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Politics › Re: Ex-Delta Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan Is Dead by blesdman(m): 2:25pm On Oct 19
LagosOrigin:
I wonder what that man really suffered from because the last time I saw him, I felt pity for him.

May his soul RIP
Good riddance
Politics › Re: Give An Example Of A Politician That Was Strong Like Wike Before ? by blesdman(m): 6:53am On Oct 05
portplus:
"His Reign is not forever"

I agree.

My assertion is that he will be here for long time.

El-Rufai has some form of decency and was not as ruthless as Wike.
What Wike has successfully done is to build an organic structure of men, with alliances in the police force and judiciary. He might be relevant for a very long time....He is a grassroot politician and he is generous.
Romance › Re: Men Which Profession Will You Choose Among These Ladies by blesdman(m): 6:05am On Sep 20
ChisomLexus:
I don't see myself getting down on my knees like this while begging a man to marry me.

It is men that should be begging to marry me because I am a self made woman grin
Funny thing is that men do not need self made women. They need women that will support their own vision while he supports her too. But for a woman to be claiming self made is a red flag in a marriage Grow but don't be loud about it
Romance › Re: “i’m Older Than My Boyfriend, But He Reasons Like A Matured Man” — Lady by blesdman(m): 4:38pm On Sep 14
RollinTNDA:
Nobody in this World understand women more than Taliban Men.

They fully understand women

NEVER IN YOUR LIFE TAKE WOMEN SERIOUS.

IF A WOMAN COMPLAIN IGNORE HER

When they see you with young 17 yrs babe. They shout and call you pedo

But when a woman does it they keep silent and say " Age is just a number"

The same woman hates polygamy
But she will date marriedd man grin grin
Some will divorce their husband for cheating only to become a side chick to another married man.

The day you take women opinon and words or complain serious is the day you will regret your life.

Enjoy your life
If women complain just ignore them
If they call you pedo just ignore them
Because if the reverse is the case
They will all keep quiet

Once you fully understand women
You will stop taking them serious
Fully agreed. For a man to live long,
Business › Re: Dangote’s Wealth Set To Jump Past $56 Billion, Into World’s Top 40 On IPO by blesdman(m): 8:15am On Sep 07
edlion57:
He should pity us ...i don't know if he's for us or against us
he is actually against us. To enter Forbes first 30 is his life dream now
Business › Re: "Rich Dad Poor Dad" Self-Help Author, Robert Kiyosaki Is $1.2 Billion In Debt by blesdman(m): 8:46pm On Sep 02
galantjoe:
Exactly, those that studied profitable courses are not serious fellows while those that studied useless courses are very hardworking guys

Ike gwuru
😆 In Swahili....issues to ponder
Business › Re: "Rich Dad Poor Dad" Self-Help Author, Robert Kiyosaki Is $1.2 Billion In Debt by blesdman(m): 1:33pm On Sep 02
galantjoe:
Easier said than done is a popular English saying.

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

Education is not guaranteed for wealth
That is why many graduates are Keke and okada riders. Many graduates are poor, while many school leavers or dropouts are billionaires doing well for themselves
Because those graduates are graduates of useless courses of study. If they had become graduates of money making courses, the story will be different.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Photo Of Princess Ameerah Of Saudi Arabia Without A Hijab by blesdman(m): 11:40am On Aug 28
CodeTemplar:
Religion of classification. Your pocket can support your righteousness.
even in Christianity. Business is the only true religion
Romance › Re: There’s One Thing My Girlfriend Has Never Done, Yet We’re Planning Marriage by blesdman(m): 7:42am On Aug 25
CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.
These are normal routine test u have to set the girl up for before marriage. I did so with mine and she passed very well. 20 yrs down the line, she be agba giver In the marriage. She supports any good thing I tell her to without thinking twice. Great wife
Romance › Re: My Wife Divorced Me After I Confessed To Her That I Cheated Once In 5 Yrs Of Mar by blesdman(m): 12:42pm On Aug 23
[quote author=Diamond098454 post=140416347]If you were in her shoes you will do the same

