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Women will not marry men who are less smarter than them in first place.

Of course love at first sight really exists. Am suprised you guys are denying it. When you see someone you are attracted to, it is the eyes that perceives it first. The first and most important step towards falling in love with someone is to like his/her appearance. When you don't like someones looks, the chances of a full blown love is very slim. But when you like someones appearance there is a 90% chance that there will be full blown love at the end.

see me trouble ooo. Is this a coded message or what?

rokiatu, let me rephrase it again as follows, How many good looking men can you probably find out of 100 men picked at random? The focus here is the physical appearance. Forget the personality aspect.

Kay money, YES, there over 2000 ways of killing a rat. But the question is, which of them will make you succeed in trapping rokiatu's ass? Will you ever trap the ass in your life time?

rokiatu, theres no way you can be attracted to a man's personality without his outward features drawing your attention first.

What kind of trap can trap a ladies ass?

rokiatu, You don't need to see anything. Ok. Let me put it this way, whenever you go out to public places, how often do you spot the cute ones from the hundreds of faces you see?

Thats why I said ''city guys/girls'' to mean the educated and mannered ones.

Out of 100 city guys/ladies picked at random, how many will you likely be attracted to?

Personally I will likely be attracted to 4 out of 100 ladies. I don't easily see ladies who impress me. Most times when guys say a certain girl is beautiful, I don't see the beauty they talk about.

I have said it several times that it is impossible for men to cheat without having female accomplices who cheat on their man too.

The current happenings in the arab world really brought up something in my mind. This is something that began in Tunisia, and it spread to other regions of the arab world because it involves people who share the same culture, race and religion. It is has futher proved that people who share a lot in common will influence each other easily than between groups who share less in common. A black man will be more influenced by what his fellow blacks are doing than what other races are doing. For instance in a multi racial society like the US, its very easy to notice that whites copy whites, while blacks copy blacks. Probably this explains why none of the white countries is drastically poor like the black African countries. They white communities have influenced each other in such a way that development appears almost even. No member of the same group would like to be left behind, therefore it would be necessary to copy what makes your colleagues move ahead and along move with them.



In the case of poverty stricken black Africa, no black African country has set a standard for the rest to be forced to follow suite. They are not very influenced by the white countries because they believe that they are racially and culturally different from them. Our country Nigeria for instance says she is the giant of Africa, because she looked around and found out that no other black African country is comfortably more superior than she is. Therefore she thinks she is the best thing black Africa can offer, so theres no need to advance further. If Ghana or Cameroun for instance should get it right and make it to the top ten developed countries of the world, do you think Nigeria and the rest of black Africa will still be sleeping? Of course they would be influenced and prompted to follow suite cos since a colleague has made it, others will try to make it too cos no one would want to be left behind the sweeping change. So the question is, which black African country will be the first to break out and set the standard for the rest to follow? I will exclude South Africa as a black African country that has broken out. You and I know the reason why.
More opinions please.

You guys are tempting me to go back to that biz that sucked me dry. Am done with it forever and ever.

If I get more replies from guys repeating what the other guys have said above, then I will begin to wonder if their replies are sincere.

Dyt, so sorry for the dandruffs in the thread. It wasnt intentional.

A lot of guys chase and force themselves to ladies without caring if the girl likes them or not. They splash money and do everything earthly possible to make sure the girl agrees to their request. Even when the girl is refusing they wouldn't take no for answer. Eventually the girl may get exchausted and reluctantly accepts the guy just to have some peace of mind.
My question for the guys is, do you really care if the girl you love does not love you, but agrees to stay with you?

Nigerians refused get their toilet cleaned up, and they want to travel out to use an already made clean toilet. Damn!!!

Nigerians should not be allowed to travel out. Let everyone live and die in hell we made for ourselves.

D sense, I should be asking you bro. Honestly, we should count the number posts we have made today lets verify.

