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PhonesRe: Heavy MTN Data Users, This Is For You by blesdman(m): 3:31pm On Mar 29
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
MTA na scammer, they will pack the data within 2days, single download will take 5gb. Just try it you will see
I have observed this too. I now prefer using Airtel. Them want make all the money dem take buy IHS in one week
CelebritiesRe: I Never Thought I’d Be Single At 37 – Jason Derulo by blesdman(m): 9:54pm On Mar 28
SarcasticWords:
A sad but truthful nature of women perfectly explained.

To the married man reading this, yes, your fear and worry isnt just paranoia.

That lovely wife of yours will cheat the moment the perfect opportunity presents itself. (That is if she hasnt already cheated 😉)

And for those of you whose wives own toys, she has cheated on you mentally, because whenever she makes use of those toys, she imagines someone (Definitely not you) going into her. Very soon the cheating will manifest itself physically.

Kpele!
What the Bleep is cheating
PoliticsRe: A Fight You Can’t Fight, Don’t Start It — Wike Mocks Makinde by blesdman(m): 6:00am On Mar 24
runningriot:
Whatsoever the case is, Wike decapitated, liquidated, neutralised and dismembered PDP for his own personal gain. Wike inordinate and megalomaniac driven desire put PDP in rocky and wrecking boat. His impulsive and insensitive behavior clearly shows he is a vindictive individuals that lacks the moral tenets of nature. In all, no matter what and how it goes PDP can never gather the momentum and morale to serve as a pathfinder of trust again.
Una go just de speak English to analyse Wike moves. When the PDP structure is firmly under Woke, u will see the political miracles that will still happen. Wike is a course of study in Nigeria political game. Sit back and watch the movie
PoliticsRe: EFCC invasion Of Malami’s Properties: A Dangerous Assault On Rule of Law - Doka by blesdman(m): 10:19pm On Mar 23
SadiqBabaSani:
Go n sleep how many times the lawless ex AGF did worse using his boy Bawa then
Since APC came to power, there has been nothing like the rule of law
RomanceRe: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by blesdman(m): 10:04am On Mar 23
SIRTee15:
first thing u need to realize and acknowledge is women are hypergamous in nature. women at the same status as yourself will desire a man above your level. women above your status - financial or career or accomplishment wise will not want u bocs u are beneath them.
women below your status will naturally gravitate towards u by default. That how the dating game works.

Now, do u have the time, resources and energy to prove yourself to women above your economic and social status that u will make a good husband and they wont regret picking u?
do u have the what it takes to compete with other men for women at the same level as your socio-economic status and make them look your direction or u just go for the easy pick- ones below u?

what u need to ask yourself is what do I want in a woman I want to marry? do u want a well domesticated lady or a beautifully endowed woman or goal/career oriented woman or u looking for a woman that will give u peace of mind. what about personality- whats your preference? Lively, feminine or quiet type or u want a serious lady as wife/ do u want a socialite as a wife or more of family oriented wife.
are u looking into 50-50 wife or u prefer absolute submission and loyalty.

Look here, at the end of it all, what count is the kind of woman u will be compatible with. forget all these high flying babes, what matter is if I marry her, will I enjoy my marriage? No need marrying a woman that will end up causing u troubles and all u do is fight all day. such negative energy drains u.

There's nothing as beautiful as an enjoyable marriage. The stability and happiness it brings is unmatched. A woman that will give u that should be your preference.
Well said
RomanceRe: How Do Men Even Get Wives Nowadays? by blesdman(m): 10:01am On Mar 23
Drifter02:
I have a job. Earning a decent salary and my own place.

Yet all the women I keep talking to don't seem to want something to do with me.

I'm not being pathetic. That's how it is actually. There's always some other guy that outspends and competes for their attention.

The other ones I see are soo downright immature. Just babies masquerading as women, girls that have never faced adversity, girls that have no sense of responsibility. Attention-sucking leeches. Girls that can't even make up their own minds. Girls that keep running to their mothers for any single thing.

Other ones fancy themselves as hustlers and are always so difficult. Those ones are always competing with you for dominance. Soo crazy man.

And there are the brokies. Liabilities. No job. Nothing.

Omo I'm always so alone staying in my room, particularly at night. I feel soo alone.

