Gentlesoul2021: Are u saying just because time is not on her side and with the aforementioned, my sister should goto where she will be footing the bill 100%...
is that not the reason she studied so much to be financially independent? Though the man is not ambitious and that will be a big problem if they get married. If a man is in a phase of growth with ambition and clear plan, it is understandable. But with no ambition and clear moves , it is a red flag
Ojuntana: The irony!! This man telling his hirelings in his version of PDP to struggle for power is like a commander handing over a Hilux truck with no engine to his soldiers and telling them to go face an Armoured Carrier. Oh!! Armoured Carrier is called APC!!
The only thing he said that's meaningful was that power is taken not given. I think he learned that in a bitter way after Atiku taught him a lesson that it's not by shouting "gimme pawa" three times
What u guys don't know about Wike now is that he will get some states for PDP, having assumed national leadership of the party. He is a results oriented person and as far as he is concerned, u cannot be in NEC without ur state having won any electoral position. That has been his position and point of argument from the beginning
ROYALMAXCLEANER: There are all around karu-nyanya-mararaba hold up... Especially that nyanya before bridge
Wike doing a good control of media news around FCT. As a governance man, one is suppose to control the news coming from ur territory. Wike is doing an excellent work. No more news of one chance but police catching the criminals and bandits...that's how criminality is decimated
Rapmoney: Sponsoring a woman you are not married to in school has never been an investment. Instead, it is an act of foolishness. It is better you use such money to buy small goats, fowls, rabbits, or cassava stems and start farming.
Below are some of the reasons why you should not sponsor the education of any girl if she is not your wife.
1. Sponsoring a girl is the responsibility of her father and family, and not yours. Ogbeni, stop carrying load wey nor be your own. Your back go break. If men are to sponsor girls that they intend marrying, then what is the essence of bride price?
2. Our higher institutions are filled with so much immorality today. What makes you think that the girl you are spending hundreds of thousands on, buying books, paying tuition fees, and paying hostel fee for is not sleeping with her departmental guys for free? Dey play.
3. There is no guarantee that she will marry when she graduates. She would probably have more options due to exposure. So you think she will marry you as a vulcanizer catering for her education when she has met various guys in school? Even young handsome guys studying Medicine or Law?
4. Education is a legacy. It is better to buy an iPhone for a girl who will leave you than to give education to a girl who will do same. Phones are man-made. They will get spoilt eventually, but you see education, it is for a lifetime. So why give a legacy to someone who will later dispose you like a used tissue?
If you cannot invest your money in a business or trade, use it to educate yourself or learn skills.
Use your brain make you nor go cry nwii for Nnewi.
FreeStuffsNG: All the money Trump's US is currently earning from US oil and the stolen Venezuela oil will be used to rebuild Iran.
Maduro and Venezuela are a disgrace to be called a country.
Iran stood up to Trump and defeated him. It is looking true and true every day that the Iranians who insist that the language Trump understands is force are actually right.
Satellite images published online by the company Soar suggest that a hangar at the Israeli Air Force’s Ramat David base, near Migdal HaEmek, may have been damaged during the latest escalation with Iran.
The low-resolution image, taken Monday and presented in comparison with a photo from June 5, appears to show a mark at the location of the hangar.
Osesdiabig: [Are you supporting evil?? quote author=blesdman post=139662806] This is what I don't understand with the Nigeria police in the South. It is a scary thought
no...it's people like u that's supporting evil. Selective justice. We asked a question. Why in the north there is no disarmament, but only in the south. There is something wrong
The problem of marriages began when women began to see themselves as equal partners with men. She discussed with the serpent on behalf of Adam instead of referring the serpent to Adam. That's the same issue present day marriages are encountering. Wives listen to external voices instead of the directions of their responsible husbands
ChildOfDoom: I know there are other vices like betting, drinking, drugs, cultism etc. but I believe womanizing has a strong effect.
Since I started uncontrolled intimacy in 2022, it has been from one problem to another. The desire to please women for example, leads me to lots of problems.
I engage in betting with people's money for example, to see if I can double it to please women's demands. Not to forget all sorts of infections we tackle.
God help us
U no serious. Uncontrolled betting is ur problem. Not excess intimacy
escortafrik: I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.
I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:
“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo
Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.
He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.
We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’
As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.
Thankfully, he got the job.
I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.
And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.
Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.
That was when the real problem started.
I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.
I have spent years building my career there. I’m more senior. I currently earn more. And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.
But my fiancé shocked me.
He told me I should be the one to resign because:
“I’m the man.”
Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !
I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?
But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.
Imagine !
Since then, everything has changed.
Wedding plans have paused. We now fight everyday Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign ! my heart is broken.
Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.
Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.
Sonnobax15: It seems you haven't met ladies who are under 30 who have built careers and structures for themselves.
My point is that men don't necessarily look for ladies that already have structure cos they want to be fed by the ladies. They do so not to be bothered by the ladies for minor wsnts
Men are also not looking for women to take care of them. But rather not to bother them with their troubles. Hence some men might look for women that already have careers and structure.
