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Nairaland / General / Re: Is It Too Late To Know How To Do This As A Young Man Like Me? by blackmarya(f): 1:08pm On Mar 09
Drella:
Hello people.
I'm in my early twenties in a tertiary institution. I am this gentle guy that is mostly quiet.
I noticed that there are many financially okay guys as young as I am that are doing well unlike me. Now, I'm talking about the ones hustling legitimately.

I also want to be okay financially, but they tend to share information only with those they are close to.
There were updates about Arbitraging, Web 3 airdrop and testnet stuff that I only got to hear when it was too late.
I talk to these guys, roll with them, but they never see me as close enough to carry me along.

Even for those freelancing, they know techniques to get orders fast and constantly but will not share with me. One said I should bring 250k when I'm ready to start freelancing. I don't even have 50k in my name.
Whenever I tell them to "show me way" knowing they do legit stuffs, they tell me they too are looking for way.

Growing up, I was restricted so I suck at making friends and socializing. I have been trying to get better since I left secondary school but my social skills barely improved.

I researched online on my own to get updates but many were scam, overpriced classes/courses e.t.c. Though I have picked up a skill to learn but before I get good and start earning, I'll need sustenance.

Is it too late to improve my social skills in my early twenties? If no, how?
How can I move from just acquaintances to a friend that can be carried along in important things?
You're not alone in this journey...
Food / Re: What Food Do You Consider Overhyped In Terms Of Taste? (picture) by blackmarya(f): 12:14pm On Mar 01
Gbegiri and Abacha
Food / Re: How Much Is A Bag Of Sachet Water In Your Area? by blackmarya(f): 6:26pm On Feb 05
Here in Ibadan, it's no longer 20 sachet in a bag it's now 16 sachet and it is sold for #300.

Within 3days e don finish sad

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Career / Re: What Was Your First Salary! by blackmarya(f): 12:11am On Jan 27
#6,000. 2012
Romance / Re: I Had Sex With A Ghost Every Night For 20yrs But Dumped Him When I Saw His Fangs by blackmarya(f): 9:14pm On Oct 03, 2023
This could probably be someone playing some tricks on her just to get down with her undecided
Romance / Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by blackmarya(f): 4:52pm On Oct 03, 2023
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?
Are you sure this girl isn't pregnant and needs someone to pin it on. Just thinking tho
It's better you tell ur babe everything before she will find out herself.
Nairaland / General / Re: Let's Talk About Phobia, What Are You Afraid Of? by blackmarya(f): 9:10pm On Aug 07, 2023
I'm afraid of wall gecko


I hate that thing!
Food / Re: Which Food Do You Hate That Most People Like? by blackmarya(f): 6:40am On Jul 22, 2023
Dodo, agbalumo(African cherry), the icing on cake etc.
Food / Re: Another Nigerian Lady Starts 200-Hour Snail-A-Thon In Style (Pix, Video) by blackmarya(f): 10:56pm On Jul 11, 2023
Se I will not do 2,000 hours trek-a-thon now undecided

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Celebrities / Re: Ivanna Bay: French Lady Claims She Is Pregnant For Davido by blackmarya(f): 8:59pm On Jun 28, 2023
Maybe opening their legs for him is there own way of consoling him angry

But at this rate that 30billion go soon finish oo undecided
Romance / Re: My Ex Girlfriend Bugged My Phone And Framed Me Up! by blackmarya(f): 11:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
OP
So all of this happened in your dream or is this suppose to be real??
Family / Re: A Widower Asking For My Hand In Marriage by blackmarya(f): 12:46pm On Feb 23, 2023
Please focus more on taking care of your children cos there will always be a time that what you fear most will repeat itself
Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by blackmarya(f): 5:08pm On Nov 30, 2022
If na me, I go give her the condition of treating the girl like her own if she wants to remain married to me else I'm going to divorce her....shikena



.....because no one knows what she could do to that girl if she gets to know u rented an apartment for her outside...if she can stl be doing all of this to her when she is under ur nose who knows what she'll do when nobody is watching
Forum Games / Re: ~<<The Last Person To Post In This Thread Wins>>~ by blackmarya(f): 10:11pm On Nov 19, 2022
This thread still dey exist undecided
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 5:30pm On Sep 22, 2022
nikola:

grin
The webcam option isn't a button that's visible. You would only get a pop up, asking you to grant Testmi access to your webcam. Your username inspired his post.
Exactly I mean I didn't get the pop up
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 5:08pm On Sep 22, 2022
Shukusheka:
Maybe because you are too black for the webcam to get live feeds to share with their server? undecided
Pls re-read the post....I said there was no webcam option asking me to turn on camera or not besides I'm not dark sad
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 3:56pm On Sep 22, 2022
I attempted mine at 2.00pm but when I clicked on start exam...there was nothing like web cam option, hope I'm save