I don't want a woman because of sex. Sex is sooo trivial. I honestly don't even care. Next time I have sex, it'd be to make a child.

I just don't know how single men honestly cope. It's so crazy out here
If u have a job, go for a nurse or a teacher. They will align to what u need in a wife. But if u go for a too much ambitious lady, u fit cry tire
EntertainmentRe: See The Video Of The Chorister Singing In The Altar That Got People Talking by blesdman(m): 6:45pm On Mar 22
engagingworld:
I don't think he is gay. There are people who are like that naturally but they are neither gay nor trans. They are just normal people
Stupid talk. Have u heard of the word being effeminate. Na from clap, them de enter dance
RomanceRe: Pretty Lady Opens Up About Why She’s Still Single (photos/video) by blesdman(m): 11:01am On Mar 10
Bendeco02:
Normally the primary aim of most men is sex but many women don't know that.

They thought most men that approaches them need them in their life.

Online, they always brag they can't settle with broke guys, ugly guys, short guys. Who even told you that those men want to marry you ? grin

If not for religion, majority of men won't even marry at all.

But women marry because they need someone to take care of them and spend on them after their attraction/beauty expires.




Sleeping with a man won't stop a man that actually love you not to marry you sha.

The main point is that women overrate themselves while in reality men are actually the prize. They are even more than men in number.
Well said.First mistake of a woman before a man is to overrate herself so much. When u have that disposition, u will be a price to be conquered and when done, u will be left behind. My wife never overrated herself in my presence, she was so much herself, she was not too difficult to bed even when I wanted to and it has been many years of conjugal bliss more than a decade.
RomanceRe: Pretty Lady Opens Up About Why She’s Still Single (photos/video) by blesdman(m): 10:58am On Mar 10
franchasofficia:
She is right to some extent but she is completely wrong to a great extent.


She should ask most married ladies in Nigeria, if they would be honest to her, I can personally say that if we have 100 married women in Nigeria, at least 82 slept with their husband before they got married.


Dear single ladies, please I encourage you to live a chaste life, but please men don't leave you or break up with you just because they had sex with you, never!

Men leave you after sex if any of the below scenarios played out:


1.) You proved too stubborn when he was wooing you and formed so much for him only for him to use everything he has and every tactics he knows to get you, the moment that guy finally have sex with you, the spell will fly off from his eyes and he will realize that you were never worth the whole stress and from there, his interest will die a natural death and sooner or later he will leave you in search of a more deserving lady.


2.) You lied to him or pretended to be a virgin and he later realized that you were far from being a virgin, he will develop disdain for you and will definitely run from you.


3.) You appeared too good that he thought having you as partner means having everything in a woman, only for him to realize that you are empty, have nothing else profitable to offer aside sex and material/financial demands that keep draining his pocket, of course he will start looking for the exit door to run.


4.) You are materialistic and very demanding. Today it is hair, tomorrow it is underwear, next tomorrow it's your phone that you want to change, next week it's your birthday, the upper week it's clothes or money to complete asoebi for your friend, next month you are asking for school fees or money to complete house rent, next you are begging for a loan, and the cycle of demand continues, no man will stand such a greedy, insatiable and unreasonable materialistic woman for long. Even if he mistakenly marries you, be sure that the marriage will either end in divorce or in chaos.


5.) You are dirty down there and not making amendments to become better.


6.) You lack respect. Men cherish respect more than gifts. If you want a man to stay longer with you? Respect him. If you respect your man, you will respect his friends, his siblings, his parents, in fact everything about him. But some ladies just pretend to respect their boyfriend while disrespecting their friends and not knowing that it is those his friends that will pass judgement that will decide if you will be married or laid off as soon a possible. Please respect your man's friends and treat them with caution because they are the Supreme Court of your relationship most times lol



6.) You lack vision. You lack ambition. You know, they said after a man ejaculates, he comes back to his senses. After a man cums, he comes back to his senses.


You can only know if your boyfriend truly loves you and want you for keep after sex, yes it's sad but that's the truth. It is after you guys have had sex that he will now face reality and start seeing all your flaws as a lady. If after sex and he sees your flaws and still continues then you are a winner


7.) For some ladies, it is family altar and generational curse that is holding them down, yes, it's real. If you check that you have no issues character wise, being excessively materialistic, being too unrealistic with your demands from men, making yourself expensive, then check the spiritual side of life, something is wrong somewhere.