Married men cheat a lot why? [/quotethe term cheating does not makes sense for a man.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Kind Of "Side Hustle" Is Your Church Running? by blesdman(m): 12:36pm On Aug 23
Image123:
God hasn't sent His body into side hustles. The church's core mandate remains to preach the good news to ALL. Every other thing na distraction.
Leave stories
Health › Re: Man With Protuding Female Breasts Sheds Light On Gynecomastia (Photos) by blesdman(m): 2:04pm On Aug 15
Evaress:
Some Men may just be naturally born feminine. Thats why its good not to judge anyone first before knowing their story. I know a case of one that developed natural feminine boobs, he tried all means to remove it. Even exercise, had surgery but the breast tissue kept growing. He just learnt to accept himself that way✅
for real?
Health › Re: When Last Did You Check Your Blood Pressure (BP) by blesdman(m): 11:02pm On Aug 13
NaijaRealtor:
Very important to check always.

It is a silent killer. No pains, no aches, no signs, just one hit and it’s either stroke or death.

High blood pressure is also an another cause of kidney damage and heart disease.

Millions of Nigerians are walking with extremely high blood pressure without knowing it.
Sometimes indicated by persistent headaches.,..beetroot juice very helpful. Daily walks very vital
Health › Re: When Last Did You Check Your Blood Pressure (BP) by blesdman(m): 11:00pm On Aug 13
zoghys:
LoL, been there and back, but still it's better to put the fear aside and check from time to time. The worst that will happen is been placed on drugs and long rest recommended at least God forbid before it's too late. Shalom
true. I have lost 3 brilliant guys between last year and this by sudden slump and die syndromes indicative of high blood pressure
Health › Re: When Last Did You Check Your Blood Pressure (BP) by blesdman(m): 10:58pm On Aug 13
Britishcoins:
The problem I have is that anytime I went to check my BP in one pharmacy, my heart beat will start beating fast out of fear, the machine will now give me high BP...

so I have stopped checking it , just try and have a good rest and stop over pressing phones, this are common things that will make BP high...
Not true. If y have a sedentary life style, even while resting it will still be high cos ur body might have been used to work in years past. Hence it is advised to walk a minimum of 1hr daily for Geary health
Crime › Re: Bandits Kill 30 Including Women, Children In Kauru, Southern Kaduna by blesdman(m): 1:07pm On Jul 27
Romance › Re: Man Exposes Hookup Girls Operating In Gwarinpa, Abuja (Video) by blesdman(m): 11:53am On Jul 25
MindHacker9009:
When Samson entered a prostitute God blessed him and gave him more power. God sees the heart.

It was when Samson settled down with a fiancee that him problem start.
Wahala quote. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Una de talk for nairaland ooo
Politics › Re: Nyesom Wike's Daughter Jazmyne Graduates From London University (Photos) by blesdman(m): 8:15am On Jul 23
Richtaiwo:
Congratulations to the family.

Obidients have been cursing and swearing for Wike's downfall since his days as governor. One has to ask, which god have they been praying to? Because the requests don't seem to be getting through.
Those prayers don't work...only tangible actions work
Christianity Etc › Re: "Don't Sleep With A Widow, Her Late Husband's Spirit Will Come After Your Income by blesdman(m): 8:13am On Jul 23
digitaliz:
The vow she took on her wedding day is "till death do us part"
A widow has parted spiritually with her late husband.
This is not to encourage randy men to do widows.
A widow can remarry in happiness without troubles to her new husband.
No mind the pastors wey think say na everything dem Sabi...nonsense talks deceiving gullible people
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by blesdman(m): 2:39pm On Jul 04
Gentlesoul2021:
Are u saying just because time is not on her side and with the aforementioned, my sister should goto where she will be footing the bill 100%...
is that not the reason she studied so much to be financially independent? Though the man is not ambitious and that will be a big problem if they get married. If a man is in a phase of growth with ambition and clear plan, it is understandable. But with no ambition and clear moves , it is a red flag
Health › Re: Weight Watchers - Countdown To Christmas! by blesdman(m): 4:21pm On Jun 28
95kg targeting 80kg. Walking around .my house...50 times. That should give me 2km
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Reduces Fuel Price To ₦1125/litre by blesdman(m): 8:17pm On Jun 25
omoredia:
Scammer. This whole refinery stuff was by the same corrupt leaders. Dangote is just their front
Politics › Re: 2027: Be Prepared To Struggle For Power, Wike Tells PDP Candidates by blesdman(m): 11:17am On Jun 25
Ojuntana:
The irony!!
This man telling his hirelings in his version of PDP to struggle for power is like a commander handing over a Hilux truck with no engine to his soldiers and telling them to go face an Armoured Carrier. Oh!! Armoured Carrier is called APC!!

