₦airaland Forum

DeRay98:
You need to be familiar with Arabs, Koreans, Japanese, Indians then you'll know those cultures withstood the European brainwash and cultural dilution that Africans and particularly Nigerians fell for.

i agree with you on this. but i think the hausas have a touch of that too. they are strong when it comes to conservatism. the igbos are the worst hit according to bbc. yorubas look to me like the next on line

biacan:
It's true ooooo but most girls don't want to lower their ego and learn how to cook because they think it's making them look like a maid in their husbands house..........Ehmmm future hubby no need to go for a maid I can pound fufu well........ Just hope it's enough men are never satisfy

i hope thats not you on the dp

slightlyMad:
this man just put himself up as a scape goat, mark my words, he is going to jail.

i tell you. especially as his face is in the open like this so. he will produce all those soldiers. they will know far.

StylesX:
Typical of all arachnids lalasticlala

wow. looks like my ex after we broke up

rescued indeed

Evablizin:
Chai.


You went to steal and devil added jara by making you hide inside their bedroom and watch them make love. After the raggea play the blues,and the blues has to do with you chilling your legs in prison for 4years.

the goat did not even run out suddenly when they were at it lool. that would have startled them they wont catch him

stupidity:
i just tire for some people reasoning. I on my own part, I do my dishes myself. I don’t wait for my partner to do it. I don’t even expect her to do my dishes and laundry’s. But if she feels or say she’s not doing anything at my house because we ain’t married yet, tell me why I will take her serious? Later they all be complaining no husband material out there, while they have zero wife materials to show.

All these isn’t about getting married to her at the end. It’s about showing what you can do, what you can offer before and after marriage, showing your home training.

you said it all. i dont expect anyone to humble herself for me. i am nobody. so if she does it, i will have to prove to her that i am more humble than her. i will carry her matters on my head like office work. i will travel distances and discomfort myself to fix her problems. i will not hesitate in anything she demands and forgive her for her shortcomings. if i am wealthy, i will buy her a nice car. i dont mind her owning a benz while i use honda EOD till i have money to buy again. she becomes my source of happiness. life is a two way coin.

but on the other way round, if she is too proud to do any thing like that, then fine! we will still be friends but she owes me nothing and i owe her nothing. everything that happens between us will be done following strict rules, agreements and due processes. if she wants to borrow money for instance from me, she will bringba collateral and we go to police station to sign.

Gangster1ms:
Wonderful! There are girls out there that deserve good things but these slay queens don go cause wahala for them. It's hard to trust girls nowadays especially the way they exhibit their attitude on social media. Make baba God lead us to the right ones.. cos I'm ready to die and give all to see that one happy. E no easy and that's why these little things like dish washing matters

exactly mehn. what is in washing dishes? if i visit my friend friends mom and she serves me food, after eating, i go to the kitchen and wash my own and her own. if i visit my elder brother or sister and they have no maid at home, after eating, i wash the dishes. what does it say about me? does it make me inferior? its from humility we get the best out of life. i cannever marry a girl who feels too big to do chores. but yet, if she offers to do it, i will join her whenever necessary and i will carry all her matters on my head.

stupidity:
but the girl must be expecting Porsche from him.


All those below me bashing the OP for taking the girlfriend to be slave, does washing dish for someone you love and dating automatically make you a slave and maid? We have lots of ladies out there looking for men with husband materials. If you can’t show your side of wifery, how do you expect to meet a man with husband material?

Secondly, I tire for the way people reason, this is why men feel they own their wife, some of yall are saying she’s only his girlfriend and not her maid or slave, so when he decides to pay her dowry and marry her, only then we can now call her his slave and maid. By then na to carry all my friends dirty clothes give her to wash. Nonsense.

my brother just leave them. life is a two way coin. i gave my corper neighbour my kitchen key to take water anytime she likes because the kitchen is seperate from the main house, i came back home to find she fetched my water and washed my plates. i felt so much obligated to her. i asked her what she wanted to do after service, she said fish farming. i permitted her to practice it on my land for free. if i even have money, i will dig the holes, cement it, do borehole and even help her buy the fingerlings for a start. hope i lay my hands on good cash before she is through. thats how life works.

