Amhappy:
Good luck bro. For those who desire to get married,pray to God for a suitable partner and hold on to the right person when he/she comes along. The truth remains that at as age increases,it is more tough for ladies,so don't wait for so long. The pressure you will put on yourself alone is huge not to talk of the one from ur family and friends. A friend of mine just got duped in the name of love. A beautiful lady that many men were dying for some years back. She was a good preacher against desperation and I still couldn't believe it caught her.

by your statement "dont wait for so long" you mean what exactly? what does a woman really do to get married? toast? or agree to her toasters whether or not they intend to settle down? 90% men out there just want to get down with you if they're not wealthy enough to head a family. and then the wealthy and successful ones have been taken. so?

FisifunKododada:
Marriage is NOT mandatory. I repeat marriage is NOT mandatory. Its a cultural expectation. Like believing in God or going to church or mosque. There is nothing intrinsically NEEDFUL about it. And if you enter marriage out of desperation, you will be more likely to end up with one of these very numerous one-chance marriages that will cut your lifespan by half. Be a man. Think for yourself and stop worrying too much about people's and cultural expectations. If you die now, none of these people disturbing your life will agree to join you 6 feet under. Wise up bro.

theres a saying that a man cannever be too different from his environment for too long. if you leave a British woman in the village for some time, she will learn how to sweep with broom, wash clothes with hands and soap, and cook with firewood. now my point is this; if your social environment demands that you are married at a particular stage in your life, it will, of necessity, impose a psychological stress on you amd either force you to go out of your way to comply, migrate, or live without confidence and certainty

deeptesting:
Marriage does not cure loneliness, if that is the only reason for getting married then take a chill Pepsi big bottle and relax because many are married and still lonely.. Secondly, what people say or think about you at 37 should not be your business, neither should it force you to get married... Bro i simply want you marry because you understand the purpose of the contract called marriage.. "Solitude is a gift".

bro, what are the factors that make mr A get married at 25 and mr B at 50? please dont say money because not all married people are rich. and some people get rich while married.

elantraceey:
No matter how long the wait,marrying the right person will be worth it,no rush or anxiety about it.According to dygeasy,its not about getting married but staying married .

the truth remains that there's an age where singlehood becomes an embarrassment. I mean picture a 40year old man still rolling with chicks when his mates have 15 years old daughters. it argues for irresponsibility on his part.

Demmocrats:
Blacks with there stupid mentality.

Have you seen Ortega, Buffet, Richard, Zuckerberg, Brian etc do such nonsense, his just 400 million dollar rich while those i called worths billions of dollars with massive companies to there name.

very true. 50cent loads his freezer with dollars.

naughtynaughty:
and wich1 is mr long mouth driving?

shut that rotten mouth up you local love peddler. you are waiting for a man to come and pick you up grom the gutter and still treat you like a queen. work hard and stop judging men by the cars they approach you with before you will end up a sacrifice for ritual killers. big foool.

missyadorable:


I tire oh!

Last week,I dropped my car @ the car wash and rushed to the salon.On my way back,I boarded a cab, sat behind with this guy,he started wooing me! I was flowing along(make I no dey rude na)...I alighted @ the car wash,he also did and followed me, the dude who washed my car said"Aunty,i don finish am tey tey"..i said "thanks" and gave him his money...I turned to look @ my toaster,his face was all frowns..Before I could say anything,he said "Sorry o" and walked away! Hahahahaha!!

say the truth and let the devil be ashamed ohhhh.....

naughtynaughty:
Am insyd keke..d person wooing me too is insyd keke? Ha! Aw goan wash my head. If am insyd keke..d oda person shld own a bike or car alrdy nah. Shuuuu!

see them! no be ur mates dey drive 4matic for lekki?

