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freedomlov:
Hello all,
I Have a girlfriend who is very beautiful, caring and kind, but her problem is she is very very very stubborn, and she lack respect, and don't take advice from anybody and she wants to do what she want, and she talk to me anyhow, which i have been trying to avoid, but each time i try to avoid her silly talk and misbehaviour, by keeping quite and ignoring her, or leaving her house, she will says i act as a woman, that she can not date such men that i must take her the way i see her and that she can not change, even if i tell her with time, she will change, she will says she is not ready to change, and if i don't want the relationship, i should quite, so that she can get other men, because so many men are on the line, she don't flect, when she is with you, she is with you, but her problem is commot for road make i pass,

Personally if a girl tells me dis, to hell wit her, i dont care if she is da daughter of da president, cos it means she has no respect for me, and i cant go out wit a lady who has no respect for me, if i respect u, den u shd too. U'v tried guy n its clear she doesnt deserve u, get a beta girl n forge ahead wit ur life. All da best.

Naija, always making an impact wherever they are present. Notin do una ooo

@poster, i admire ur courage, u r one in a million,kip it up. May God help u

lol, dis world is filled wit diff xters all acting a movie.

Young man, save urself da stress of worries by forgeting about this relnship, its written clearly on da wall for u to c. Do u tink she is remorseful about her actions, capital NO or else she wud hav apologised.

Onchedu:
Amusing how certain sects would embrace the UN and European treaties wen it favors them. Won't be surprised if some opportunists hijack these developments and make a religious crisis out of it.

The point remains Yerima as a muslim and an individual is entitled to follow whatever religious beliefs that favor his interests like he usually does; but as a senator of the federal Republic what he has done contravenes the Laws of the Land which he has been empowered to serve therefore should he stand his ground he is standing against the nation and as such should be found unfit of the position he has been empowered to serve and called back to his constituency or honorably resign.

Fully agree wit u guy.This country is very funny, so some pple can still stand and support dis? Nawa ooo

@poster, it depends on who u r, if u r someone dat cheats on ur wife, den probably u'll find no reason y u shd let her know about it. But every ryt tinkin individual knows he needs to talk to his friend about it first, b4 doing any oda tin.

@poster
It depends on da type of person u r, if u r someone dat cheats on ur wife too, den probably u'll see no reason y u'll want to tell her or him. But every ryt tinkin person will talk to his frnd about it first, b4 doing anyoda tin.

Guy, wat u dont want to be don to u, dont do it to others. Am sure if someone tries dat wit ur younger sister, u'll want to murder dat fellow. So guy, dnt allow dat to hunt u for ur whole life. 4get her and go on.

Hei, move on n get some decent girl, dnt waste ur time.

Deres no big deal about dat.

Ganjaseed:
I rather have another opinion why people keep moving from one church to another. Only few of them are actually searching for the truth, but funny enough they have the truth in their hand "The BIBLE". Bellow you will fine some points why people keep exiting and coming in to churches.

1. Looking for miracle
2. Wanna belong to the happening church (example: so many of this kind of people are CEC)
3. Not getting recognition ( they move to be recognise in the new church)
4. Looking for freedom of worship (Like deeperlife where you can not dance and sing praises to God as a happy fellow)
5. Too much of Taxation from the the pulpit ( this very point is the most irritating one of them all)
6. misunderstanding among brethren.

Fully agree wit u,Some even change churches because they r in search of fortune or life partners, some pple say it is spiritual prostitution.

I dont believe dis, dats how transfer rumours fly always. Anyhow time shall tell

This is too bad to be heard of for a leader. He is reaping wat he has sown.

ITgurlie:
The best decision in all this is abstinence No girl should use pregnancy to tie a guy down and you guys should also know what you're about to get into (Broken CD, withdrawal, etc) one minute of pleasure could result to anything so be wise

Thats just the point, abstain n dere will be no stories, there will be no pinning of anyone down.

Ujujoan:
If there were such laws, then guys will learn how to be more responsible and less selfish while having s3x! There will be an exception of cos, when the CD breaks!

A guy who thinks less of himself and more of his girl will NEVER want to come inside her, cos he know he's exposing her to a lot of things. ranging from taking harmful drugs to an unwanted pregnancy!

