₦airaland Forum

Otumokpo. Strong one from baba kunle.

delectablegyal:
will you contest for mr nairaland again? you are handsome.

you want to do him abi?

otijah:
Most of these prophecies are predictable imagine
Who doesn't kno that dollar will increase
Who doesn't know that someone from nollywood will die
Who doesn't know that Buhari is sick
Who doesn't know that MMM is in deep shit
Who doesn't know that banks Reduce staff Every year
Who doesn't know that vice president has a short term contract with that his position
Who doesn't know that Boko Haram have not been fully defeated
Doctors have been embarking on strikes for over 5yrs
Ekiti killings is nothing new, Infact afonjas are the highest ritualists and is not new to anyone.

So what the f*ck is this guy saying

a bill needs to be passed to bring decorum to this so called profession. Tb joshua went away scot free after saying God told him a woman won. He carefully studied the tides and just made a rational and calculated guess. He was just not lucky the Russians had something to bring to the table.

Does the man not have a wife that would have coordinated this girl.

Teensway:
I don serve my ban finish, bless dat mod wey ban me in satan's name. Amen.

brother how long be your ban? E get why i ask. And who be the people wen dey ban. I fit reach them?

Pangea:
May God protect him
Boys are not smiling o

Imagine, over 50 billion dollars jogging on Lagos street without escort?

i teellllll you...... Benin boys go port go lag.

Francon:
Ouch.. I'm a lady. He can't be the fourth. He was reported as the 7th recently.

you're a lady? But..

But.. How come it your dp says you're a penguin?

tafabaloo:
Ok but no try am for Benin city ooooo.


Boys are not smiling.

as in.... The way wen dem go take kidnap am sef.... Nigeria go enter world news again. Na bini boy first enter plane fly go lagos nobody know.

Seun:
He looks like an ordinary human being, which shows that looks can be deceptive.

he's a simple guy. Simple polo.

no hope! pray against robbers.

Beckybeky:
I just wanna know. Does a sacked worker have a right to be paid for that month or they forfeit it?

ya..
get paid off.
not complete in some cases.

dont drink. give up alcohol.

sexygirl96:
open this link and know more sexy girls http://skylnk.co/jgvgow

will I get anyone to ride me? you know what I mean yeah?

EggovinMma:
Seriously, the best to do is to he an "Open book".I hate pretence, that's why I'm very open and outspoken. It gives me enough time to read people's character to see them really for who they are.


Sometimes it's really sexy to allow someone change some aspect of you in a loving way .Not scared one bit of discussing my past, after all I no kill person.

what does a guy really have to hide anyway? its more of a girls thing

Omotayor123:
All I see is coconut and kolanut.... Op maybe they are trying to check if you are Nut!

hahahahaha....... girls still dey arrow?

kstadaura:
Hello guys, morning, how was your night? I would like to start with merry xmas to our Christian brothers and sisters.

I have been asking myself this question, whenever i see a marriage that lasted for more than 10 or 15 years, if you look at the husband and the wife you will se that the wife always looks older, do you have any ideas why?

marry girls that are 10years your junior

Nothing like magun. its called peniss captivus in medical parlance.

CaroLyner:
i'v seen a few "big boys" actually kneel.

those ones are paper tigers. lily-livered, namby-pamby, mummy- spoiled, chicken- hearted cry babies with a masculine " front thing" unfortunately. real niggaz dont beg nobody except where Floyd may weather type of money is involved.

cloud 9.

breadandtea:
Hello everyone, this issue has been bothering me for a while now, so I decided to speak up here because I know I would get good 'advises' from people here.

I come from a family of 3 girls (our only brother died when he was less than one), I'm the Eldest (22), the next is 19 and the last is 16. We stay with our parents in Lagos.
I was very close with my immediate younger sister, I still remember many fun times we had together. But our relationship started drifting apart during our secondary school period, we started talking less. I remember I reacted harshly towards her when she used a little of my N100 I was storing for midnight call and things even got worse from that moment.
She joined me in UNIPORT, and we were staying together off-campus. Some times, we barely say more than 50 words to each other in a day, she prefers to gist with our neighbors.

