationship, promising to keep the friendship unaffected. Presently, her search for job without success has given me cause for concern. At least for old time sake. Her people who once knew us as inseparable love birds now thought i have gone invisible leaving her to suffer without help. Out of concern, i took the bold step to work her through to recruitment in the company where i work. Fortunately after the interview, the management considered her good for the job. However, as fate may have it, she was to be employed to work in the same unit with me. This unit are for guys and i don't know why the decision was taken to bring her in there. Was it because she's an engineer since the unit is more of technical operations? I know my colleagues and what they are capable of. How to co-exist with this gal without reopening the buried emotions of the past has become a serious source of worry to me. Of course i can't work against the same employment i was happy we finally landed. That is why i consider it thoughtful to bring this situation to the family, hoping i 'd get favorable counsels as usual. One luv

mattaz: Dear Haus
Just fell in love wit dis pretty Chic..shez nice to d core&I dnt regret anything abt her but M a man&lyk evri man,I'd lyk my girl to com out lukin flashy at times I mean d whole make-up charade&stuff. the wahala tho is dat my girl who by the way luks beautiful witout make-up doesnt luvs using dem. the highest item of make up she uses is her lip-stick she says shez nt d make-up type. so here I m asking How on earth do I make her use diz things cos I c ladies evriday wit dem make-ups&M tempted to luk twice but I love my girl & wnt to alwz luk at no one bt her!!..I'l welcome cool comments plz!!!

olsmade: Which is sweeter? A spontaneous courtship or one that has sprung from friendship? Give your view with reasons.

Tkartworld: Truely i was seriously warned and spiritually warned to run away from yellow girls and also a stranger from my tribe, even my mother always remind me of the prophesy. but my real love presently (girlfriend) is yellow, but I wasn't worried, but TRUELY I loves her but she loves me more, so I believed that love can rewrite The future so I moved on because she is the kind I ever wanted.

But last 4night after weve make love i dreamt. I and two friwnds of mine and my yellow girl friend tour to a strange location and there in the dream i meant a crazy artist who has a strange style of art, because am an artist too, after some while he gazed and beckoned me to a secret place and he told me he knows who i am. And he said " ... if i want to see this day of next month that i should leave this girl totally or i lose my dreams and my life befor this day of next month.

am sucked becas she loves me like heaven, but my dream is me and i can't afford to lose my life too.

PLS PEOPLE I NEED HELP TO SAVE HER FROM PAINS OF HEARTBREAK, ALSO MYSELF FROM DEATH. THANKS.

Flashaldrin: dude no dey spoil person eyes for here naa, which kind phone you dey use sef??

stephen121: I went to my cousin's house for the holid, my cousin is married and six months pregnant. The husband came back 4rm work and she served him dinner ..beans. After taking two spoons, he became furious and started shouting that my cousin did nt fry the beanns. Well I decided to keep quiet because it was a family matter. Suddenly I saw him hitting my sister with a stick, i told him to stop hitting her because of fried beans and he slapped me. I was angry and Ileft the house that night, even though my cousin begged me to stay. The next morning I got a call that my cousin was in the hospital. On getting there my cousin was lying on the bed badly beaten. What should be done to this man... Advice please

bennyraz: be friendly & free. Put on a smiling face. Wherever u go even within ur environment, open ur mouth and greet guys. And when u do dat, smile.

Sweetdoct247: Nothing than to continue being herself and keep trusting God for the best. Trust me there's nothing she wants to try that hasn't been over flogged yet.

fubbyy: Even the seller adviced me 2 buy nokia E series,I insisted,anyway the mistake has been made but I seriously believe that their must be something this phone does that I don't really know,the users are still buying new version of it and they are not just Fools,so somebody should please enlighten me,is there any site to get people's pin or[b] should I enter the street and start asking people 4 their pin?