₦airaland Forum

... I made a mistake of commenting on this thread... Never checked to see the wife is igbo........ All their ladies are rather after money than love... That's y drams in that side of the world in marriages are unending......

Nonsense lady! GOD forbid!

kurlz:
Madam must you use ATM card? His insistence on knowing your worth is my only fear. Sorry I don't trust your husband. He doesn't have to force it. I suggest you open another account in your child or siblings name and always send 60% of your earnings to it steadily. And let you family know. Your husband is dangerous be smart.

Besides if he is also open to you I see no reason why you should hide anything but if not. Wise up o

Have you been married..? Or du u plan to break ppls home with ur ignorance.... Do you know marriage is a bare it all relationship...? How can you advice a woman to hide things fro. Husband ND only care about a child who is going to leave them only after 15years....are you ladies now this sick upstairs...?

I pray God my path never cross with self centered, unloving hipocfites like u ND the op.....

UzorChinonso:
Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.

I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....

But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...

I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is?
He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment!
What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.

What do I do ?

You are a. Very stingy lady ND selfish inclusive... U only married the man cuz of the marriage title.... I rather stay single than marry a woman like u..... U hate your husband... Plz go ahead ND divorce him cuz I know that's where u are heading to..... You shld hv asked ur baby to marry u...

You hv no single feeling for this man, not submissive ND egoistic......... Your the worst thing a man can get

SeverusSnape:
Those were the days when Frats consisted of reasonable people and intellectuals, Now, the whole thing has been hijacked by lowlifes and riff-raffs, murderous blowhards.

Is there anything seemingly good about an association whose logo is skeleton skulls.............. It's crystal clear... It's of no good for get wot the conveners lied to you

.... Lemme warn guyz again...

Do not allow yourself pressurized by age, parents, peers or gf into hasty marriage.. Get a stable income... All those love will disappear if income stops coming. Women are wired for comfort and care.. They can only bear the hardship for sometime ND not a very long time.....

It's better you leave a fortune for your 10year old family in peace of mind ND loving memory than get to be assaulted, hated, isolated with malice and disrespected by the same family you are rushing to procreate at a very young age... Just to meet up....


Happiness is the key. We are not in a race for matured children at 55.dont allow the women fool you with love and submitsiveness.. They can't cope without money.

Be warned!

Eastson:
I'm not your bro.
Kindly carry your use-less self outa my thread and take your monstrous stoopidly with you.

What the Monika... And always ignore him... A airaland addict without a job... He is on every thread for the wrong reason...

Will an indirect hook up still b OK..?

Bar1941:
It's going to be more than a easy ride for you come Nov. 3rd 2020 because you will be contesting against a foolish excentric morón whose stupidy and naiveness has affected the respect and honour being bestowed on America before his emergence. Every aspect of US economy is in comatose and a visionary diplomatic leadership is urgently needed to restore the lost glory of our dear beloved God's own country.
I know some religious bigots in Nigeria still see the fat brain Trump as their saviour, but thankfully they can only vote on nairaland not elsewhere and going by their antecedents on this platform, whoever they supported here always lose at the real election. The true Americans will excercise their franchisé and retore the lost glory of the US. God bless Nigeria.
God bless Africa.
God bless USA.
God bless the whole world.

That trump has such temperament doesn't mean he distroyed economy ND the rest... If u dnt know it is over quietness ND nativity of imidiate pSt American president that gave China an edge over america

How can you explain China banning all US tech firms from China ND still dragging US to court over Hauwei right of full operations in the US... After Alibaba and was politically assisted to scheme out e-Bay. D good good foot standing in THE US

Well, your just a huzler in the US with no concern for the greatness of the greatest country on earth... Dts y u can never see beyond arrogance of Mr trump

SaintBeehot:
i think i should call that vision 2023. What can we do

Hahahhaha... Ur soo funny

SaintBeehot:
While The poor remain poor vice versa. All i know is we aren't taking a Dime to heaven.

The poor don't even agrre they are poor nd will rather die than not see tinubu b president

tamdun:
Jonathan ordered all ministries to buy made in Nigeria vehicles? Bros abeg how many did they buy under Jonathan's administration?

I laff in Chinese.... The order was adhered to.. I work in a fed govt university.. And since den allskl vehicles changed to innoson

MinorityOpinion:
Oh my goodness, it's all over nairaland, SE is Nigeria Army, SE is frsc, I don't even like Buhari like that sef but if someone did good he deserves an accolade

Do u know making a policy stand is more difficult than implementing. It..? How mny years did Jonathan stay from wen innoson finished his factory..?

Do u know Jonathan order all govt, ministry, agencies and parastatal to buy only made in naija vehicle..?

If jona stays for two years after innoson birthed ND bubu used his policy to stay 6years...under which govt will dey patronize innoson more...?