Whenever I see other siblings in my compound, I know something is not just right! We don't even gist normal girly stuffs like boyfriends, makeup, dresses & co, and it really bothers me. We barely even quarrel, I think for the past 3-4 years, we've only quarreled 2 or 3 times.
Though we are both close to our youngest sister.

So please advise me on what to do. Thanks.

there is something called middle child syndrome effect in psychology
do a little google research on it and see how It relates to your sister. if she has mcse, she sees life as though she always has to live under your shadows. she feels sandwiched between two people of important personalities that shes trying to carve a niche out and make her own unique self without being exactly like you necessarily. it is a stage in life depending on awareness and parenthood. you just dont give up, in time; she will realise you are her friend. give her some leadership position and try not to appear as always perfect and correct by virtue of your birth position. msce happens only when the middle child is of the same gender with her seniors and juniors. and when the siblings are more than 3, then either one, more, or none will exhibit those traits depending on parenting skills and general circumstances. I can judge that your family is an average one. it rarely happens in very rich or very poor families where business and wealth creation foasters unity and bond in the former, and unity is a weapon against a common enemy with competition directed outside in the later.

Clinton594:
I just logged in to comment on your post!
First of all, I feel your grief.... I am a first born too and I understand.
Just as If a family is to be enjoyable- it must first start from the parents then it'll go down to the kids so is it your obligation to spice up the relationship between you and your siblings.
Too bad you are not guys, we have our own unique way of digging things up like playing computer games and stuffs like that.
You can start by taking them out on a Sunday, just spend a little., it'll lighten up the atmosphere for you to converse with her. Include the youngest sibling so it doesn't look as is you're buying her off.
Just have a good time together beforebefore engaging her in such discussions, it'll help

AND REMEMBER, YOU MUST (AND I REPEAT! , YOU MUST) KNOW WHAT'S UP WITH YOUR SISTER IF YOU CARE ABOUT HEY AND DON'T WANT HER TO STAY. IT'S YOUR OBLIGATION AS LONG AS YOU ALL ARE STILL UNDER ONE ROOF

not all guys get along.

elantraceey:
That's life for you but still we should be prepared for anything. My most concern is the children. I never want to train children in a broken home or one with so much instability and unpreparedness. I grew up in the later and it was solely by God's grace I didnt turn out wayward but now my siblings are living way better.

I understand you. my home wasnt perfect. but im glad my hard experiences shaped me. I see ajebutter guys who appear to me as women and I thank God im not like them. nevertheless it's better to train kids when you are younger and fitter than otherwise.

akinloluwao:
Instead of people to see how they can help, na picture dem go dey snap. Naija I hail oooo

I trust obalende. last year a man got knocked down and bled to death about 9 hours later. nobody moved. they only removed him from the centre of the road to a corner so they can pass.

Danny2701:
Hello everyone am a final year student of an higher institution in Nigeria, On the day am defending my project i got a letter from my HOD that i have been expelled from the school for using fake credentials, i was bothered and went home straight to noticed the fake credentials i used, to my surprise i noticed that the WAEC result I submitted has an error, a number was mistaken, 4instead of 3.
That is where it all started, i was told to write a letter of appeal for re verification in which i did severally but no response, i went further to see my school registrar and explain the looks of things to him, i begged him to help me and he agreed. He called the man in charge and he said i was rude to the team that verified my result (team that i have never set my eyes on) he agreed with the registrar to solve the issue and the registrar told me i can go everything is going to be alright. After waiting for weeks no response i proceed to the registrar again to know what is wrong and He start with stories.
The main reason why i want to sue my school is this.
The man that printed my waec o level result for me has a shop and operates in side the school environment. It actually happens the of clearance when the man that supposed to clear me told me i can not submit my secondary school notification of result, that i need to bring an online print out. Due to the fact that am working and i need to go back to that work I dropped my notification of result slip with the man to help me ready my result so i can come for my clearance the next day, this guy went ahead to edit a template to print my result in which all the grades are correct but instead of 39 he mistaken it for 49 i never noticed this until i got the letter.
The guy that printed this result later flee due to the fact that he swindle some students and the school never find him till date or do anything about it.