knightsTempler:
Lol
Otinkpu

abi okponu! na dah one strong pass

horexy:
Very true and it's so annoying
'Am' is an auxilliary verb...it can't start a sentence while 'I'm' is the shorter form for or an abbreviation of 'I am'.
I wonder why most pple throw the 'I' away.
For example: 'I am eating' shouldn't be 'am eating' cos it wouldn't make sense if u shorten 'she is eating' to 'is eating'

am so proud of you.

adasexie:
it's normal guys are scared of pretty girls.....if I told you when I had my first official b.f you won't believe..tell her not to get all worked up....they'll eventually come around ...Desperation would only earn her a heartbreak.

official lol. which one is unofficial?

slimzypink:
I have a 23yr old best friend that has never been asked out. Like no guy has ever approached her, and she's so fine. Sigh, I don't even understand anymore

wait oh. forget ur friend first. is that you @ dp?

olaric:
Our men are gradually turning to something else. Help a woman when it comes to baby diaper is understandable; placing the baby on your back with a wrapper round your waist with the baby in between is what I find strange.

right!

GspotAngela:
No matter how you disdain Shia Islam, no matter how you detest Sheikh Ibrahim Zakzaky, his programme & activities in the 30+ years has been peaceful

im bothered by your dp.

Macelliot:

they are minority muslim..

Nigeria muslims are 95% sunni.. 5% shiite/shia..
Just like Catholic and JW..

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Sunni have been killing and bombing Shiite/shia minority muslims in Iraq, Iran, Pakistan, Afganistan, Arabia and Yemen e.t.c..

98% of terrorist are Sunni Muslims..

please who are shiites and who are sunnis? how do they identify themselves?

kilode100:
He is angry?? I don't understand! You too dull biko!!

The moment he walked in was when you should have put your fingers soaked with pussy cum into his mouth..

If na me eh... I for....

mind you: the secx wid wife is different from secx with an outsider.

Vickygirk:
pple's comment sha, ESP ecially those blaming the woman for infertility problem. what if the man is actually infertile and the Hetty of a woman is taking advantage of their situation. the first thinf first is for the woman to do fertility test to rule out the possibility of the fault been hers. then wait for the lady in question to give birth and the conduct paternal test for the baby. this is actually ascertain the husband is the owner. for the meantime stay low and be strong, u will pull through this challenge

forget that test. the baby is definitely the man's own.

sapiosexual1:
Op lemme give you a professional advice, I really feel for your plight with soo much empathy. I don't know what tribe you come from but in this matter you must not carry last (even if you're not a warri woman)
First thing first, it's obvious that the infertility problem is from you. I can't dialogue you on what your past has been like to know if this is a primary or secondary infertility, let's leave that for now.
Second thing, visit a well recognized hospital, preferably a federal government hosp, lay your infertility problem to the gynecologist you meet there, they would carry out fertility hormone profile test on you to know where exactly the problem is coming from.
Having known that, you're half way to solving your problem, decide on a solution with the doc (I don't know how old you are but if your hormonal profile is encouraging, you could be enrolled in an IVF programm (assisted conception). They would discuss the available options to you, make a choice. You could carry your baby I in 9months too.
PS : I can't name private hospitals that run the programm here for obvious reasons (it's against the ethics of our profession), if the teaching hospital doesn't run the programm, they could easily refer you. Lastly, it's quite costly, as high as 900k or more depending on the one you chose.

baba e don late oooooooohhhh. watin again?

Chommieblaq:

Siddon where? Do you know the kind of emotional trauma she will be passing through, the husband should have agreed with her and move, moving won't stop him from taking responsibilities of his child, buh so long he refuse to move n they keep staying in that same compound with that hetty, blve the problem has just started.




Feel ya pain sis, buh ur work ma no dey help matter, imagine a married woman going to work very early n probably coming back so late. D deed is done and can't be corrected by fighting, advise ur ppl not to fight with the woman.
Look for someone he listens to, involve his parent, tell em that u ain't stopping him from taking his responsibility, the child is his no problem, u just wanna save your home and staying in that same compound will only destroy it the more. And finally make out tym for your home, give ur home n husband attention.