Use ur head

BabaOwen:
Even though GMB is not really performing well, is government is far better than GEJ government.

How..? Do u know who created policies that birthed innoson... ND how mny years did his govt stay after innoson finished his factory..?

Don't say things u know next to nothing about... Am behind you ND will watch all ur comment without deep reasoning

He doesn't have a case to answer cuz he didn't present any wrong documentation to INEC...

So he didn't take any oath of truthfullness

Can someone explain to me why FG wants to die on Lagos ibadan expressway....

If you go Tru that road it's very clean even B4 bubu came in... I stead of repair roads in urgent needs dt kills ppl in taraba, kebbi, the south east, benue, etc.... They choose tribalistic road cuz minister is southwest....

These are reasons I will never like. Buhari.... He hates Nigeria unity

Seeeeeeee:
went to my bank those people are something else, my salary account is with UBA it's a savings account, they told me to change it to current account in which it's a hard thing to do because the processes will take long.

Not only that I was given a form to fill in which I will take to my employer to sign before returning it to them for further processing. Now there's lockdown it's not possible. That's why I am looking for people here that will lend with easier conditions.

The truth is that. No one will giv u here.. Cuz. No one knows anyone here.. No matter how genuine u are...... Look inwards to ppl Dat know you fiscally.. Colleagues, gf, brother..... Best guy...

This is a. Itter truth

... Leave the environment... Asin go visit an uncle, aunt, bro, sis in a far away place.. Where u can focus on job searching

Use any of these online lending schemes or go to the bank you use in receiving ur salary acct. They will giv u willingly cuz u are a salary earner

bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

Love is a thing of the mind... You can deeply fall in love again with another if you set your mind to it

googi:
He really tried, fearless and lucky.

He retired all the military politicians and got away with it.

Appointed Service Chiefs from Middle Belt while the "core" North cried marginalization for the first time in Nigeria.

Brave enough to visit Nzegwu's home.

De-iced Ndi-Igbo since the war and appointed them to strategic positions after some years.

But Obasanjo did not build Cater Bridge

The Carter Bridge was originally constructed by the British colonial government, prior to Nigerian independence in 1960. After independence, the bridge was dismantled, redesigned and rebuilt during late 1970s. The Alaka-Ijora flyover, on the Iddo end of the span was completed in 1973.
Crosses: Lagos Lagoon; connects Lagos Island to mainland Lagos State
Locale: Lagos, Nigeria
Carries: Vehicular traffic
https://en.m.wikipedia.org › wiki
Carter Bridge - Wikipedia

googi:
He really tried, fearless and lucky.

He retired all the military politicians and got away with it.

Appointed Service Chiefs from Middle Belt while the "core" North cried marginalization for the first time in Nigeria.

Brave enough to visit Nzegwu's home.

De-iced Ndi-Igbo since the war and appointed them to strategic positions after some years.

But Obasanjo did not build Cater Bridge

Check again... Carter Bridge was built B4 obj.. But was dismantled ND redesigned during obj time...

My problem is money ooo.. I Don ripe ND e dey. Y mind die....

Would want at least minimum standard of 2bedroom ND a car.. Den a min 100k income

myboy2111:
What Buhari has done in term of Infrastructures is 10 times Obj

I laff in Chinese.. ##&=

Gazzy88:
OBJ had his flaws, no doubt but no president has matched his records till date. He's the only president in Nigeria respected globally both past and present. He's the only president till date to had received a sitting American president from Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton to George Bush. Obama came to Ghana but couldn't reach Nigeria during Jonathan era.

OBJ is the only detribalized president till date. All programs and policies of govt till date could be traced to his brilliant ideas. He worked with smarter ministers unlike those ones we have now. He's also the most respected and fearless president within Nigeria which no senate, reps or any ministers could dare.

OBJ was corrupt same as our current crops of politicians but no president has matched his feats till date. He cleared our foreign debts with his influence which buhari has piled up again.

Exactly!

sageb:
yes, but this cases you mentioned is an exception. How about paul biya of cameroon, mugabe of zimbakwe,etc. Who knows what OBJ might have turn to if he got the third term, remember "power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely".

But we are lu KY he showed tendency of a very good development oriented leader

aremuforlife:
Baba has the opportunity to set a solid foundation for the new Nigeria, but because of his third term agenda, baba destroy the foundation. Baba is a kind of person that don't like others to supersede his records or achievements.

Wot is the solid foundation he was meant to set Dat third term bid destroyed..?

NO, you are not correct.. The subsequent governments.. Hv refused to focus on impactful development

JAMO84:
Nothing concern me with his military rule, I wasn't in this world. Base on his civilian rule which I witnessed, Obasanjo should be serving life sentence without the possibility of parole!!!