8.) For some good ladies, it is just the lack of luck that makes them meeting the wrong men. Location also matters. If you are in a location where mostly rich married men lives, it will take the grace of God for you to find a suitor.
U try...
RomanceRe: Rev. Father Caught Pant Down With Members Wife by blesdman(m): 6:30am On Mar 10
CJStarz:
A skit, I suppose?
Hard to believe any of these videos these days
It is a skit. The priest will not use his gown if he intends to do such
Christianity EtcRe: Samuel Godwin Oche: Kaduna Pastor Commits Suicide After Gay Video Resurface (Pix by blesdman(m): 11:10am On Mar 04
zinaunreal:
Alot of men in Nigeria are gay
Fake thought. Not Nigeria
BusinessRe: Ecobank Deducted 5,300 Naira From My Account As Maintenance Fee by blesdman(m): 2:59pm On Mar 01
Since it is a current it is not unexpected.
TravelRe: JAPA: The Rush To Move Abroad Should Stop by blesdman(m): 1:36pm On Feb 28
The more u talk against something in Nigeria, the more it is enabled. Those that want to japanshould do so...Nigeria is a very funny place with weird set of humans
RomanceRe: Smoking, Drinking, Womanizing, Which Is Less Dangerous by blesdman(m): 2:55pm On Feb 26
psychologist:
Sporty sporty sporty

If you want to ruin someone life, introduce them to sporty
and forex trading
PropertiesRe: Building vs Buying A House: Which One Is Cost Effective? by blesdman(m): 2:50pm On Feb 26
brain54:
Building a house more cost effective...

It's also more convenient!
I don't think u have built a house before. It is not cost effective since Tinubu entered power. It is better to buy a house than to build now
EducationRe: Female Teacher Jailed 51 Years For Having Sex With 4 Different Boys by blesdman(m): 9:29am On Feb 20
Bahamas95:
It's like oyibo women mædness na to ræpe small boys.
When they feel that they cannot stay under the authority of a man in their lives, na small children them go de find just because they are economically empowered. I pity this genZ cos they are following the western world and their systems hook and sinker.
RomanceRe: Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women Or We Are Avoiding The Real Conversation ? by blesdman(m): 9:10am On Feb 06
Well encapsulated. U don finish work for this matter
Host78:
A whole lot of rűbbïsh you wrote there.

First off, successful women are single because they are successful.

They are single because like every woman out there, they want to "date up".

Let's imagine this, when a man is successful, he doesn't look for a girl that is "on his level" or "higher" than him to start a relationship with her.

He can go to a filling station and see a girl there and start dating her.

Ronaldo was very successful and would have gotten to date any high value actress or model from anywhere in the world.

But he at the same time is flexible enough to go to a clothing store and pick one of the sales girl there and date her.

Women lack this flexibility. No matter how successful a woman is, she still wants to date q man who is more successful than her.

She'll never go to the gutter to pick any kind of man, even the one that will worship the ground she walks on.

Now, the question is, and this is the usual problem with these women which they don't admit to themselves: the very men they want don't usually want them. .

There are many successful actresses in Nigeria, but do you think someone as successful as Davido wants to date them for their success?

Of course not, because regardless of how successful these actresses are, Davido understands that "spending" in the relationship will still fall on him because he's higher than them.

So, they are hugely successful, they have bigger appetites, they want him to impress them. What exactly does he gain in return from dating such "successful" women?

Absolutely nothing.

The success of a woman does not benefit the more successful man she wants in any meaningful way. So why should he date her when he could find someone prettier, someone who will be more grateful for his love?

The only way a successful woman can ascertain if men are intimidated by her is her going into the village or an Okada man or a cab man or a salesman and changing his life.

Let her pick such a man up, brush him up and give him the world and treat him like a king just as Ronaldo or Davido is treating their "poor" spouses like they are queens.

Then and only then are we ready to have this conversation.
BusinessRe: Do People Really Make Money From Forex Trading? by blesdman(m): 11:42pm On Feb 04
TheGift:
I don't bet and I don't trade forex, so I have no idea how it feels to be addicted to those.

