Odillz:
From your post it seems you engage in a no-sex relationship because they (the girls) always give excuses of being virgins(which they are not) and come back with tales of being raped..

The so-called friend=her ex bf.

You=Her maga and spare tyre.

My advice=stay away from hoés

Odillz:
From your post it seems you engage in a no-sex relationship because they (the girls) always give excuses of being virgins(which they are not) and come back with tales of being raped..

The so-called friend=her ex bf.

You=Her maga and spare tyre.

My advice=stay away from hoés

diddydiva:
hmmmmmm this is really confusing


is rape the new excuse ladies use?

was she truly raped?


op I don't know what to say cos you know her better than I do.

Odillz:
From your post it seems you engage in a no-sex relationship because they (the girls) always give excuses of being virgins(which they are not) and come back with tales of being raped..

The so-called friend=her ex bf.

You=Her maga and spare tyre.

My advice=stay away from hoés

seriousbabe:
Op, both you, the guy that supposedly raped your girlfriend and your girlfriend, have deep psychological problems

I think you all need to go evaluate your mental status

seriousbabe:
Op, both you, the guy that supposedly raped your girlfriend and your girlfriend, have deep psychological problems

I think you all need to go evaluate your mental status

Maamin:
Hehehehehe..Op, you don carry last. Your babe na free giver, she took her punny to another guy and she lied to you of getting raped..

Rape is now something to use for their short comings.. issoryt!

Odillz:
From your post it seems you engage in a no-sex relationship because they (the girls) always give excuses of being virgins(which they are not) and come back with tales of being raped..

The so-called friend=her ex bf.

You=Her maga and spare tyre.

My advice=stay away from hoés

BlackLeopard:
Aaall those victim blaming douches on this thread, ooo.
There isn't a single way victims of anything act.

OP: Ask her what she need. Don't press her for details. Be kind with her, and don't end on her just cus of what someone else did to her. Don't be THAT guy.

wildikeman:
na doro na...cheerful giver.

akpumping7720:

Your intelligence is out of dis planet dude....

casualobserver1:


White knight sighted. Which victim blaming BS is this one talking. When did Social Justice Warriors reach Naija sef. Abeg park well joor.

BlackLeopard:


Bro victim blamin is anythin sayin about why she be lyin about the rape. Or 'we don't know the story'. Or... All it.
SJWs are obvs needed in Naija stiiiill, and in Naija too.

casualobserver1:


My guy we don't need SJWs in Nigeria o. SJWs are against any form of personal responsibility. According to SJWs a girl that goes off and gets drunk only to get raped bears no responsibility for her predicament. These are people that will say that fat people that overeat are not responsible for their health problems. If they enter Naija now, they will say that Nigeria's people are not responsible in any way for our underdevelopment, and will go and blame colonialists or something equally stupid.

First off, the girl's story has K Leg. So she went somewhere and got raped, didn't talk and stayed there ALL DAY? All lies. She went to that guys place, the guy probably seduced her then threw her out leading to the infantile "I hate you" DP. The fact is that OP is a mumu guy that has been caring for the girl since but doesn't have any sense (see the whole we have been friends for long) and the girl is using this to manipulate him. The next thing she will hear is that after the rape, she doesn't like sex at all so he shouldn't ask her or aproach her with that in mind. Being a born maga, he will swallow the story and stay there.

EzeeYFB:
eyaa...nw i pity ur bf

tope24:


yes you ain't a hoe. i believe you

anonym0us:
nobody asked you if your broke boyfriend loves you...u sit down like person wey wan shit

transit4:
We've been friends since October, but recently we started dating..

Day b4 Yesterday, in the morning, she called and asked for directions to a street in Uyo, she said she wanted to visit a friend. She's a social type, so I didn't bother asking who she wanted to visit.

Like an hour latter, she called but I missed the call, and when I tried calling back, the phone was off..

Around 6.30 pm, I called and she said she was still at the friend's place.. Her voice was down, but I didn't bother asking y.

Yesterday she used a guy's pics on her bbm d.p, and wrote 'I hate u' on it. I asked her y, though she didn't want to tell me, she latter said the guy had raped her.

After she tried calling me, the guy had snatched the phone from her, and turned it off..

Somehow, ave forgiven her, but am confused.. This is d second time, someone has disflowered my girlfriend.. Though not the same girl..

I can't forgive the guy but I don't know if to continue the relationship

transit4:
We've been friends since October, but recently we started dating..

Day b4 Yesterday, in the morning, she called and asked for directions to a street in Uyo, she said she wanted to visit a friend. She's a social type, so I didn't bother asking who she wanted to visit.

Like an hour latter, she called but I missed the call, and when I tried calling back, the phone was off..

Around 6.30 pm, I called and she said she was still at the friend's place.. Her voice was down, but I didn't bother asking y.

Yesterday she used a guy's pics on her bbm d.p, and wrote 'I hate u' on it. I asked her y, though she didn't want to tell me, she latter said the guy had raped her.

After she tried calling me, the guy had snatched the phone from her, and turned it off..

Somehow, ave forgiven her, but am confused.. This is d second time, someone has disflowered my girlfriend.. Though not the same girl..

I can't forgive the guy but I don't know if to continue the relationship

ivyT:

*throws hot eba on ur 4head*

Odillz:
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Odillz:
From your post it seems you engage in a no-sex relationship because they (the girls) always give excuses of being virgins(which they are not) and come back with tales of being raped..

The so-called friend=her ex bf.

You=Her maga and spare tyre.

My advice=stay away from hoés

cho25bc:
;Dhahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
She was raped by a guy,yet she still stayed dere n even av d gut 2 put up his pix on her bbm?like seriously? and u believed HER?? u amuse me!a girl who is raped will not even av strength 2 ping or report trash!don't believe her!u don enter one chance.d girl don give away her totO while she don mugu u.better leave her n move on.she's so cheap dt she even carry her toto go meet d guy 4 uyo!u hate a guy who raped u yet u av d guts to stil go dere n upload his pix?aRe u sure she is,sorry,was a V?I DEY LAUGH O ;Dhahahahahahahahahahahahah

jaywee:
Twice beaten, thrice shy. Wake up bro

Kingsasian:
Op, she wasn't raped. What was she doing at his place? U called, she answered but her voice was down meaning she was either in the act or just finished the act and was cuddling with the sharp guy. The missed call u saw was as a result of the guilty conscience and that was why she switched off the phone immediately. I am used to the games ladies play, I hv been there before even recently. If u truly luv her forgive and tell her u knw she wasn't raped. Let her know that u are smarter. She wasn't a virgin, she only brought up the issue of rape because she knows that sooner than later u will find out her true status. Be wise.