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desiregold:
Congrats op. You and your wife are cute.

I pray for God's blessings and favor in your home.


But, wait ooo, for this Bubu regime una get mind host people for different occasions? Trad? White wedding? And even on engagement party too?

If I try do trad wedding with a budget of 100/150 people, next na to drag hubby for court wedding involving only 4 people, Wedding done finish for me be dat.

It was as God would have it, everything was easy and beautiful.

This is not even all, 1st & second introduction with bridal shower are not even here. When you marry a correct Igbo babe, you have got to spend the money.

MedicH:
Very beautiful. I can't just wait. More wins and blessings to the couple.

Amen. Thank you

HumblySearching:
Beautiful. Very beautiful.

Eh God when is mine going to be ooo.. God eep me

God will definitely make things beautiful for you. Keep the hope alive

ValCon888:
Congratulations bro. E no easy. Everything on point. To God be the glory.

Thank you

Katier00:
Over set dey worry una. May God bless your home with every good things of life

Amen and thank you

Honeymoon pictures will drop within the week


Mod, Please move this to the front page to celebrate my wedding.

Thank you

Finally, it ended in thanksgiving

Pre-wedding photos

Engagement party pictures

Some more pictures

More pictures

White wedding

Court marriage pictures

Some pictures from the the traditional wedding

At about this time last week Saturday, we have already said i do and the journey to the wedding day was a blissful one with unavoidable stress.

I give God all the glory for a successful wedding ceremony. It was four months of constant activities, from introduction to traditional wedding, court marriage then church wedding..

These are some of the pictures

I'm equally interested. Mine is a revolver. I want to know the cost and the legal process of having one

Ilekokonit:
You will need the 90% later on when she shows you her true colours.

Most, if not all women are ingrates who use men to train them and their kids and lift the women up before showing their nasty side.

So, if you have 10 naira, tell your wife you have 1 naira.

Thank me later maybe 10 years into marriage when you finally realise that the woman you married is a deceitful monster.

You shouldn't push your frustration and bitter experience as theory of marriage. Every marriage is unique.

Your experience is particular to you and not a general phenomenon.

If really it's genital wart, you can try this home treatment.

Get a bottle of vinegar(white vinegar)
Castor oil
Cottonwood.

Precedure:

Wet the cottonwood with vinegar and dilute a little Castor oil (only vinegar cure it faster but it's painful).

Put the wet cottonwood on the wart and leave it on your skin for 2-3 hours but if you have to move around, attach with a tape. Within 7 days the warts will start falling off.

You just have to endure the pain, at least the pain will be your punishment for having unprotected s**.

It has benefits if the guy and the girl are reasonably responsible adults that understand what friendship is. Friendship is not based only on gender.

But unfortunately, most girls are parasitic and the guys will most likely demand for sex.

Boc007:
This comment should really encourage you. I want to implore you not to stop this challenge. Masturbation will never have pity on you if by chance you decide to JUST do it. It is merciless so you too show NO MERCY.


I once created a thread on Nairaland about my experience after 6months of NO FAP in 2017 and today I can't recall the last time I masturbated.

My advice is you should cut your mind away from your private part and make it useful for urinating and for making babies at the appointed time. Sex and fapping are overrated.


It takes only 21days to be addicted to a new lifestyle, after 21days only you can decide to go back to your old lifestyle.

I don't know how fapping feels anymore but I know I suffered in my time. Keep it up man. All the best.

It's soo true, one becomes a slave to sex. No longer different from a he-goat.

In my case, i deleted Instagram and stop watching porn totally. Today i don't even have the urge to watch porn and i begin to see women differently.

Deepfeel:
It's healthy if you don't do it like everyday

He doesn't need this type of advice. You have no idea how much porn and masturbation messes with your brain and life.

My life takes a new turn when i stopped porn and masturbation

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Thank God you have conscience if not, terrible acts and shady deals have a way of robbing you of your precious future.

Hold on to your dignity and learn to fight through hard times, God by your side you will soon sign a song of praise and be proud of your decision that didn't yield to short cut that has cut many people's life short.

Stay Strong

The secret is never to give up. Personally i have done quite a lot of hustling both in the street and corporate environment until i found a place to rest my hands and mind. So try out several things and never rely on employment

I'm still about your age and I'm very positive about what tomorrow has to offer.

The fact that God has not answered your prayer the way you wanted Him to doesn't mean God has neglected you. In short, He is your source

Success and riches is not for the fainted heart, it comes with alot of sacrifices and mental maturity coupled with pains and disappointments.

Your dream is totally still possible.

All the best

sorry but only you can help yourself.

growing up alone without children to play with can be responsible for this
low self esteem from poor upbringing can be responsible
temperament can also be responsible but whatever the causes are, it is up to you to build up yourself. Don't force yourself to always be the one to sustain a conversation, if it was always easy why don't the other person keep the discussion alive. it is normal to have some silence moments and if there is nothing actually to talk about, let the discussion ends.

Another truth is nobody is ever prepared for impromptu questions, almost everybody still get anxiety so, you are not weird or dull. Personally i enjoy quiet life, not everybody loves a lousy lifestyle and you are not less human than those that have. we are all unique.

you have to first understand these facts and accept yourself the way you are while you make rooms for improvement.

Some guys are actually crazy. Before you propose to a girl make sure all plans/arrangements have been made for marriage. You don't just propose out of emotions or insecurity. She has a life, why will she allow a guy that has not make plans for wedding to post her engagement pictures on social media, does he want to turn her to lord of the ring?

The girl is wise and mature, your friend is still a small boy in mind. I have a close friend that a guy did that to, that chased all eligible guys away from her and over one year and 6 months, marriage is still not in view. how can a guy propose and your friends and family ask you when is the wedding date and you say you don't know. That can be very embarrassing.

She acted the way she did because she is not seeing the readiness to get married from your friend.

the write is long but makes a lot of senses

Hisssss. I actually thought it was a reasonable advice you need.

Nobledonwiss:
He who married beauty marry unhappy

Keep deceiving yourself. Being responsible has nothing to do with beauty.

Au79:
yes o..am a medic and the rate at which we see people reactive to anti retroviral screening is really something to be worried about..she refuse doin any test atall including genotype that she knows she is "clean"... just imagine

Strange, very strange. You have to insist on doing the test or cut off the f**King wahalaship