Just answering based on objective research.
that research is what the sources or references of ur research wants u to believe. Forex trading is simply forex betting
BusinessRe: Do People Really Make Money From Forex Trading? by blesdman(m): 8:23pm On Feb 03
motymop:
so are you saying people dont make money with their phones?
lies. Do gamblers make money?
BusinessRe: Do People Really Make Money From Forex Trading? by blesdman(m): 8:22pm On Feb 03
macphilip:
Brokers make money from spreads, commission and when you lose your trading capital.
They lose money when you make too much profits
Brokers are like nairabet, sportybets...they make money from ur losing which is bound to happen
BusinessRe: Do People Really Make Money From Forex Trading? by blesdman(m): 8:20pm On Feb 03
TheGift:
Some people do make money from forex trading, but it's rare and far from guaranteed for most participants

Estimates suggest only 1-10% of retail forex traders consistently profit over time.

The vast majority—around 90%—lose money due to poor strategies, emotional decisions, or inadequate risk controls.

Most Traders often rely on hunches instead of backtested systems. High leverage trades amplifies gains but mostly leads to wipeouts for beginners. Greed, fear, and overtrading often erode accounts.

Profitable Traders treat it like a business, targeting modest returns (2-5% monthly on large accounts) with strict rules like risking no more than 1-2% per trade. Pros at banks or prop firms earn steadily, but retail traders need years of practice and often start with $100K+ capital for livable income.
All these talks na scope. Forex trading is simply forex betting. An addiction
BusinessRe: Do People Really Make Money From Forex Trading? by blesdman(m): 8:19pm On Feb 03
Stephen0mozzy:
This right here 💯💯

Many of them are just "tutorial sellers", claiming "coach" title. But the general market of Forex is quite profitable for longshots.

You can be made with one lucky call, or be bankrupt in one unlucky fall.
no one makes money from trading forex or forex gambling. They are mainly sellers of forex tutorials
Foreign AffairsRe: Bill Gates Marriage Crashed Over Russian Hooker And STD Infection by blesdman(m): 2:22pm On Feb 02
FSBoperator:
According to the latest released Epstein files, Bill Gates had approached Jeffrey Epstein asking for advise on how to secretly administer drug treatments for an STD infection he(Gates) assumed he might have infected his wife with.

Gates had contracted the infection from a Russian prostitute he had a dalliance with and had approached Jeffrey Epstein on how he could secretly administer drugs for the infection to his wife whom Gates believed he might have passed the infection on to.

Bill Gates was notorious as a young man for having a horde of prostitutes on his beck and call when he was young and this got to the know of his parents who demanded Gates gets married. His marriage to his now ex wife was an arranged marriage brokered by Gates' parents. Gates, who is well known to have visited Epstein Island on several occasions was still going about carrying prostitutes.

Melinda must have found out on her own or Gates must have done the right thing and told her to see a doctor and confessed to have had an STD which might have led to their divorce.
most powerful men are linked with many women....
CareerRe: Neighbors Label Me Yahoo Guy, because I Work From Home. by blesdman(m): 6:31pm On Feb 01
TrippleEEEs:
Dude. You don't owe your life to anyone. Do you think there'll ever be a time when everyone would talk well of you or understand you perfectly?

People will always talk, regardless whether you're doing well or badly. Your measurement bar should be your conscience and your God if you are a believer. Since you're certain that you're not involved in crime or anything illegitimate, then you should care less what others say.

Everyone gets criticized, me, you, Tinubu, even Jesus Christ and Prophet Muhammed. You can't change this fact.

So instead of hopping from compound to compound, focus on your hustle and forget about the NOISE!!
let people know what u, mentor people to have same skillset...the more people in a field, the more legit it becomes. Even yahoo is now respected in society, cos they have replicated their success among the youths
RomanceRe: Your Husband Can Take Care Of Both Of Us – Side Chick Tells Wife (Video) by blesdman(m): 3:50pm On Jan 31
Samantha125:
If you're going to use the dowry against me, then I wouldn't mind paying it back because I'm nobody's slave.

