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RomanceRe: Girl Post Picture Of Her And Her Friends In Bikinis, Ex Says She's Disgusting by blackbartee(m): 4:21pm On Jun 25, 2016
Are they crippled? why does it look like they have polio

ehya


BTW the guy no sabi move on, he's still hurting
EducationRe: Angry Mum Warns Son Not To Come Home For Not Finishing With A First Class by blackbartee(m): 4:17pm On Jun 25, 2016
This first class thing is not a do or die affair



After all there are tons of first class graduates out there still sweeping the streets with their feet in search of work.




most importantly, The end justifies the means
EducationRe: A Professor Asked A Student A Question The Reply He Got Will Amaze You. by blackbartee(m): 2:11pm On Jun 25, 2016
Einstein
AutosRe: Photos: Will You Buy This Car For #250k? by blackbartee(m): 7:42am On Jun 25, 2016
Buy it for 250k and repair it with 300-500k..... then you'll have to change everything about the car.....only a mugu would do that


P. S: if the seller can manage 25k, let's talk business
RomanceRe: Astonishing Pictures You Wont Believe Arent Photoshopped by blackbartee(m): 12:40am On Jun 25, 2016
Park, park, park!!!! I'm not going again, I want to drop....with all these scary looking pictures sef
PetsRe: I Killed This Big Snake Around My House Yesterday by blackbartee(m): 12:22am On Jun 25, 2016
So I hear sae na this kind thing lalasticlala dey like
cc. lalasticlala food is ready
EducationRe: See What University Education Will Look Like In The Next Decade by blackbartee(m): 12:16am On Jun 25, 2016
mytime24:
I dey come
you're cute.... I'm love struck
EducationRe: See What University Education Will Look Like In The Next Decade by blackbartee(m): 12:14am On Jun 25, 2016
Was actually looking for a picture to relate the story with but all I saw was a river nile of tiny prints, someone should read that novel at least na and summarize



P. S. I no sure sae the OP sef read am.... this is the work of copy and paste
RomanceRe: How To Get A Lady's Number Without Asking Her by blackbartee(m): 11:11pm On Jun 24, 2016
If girls were not too stubborn something like this wouldn't have happened.



meanwhile the guy is sharp




#OkBye
EducationRe: See Exam Question Of Political Science Students Of Anambra State University by blackbartee(m): 11:06pm On Jun 24, 2016
Nothing wey u no go see for this Nigeria tho
CelebritiesRe: This Pre-wedding Picture Got People Talking. Wow by blackbartee(m): 11:02pm On Jun 24, 2016
I go with pre-wrestling photo, he be like john cena showing off before fighting .....better still, what is this, fear factor advertisement??
RomanceRe: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by blackbartee(m): 10:44pm On Jun 24, 2016
amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise
To start with she is very crazy for calling u again after all she has done to you...... I know you'd expect me to pity u and give u a pat on ur back but hell NO, suck it up dude and stop acting like a sissy, she never deserved u, what are u depressed about is she the only girl in the world, u should be happy she showed u her true color before u guys got married or something, would u like to get married to a cheater, c'mon get ur ass up and shake it off, tell her straight into her face u ain't doing no more and she could go to hell for all u care