CioAngels:
Seriously, you had better stop her now or you call off the relationship now because she might not change. Your parents are dear to you.

i know this. initially it came to me like a joke. but i started studying it, anytime she is frying meat and i enter the kitchen to pick one, her first reaction is the knife, we just laugh about it. but one day i showed her a story of a lady who stabbed her man. then i told her she plays with knife too frequently for my comfort. she went into a looong bout of sadness. she became depressed for days that i had to start petting her. because it almost appeared like i was insinuating that she could probably be a murderer one day. it has been a matter of concern to me. i like everything about her except that aspect. she was a chronic introvert so she really doesnt know herself. i am the first person she ever opened up to all her life. i practically changed her to someone who can atleast relate with others. we know we cannot get married because of our religion and tribe. but if i could tell her future husband anything, id say be careful

simply pour smelling water on the motor and let him meet you in court

nairavsdollars:
Some musicians like Olamide and Davido should be arrested for promoting these illicit drugs

how

hazan041:
Just hold her tight and make sure she rot in prison.....


The rate at which husbands get killed by dhr wives makes me think twice of marriage

same here.
this my gf that is always using knife to play with me so!

yarimo:
The thunder that will fire ATIKU'S mouth just left GAMBIA

dont worry we are tracking its movement, its buying gas as i type this

Perspectives:
Damn, you are on the wrong lane.
The obvious:
1. You are in love with her 2. She is a loosed girl 3. She has too many guys in her life 4. You are the cool and emotional type 5. You desperately want her to yourself.
What will happen if you don't do something
1. She will mess up your head 2. You will loose your joy 3. She will keep apologizing 4. She will never change 5. You will eventually wish you never met her
What you should do
1. Man up and dump her straight 2. Don't listen to her apology 3. Don't let her use your family and friends to manipulate you 4. Stay away from relationships for now 5. Learn emotional intelligence

What you should not do come online to ask silly questions ever again!

Fweshspice:
OMG!!! Look at this buffalo

to me shes just insulting davido. she no pass through secondary school? she no know watin be class?

tayebest:
Shoe gum!

Some of them drop it on hand and sniff it till dry. Or sniff from inside the bottle!

na wa ohh. that thing that someone cannot even smell for one second! drug abuse is rampant in the north diee.

tayebest:
chai, the day I saw someone high on gum and petrol, I just weak for ground!

i have been hearing this thing. what type of gum really... like pvc gum or shoe gum

juanjo2:
people now thank God for having a child outta wedlock... issorite

was he ?

MarieSucre:
My brother it dies not matter whether she had one million options, what is wrong is wrong simple!
Is he the first guy to host a girl in his house? Even me sef I don host both male and female at my place, did you hear my story on nairaland.

The origin of this story is what he tried to do in the name of help. Many of us have hosted without a hitch. What is wrong is wrong. Don't be justifying rubbish. Peace.

people dont fall the sky okay? we actually grow up with life experiences. i started monitoring and observing cognitive behaviours in animals as a kid. the brain is such a marvelous material that will always stupefy mortal minds. we have the ability to reason beyond our imagination.

you dont call a stranger to say you are stranded in abuja before you call a morr familiar person. who did she later go to meet in karu? how can you go and meet a guy you dont actually know at night? what if he was a ritualist? you hosted people, that seyi guy may also tell you he has hosted people from his church without the sex move. how do we know content of their previous chats anyway? how clean did she appear to him? no lewd chats? he wasn't an option at all. its plain stupidity! I'm not justifying the actions of seyi in anyway, but I'm saying in 2018, people should not be so stupid so we can atleast reduce the occurrences of bad news

MarieSucre:
The flight might have been paid for by someone else. Don't jump to assumptions.

madam abeg leave that thing e
people hold you in the same esteem as you place yourself. who paid her flight? she doesnt have 5k anywhere then the best thing is not to go by flight!
whoever paid her flight will know the class of person he is paying a flight for. you can pay 30k to go somewhere when you dont even have 6k precautionary money incase of unforseen contingencies. then she couldnt wait at the airport and plan properly even if it means calling a family member or close friend for a loan to lodge in a cheap hotel. she had it all planned from the start. she weighed her options and decided to take the risk.