Wish u the best and pray things work out fyn.

lets face it.. the marriage is finished.

Abbykem:
We are not asking for much nah! Girls don't want much from you except your time, attention, space, food, shirts, fun, bed covers, dick, passwords, credit cards, life nd soul? Is that too much

did you say dickk? I'll tell for you.

PussyMechanic:
A contented woman can be satisfied. A wealthy businessman was asked how he's being coping in marriage inspite of d numerous engagement he has. He said he's going higher always because his wife is at peace with herself. He added that the earlier a woman admits that no man can can meet all the innermost desire for love that a woman has, the better for her.

The problem is that most women have unreal desires that they think is possible. That's why a young girl who's willing to have a man in her life for marriage is better than a lady in her late 20's or early 30's who has had widened desires without a fiancee yet. When a man begins to stuggle to do all that is listed in the pic for a woman, he will unconsciously idolize her and neglect himself, ambitions and family.

Ppl say behind a successful man there is a good woman but in my terms I would say behind a successful man there's a contented woman.

your moniker though.

Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist

abeg watin dis mumu dey talk. saudi arabia? iran? have you been to these places? they have female soldiers in their infantry corp. dont say what you dont know again. you are a village goat thats why your wife is locked in the kitchen. not that you are a Muslim. no! its village goat we call your type. abd please dont reply me cos I can track you down if I want.

Naijasinglegirl:
I asked a close single friend to accompany me on one of my boyfriend hunting mission but she said she was tied up and referred another mutual friend of ours.

Let's call the new girl Suzy.

I told my friend I was going to consider going out with Suzy on the condition that she doesn't tell Suzy what my actual intentions were before she goes about telling people that I am always roaming Lagos looking for a man.

So Saturday evening, Suzy met me at home and we set off to The Palms at Lekki with my N4500 vex money tucked in my pocket.
I should have read the signs when we got to Obalende and she said there is no way she is going to arrive The Palms in a danfo or Keke Napep amongst all those rich people. I already had a balance of N4300 and N1500 for a cab from Obalende to The Palms seemed reasonable so I willingly paid since I was the one that dragged her out.

We barely arrived the mall when she grabbed my arm and led me to Coldstone. "I'm craving Icecream like mad," she said.

She ordered four flavours while I watched from the corner. I have had Coldstone Icecream only twice (the best Ice-cream I have ever had in my life and a friend brought it home) but I was scared of ordering since I didn't know the actual price before I end up washing Ice cream cones in the event I am unable to pay.

When she collected her ice-cream, she said, "OMG! This new malt flavour is so nice. *NSG* you need to try it!"

Before I could say the doctor said Coldstone Ice-cream is not good for my kidney, she had already ordered two scoops of malt flavour for me. There were too many people there and I didn't want to cause a scene so I collected the ice cream with a very heavy heart...and paid with my money cos Suzy was already walking away...licking hers greedily.

I have never been so miserable licking ice cream all my life.

I just kept thinking of how many plates of fanice my N1200 could have gotten me at Shoprite!

Once we were done, I told her let's move around and window shop for a boyfriend for me.

She took me inside one boutique and spent close to an hour checking out bags and clothes. She wasted one hour of my life cos she didn't buy anything!

When we got out, she said she didn't have strength to move around except she eats.

Before I could tell her let's go out to the Aboki's Place at Sandfield for indomie&egg, she grabbed my hands and led me to KFC.

She told me to reserve a seat for us & watch her bag while she ordered food. Minutes later, I saw her approaching our table with a tray containing two cartons of KFC!

She said "Ermm... your own food is N1200. I didn't get drink for you cos I didn't know which one you would like."

Then she pushed one of the cartons containing two pieces of chicken and chips to my side of the table.

KFC when I was only hungry for a man?

"What is this? Did I tell you to buy me FOOD! Did I tell you I was hungry! Is this why we are here? Now I don't even have transport to return home!" I shouted.