Of cos most times women don't want to do it, but only give in to your pleas and cries! Yet another silly thing women do to make guys happy. Only for you guys to turn around and she she wants to 'tie you down' when she gets pregnant!

Like she drugged you and forced you to come inside her!

@Ujujoan, i seem to hv been following ur arguements wit Onchedu.  Am not tryin to argue wit u but i believe dat u r been sentimental in ur arguements, u seem to be heapin all da blames on da men. Da truth is,if a girl gets pregnant after havin s3x wit a guy, its because she wants it to be so.
U said 'Of cos most times women don't want to do it, but only give in to your pleas and cries! Yet another silly thing women do to make guys happy. Only for you guys to turn around and she she wants to 'tie you down' when she gets pregnant!' Dese days ladies beg for s3x frm guys because da hav a hidden agenda n if da guy refuses, they start callin him names.
Da earlier we accept our responsibilities, da better for us all(dats both da guy and da lady). Hw i wish ur colleagues can follow ur advise so dat we can curtail da incessant unwanted pregnancies n da subsequent abortions dat follow.

@poster, I feel for u, cos dis is really sad, ur boy friend and ur friend(two pple u trust). They have betrayed u, they hv betrayed ur trust n ur frndship. Sometimes in life, dere r decisions u need to take dat r very difficult, but dis decisions r also worthwhile,cos dey r da best at dat point in time. In my opinion, 4get abt dem n forge ahead wit ur life, if not u'll always hv a memory of dat. All da best.

Once a cheat is always a cheat. Yeah agree with dat, but u'v not told us if u hv ever cheated on the 'lets call her chika' in da rlship since she has cheated u 4 times. If u hv, den i feel its a 'do me i do u thing' if not, den guy 4get her n focus on da 'lets call her tara', xcept if u hv a question mark abt her too.

It actually depends cos a lot things can cause a break up.

It could be unfaithfulness, lack of trust, dishonesty, etc

Agree with u gal, love is meant to be reciprocated, once dis is not done den derez bound to be a heart break. Heart break can be caused by any of the parties involved, it is not limited to one party alone.

@poster
Leave vengence to God, am sure sure she'll suffer for wat she has done very soon. U dont need to take vengence buy hurtin some others. All da best.

Young man, wat goes around, comes around. I'll advise u not to even start, cos u'll reap wateva u sow.

Wat? Am short of words, dont think its right, probably i'll advise you to talk to ur frnd and see why he made dat decision, cos my dear, marriage is not child's play, its something of eternity, this is somebody u intend living with for da rest of ur life. I hope they understand wat they are about to go into.

Ur instincts will tell u, and u have to pray about it too.

It really depends on why she is an abortionist, maybe circumstances myt have warranted dat (of course very genuine reasons) if not,I'll prefer the single mother to the abortionist.The abortionist might kill me one day.

Wats happening to all the Micheals in Chelsea, Micheal Essien, Mikel Obi and Micheal Ballack. Two are out of the WC, i hop Mikel wnt be out too.
I really feel for Essien, was looking forward to seeing his display in the WC, but unfortunately hez out. I hp it doesnt affect the Ghanaian team.

daylae:
@poster all things comes in pairs, nature is no confusing;cus everything compliments eachother. . .life without women would result into a total halt of human existence. Women are indispensable to men,and vice versa.

Agree wit u guy, after all wen Adam was created alone he was very lonely, God saw dis and decided to create Eve to compliment him.

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt]<sup>YEAH. . . .Everybody know that JESUS was a gay , he walk with good 12 guys inside the bush , bleeping ahole and suicide romance . your darling lord is a gay .

WHAT?? , did you just mention prayers. . . .then , you better PRAY HARD until fowl grow teeth . 2 hand working together can do more than 1000's of hands in prayers.</sup> [/size]

@Ogaga4luv
If u r not sure of anytin den dont share it on a general thread like dis. If its ur opinion den young man admit its ur opinion but dnt say EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT JESUS WAS A GAY. I totally disagree wit u.

[td]yes, it works for me, and we are still going on and on[/td]
Yap agree wit u, itz really based on trust from both parties. Once da trust is dere my broda ur mind will be rest.

i bought mine for 5k yr 2004