Y..?

sageb:
He worked during his time, but his lust for power made him to want a 3rd term.

Though am against going against the constitution, but if he had succeeded, we would hv been better for it....

Remember only one man changed China. Also one man changed south Korea.. Both jettison the constitution and the two nations are better for it

ThatFairGuy:
We're all NOBODY. The God Almighty is the Great and Greatest.
Kudos to Obj for all his efforts, he isn't perfect. We all have our flaws

But so far so good: he is the best among the lot

kingawothefirst:
Nigeria knows that when someone from the SW steps into office the nation improves, we are also not tribal bigots so everybody gets their fair share under our rule. Obasanjo wasn’t even the best we’ve produced, The Great Awo was our best followed by MKO, but thanks to enemies of progress and the powers that be, entities that would’ve transformed this country didn’t get a chance. Let’s not make the same mistake again with Osinbajo, let’s give our honourable VP a chance.

Awo was tribalistic ND corrupt hence he made himself the richest man of the region at the time.. Political biz.. Tinubu ND abiola style

... This guyz don't know that there are FOUR. years not three BTW 1973 ND 1976

Icreated this thread to clear the air once and for all for all the kids on nIraland who constantly go ahead raining insults to Nigerian no. 1 hero all in the name of perty allegiance ND hear say from haters of progress..

Growing up in the 90s I was always bewildered why people complain about a president that hikes fuel prices periodically ND still he does that knowing that almost the entire country hates him for this.. Yet he continued.. Guess that's where hatred for him gats its genesis.... I den went into the study of OBJmetrics to get into his head and demystify him.. These are what I found...

1. A democrat: he handed over power to civilian.. Are rere feat at 78'

2. He. Built festac which now houses abt 700k people. In a period when stealing was not questioned but he chose development

3. He established the national machine tools industry in ibadan in 77. Thinking industralization

4. He built the 1004 housing estate at V. I.. which now is a luxury apartment

5. He established the 7 river basins to boost agric in the 70's

6.he conceived, initiated nd started preliminary work to site ajaokuta steel in the center of the country for equality of purpose sake..

7. He built Carter bridge in lagos

8. He created operation feed the nation to deepen agriculture.

9. He indeginized foreign owned firms to Nigerian owned to giv us an edge in the affairs of our econony

Now I want u to know he did all these as a military leader ND in just 3 years.. In the late 1970s

Now in the modern Era after he returned as president...

1. He set up the EFCC which till date is the last resort of the people to check political leaders

2. He set up the ICPC

3. He modernized all first ge eration teaching hospitalz. Only investment in that sector till date

4. He wiped away our huge foreign dept.

5. He re- focused PTF to PTDF... To better performance

6. He created the 13% derivation for the Niger delta.. Which has not been upward reviewed till date

7. He created the solid minerals acts.. To allocate national revenue to any solid mineral communities as well as oil.

8. He deepened our tele density

9. He reformed our banks.. ND liquidation ceased ND it became an economy friendly banks

10. He boosted employment like never B4.

11. He granted mass commercial licenses to private varsity investors

12. He granted licenses to commercial t. V ND radio investment

13. He privatized moribond state enterprises ND make dem functional again..

14. He woke the Lind dead aviation sector.. Into private biznesses..

15. He privatized the downstream oil sector.. Hence filling stations poped up nationwide ND fuel scarcity disappeared.

16. He created the due process office to set a cap on FG contract profiteering ND shield against portfolio contract chasers

17. He built road like never B4 in nigeria as at then.

18. He restored international confidence in.Nigeria once again.. The. E. U, US all lifted sanctions against naija.. Even hosted two US presidents.

19. He up lifted the. NIGERIA police with purchase of 1000 sport utility vehicles..

20. He increased teacher ND lectures salaries 3 times in his tenure

21. He disbanded unionism as a central organization..

22. he created internet penetration all over the country

23. He raised. Billionaires not even from his tribes that now takes care of Nigeria

24. He established a lot of electricity project.. Even procured 13 turban plants. The largest investment in the power sector.. Which we hv not in proved till date..

25. He privatized Nepa. Only completed in Jonathan terms in office..

26. Created national open university to solve huge admmision deficiency ND led by example as a student to encourage the people to follow suit

27. He expanded the FCT ND modernized it.. In fact he made abj a city worth living in

The list is endless to the very impactful efforts our great president undertook for the country.... But it hurts to hear our young ones call him all kind of name..... Obj Gave me a huge inteterest in the study of the economy.. ND I am. Better for it...

I see him. As my greatest Nigerian since he impacted us all the most.. ND promised I will lay a wretch on his grave side physically if he happens to pass on B4 me....

Ride on my hero dou not as strong as B4.. May God continue to b with you