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BonPatrick:
So to cook is now a crime I don't blame una African mentality

Shey u go soon marry...advice your wife to go and be rendering help to her ex....Oshe Oyibo mentality

BonPatrick:
She is pregnant we know do anything

Nwokem for your full life no try that rubbish again oo....
You do something,you no do....if her husband finds out....you have successfully broken a young home.
No let anoda ear hear this shit if u trully mean am.
Jee choro nwa Ada nke gi...rapu nwunye mmadu.

Officialgarri:
Only a leader with balls is fit to be leader.
Only a man who can speak the truth unwavered is fit to be a leader.

Ihedioha is only scared to speak because he doesn't want to go through the persecution Uzodinma is going through for staying on the side of truth.
As thus, Ihedioha is not fit to be leader and we are grateful the court was able to kick him out

When I read the first news...I didn't need to be told that it was a cooked up lies wey no even done before serving it to the public....
with simple Logical and political reasoning, do you believe that though ihedioha doesn't support Kanu, he will come out publicly and declare it... invoking hatred upon himself from his own people and tainting his political ambition?
if you want to live long and be prosperous in this country..FEAR THE MEDIA.

nku5:
Anybody that knows how the army, police and co operate knows that this "confession" was obtained with torture. Ten girls missing from where?

Such a lousy country. Why dem no born me for Benin Republic

Na who never be the victim of Nigerian armed forces arrest go come here de yarn rubbish....this people torture can make you lie against even God sef....
God help us

In your entire life ehn....just pray you don't fall into the hands of Nigerian Armed Forces...
There torture can break you like the Mordsit torture in the LEGEND OF THE SEEKER.
You will lie against your beloved Father and mother under this people's torture.

Na who never experience this thing go de believe everything coming from this security men.

Just pray you don't become there victim.

overdrive:
Chai 10 young girls gone like that

Swallow the story with a pinch of salt...though I don't support mnk...but the media and those behind it are not your friend...

Kobojunkie:
Wow... you didn't shy away from almost writing an epistle, this rather than provide an answer to what ought to be a simple question.

You told someone that he should focus on Jesus Christ saving him and the logical question that should follow is from what are we saved from.

You see...I was right not to answer you...
Baba..The guy should be the one asking questions on what I suggested to him...
I will be glad to give an answer.

Kobojunkie:
Ok. So my one question to you then is this, what did Jesus Christ save you from, this by His death and resurrection?

When I see a question tending to long argument...I do know it.
When I see question meant for mockery...I know it...
When I see a question coming from a curious mind...I know it.
Baba...you are already too intelligent bro....I would have loved to give you an answer with the intention to teach you...but your first quote alone tells me you are not teach able...
Then the emoji you used on this last quote tells me your intentions...

Let me run away before we use argument litter another person's tread..cause I see it coming already

Kobojunkie:
But what you offered him to hold on to is not according to the Word of God as expressed in scripture. The OP is doing the right thing by asking questions of all the doctrines he has been force-fed since childhood all of which make no sense to him even after all this time.

But here you are asking him not to ask questions insisting that He continue to hold on yet to other doctrines and traditions, also lies force-fed you by those you chose to listen and not ask questions of. Are you in a much better place than the OP in this?

Baba....the basics of the Christian Life is the death and resurrection of Christ and what these two event brought us into....this is not a man made doctrine bro...to get answers to the plenty questions in your head about God, start from the foundation which I have stated above....that's exactly what I offered him.... "Jesus died and saved you"
From here other answers will be unraveled.
I know many believers who have dabbled into spiritism and other strange things, trying to answer questions higher than them...
We grow into this things man....there are sure answers to your questions...but start with Getting your self filled with the knowledge of what Christ came to do first...the old testament will now be revealed with time.
The reason I can't stop believing God's existence is because I have experienced him physically and spiritually...no be by theory.

udoji2021:
I have been thinking about this lately and decide to share it here. Don't get me fellas, I'm a Christian and believe in God and his son Jesus Christ

BUT

It is believe that God created the world and knows what happened before, what is happening presently and what will happen later till the end of time. This brings me question on why he allowed Satan to decieve man, why was he also angry since He knew beforehand of what will happen? Then the consequent punishment, was it really justified?

The most confusing part to me now is life after death. I personally believe that there is heaven and hell right from my childhood days until one guy (Jehovah witness) told me that there is nothing like hell, he went on that even heaven is for a specific number of choose people and not for everyone, above all, he said that when one dies, your own is finished and you are not gonna go anywhere. Simply put, your body and spirit will die.