Sonnobax15: The funniest thing is that I usually find it funny when I see ladies who are already in their 30's still doing shakara for men . They'll still be setting standards that must be met by men . Someone who should be hustling to get herself a man of her own cuz she's already close to signing MoU with menopause
themanderon: Don't speak like an ignorant person And tar brush all poor people as evil. It's pretty naive and distasteful. No one chose to be poor and because you think you have made it in life doesn't give you the right to look down on anyone. You are not the hardest worker, nor are you the most brilliant or the most intelligent. Time and chance happened to all humans on earth. Everything you and I have today was given to us by God's grace so we shouldn't boast or gloat over it. What the girl did is highly reprehensible. Condemn her and not all poor people.
I made an attempt to distinguish between the kind of poor people to help. Help only those who value to offer or who have a good attitude. But generally most poor people are wicked and have very bad attitudes. You can argue that. I have researched and see. It many times
Nwaikpe: Wait, but do people understand the meaning of this statement: "Personnel Involved in Kidnapping, Robbery, Extortion"
If we truly do, then dismissal of "some police" is not the solution. Dissolution of the whole police force is. It means that some people whom you are paying with your tax to protect you, are using your money to harm you. It's just like identifying cancer in a part of the body, and then trying to pick out those parts when the parts can be removed totally to regenerate or to save the other parts.
The police officers are not the problem. The police force's culture is the problem. It was the culture that encouraged and protected them to do it. The police force should be totally purged.
The new IGP is doing a good work. I am conversant with these cases. Those guys are criminals and their mode of operation was well stated
Jman06: Poor diagnosis is a big challenge currently facing our healthcare system. Even those presenting to hospitals early still don't have a definitive diagnosis for their illnesses until things get out of hand.
If you have ever been admitted or had someone admitted to a Nigerian hospital, you'll understand what I mean. Doctors upon doctors would be referring you to different tests and even having you repeat tests you did before yet they won't be able to pinpoint what your sickness is. That's how you'll keep wasting funds and time until things get out of hand.
Honestly, our healthcare system in this country is in serious crisis!
This is a serious crisis. And it is the reality. The depth of knowledge of diseases and symptoms in Nigeria is low.
BioData45: In as much as we demand loyalty from women, men should also do the same. Enough of men has the right shenanigans.
Discuss your promiscuity ability to the lady before marriage so she will know what she's going into. Or tell her you're not a one woman person, if she agree to marry you fine. Men hypocrisy is too much abeg
I really do pity women who think they call the shots in marriage matters. Women cannot go for men but men can do so, yet women think they have same rights as men? Women keep trying to dish out what they cannot take
alanto: Lol for the sake of criticism you didn't take time to think deeply of your comment.
Why did OBJ, Buhari, Yaradua, Jonathan not start with power?
When OBJ was making telecom reforms, how many people could afford GSM phones when they came out?
How many people could afford SIM card? How much were we calling at business centers per minutes?
That even if you make mistake and spend 1 minutes 2 seconds you'll pay for two minutes but 27 years later I can't remember how many phones I've used or how many SIM I've used. Change doesn't happen overnight and you know it. If people that came after OBJ have embarked on other reforms we'll not be here by now. If they have allowed anybody to build refineries or railways, or generate power, are we going to be here right now? Again change is slow and so far this is the only government that has not window dressed but been doing what they got to do to make Nigeria good.
Why is it it's only Nigeria oppositions that are not seeing the good in our government?
All world organisation agrees with his reforms and the result it has been yielding but you opposition will rubbish coaster highway, rubbish Sokoto badagry, rubbish warri, Port Harcourt and Kaduna refineries repairs, you'll rubbish nelfund, rubbish GDP growth, rubbish IMF ratings. You literally rubbish everything and still cry that the man ain't doing nothing.
If I told you now that for the first time in history of Nigeria things went up and them came back down something that has never happened before. You'll ask me how much did he meet those things like there's a government that has maintain the price of anything in Nigeria. Make we de fear God small small. There's no way anybody would remove subsidy on fuel and dollars and still keep prices low. How will they do that? Is that now how this present government was able to blackmail Jonathan into not removing subsidy on fuel? Because they know like he does know that when he remove subsidy things will go up and it will be used against him and he doesn't have spine. I just tire with the way you guys stay hypocritical all day.
Subsidy removed. Yet no money for projects. Loans have greatly increased. Borrowings have trippled
Image123: Has he destroyed Dangote yet? Are you among those destroyed or what's the definition of destroy? All your aboki BDCs and subsidy cabal sucking the country dry, hungry politicians, are those the destroyed people you refer to?
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by blesdman(m): 2:39pm On Jul 04
. They'll still be setting standards that must be met by men 
. Someone who should be hustling to get herself a man of her own cuz she's already close to signing MoU with menopause 