Eeehm, I just want to share this with the ladies cos it may probably help them to safeguard their hearts from the cheating male folks out there. I will list the characteristics of two categories of guys and you ladies should decide for yourselves which category of guys will have the heighest concentration of cheats, and thereafter make up your minds on how to detect and avoid falling into the hands of such a group of guys to REDUCE the chances of being cheated on.




Characteristics Category A guys:

1. They are the out-going type, talk a lot and make friends easily.
2. They have a long history of ex-girlfriends and also have lots of platonic female friends.
3.They are very good at interacting with ladies, and they also know how to ''sweet-mouth'' girls to make them impressed.
4. When you leave your female friends with him and go off for 5 mins, you will always return to find them laughing and chatting loud together.




Characteristics Category B guys:

1. They are quiet and the indoor type.
2. They find it hard toasting ladies cos of their quiet nature and the unwilliness to trouble anyone.
3. They have only dated one or two ladies or none at all.
4. They don't seem to notice the presence of women arround them like the category A guys do.
5. When you leave your female friends with him for 5 mins, you mostly return to find a mild discussion going on between them or no one is talking at all.



Well, for me I have to say that roughly 70% of guys who cheat are those who belong to category A. And also 70% of guys who toast women are likely from category A too. This means that the chances of a lady falling for a category A guy with a high incidence of cheating is 70% high. I guess this may explain why ladies always complain that men cheat. The cheat inclined guys are the ones doing majority of the toasting. I think the ladies should look out for category B kind of guys cos I think their characteristics makes it LESS LIKELY they would cheat. But since the category B guys do not do much of the toasting, it means you ladies will have to do some work. That's my opinion. What about you?

^^^Did you read my first post all?

Obowumi, your question is unecessary cos it did not happen. Besides, the information I get from external sources always corresponds with what she says.

**seriously shaking head** If I support the guys, I incur the ladies wrath and if I support the ladies, I incur the guys wrath. Phew!!! Nairaland.

yuzedo, hmmm. am yet to see a thread here in NL without comments such as yours. It been usual.

Most ladies get lots of male advances from which they eventually makes a final choice. My baby tells me stories of the countless men who approached her before I met her and how she turned them all down including those happening presently. But I met this particular girl of mine without a single drop of sweat. The issue is, each time she narrates to me how a guy approached her and was giving a boot, my head gets swollen cos I feel glad that I am the one champion who won the stiff competition for her heart. She saw me as her chosen one among all the multitude of guys knocking on her door. I think that's great. It makes me love her the more.





What am trying to tell you guys is, you are the champion of your respective girlfriend's heart cos she chose you out from the many who forwarded their application. Ain't you happy and proud that you are the chosen one? Why not quit the cheating, abuse and disrespect you show to your girlfriend and give her the real good loving she deserves.

odunu, hmmm. What you mean by self esteem prob?

I think the eye catching topic really worked. Within few mintues of creating the topic, I never knew replies have poured in. LOL

Besides the title was made to be an eye catcher.

Haaaa!! Is this the way folks here draw Conclusions? Bringing up an issue here doesn't necessarily mean am a victim pleaseee. I only dropped my cents.

Honestly, I have to say that girls who play hard-to-get are only being VERY BIG LOSERS. Despite the fact that they do it not to appear cheap, at the end of game they still remain the vanquished cos whenever a guy conquers a hard-to-get chic, he breaks the news to his friends and brags about it, and the chic will be a laughing stock for the guys behind the scenes for being conquered after all the hardness. To make it worse, the guy will break her heart and dump her within months of being conquered. Damn!!!




My advice for the ladies is, if you actually liked the guy you saw who approached you, relate with him very well and set out a period for his "interview" that will enable you examine his non physical qualities to know where he stands on issues and decide if his heart is good enough for you. If you are satisfied with the interview, then you welcome him to your life immediately. But if you are not, then stamp a final NO once for all.

^^^NO, NO, NO. I never said that. Its a chief priority for the ladies, but they wouldn't state it.