Keep weaponising those dowries against us ladies and we'll one day start advocating for them to be abolished and by the time we're done, dowry will be a thing of the past... Keep pushing us and you'll one day get our reaction.
At that point, men will serve ladies what they deserve. In India, where polyandry is practised, men do not rebel but women keep wanting to control men as their children. Nonsense!!!
RomanceRe: Your Husband Can Take Care Of Both Of Us – Side Chick Tells Wife (Video) by blesdman(m): 11:46am On Jan 31
Samantha125:
Instead of fighting the husband, she's targeting the side chick as if she's the root of the problem... I see the wife spending the rest of her marriage life fighting side chicks... grin grin grin

Some women just enjoy being humiliated by their husbands... grin grin grin
Fight the husband as what kwanu. Women claiming ownership of men na wa o. A man paid dowry on u, u are claiming ownership of the man who paid
CrimeRe: “Yahoo Is One Of Nigeria’s Biggest Problems” — Lady by blesdman(m): 4:47pm On Jan 27
TimiofAbuja:
Yahoo is not a legitimate Hustle. It is overwhelmingly a curse, even though some people try to justify it because of the money involved.
though it provides quick money, it reduces unemployment for those involved, it brings foreign currency into the country and some use the money to support families.

but
Destroys Nigeria’s global image, Encourages crime culture among youths, Leads to violence and rituals (Yahoo Plus) and it destroys families and futures.

say No to Yahoo Yahoo

The biggest yahoo yahoo is gov.....................complete it
Yahoo yahoo is what drugs is to Italian mafias.
PoliticsRe: Governor Abba's defection: Kwankwaso declares January 23 "Betrayal Day" by blesdman(m): 10:42pm On Jan 24
seunmsg:
Kwakwanso should take his big L and lick his wounds quietly. He lost out already. He has a well documented history of betrayal himself. He rode on Jonathan’s back to win a second term in 2011 only to betray him for Buhari in 2015. In 2019, he

He’s the one who betrayed the governor by trying to stop him from getting a second term ticket on the platform of the party. The governor has every right to legitimately further his political aspirations.

And talking about betrayal, Rabiu is the worst of them all. He has a well documented history of betrayal himself. He rode on Jonathan’s back to win a second term in 2011 only to betray him for Buhari in 2015. In 2019, he betrayed both Buhari and Ganduje by trying to stop their second term election. Why does he even think he’s the only one that deserves a second term? Why is he always against the second term ambition of others?

He wants to remain the only force to reckon with in Kano but he’s not God. No king reigns forever and it’s time for another era to begin in Kano. A combination of Ganduje, Barau and Abba Yusuf will finish him off.
Same strategy by Wike
PropertiesRe: Your Building Project As A Salary Earner Under Tinubu Govt. by blesdman(m): 10:08pm On Jan 20
Chummynoni:
Tinubu is a menace . I haven't touched my building project since 2023 . Na who chop belleful de complete building . Make God save us from the shackles of this man.
I built a house in 2023, immediately Tinubu came, I could not build another with same amount of funds I used for the one in 2023...it was almost *3. People building now are mainly those earning in dollars or into yahoo, drug guys and money laundering deals
BusinessRe: Tinubu Confers GCON award On businessman Gilbert Chagoury On 80th Birthday by blesdman(m): 5:51pm On Jan 19
Oludiary:
I do not know much about the hierarchy of leadership in Nigeria.. But awarding a civilian GCON does not so sound well to me
it is ok...he has lived in Nigeria much of his life
PoliticsRe: Impeachment: Reason Fubara Didn’t Respond To Gross Misconduct Allegations – Aide by blesdman(m): 8:04pm On Jan 18
richiemcgold:
4 good years are about to waste away just like that with no meaningful developments, all because of a useless fight between a useless godfather and useless godson. Rivers state people no get level at all, walahi. How do you people allow just two men to hold a whole state to ransom since 2023? 🤥🤥
thank God for the governor. He is actually still working inspite of all these issues
PoliticsRe: Impeachment: Reason Fubara Didn’t Respond To Gross Misconduct Allegations – Aide by blesdman(m): 8:03pm On Jan 18
Bentacur007:
FUBARA WILL RULE 8 YEARS.. Mark it
I hope and love it so. Wike and his goons don tire me

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