I nearly insulted him for spewing such rubbish but many years after, I'm beginning to think think twice about this issue.
Now, imagine suffering in this life for all the days of your life only to meet death (body and spirit),

My question is;

1) why not just enjoy your life even if it means doing bad things to enjoy life?
If you can't enjoy life, why not kill yourself and rest to avoid the sufferings?

2) Even if there is life after death, what if there is no suffering cos God may decide to give everyone peace after death.

3) Those that didn't hear anything about God, what is their fate?

4) which of the scriptures is to be trusted?

May God forgive my ignorance if what I just wrote is bad and punishable.

Nwanne Udo diri gi
Let me point out the first thing that you are going to experience by asking this question on Nairaland...
CONFUSION... you're going to be utterly confused in your confusion....
You can observe closely that the first two persons that responded to you are people who doesn't believe in your God...the next person is a brethren to same person who ignorantly told you UNSCRIPTURAL stories about Heaven and hell and life after death...the next person will be a genuine Christian with shallow scriptural knowledge, full of doctrines....he will bring more confusion pass de one u don confuse...

I get just one thing to tell u...
U see all this big big exoterism, God concept, demons and angel, what does God look like, who created God...bla bla bla....
I advice you to save yourself the stress and hold unto just one thing....
Which is " Jesus died and saved you"
Just hold unto it....grow into it....get a strong foundation on it....let results come out of it...it's on this foundation that you will be cleared of every other confusion.

I will talk more if u want me to.
Dalu

blues234:
Brother, I have made it a duty to pray against their plans. Besides other activities, so this their evil plans don't come true.
Kanu should chill, until Buhari leaves, then may be we may have someone that can be reasonable enough to listen to him
and may be conduct a referendum. The state of things now calls for caution and diplomacy.

My brother....I don't even know who advised These people that violence is the way out....
Investors are leaving our dearly beloved Igbo Land...
Just look at Imo State....wia Boys de chill after hustling....Nna Umuiberibe aghasala ala Owerri...chaii....Obi agbawalam.

blues234:
If they are wise, they will listen, but the supreme commander has a lot of them under his spells.
I don't know why they can't borrow a leaf from the Scots who are working on leaving British Union.
No insults, no threats to life, no bashing etc. They and their political class are working harmoniously
to achieve their referendum. Why can't the Biafran agitators learn from these guys?

Mek Dem no get sense....The idiot leading the battle is not even in Igbo Land....I have been asking questions, does this guy own a single property in Igbo Land? Talk more of Any other Part of Nigeria..

His parents are dead...this nigga got nothing to loose in Nigeria, hence the violence.
All his foot soldiers...check there profiles...does any appear like they have invested a dime in there life?

Biafra I believe in....the Leader I hate.

Phut:
Gini na zaa just??
Soso!! Soso!!

Na em oo..."Soso"
Sometimes Ana eji English asu Igbo...ighotago

puzzlegate:
Oga, as long as agitation is concerned , nobody knows you. We never see you for tv. Your talk is side talk. MNK we know Wella.

Weldone my Brother...

puzzlegate:
Go an sleep. Who knows you ?

Ichoro imam?...ka ichoro ikwu just okwu?

echibuogwu:
lol. Oya go lead them na

Nna...I commend the courage of freedom fighters....no be every body get that kind lion courage......
But if you get am at all....use am wisely.
MNK is already commanding loyalists...but he is using them wrongly...that's my observation..

CilicMarin:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/05/29/ipob-sit-home-order-flops-anambra-paralyses-activities-imo

One day Biafra will be actualized....
But not with Nnamdi Kanu as the leader....I love Biafra...I support Biafra...but I hate the man leading the movement presently....the most arrogant idiot I have ever seen in my life....
London based supreme leader....chaiii...ndigbo ndonu...
With this his approach, Biafra will continue being a dream.....ekwuchagom

Cutezt:
So I was sleeping on my own jejely this morning when a call woke me up from a number ‪09135806427‬, the man behind the line said he was calling me from my bank, Access Bank, and asked if I received a text from the bank asking me to upgrade my date of birth on the BVN, I was surprised but I said no, so he said I was asked to go update it from my bank or my account will be blocked and as it is now, my account is inactive until I reactivate it. For a moment, I thought it was true, since I did my BVN a long time ago, the staff there made an error in my year of birth, subtracting a year from it, and it affected me for sometime until I rectified it 3 years ago, so I listened carefully, the man gave me the 2 day, month, and year of births that was linked to my account (both the old and updated), asking me which was the correct one, and since I know they can't do anything with my date of birth, I told him the correct one.