The only thing he said that's meaningful was that power is taken not given. I think he learned that in a bitter way after Atiku taught him a lesson that it's not by shouting "gimme pawa" three times
What u guys don't know about Wike now is that he will get some states for PDP, having assumed national leadership of the party. He is a results oriented person and as far as he is concerned, u cannot be in NEC without ur state having won any electoral position. That has been his position and point of argument from the beginning
Crime › Re: FCT Police Arrest Traffic Robber Attempting To Rob Female Victim by blesdman(m): 6:11pm On Jun 22
ROYALMAXCLEANER:
There are all around karu-nyanya-mararaba hold up... Especially that nyanya before bridge cool
Wike doing a good control of media news around FCT. As a governance man, one is suppose to control the news coming from ur territory. Wike is doing an excellent work. No more news of one chance but police catching the criminals and bandits...that's how criminality is decimated
Romance › Re: Why Men Should Stop Sponsoring Women In School by blesdman(m): 6:27am On Jun 22
Rapmoney:
Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.

Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.

1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?

2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.

3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?

4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?

If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.

Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.

I remain WarriParrot
Very correct. Fully agreed
Politics › Re: Gumi: "They Are Willing To Negotiate.So Why Are You Calling Them Bandits?" by blesdman(m): 6:43pm On Jun 21
Beautifulday:
A thief who is willing to negotiate is no longer a thief abi?

You see how they reason
Gumi is very very delusional
Crime › Re: Security Forces Capture Notorious Gunmen, Caches Of Arms, Ammunition In Enugu by blesdman(m): 11:23am On Jun 15
They cannot disarm in the north but easily disarm in the south. The stories from this country are not clear
Travel › Re: Transporters Showoff How They Travel At Night Amidst Heightened Insecurity by blesdman(m): 4:03pm On Jun 13
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Must everything be on cam?
It's terrible how people can be stupid..
Must everything be on cam?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran's 14-Point Deal To End War: Iran Demands $300bn To End War (See List) by blesdman(m): 6:25am On Jun 13
FreeStuffsNG:
All the money Trump's US is currently earning from US oil and the stolen Venezuela oil will be used to rebuild Iran.

Maduro and Venezuela are a disgrace to be called a country.

Iran stood up to Trump and defeated him. It is looking true and true every day that the Iranians who insist that the language Trump understands is force are actually right.

Satellite images published online by the company Soar suggest that a hangar at the Israeli Air Force’s Ramat David base, near Migdal HaEmek, may have been damaged during the latest escalation with Iran.

The low-resolution image, taken Monday and presented in comparison with a photo from June 5, appears to show a mark at the location of the hangar.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54MwsDuHbRE?si=NnQ3xklg-kgs7MXM
Damage seen at Israeli air base after Iran missile barrage
(Video: soaratlas)
Terrorism sponsors
Crime › Re: IGP Disu Orders Vehicles Without Number Plates To Be Impounded Over Insecurity by blesdman(m): 6:31am On Jun 10
Blitzerz:
What of motorcycle without number plates ?
I also noticed that most police patrol vehicles no longer carry plate numbers too
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Four Suspects Over Gun-running In Delta by blesdman(m): 4:56pm On Jun 09
Osesdiabig:
[Are you supporting evil?? quote author=blesdman post=139662806]
This is what I don't understand with the Nigeria police in the South. It is a scary thought
no...it's people like u that's supporting evil. Selective justice. We asked a question. Why in the north there is no disarmament, but only in the south. There is something wrong

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