I did it without using camera..
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 7:07am On Sep 22, 2022
I'm writing today by 2pm....I wish everyone of us Good luck!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 11:48am On Sep 21, 2022
nikola:

The last time we wrote the test conducted by testmi, I am sure they factored in using Mobile phones after the whole experience they had If so, it's gonna act the same way your laptop would act. Just like when you hop on to a Microsoft teams meet. However, if there is an app that needs to be downloaded, they would send an email to that effect. Tomorrow is here already.
Alright thanks....but do you have any material on this test pls.
And if there's anyone with the material pls help send to omotolababe53@gmail.com
Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 11:35am On Sep 21, 2022
nikola:

Your phone camera is gonna suffice. When you log in, it would ask for permission for your camera to be active.
Ok....thanks for the info
But how accurate is the info pls
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 11:29am On Sep 21, 2022
Luckygal22:

Thanks bro. But how do one go about using a mobile phone to write d exam...Do I need to install any app?
No one has answered this...is it that no one has info Abt it
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 9:07pm On Sep 19, 2022
lawal012000:


It's an online aptitude test, from your own comfort
Pls, do you know if we can access the test through phone or it must be through desktop
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission ("NERC") Is Recruiting. by blackmarya(f): 9:06pm On Sep 19, 2022
Good evening guys, thank God I didn't carry this over.... I just checked my mail this evening and I've been shortlisted for the test.
Pls I also need the question, help a sister my mail is omotolababe53@gmail.com.
Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Get Paid Over 150k To #500,000 By Publishing Articles On Amazon! by blackmarya(f): 3:31pm On Aug 19, 2022
Waow...God bless you for this write-up...the step by step explanation helped me when I got stuck to the add bank details while I was trying to create an account.
Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Jobs Available Online by blackmarya(f): 8:14am On Aug 01, 2022
I can work online.
What does the job entail
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by blackmarya(f): 8:22am On Jul 22, 2022
Threesha:
.



*SUBJECT TEACHER IN ENGLISH AND A NURSERY TEACHER*

NCE/B.ed/B.Sc/PGDE or its equivalent.


EYFS/Montessori experience is an added advantage.

Location: Cotonou, Benin Republic. *Accomodation available (For first 3 months).*
Please send your curriculum vitae and credentials to this email address:
ouabi.zierrath@gmail.com


Thank you. would you like to work in continue with accommodation
No, within Nigeria pls
Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Firstbank Graduate Trainee by blackmarya(f): 8:20am On Jul 22, 2022
koldej:
.

Hii try to use a different browsing app from Google chrome
I've submitted already
Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by blackmarya(f): 6:55pm On Jul 21, 2022
HND Public Administration.

Finished service recently,
A computer literate with Ms word, Excel, Corel draw and little of power point.
I have good customer relation skill
Diligent and hardworking

I'm open and available
Location: Ibadan

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Firstbank Graduate Trainee by blackmarya(f): 8:28am On Jul 21, 2022
Awaiting confirmation mail??


Be sure your email was typed correctly and very ACTIVE
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Firstbank Graduate Trainee by blackmarya(f): 11:42pm On Jul 20, 2022
Josaphat:


Please, how did he manage to cross the education info (junior) stage?.
I tried uploading my SSCE grades and they declined it saying the minimum subject is 1 and the maximum is 1.
I am really confused
The problem is really from their site...I encountered same problem too but you really have to be patient it will eventually be accepted later.


But try and logout and re-login anytime you encounter any glitch
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Firstbank Graduate Trainee by blackmarya(f): 11:39pm On Jul 20, 2022
Hahjascho:
Even after getting d confirmation mail?
Yes, but it has been resolved

Thanks

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Firstbank Graduate Trainee by blackmarya(f): 11:38pm On Jul 20, 2022
glo12:


Same issue my brother is complaining about. What can be done to move pass this stage please?
Well...I called the helpdesk and I was told to logout and re-login, that it was due to cyber problem or so...I did, it still did not work so I had to change my browser before I could proceed

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