P.S there a probability the love she said she has for u now is just out of pity

peace.
PhonesRe: 12 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Been Cheated By A Network Provider by blackbartee(m): 10:35pm On Jun 24, 2016
tasceige:
esp wen u hear "just hold it there ehn wat did u say your name was once again"
or u hear "my name is blah blah blah am calling u frm lekki"
just knw say e don be.
Bt i love it though: u learn taking patience.
This name thing its like they usually use it to buy time, they can ask up to three or four times, its annoying to me tho
PhonesRe: 12 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Been Cheated By A Network Provider by blackbartee(m): 10:33pm On Jun 24, 2016
McBrooklyn:
10. And after series of ranting and vexing, you later realized being angry is not going to do you any good and you decided to take things the easier way
After dem don narrate. how e take be ur fault finish, u go just weak.... Edakun e epp me sir
Jokes EtcRe: Funny Exam Pictures Students Can Relate To! by blackbartee(m): 12:42pm On Jun 23, 2016
this thing is not complete
CelebritiesRe: Awesome God....triplets Celebrating 80th Birthday. by blackbartee(m): 2:50am On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
lol wen me i really want two cute female twins as dj's
Nd tripplet boys as dancers
grin grin my kids will b art lovers nd creative
only you 5 kids.... are you wandering back to the 80‘s
CelebritiesRe: Stella Damasus Gets Excited After Dwayne Johnson AKA The RocK Replies Her Tweet by blackbartee(m): 2:45am On Jun 23, 2016
let me book space.... I see this hitting FP
RomanceRe: Can You Date Or Marry This Kind Of Girl? by blackbartee(m): 12:47am On Jun 23, 2016
this one na sango naw..... u fit marry sango?
PropertiesRe: I Built My Own House After Following Some Of Nairalanders' Advice by blackbartee(m): 9:59pm On Jun 22, 2016
nice.... congratulations.... I tap into this kinda blessing too in Jesus name
EducationRe: Comfort Ekaette Inyang, BABCOCK Best Student: I Never Had A Boyfriend On Campus by blackbartee(m): 12:22am On Jun 22, 2016
And all these best students will always end up with "I never had a boyfriend/girlfriend and that's how they will be killing their relationship life don't be surprised when its the same parents laughing with you in the picture that will soon start frowning at you to go and look for husband.... lmao
RomanceRe: The 7th Pic On Your Phone by blackbartee(m): 1:43pm On Jun 21, 2016
Berlyn:
My Edo people i hail una grin #okbye
I know sae picture no go scarce for your phone meme mama
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 1:04pm On Jun 21, 2016
mrteee:
Are those in the picture the "25 Islamic clerics"? Please let's be objective. The photograph and the body of the story do not match. The "Islamic clerics" would be men, probably advanced in age, not some teenage girls. The picture relates to another story, but the writer felt the need to bring in the picture for lack of pictures of the current story.
and they could have been used as front liners as well
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 12:41pm On Jun 21, 2016
there's this popular adage that when u are in Rome u behave like a Roman, in the north where there is dominance of the islamic religion, don't they use hijabs and get away with it? to some extent, even Christians over there compelled to wear hijab and in some cases risk their lives, now this is a totally neutral society, so why must the hijab be "enforced" if it is inconveniencing the others, should it still be a must?
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 12:31pm On Jun 21, 2016
mrteee:
1. They did not "take" to the streets, and it was not in response to Christians and atheists reaction. Check the post's heading, it clearly states that they went to a particular whose principal claimed to be unaware of a court ruling granting the muslim girls right to wear hijab. You make it seem as if they took placards and what not and paraded the streets. You need not sensationalize stories to make your point.
from the picture code they did carry placards
EducationRe: OAU Student Dressed As A Sexy Nun Turns Heads by blackbartee(m): 11:12am On Jun 21, 2016
[quote author=Berlyn post=46777580][/quote]Berlyn and meme's tho 5&6
EducationRe: OAU Student Dressed As A Sexy Nun Turns Heads by blackbartee(m): 11:10am On Jun 21, 2016
I'm here to read comments, like if you're here to do the same..... lol
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 10:53am On Jun 21, 2016
TeamSimple:
Ose Bruno (name of our dog).
do what you guys know how to do best, abuse your fathers ancestors and the deep poo misleading you..... I know the whole fasting exercise is just a mere fallacy, you guys can never change your ways
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 10:47am On Jun 21, 2016
charlesucheh:
Still looking for just one muslim fanatic that will concur to that useless act by those so called cleric, let see if I won't slap him/her on this forum!!! Rubbish! What the heck!!! Na by force to dress like chickenhuh Hypocritical monkeys! Even the hijab has caused more harm than good to the development of this country! Ask those in boko haram troubled zones for the gist on suicide bombings and methods!
dressed up like penguins you mean..... lmao.... all they know is trouble, trouble, trouble
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 10:46am On Jun 21, 2016
TeamSimple:
You Christians should keep running when nothing is chasing you. Islamization agenda ko shiite menu ni. Yeye beer parlor gist.
you're free to think whatever you want but it is quite obvious.... you muslims will never let a sleeping dog rest, all you do is cause trouble
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 10:42am On Jun 21, 2016
TeamSimple:
Eeeeeeewo! Look at the character have been exchanging words with. I Am very sorry for quoting you.
typo error, mr holier than thou, you've never made such an error before?
EducationRe: Muslim Clerics At Osun School To Enforce Hijab On School Girls by blackbartee(m): 10:29am On Jun 21, 2016
mrteee:
Wow. Clap for yourself.
You, my dear sir, are obviously ignorant of the facts on ground, and someone corrects you but you still insist on holding on to the wrong position?
Once again, clap for yourself. You have done well.

It is worrying the trend we notice these days, where our young (and not-so-young) people are comfortable with going with social media "news". The need to study and research on subjects is so alien to them, that most are too lazy to read a 5-page newsletter talk less of reading a book. It's sad. A nation that does not read is on it's ruin. Just like the Bible says "my people perish, for a lack of wisdom (knowledge)".
I don't know on whose claim you are on but either way if they don't want to be bias why do they have have to take to the streets just after the Christians and the atheists started dressing equivalently, what's pricking them..... this issue of hijab thing to some extent is just an individual decision at most times at least I could remember a school that hijab was brought into the picture all because the current principal happens to be a muslim and the school has been existing for up to 30years without such an issue surfacing, it is obvious that there is an islamization agenda going on and we don't have to act naive to this show of shame

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