ThankYouGod:
Give accolades to the originator of this media buzz! Charles Okocha. This guy started it before Buhari called us lazy.

i tire oh. i watched accolades before buhari statement

Ejadike:
Omo, this accolade thing has gone viral... These coys deserves some Accolades if you ask me.

lol. hope that dude is making money out of it oh

scribble:
Kanye still the GOAT

akuiya kena gaskiya.

sandrahnaub:
The one a woman gave her husband coconut water to drink and the coconut to eat, blessed from the pastor....and he could later perform because his 'junior' was now able to rise....

you are very pretty and i like you. can we be platonic friends. nothing involved.

MistaB:
Why am I having the feeling that this story is a cooked one. There is no time of the day you cant find taxi going to Nyanya at the airport or any part of Abuja. Besides if u can get a cab to wuse where you can easily book a room for as low as 5k, i dont think that is a big deal considering the situation you are in, dont forget she willingly paid the over priced cab that took her to Nyanya after the incident. The fact that what Seyi did was wrong, I think she could have easily avoided all this, but instead choose to come online to dent guys name.

exactly. someone who arrived by flight did not have even 5k to pass one night in a hotel.

close my eyes

the girl is a bitch. read more of the chat

kimbraa:
The guy later slept with her. He needed to press on harder.

Question. "Are you on your free period?"

Ans. "Yes, why these questions?"

Question. "When are you closing?"

She. "By 6" all these are coming from someone that isn't interested? She even went on to say she's not had sex for long.

where you see all this one oh?

donstan18:
You may have a point about his honesty, but I think that's an insult to the lady if she's a decent woman.

She didn't on her own ask for a phone, he asked her to make a wish, she did without asking for a material thing, then he lured her to make a materialistic wish, which she did and it resulted to asking of sex. That's a big insult to her.

He disrespected her, he won't do that to a lady he respects, he indirectly made her look like a LovePeddler and some decent ladies won't tolerate that but to insult you. But the lady tolerated it and maturely declined. She's a rare gem, she's not just morally decent, but also decent in character by smiling it off and patiently chatting with him innocently like nothing happened.

I pray he apologizes to her later, if possible get her a birthday gift unconditionally.

I applaud her on that, her type is rare.

a rare gem? to me i think the gift was not big enough thats all. maybe a land or a car.

Cutehector:
She said phone for how much that she would have sex with him...

That means if the phone were to be an A list phone, she would reconsider...

or car or land as she said. she is still a prostitute anyway, just that she is not ashawo kobo kobo. her own is prostitute

Troubledmind:
This colleague of mine is not my boss, we're on same level, but since she reports directly to my boss? She's always concocting stories in her favor which is putting me in the line of fire, she has gradually given herself the title mouthpiece of the boss, I'm enjoying the job but she makes sure I'm always frustrated and thinking of quitting because of her, i don't want to report her, who knows, my boss might take her side and I'd be doomed

wait lemme guess!
she is single and mature. yes!!! exactly my experience in my office. the witch just wouldnt stop frowning her face for me. she backbites me alot. i deliberately answered a dummy phone call some weeks ago pretending to be consoling someone and reminding the person that we are from edo state. i said many things like " abeg just leave am first till time reach, i go personally carry him matter go benin. i no go spend pass 40naira sef, ordinary bicycle go jam am e no go survive am. no worry"
since that day she has been greeting me first in the morning and asking how my night was.

just pretend to be diabolic. even your boss will respect you. bring boiled eggs and alligator pepper with fowl feet to eat as break lunch.