That is where am going.
1. Why will the school approve a shop for someone without the person having a reliable source or referee that can find this guy.
2. Why won't the school reinstate me even when i was ask to produce my waec original in which i did and they crossed check to see that am not lying.
3. Why will they wait till i finish my academics before issuing out a letter of expulsion to me after i paid all my necessary dues. (That fraudulent)

Please i want you guys to advise me on this. Thank you

your grammar lol. .

elantraceey:
Lol, Of course he won't but you know that scenario can't just happen like that, who suffers most during the rough beginnings isn't it the children?

like I said; that is just one of the many scenarios life can offer. in the end, we all need faith In God. what if he's destined to impregnate his wife after 10years? his first child will be born when hes 53?

elantraceey:
I won't call it irresponsibility,I'll say some just want gain stability first before venturing into the institution called marriage, its a greater embarrassment when you get married early and you're unable to provide adequately for your family financially and otherwise.

we cannot avoid the fact that life takes us through the chequered board of time in this world. some early starters had rough beginning and balanced out later. some people who actually love kids and wish to have their own, but are waiting till theyve acquired "enough" only end up wishing they had defined the concept of "enough" earlier. a man could get married at 42 after labouring 15 years to be balanced. then he builds a supermarket, few months after marriage, it gets gutted by fire, will he now divorce?

Specialbaby:
hehehe being special is from within.

oya oya oya oya! make una stop! come dey go house.

Amhappy:
There are people who focus so much on career or set unrealist targets for a man they'll like to marry,yet they know that they will not be fulfilled without getting married. If one doesn't want to marry or care less about marriage that's another issue altogether. You are not a lady and may not know that there is a time in a girl's life that she get a lot of marriage proposals and that is usually a good time to choose.

wise words. does it mean all single and searching ladies in their late 30s are responsible for their predicament? a lady may have dated 3 guys beginning from when she was 21. first guy for 5 years, he disappointed, second for 8 years. he cheated. and third for 4 years, he boasts, insults, and lacks manners generally. she does not love him. where lies her fault?

deeptesting:
*Smiles** It is in your head not all ladies are after riches or wealth.. The fact depends on where you are beaming your search light, you see the irony of it is if you meet an independent woman or one who does not place value on riches you may call her a Feminist.. Those who place values on riches are low lifers and not women of virtue..

Be bold to approach independent girls.

obviously sir, you are a wise man. the decision has been a tough one for me. I do not crave entirely independent women because I fear my position as the head and General Officers Commanding in my home will be jeopardised. and yet do I run from demanding ladies who I feel will never appreciate the concept of sacrifice and struggle and may feel they are entitled to kindly gestures just by virtue of been women.

jamela:
Now this point is just funny, the above was possible during the time of Mary Selessor. If you leave a 21st century British woman in your village, she would return to Britain as fast as she came and file a law suit to divorce you in seconds.

Btw, your point was well taught out, your example just caught my attention

hahahaha trust me; love exists. dont judge by the people in your environment. a British woman in love will stay; and fetch water from the stream with a pot on her head, pluck mangoes, roast yam and snails and even scrap the last rice from the pot. and if she ever returns to Britain, she will be seen as a bush woman despite been white. environment dictates our activities more than we give credit to.

deeptesting:
You cannot factor it to just one reason, people do same thing for different reasons especially in marriage.. However, from my point of view people go into marriage for wrong reasons in this part of the world as a result of our cultural belief in marriage that once a man or a woman is of age the next expectation is to get married and start raising their children. Hence, majority marry because they are of age, have a job, have a roof over their head, A is married so why won`t B etc and that is why we have so many unstable homes and people who are married but lonely or not happy and does quadruplet the rate of cheating and broken homes.

Of course you know it is rare to find an African Man not married at 50. Those who marry late are an exception who do not follow the dogma or general convention.

when you acquire good properties, especially lands and a good business, you might just want to will it to someone after your demise. except you dont mind a child born out of wedlock, marriage comes to mind.
I really dream of being a father close to his kids, making a happy home, grooming sons and daughters who I will be proud of; and whose intellect will stupefy mortal minds. but the trouble here is; most ladies seek for comfort and security in marriage, dreaming of riches and fleeing any prospect of being paired up with a struggling man. I realise; the more progress I make the less attracted I get to ladies especially because they were absent at the beginning.