He was speaking in a very professional tone with very good accents and all, he apologized for the error and I said he should not worry, now here is what I was waiting for, asking for details of my card, he said I should check my ATM card and I will see some numbers, he called the correct first and last 4 digits of my card, and asked me to provide the rest as that was my confirmation digit, that was when I smiled and knew this guy was an idiot. So I took the 2 other ATM cards of my Sterling and Wema Bank, and started mixing up the digits, I will pick 2 from sterling and 2 from Wema and called them out to him, while at the same time, retaining the numbers he got correctly already, the man was confused as I could hear from my end that he was on a PC as he typed and typed but the numbers were not correct, he asked me to call it over and over again, and I still called out the same numbers to him, so he did not understand what was going on until he got tired and switched to pidgin after spending about 18 minutes on phone, he started saying that I was trying to play with him and he was only helping out, and my account will be blocked, so I said, is a bank staff supposed to be speaking in that manner, or even pidgin at all while on official duty? He apologized and asked me to call it again, I called same numbers to him, but as I could hear his frustration from my end, I was seriously trying to holdout the laughter but couldn't, that was when I burst out and started laughing, and the idiot knew that this was no "white man, " switched back to pidgin and started insults, and trust me, I returned them immediately, pressed down, shaking together and running over.

But this leads me to the question, this guy knew very private details about my account, something that no one else knows apart from my bank, so I ask, HOW DO THESE SCAMMERS GET OUR DETAILS?

This man called my exact old house address, does that mean if I were to be assassinated and I still stayed in the old house, getting my details for the operation will be that easy?

it is a pressing question that really requires answers.

This can't just be swept under the carpet every time, questions needs to be asked.

After all the hell we went through, linking our NIN with our SIM....them no fit still trace scammers and criminals with it...

In a working country, the idiot for don de cool off in Jail by now.....

ABANGWABOI:
Achorom inye ya Nne gi..

Jesus nakpo go nwam...

ABANGWABOI:
You insult me, I insult your mother period..
Don't choose for me whom to insult..
Otu nne gi.. ewu..

My boy
Go and give your life to Jesus...He saves

ABANGWABOI:
You are just a sissy boy ..
I have dated both young and old.. bedded even your mother's mates..
And everyone that has been in this game for decades knows that the younger the better..
Your lack of common Sense is so glaring..

Is like you gain strength when you insult people's mother...i have mentioned you twice here without the word mother appearing on any...
Well, maybe that's how you gain balance when you are loose guarding...

When I called you a kid....shey u think say na insult...
Low Confidence, low self-esteem, wanting to be heard even when you make zero sense, hauling insults, etc....these have I observed in you boy...go work on yourself....you got a long way to go....
Hear the words of the elders...maka na okwu onye okenye anaghi ada n'aja

ABANGWABOI:
My Son ?? I am definitely older than the first born of your mother..
You are really bereft of knowledge or common sense, success or no success in marriage has nothing to do with other life endeavors.. I can go on to list succeeful people in other spheres of life that never succeeded in marriage both male and female..
You said older women are better?? This is definitely the mentality of a sissy, weakling and one without confidence to go for the best but rather choose to settle for less, over used women..
Go and tell Ned Nwoko (Richman) or the average poor Musa from the north that are marrying fresh nubile women and keeping them in check this..
Summary, when you got zero balls, women would look down on you, treat you with scorn and disdain, doesn't matter if she/they are your wive(s)..

All this small small children insulting there elders on a faceless forum...
May you not insult your helpers in life IJN...

My son...I have dated both young and old...
Have you tried dating older ladies or your confidence no reach that level...oya try it and report to Papa...anom here eche gi...

Point of correction....I never equated success in Marriage with success in Life endeavours....But you can still have both...100% possible...Na only sense you need to achieve that...and that sense now..u no come get am

AmadiAba:
Police Paraded My Uncle Who Works in Oil Firm as Unknown Gunman - Lady Cries Out | #IgbereTV

"My beloved uncle is innocent. He came back yesterday from Bonny ISLAND with his family because of his father inlaw burial that will hold on Friday 28th May 2021. He is responsible and works in an Oil Company. He came to owerri early hours of today to buy some things and was arrested and paraded as unknown gunman." - Queen Elias

https://igberetvnews.com/1391167/police-paraded-uncle-works-oil-firm-unknown-gunman-lady-cries-photos/

Not long after the attack, I saw the news of NPF parading the unknown gun men....hmmm...men that are unknown are being paraded few hours after the attack...
Naso the UGM daft reach...say Dem attack finish, come go there house go sleep...

