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Drella:
Hello people.
I'm in my early twenties in a tertiary institution. I am this gentle guy that is mostly quiet.
I noticed that there are many financially okay guys as young as I am that are doing well unlike me. Now, I'm talking about the ones hustling legitimately.

I also want to be okay financially, but they tend to share information only with those they are close to.
There were updates about Arbitraging, Web 3 airdrop and testnet stuff that I only got to hear when it was too late.
I talk to these guys, roll with them, but they never see me as close enough to carry me along.

Even for those freelancing, they know techniques to get orders fast and constantly but will not share with me. One said I should bring 250k when I'm ready to start freelancing. I don't even have 50k in my name.
Whenever I tell them to "show me way" knowing they do legit stuffs, they tell me they too are looking for way.

Growing up, I was restricted so I suck at making friends and socializing. I have been trying to get better since I left secondary school but my social skills barely improved.

I researched online on my own to get updates but many were scam, overpriced classes/courses e.t.c. Though I have picked up a skill to learn but before I get good and start earning, I'll need sustenance.

Is it too late to improve my social skills in my early twenties? If no, how?
How can I move from just acquaintances to a friend that can be carried along in important things?

You're not alone in this journey...

Gbegiri and Abacha

Here in Ibadan, it's no longer 20 sachet in a bag it's now 16 sachet and it is sold for #300.

Within 3days e don finish

#6,000. 2012

This could probably be someone playing some tricks on her just to get down with her

StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?

Are you sure this girl isn't pregnant and needs someone to pin it on. Just thinking tho
It's better you tell ur babe everything before she will find out herself.

I'm afraid of wall gecko


I hate that thing!

Dodo, agbalumo(African cherry), the icing on cake etc.

Se I will not do 2,000 hours trek-a-thon now

Maybe opening their legs for him is there own way of consoling him

But at this rate that 30billion go soon finish oo

OP
So all of this happened in your dream or is this suppose to be real??

Please focus more on taking care of your children cos there will always be a time that what you fear most will repeat itself

If na me, I go give her the condition of treating the girl like her own if she wants to remain married to me else I'm going to divorce her....shikena



.....because no one knows what she could do to that girl if she gets to know u rented an apartment for her outside...if she can stl be doing all of this to her when she is under ur nose who knows what she'll do when nobody is watching

This thread still dey exist

nikola:

The webcam option isn't a button that's visible. You would only get a pop up, asking you to grant Testmi access to your webcam. Your username inspired his post.

Exactly I mean I didn't get the pop up

Shukusheka:
Maybe because you are too black for the webcam to get live feeds to share with their server?

Pls re-read the post....I said there was no webcam option asking me to turn on camera or not besides I'm not dark

I attempted mine at 2.00pm but when I clicked on start exam...there was nothing like web cam option, hope I'm save


I did it without using camera..

I'm writing today by 2pm....I wish everyone of us Good luck!

nikola:
The last time we wrote the test conducted by testmi, I am sure they factored in using Mobile phones after the whole experience they had If so, it's gonna act the same way your laptop would act. Just like when you hop on to a Microsoft teams meet. However, if there is an app that needs to be downloaded, they would send an email to that effect. Tomorrow is here already.

Alright thanks....but do you have any material on this test pls.
And if there's anyone with the material pls help send to omotolababe53@gmail.com
Thanks

nikola:
Your phone camera is gonna suffice. When you log in, it would ask for permission for your camera to be active.

Ok....thanks for the info
But how accurate is the info pls

Luckygal22:
Thanks bro. But how do one go about using a mobile phone to write d exam...Do I need to install any app?

No one has answered this...is it that no one has info Abt it

lawal012000:
It's an online aptitude test, from your own comfort

Pls, do you know if we can access the test through phone or it must be through desktop

Good evening guys, thank God I didn't carry this over.... I just checked my mail this evening and I've been shortlisted for the test.
Pls I also need the question, help a sister my mail is omotolababe53@gmail.com.
Thank you

Waow...God bless you for this write-up...the step by step explanation helped me when I got stuck to the add bank details while I was trying to create an account.
Thank you

I can work online.
What does the job entail

Threesha:
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*SUBJECT TEACHER IN ENGLISH AND A NURSERY TEACHER*

NCE/B.ed/B.Sc/PGDE or its equivalent.


EYFS/Montessori experience is an added advantage.

Location: Cotonou, Benin Republic. *Accomodation available (For first 3 months).*
Please send your curriculum vitae and credentials to this email address:
ouabi.zierrath@gmail.com


Thank you. would you like to work in continue with accommodation

No, within Nigeria pls
Thank you

koldej:
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Hii try to use a different browsing app from Google chrome

I've submitted already
Thank you

HND Public Administration.

Finished service recently,
A computer literate with Ms word, Excel, Corel draw and little of power point.
I have good customer relation skill
Diligent and hardworking

I'm open and available
Location: Ibadan

Awaiting confirmation mail??


Be sure your email was typed correctly and very ACTIVE

Josaphat:
Please, how did he manage to cross the education info (junior) stage?.
I tried uploading my SSCE grades and they declined it saying the minimum subject is 1 and the maximum is 1.
I am really confused

The problem is really from their site...I encountered same problem too but you really have to be patient it will eventually be accepted later.


But try and logout and re-login anytime you encounter any glitch

Hahjascho:
Even after getting d confirmation mail?

Yes, but it has been resolved

Thanks