She said she was very sorry that she thought I was hungry too and she was going to take care of our tp home.

I took out N1200 from my bag and slid it to where she sat. The silly girl quickly took the money and put it inside her purse while I sat frowning. I was too angry to touch my food while she ate hers in relish.

I decided that I can as well eat it since the damage had already been done. I cut big slices of chicken with a handful of chips and swallowed hurriedly cos I was too angry to chew. In the process, bone got stuck in my throat.

The silly Suzy had already finished her drink, I had only N200 in my bag, no ATM card and I was too proud to beg. I couldn't even breathe or speak well cos of the bone and thirst.

I told her we needed to get home ASAP but she said I should chill for thirty mins that she had texted her boyfriend' to come pick us cos a heavy rain had began to fall.

I thought of the major reason I was there and how to make the most of my thirty minutes but the rain had chased all the Lekki bachelors out of the mall. I was almost shedding tears cos I just spent N4,500 for nothing!

Eventually, Suzy's boyfriend showed up! One igbo boy that had permed the life out of his hair.

We all went to sit at the general cafeteria. Both of them were engaging in PDA and discussing relationship people problems.

The silly boy could not even offer to buy me water to flush down the bone in my throat. I took out my phone and started playing candy crush until my phone died.

Time was about 9pm and neither of them said anything about us leaving the mall...and there I was, almost dying of thirst.

He turned to Suzy and said, "Your friend has been so quiet. Why?"

What is an angry single girl supposed to contribute to relationship people discussion?

Why won't I be quiet when a bone was choking my throat?

Why won't I be quiet when his girlfriend would rather use all her strength to 'baby, I love you' her boyfriend rather than help me hunt for my own boyfriend? I just told them I am sleepy and I didn't come here to count stars in the mall.

That was when both of them finally got up. I got home around 10:35pm.

What a stupid weekend!

http://naijasinglegirl.com/my-boyfriend-hunting-experience-in-lekki/

next time go alone to that same kfc and order food. a dude will walk up to you.

black background. linda how far wid all these black gates and black background? ? I hail ooohhh.

that village witch. if dbanj give am slap nau dem go say na pride

post=40283169:
This should be inspiring to everyone who come up with excuses to sell their bodies or do drugs on the streets of Lagos. You can actually make it the legit way. This little girl's future is very bright...

[img]http://3.bp..com/-qCdgKtuEA6s/VlBenX5WTbI/AAAAAAADCZY/mturYh2KKkE/s400/FB_IMG_1448100017272.jpg[/img]

http://www.newshelm.com/2015/11/inspiring-photo-of-girl-who-sells.html

let me sponsor her.

viviangist4:
Posted By Vivian Gist

Caption
You can live your dream life! To be honest, it's all up to you! My private office in my bedroom! no visitors allowed o! Just for my private use and close friends of course

source https://www.instagram.com/p/-OKS1oBARW/?taken-by=officiallindaikeji

snap your gate lemme see first.

we are neither in the jungle nor a military rule that buhari can just wake up one morning and scrap something.
if he has such powers, then we are all in trouble.

is that his babe on black?

Evicsholar:
Hmmmmm. Hilarious experiences. Lemme share mine.
It was d day I and my roommates in d hostel decided to attend an induction ceremony for food so we planned that one of us, who would be there earlier should call when d food was being served. After some hrs, na so she call say make we dey come, food plenty (omo see groove). Na so I n my bunkmate carry plenty nylon put inside bag dey go ceremony venue. Wen we got there, as our roommate who was in d midst of guyz(her dept mates) saw us, she just shouted 'hope u brought enough nylons for food'. I was so embarrased ehn and one of them was almost laffin........ It was as if d ground should open. Since then, i av decided nt to attend any ceremony in school.

uniben I guess

paparazzi1987:


I had similar experience.
Initially I was forming big boy, but when the thing catch me, as I was sweating profusely,I had to scream at the driver before he could allow me shit.

what month in 1987 were you born.

light that man.