NPF know this and know peace...some of your approaches to crime have created more enemies than reducing them...if this news is true....expect the emergence of more wicked fellows..
no body enjoys oppression.

imagrg:
I had same challenge when I married my now late wife (she died last month). It's not easy getting her to breakup a relationship that was established on long-term, but I did.
First, I let her understand how such attachment could breakup our marriage; next, I got her impregnated fast...at least, that kept her busy with herself and somewhat made the bestie see the reality of her change in status. Then gradually, her attachment to the bestie waned with time and she became more and more attached to me.
Here are some tips for you:
*Please, remember to jerk her always and make sure you make her 'come' any time you do that.
*Give her much attention and let her know you care. And please do that passionately. I did that for 25 years and won my wife's heart for close to 24 years before she passed away recently. Our children called us, 'Romeo and Juliet'.
*Try as much as possible to take her out on picnics often.
*Buy her gifts, like panties, 'legins', anything you think would catch her fancy.
*You can have a quarrel with her but don't EVER beat her up, no matter how provoked you may be. Just put on a shirt and walk out and when you come back in the evening make sure you come home with 'suya' or any other mouth-watering snacks for her. If she refuses to eat it, please, pet her and apologise to her even if she's the one who wronged you. Feed her!
*Remember, your wife is your bestie, close confidant, your new mother (Yes, I called mine, Mummy and she called me Daddy), and she is your FIRST CHILD! Pamper her the much you can and she will pass same love to the children who in turn will show you both, love and care!
*Though you have the right to be jealous, but don't take it to the extreme please.
Adopt these approach, and have a good and long-lasting married life, boy!
By the way, how old are you?

I wish you and your new wife a Happy Married Life.

I love this... Maturity at play here...
Few men has the patience to handle a woman...our present day men knows only the forceful way...Submit or I leave the marriage..
They forgot that the relationship was in existence before the marriage happened...just wisdom with patience is needed to handle such a young home.

ABANGWABOI:
The guy you quoted is a big fool..
Look at the nonsense he listed that a man should do or pass thru so as to have a good marriage.. wife wey man use money marry and still dey pay her bills..
Men of this generation are mostly Idiotic..
If she can't Submit, do not Commit.. na my watchword be that .

My Son....you see why Most of you don't succeed in any thing?
You don't handle everything with a strong hand....the girl is too young to understand life inside Marriage, that's why most times wifing older ladies reduces stress in marriage,cos they tend to understand more...

The Marriage has happened already, your patience and diplomacy in handling issues of life is required here...
wisdom is profitable to direct.

AishaYesufu:
do you rather marry a 30 year old that have been serially ravaged by several dickheads? You don't know that a woman's prime is under 25? You want someone whose juice has already been sucked?

[s][/s] Another simp advice...

Oh thou foolish Man...who wired your mind this way? Wicked Generation with whole lot of sexual fantasies....mingle with men of pure intentions, you will effortlessly find amongst you virgins at 30. ....maybe your upbringing wasn't so palatable...or you have always been in the association of foolish men...

Young Man you lack understanding of what life is...thats the reason you will cancel the words of an elder...its not your fault dear....take the advice of an elder with wealth of experience....inugo?
Don't let the availability of data and your free access to Nairaland forum decieve you into thinking that everyone here is your mate....

We speak by experience not by theories and foolish imagination..
Well,I see you are still a young chap...I forgive you Son

Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.

The main reason I will never advice any guy to marry under25, them no de quick get sense.... everything be like normal life to them..she can't even advice herself to cut off some relationship both male and female.......until she enter trouble em eye no go clear...

Brother you may try engaging a female counsellor...say a Married young Lady...she must have an elderly female individual she respects....craftly engage such person, so that she can softly counsell your woman without her knowing you contracted the counsellor....jus use diplomacy in this matter...your marriage is still young for plenty stories...wish you well brother

osothermal:
Jos too make sense abeg . Whether you like it or not. Have money or not. You must eat fresh fruits

nwanne talk am again....I never regretted returning to J Town....every where soft...
go anoda state go make money, come Bak to Jos and relax and enjoy the Moni peacefully...

chival:
How is Jos North these days? I used to work around Masallacin Juma'a back then.

Jos calm wela....big boys jus de buy over old houses and be erecting wicked plazas every wia...

Akwamkpuruamu:
Very big myth! A lazy man's consolation price. Ask yourself, men like Tony Elumelu, Dangote, Otedola, Innoson etc, dem no get village people Why are they still progressing

people rush to make references to succesful men in topics like this...you don't know the principles these men based there life on...
you don't know how the relate and interact with there environment....

osothermal:
Jos is cool and cost of living is very okay. I don't know anywhere else a short drop is still #20

my brotherrrr!!!....from standard junction to Hill station Junction #30....
with this kyn fuel scarcity...abeg Jos sweet..


omo Ibo representing Jos North